Should I go along with my parents or pursue my dreams?

If I want to say, I should still follow my dreams, because we are still very young, so we have enough time and energy to fight for our dreams, so that we will not regret it in the future.

If you want me to say, we should still follow the arrangement of our parents, because in this way we can live a better life, the work in this society is very hard, and the arrangement of parents is still more comfortable.

I think I will pursue my dreams, because I have always been a relatively independent person, I think I can be responsible for my choices, so I will definitely pursue everything I want, people live in this world, just once, we can't give up, we have to explore more and better things. <>

I think we should obey our parents' arrangement, because after all, our parents are from the past, and Jiang is still old and spicy, so I think we will also make mistakes when pursuing our dreams, so it is better to think about it and listen to our parents' opinions.

I think we should pursue our dreams, because we have grown up under the protection of our parents since we were young, and many of our own freedoms do not exist until now, so this time let's pursue our dreams and live freely.

Everyone should have their own dreams, and continue to work hard for their dreams, everyone has their own thoughts, everyone is the protagonist of their own life, should not be arranged by others, should follow their own ideas, pursue their own dreams.

Parents arrange for us, it must be based on their life experience to arrange our future life, they also want us to have fewer detours, less troubles, parents are also good for us, so how to obey the arrangement of parents.

I think we should obey our parents' arrangements, because our parents have raised us so big, and if we can honor them in our daily life, we should try to honor them, since they have chosen it, it will definitely not harm their children, so it is good to obey our parents' arrangements.

Everyone has their own dreams, including those who have become parents, but for the sake of the family and the children, the responsibility on their shoulders cannot be put down, so the dream is stranded.

If you want to convince your parents to pursue their dreams, you need to let them have no worries, you can take the burden on their shoulders, not to mention provide them with financial support, at least be self-sufficient.

If you are still a student, you can reassure them with a stable and good academic performance, so that they will have no scruples to pursue their dreams.

If you want to convince your parents to agree with you to pursue your dreams, first you have to make them feel at ease with you, let them feel that you have grown up and can pursue your dreams, so that they can let you pursue your dreams, otherwise it is impossible, because your parents can't rest assured of you. <>

If you want to convince your parents to pursue your dreams, I think if your parents really think your dreams are reliable, then they will agree with you, and if your dreams are really that kind of fantasy, then they may not approve of you from a realistic point of view. <>

Can you tell your parents about your dreams, and then analyze with them what you are going to do in the process of chasing your dreams. How? Step by step, it's not a step to the sky, anyway, just tell them as much detail as possible, the more they know, the more they have ideas in their hearts, there are ideas, they understand your words, then you will be allowed to pursue your dreams, after all, you are still young, dreams can still be chased, what if it comes true?

Even if you don't realize that you are on the way to chasing your dreams, you can learn a lot of things, because you are working hard, and the things you learn are particularly meaningful to you, so if you have a dream, you can chase it.

It is also very normal for my parents to want to pursue their dreams, and this is also a psychological process that everyone will have, so I will advise my parents not to worry about me, and not to care about other things, to be a person who lives for himself, of course, to be brave to pursue what he wants. <>

If you want to convince your parents, then you should be able to make your wishes and thoughts clear to them face to face, and then let them support you, the most important thing is to let them hear how they plan to do it, and after giving them a detailed explanation of the situation, you can know what you think very well, and you may support yourself.

Everyone has dreams, and their parents are no exception, their own parents don't want to support us to pursue our dreams, just because they are afraid that we will encounter problems that we can't solve, you just need to tell them that you have the determination and perseverance to face yourself, and they will support the problems they will encounter.

Of course, it is to tell them that I am already a thinking person, and I don't want to live a life I don't like, the future is really long, and there is no way to get through it, and if a person can't even do what he wants to do, what is the meaning of his existence, so I implore you to give me a chance, if I fail, I will definitely obey your arrangement, but please give me a chance to try.

If your parents pursue your dreams, I think it's a very easy thing, for example, we must have a mind of our own in life, and then let them see your ability, and then have a little hope, and then you can do something you like, so we must have our own ideological positioning in both sides.

Don't convince, if your parents don't support you, you have to rely on yourself, don't always rely on others, when you are not far from success, you will find that support is not so important, when you are already successful, they will understand.

I think this still depends on the actual situation, if my dream has the possibility of coming true, I should still choose to stick to my dream, but if my dream is far away, then I may choose to follow my parents' arrangement.

The question of dreams and parents' thoughts has always been controversial, and I believe that many people have also encountered such a problem.

Personally, if my dream cannot be realized, I will probably choose to follow my parents' arrangement, on the one hand, because I don't want to disappoint and worry my parents, and on the other hand, because my desire to chase my dream is not firm enough;

To be honest, I have always admired those who dare to resist their parents for their dreams and reality, but I don't have such courage and determination, so I have always admired people who live for their dreams.

It is really difficult to make a good choice between dreams and parents, we all understand the good intentions of parents, but sometimes I feel that I am still young, and I should really work hard for my dreams;

But every time I see my elderly parents worrying about themselves, I feel unbearable, so I believe that many people have given up their dreams because of their parents, which is also a norm in real life;

But everyone's actual situation is different, so we can't talk about it uniformly, everyone should still be based on their own actual situation, if you really feel that your dream has a chance to come true, then try to convince your parents.

Personally, I have always listened to my parents since I was a child, and I have never dared to act too disobediently against my parents, so if there is a conflict between my dreams and my parents' arrangements, I will definitely choose to obey my parents' arrangements;

It sounds a bit unproductive, and I think so myself, but I may have been influenced by a deep-rooted education, and I haven't had any big dreams all along, so I envy those who dream and are willing to work hard for their dreams, and I feel that life is wonderful like that.

I think everyone should have their own choices, and parents can only give advice, not forced arrangements. Imposing one's own dreams and ideas on one's children is a moral kidnapping. At the same time, children can become very unassertive.

I think I will follow my parents' arrangement, because in this case, my parents will feel much more at ease, at least to be filial to their parents, so I think this is a good choice.

My parents were peasants, and I felt that they were generally conservative and could not arrange any roads to Rome, and I was a person who wanted to live my own life, and I would definitely choose my own dreams.

Choose your dreams. If you obey your parents' arrangements, you will definitely be unwilling in the future, and your life will always be unsatisfactory. Even if you fail to choose your dream, you have done it and have no regrets.

I chose to follow my parents' arrangement first, and then choose my dreams when I could ensure my own livelihood, and dreams don't have to be about money.

Why not both? You can tell your parents what your dreams are and explain to them why you want to do it. I believe that any enlightened parent will understand their child, and they will support their child in choosing their dreams, so that the path that your parents have arranged for you will also follow your dreams, so that you will kill more birds with one stone.

I may follow my parents' arrangement, because girls have too many concerns, too many things to do, too many things that cannot be done, and my parents are from the past, and I know that they will not harm me.

I will choose my dream and strive for it, so that I have no regrets and make achievements to show my parents.

I will follow my parents' arrangements because they have been in this society for many years, so they can give me good advice in this regard.

Still follow your heart! After all, people have to be responsible for themselves and live well for themselves all their lives, so that they have the ability to be responsible for others!

How did you choose between your parents' dreams and your own dreams? You should choose your dreams. The essence of your parents and family's love for you is that they want you to live happily and happily, and when you live your life to the fullest, their worries or today's incomprehension will be self-defeating.

Being obedient to your parents for a while can turn a step away from the trajectory of your own life. One day, even if you are successful, but it is not the life you want, and in the end, you will blame all the negative energy you have suppressed on your parents. Therefore, my choice is to hit my head and bleed as I wish, rather than leave myself the opportunity to complain about my parents.

At the same time, there is also a very important angle that when you disagree with your parents, the process of your gentle and firm self is also to give them the right to respect another life and freedom. When you suppress your will to obey your parents, you not only kill your own chance to grow, but also their chance to grow, and you are not giving your parents the opportunity to become better parents.

On the contrary, when you know how to persevere for yourself, it is also for your family to learn to love and let go, and help them do the homework they have not completed to grow as parents. So the best love for your parents and family is to live your own life, and to live beautifully. Respecting one's dreams and living one's life according to one's own wishes does not mean that you do not fail to love your parents.

Don't change your love for them because they don't understand you, and take care of them as you think you should give them, and take care of yourself at the same time. Insisting on self and filial piety and respecting parents are two lines that can go hand in hand, love is not the same as blindly obeying, and insisting on self is not rude clamor.

On the way to pursue your dreams, don't expect others to understand, no one has the obligation to understand you and support you, and your life development is your own path. While you respect your dreams, you also need to respect the limitations brought by everyone's different understanding skills and different visions.

First of all, why did your parents want to arrange for you? So that you can live a comfortable and stable future? That is, I hope you have a good time, a happy life? Yes, the starting point of their hearts is to hope that you are happy.

Then, if you follow the arrangement of life, do you think you will be happy? The most terrible way to live is to work and work for how much money you want. That is, you are not focused on work, only for the salary to survive.

If you work for your dreams, it becomes that you get deep joy in your heart for a project. I have always believed that in order for people to really live in the moment, to be able to pay attention to their own lives and environments, and to be kind to them, the first thing is to identify with them and identify them as a part of you.

You are an independent individual with family relationships, and the dreams of your parents cannot be built on your dreams, and the dreams of others cannot be forced on another individual. The consciousness of an independent individual is not enough in the parents of our countrymen. You have to make them understand that you are independent, that you have your own dreams, that dreams are part of you, that parents have to accept you, that their children have dreams to pursue.

Take dreams and do them, whether you fail or not, this is a strong will from your life, and you have no right to stifle them.

What I don't understand is that many people are afraid to do it. To pursue and do, whether you succeed or not, you will grow, be sure to stick to yourself. Don't be afraid to grow, to mature your mind, and after the trials of those pursuits, you will be another you:

There is precipitation in the heart, so that you are more comfortable in the face of the world. Ease and joy.