Is there really true love between couples who have been separated for a long time?

Updated on society 2024-04-24
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There must be. But it is not necessarily possible to get married. Because after all, it is a long-term separation between the two places, and it will definitely be inconvenient to get married, and even true love will feel helpless.

    But true love must exist. A friend of mine and her boyfriend have been together since junior high school, when they were in high school, the girl was admitted to the provincial key middle school, and the boy's academic performance was not good and he just went to a high school in our county, many people thought that they couldn't last long, because they couldn't even see each other once a month, but for three years, they spent like this, thinking about each other in their own school, sometimes playing a **, more often they just have each other in their hearts to work hard for their future. Later, the girl was admitted to the key one, the boy went to be a soldier, and on the day the soldier left, the girl said, when you return to your hometown, give me a military salute.

    We were all moved. Boys work hard in the army, and girls meet a lot of great boys in college, but she always thinks about boys. A few years later, I was not surprised at all to hear the news of their marriage, and I was very blessed.

    This is true love. > most couples don't like to be in a different place, but they still love each other deeply, so they are reluctant to give up this relationship, they think of each other in different cities, bear everything by themselves, and do not have each other's company. But this doesn't mean that it's not true love, there will still be a day of reunion, and they comfort themselves with a temporary separation just for the surprise of reunion every time. Because of true love, you can't give up easily, and because of true love, you have to work harder for your future.

    If your boyfriend or girlfriend is not in the same city as you, don't give up as long as you still love, because there will always be a day when you will meet again, and true love will not expire. The power of true love is always much stronger than we think, it can destroy a person, and it can also make a person the best version of themselves. So, with true love, don't give up.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Existence, a long place can also be true love, but it is more difficult, as long as you insist, you will succeed, but it, maybe there are more train tickets or bus tickets, as long as you cherish it, there is true love.

    The separation of the two places can also warm up the feelings, although it is two places, but they can still meet, now so developed, **chat,**, and trains and cars, now it is very convenient, it is no longer the old society, as long as there are feelings, you can be very happy. How many people have been in a long-distance relationship, they have persevered, as long as you want to, there is nothing you can't do. As long as you have the heart to love and cherish with your heart, you will definitely be truly loved.

    Have the heart to love, as long as you are willing, you will definitely be able to, don't care about external factors, you are people who love each other, know how to cherish each other, even if you are separated, you can often make ** porridge, chat, and don't let your relationship cool down.

    I'm in a different place, and I'm still going on, and I'm going to continue in the future, we're true love, it's been a few years, we care about each other, and we won't get angry because he's not by my side, even if sometimes I'm unhappy because of other couples, but go back and play **, he comforts and comforts me, I will be happy, I won't be unhappy again, use examples to prove that this is true love.

    Don't worry about the factor of distance, sometimes distance produces beauty.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If there is a deep relationship between lovers, it is not affected by distance; On the contrary, some people who face each other every day may not be able to get along, depending on whether the two people are used to this way of getting along.

    There is a situation where two places must be separated, and that is the military wife! One such college classmate is married to an Air Force member, and they now have two children. Usually it is a woman who takes care of two bear children at home, and when she looks at two boys alone, we all think she is very great.

    It's really hard to imagine that a woman whose husband is not by her side all the year round has to shoulder such a heavy burden of life. Especially when one of them was sick, it was really called that the earth should not be called ineffective, and she also came over like this.

    They are husband and wife, and it can be seen from the ** that their family travels every time her husband comes back, and their relationship is still so good. has not been hindered too much by this distance and life pressure, and she once said in the circle of friends that the least regrettable choice in this life is to be a military wife!

    She also has to train her children to be soldiers, and her character is quite noble. It will not be like some people will feel that since they are so tired and so away from home, they will let their children not engage in this industry. It can be seen how much she respects her husband's profession.

    She is also always proud and never shouts tired. This is a very rare strong woman. I also admire her very much!

    She writes every time that every separation is for the next better reunion! It's really tearful, you know, she is still a woman who marries far away! In this city, there is so much emptiness that we have never felt before! However, other people's love is still fresh.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Asking this question must be that you are in a long-distance relationship or about to be in a long-distance relationship.

    I believe that true love still exists in long-distance relationships. <>

    My boyfriend and I were in a long-distance relationship, and it's been a year and a half now. It's not very far, but you'll miss it a lot.

    Long-distance relationships are still methodical, first of all, my boyfriend will come back to see me once a month as long as he has time, let me see him, I will be very happy, although I will be annoyed when I see him for a while, but I am still very happy in my heart. It doesn't matter how much money you say, you must meet regularly.

    He often gives me little surprises, I remember last year, I used to send him the expression of the little donkey he cuddled, Christmas, he bought me the same stuffed animal online, I can hold him to sleep every day.

    Every day, he will talk to me about his work, what he eats every day, where he goes, what he has learned a few courseware today, and what he has gained. Every day we share our experiences.

    In fact, the most important thing is to see if you are true love, if you really love each other, you can cross the distance, I didn't believe in long-distance relationships before, but I believe in it now.

    The previous relationship was when I was in high school, and we got along for more than a year in high school, and it was a real year, taking classes together, eating together, and studying together every day. It stands to reason that there should be a relationship foundation, but when I was in college, I was in a long-distance relationship, and in the end I didn't stick to it and broke up.

    But I believe that true love can withstand distance.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think true love can still exist between couples separated from each other, after all, love is not bound by geography, age, and gender, as long as you appreciate each other, everything is possible.

    Couples who have been separated for a long time, because when they encounter setbacks or troubles with each other, they can only comfort each other through **, and cannot communicate with each other face-to-face and give each other a warm hug; In addition, when you can't be free, you can't accompany each other to eat, go shopping, or watch movies like other couples, so you can only ask a friend to accompany you or do something that would have taken two people to complete. So at this time, I will miss each other very much, and I long for the other party to stand in front of me immediately. In addition, because the two live in different places, they can't know each other's lives, and they don't know if the other party will be unfaithful to them, and they have feelings for others in different places, and they have more suspicions between them.

    Therefore, in this case, it is easy to have contradictions between each other, and the feelings slowly fade in the constant quarrels, resulting in the idea of breaking up, and finally the contradictions reach irreconcilable when they really break up.

    But not everyone is like this, when I was in college, there was a female classmate and her boyfriend who were in a long-distance relationship, they were high school classmates to each other, but they applied for different universities in college, her boyfriend went to Xinjiang to study in college, and she came to Guangdong to study in college, more than 2,000 kilometers away from each other, and they could only meet each other during winter and summer vacations. Like many long-distance couples, they will quarrel, but they have not given up on each other, they have been persevering, and they have been understanding and tolerant of each other, and finally survived until they graduated from college, and the two returned to their hometown Gansu to work, and got married two years later.

    Therefore, couples who live separately can get true love by having more understanding and tolerance with each other, cherishing each other's feelings.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It really exists, because my boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship, and the two of us are separated by more than a thousand kilometers, but it doesn't affect our relationship. On the contrary, it is precisely because of this distance that he lets us know how deep the relationship between two people is, and what does he know about each other? Although the two of them will be noisy, they can't help but think of each other in the end.

    And we are ready to get married, so there is true love between couples who have been separated for a long time. Love can't be measured by time and space, yes, many long-distance relationships have broken up and only the majority, but so what, breaking up can only mean that it is not yours, and true love is easy to give up even if it is thousands of miles away. I also have a lot of classmates in long-distance relationships around me, and they haven't given up and are doing well now, and we have to believe in true love at all times, which I believe we can meet.

    It is true that long-term separation between the two places has a great impact, because two people will miss each other if they can't meet, and they will be very lonely in their hearts. And if two people can't meet, many times they can't communicate well, so the two of you will have a lot of obstacles. You will find that the two of you can't communicate at all, and some words can't be said at all, so you will feel that the two of you are not suitable.

    So they broke up. But since we're together, why not hold on for a while. Maybe we can stick with it and we'll be together forever.

    Two people should tolerate each other and understand each other, don't do anything that moves each other, and understand each other, so that even if they are far away, they will be together after all.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Existence, love will not alienate each other because of distance, when on the contrary, distance will enhance the emotions between each other to a certain extent, there is a saying called distance produces beauty, distance will make two people miss each other more, more impulsive to want to be with each other, because of the distance from me, two people will not be together for a long time and get tired.

    In fact, distance can test the feelings of two people more, and it can test the trust between two people. Couples who have been separated from each other for a long time know the pain and discomfort of a long-distance relationship, and the two will cherish each other more.

    My boyfriend and I have been in a long-distance relationship for 8 years and are still long-distance now.

    From the beginning of our relationship, we slowly embarked on the road of long-distance relationship, at that time, I went to school at home and he went out to work. At that time, there was no mobile phone, no **, and he would visit me at school every two months, and every time he went to bring a big bag of delicious food. Every time we meet again after two months, it feels so strange.

    But there is already a storm in my heart. At that time, I thought about breaking up countless times, and although you were in love, you were still living alone.

    Later, he went to school outside, but he went home to work. We have quarreled with each other and experienced all kinds of things, but gradually, the feelings began to precipitate, and each other has silently integrated each other into their lives.

    Now the feelings between us have been precipitated in each other's hearts. Now there are occasional quarrels and quarrels, but each other knows that they can't leave each other in their hearts and know that the other party will not leave.

    I think this is what love should look like, and this is the best love story. Although we are still in a different place, this relationship has indeed been deeply integrated into each other's hearts.

    I firmly believe that couples who have been separated for a long time have true love, and everyone will meet which one is right.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What is it like for a couple to live apart for a long time? They usually go through the following processes.

    1. Unaccustomed at the beginning.

    Some couples are already in a different place when they start patting, but many couples have already lived together, and because they need more money for their husband and wife life, they are forced to go to a different place to make money and live separately, so they are not used to it at the beginning. After all, I am used to living together, the housework is shared, and the mood is confided in, but I am not used to separating the few people around me. Even if there is an Internet to **, it is necessary for both parties to have the right time, and they can always hide the most real situation and feelings across the screen.

    2. Reduce contact and impatience.

    Because of separation, if you are still very worried about your lover and nervous about him, you will be impatient, afraid that he will not know how he is doing there. After all, after separating from two places, the two of them will experience fewer things together, fewer topics, and less contact, many times you don't know what he's doing over there, and you don't know if he really doesn't have time to contact you, or has time to do something else without contacting you, and there will be doubts.

    3. Accustomed to being in different places, the feelings are weak.

    Many couples who have been in a long distance will enter a widowed marriage state that is accustomed to being in a different place and their feelings have become weaker. They are reluctant at the beginning, to nervousness after that, and then to him now, as long as there is a monthly allowance for the family, it is good to maintain the family life and the children's education expenses here, usually this situation is that the feelings are weak, so even if the other party is fooling around over there, as long as they don't know, they can comfort themselves when nothing happens, of course, the money is indispensable every month, and the family has to be maintained.

    And this kind of widowed marriage, some people choose to maintain it silently, and some people feel that they should not be in such a marital state, and they will choose to divorce if they can't bear it.

    Although distance produces beauty, too far away will cut off contact, and even feelings, so I don't recommend long-distance marriage, love can be long-distance, but it is better to live together after marriage.

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