What should I do with such feelings It s summer, but my heart is still cold

It seems that you are destined to go through emotional torment. First of all, you started to fall in love when there was no situation in his family, which in itself was a mistake, but fortunately you quit in time and did not make a big mistake. But you don't quit in your heart, and you still have a desire to look forward to.

Now that his family has problems, I won't say it's because of you, but you can't get rid of it. They used to be able to get by, so why can't they live now? You said that his wife proposed it, and if it was you who he really loved, then he would readily agree.

And then with you. Secondly, not all emotionless marriages will dissolve, and can only be measured by the relative level of happiness. You like him, he is not divorced now, and you don't want to be a third party, then you can only wait.

You say that you have the courage to live a good life with him, and you can also work with him to deal with their divorce process, including fighting for custody of the child (if the negotiation fails, the court can rule through legal means according to the basic conditions conducive to the child's growth). But you have to be mentally prepared to be a good stepmother. He loves children very much, and if he wins them, there is a good chance that they will become the focus and lead of disagreements in your life.

If he doesn't earn it, you have to have your own children as soon as possible, and you have to accept that he has the obligation to support both of his children. If you are mentally prepared, you tell him clearly, be with him, and support him in his divorce. If you still have concerns, then I advise you to calm down and think about your next step.

I hope it helps.

Whether he and his wife can go on or not, I advise you to give up on him. Whether the child follows him or not, you will have a lot of unpleasant things because of that child in the future. Don't think that as long as I'm just as good to my children as I am myself, it turns out that my own child doesn't think so much, whether it's you, him, or the child, or the people around you.

Only after experiencing it will you realize that you are so simple.

In fact, your own analysis has been more thorough, although you have a lot of courage now, but what about that man? He is not a very assertive person, and his wife has to mention the divorce, is it for the sake of the children? Both of these reasons are enough for you to give up waiting and start another relationship.

I've met something similar to you, I fell in love with him and didn't know that he had a girlfriend, and my girlfriend had a miscarriage for him some time ago. I feel sad and helpless when I think about it, although I like him very much, and he treats me very well, but I will never touch the bottom line of morality, let's leave, that's what I think.

I think if you really like him, or wait for him to get divorced, after all, he is not divorced yet, he is still someone else's husband, someone else's father, feelings can do a lot of things, but please don't break morals, please believe that if he really wants to live together, he will deal with it, you can give him time.

Falling in love with a family man is inherently fearful, and can you guarantee that he won't be in the same situation again after you are together? It's better to be sensible.

I think you should take the initiative to quit, after all, a divorced man is not necessarily good, and you can find a man who is more suitable for you than him.

Once two people fall in love, they will be very selfless for each other's sake, but people also have a selfish side and hope that the person who loves you will always be by your side, in my opinion, having a marriage does not mean that they are not a good man or a good woman, marriage makes them more mature. Let it be! Tell your idea to the person you like and let him decide for himself!

This kind of thing, you should ask yourself, no matter whether people are married or not, you are already a third party, do you think you can be happier than with him? Maybe this kind of thing will happen to you.

Don't want to be a third party? How did you fall in love with each other? Didn't you already know that the other party had a family? In fact, you already have the answer in your heart, but you don't dare to face it...

It depends on what kind of mentality he has towards you, if he can really give up everything for you, it means that he really loves you, if not, I advise you to leave him quickly!

Alas, it's the same plot playing out again, let's look at it, sometimes obsessed things are not necessarily good, a friend of mine cousin is in a similar situation to you, she has been with that man for 7 years, and then it hasn't broken up. When men are young, they want to play until they reach a certain age, and they still want to have a home, not to mention that there is a child between them, even if they are with you, can you guarantee that he will not find another one younger and more beautiful than you? Look away, it's not filming now, don't be delusional.

Be a smart woman and find a good man to live a steady life.

If he loves you, and you tell him, if you don't get divorced within a year, then let's break up, I don't want to be a third party.

As for the children, if he wants them, and then you are together, your life will be an unwarranted burden, and you will even fight over the children of this ex-wife.

Emotional matters, the most tangled, try to communicate with your heart, and finally choose your own path...

Quit, there are many good men, and if you don't leave him, you won't have a chance to meet a better man.

Even if he divorces and marries you, your life will not be good in the future, because you love him, maybe as long as his ex-wife says an unintentional word, you will quarrel, because there are two words in love, jealousy.

And even if you get married, how much pressure do you have to have, behind your back, many people must say that you are a junior, why don't you talk about an innocent, happy love?

My dear, be kind to yourself, if you leave him, no one will say that you are treacherous, you are with him, but so many people say that he is treacherous, and others do not know the inside story, they will misunderstand you.

Go and indulge yourself once, get drunk, and when you wake up, we'll forget about him.

What do you think in your heart?

Choose what you want to do and do it, everything comes from the heart If you listen to us, we're wrong.

You regret it, it's a lifetime thing...

Well, I don't know, isn't everyone like this? They all want to be with the person they like, but they can't for some reason, in fact, what you should think about is whether you really like him? Does he deserve your liking?

Can you trust his feelings? Can you trust a man who still engages in extramarital affairs after marriage? I know it's cruel to say this, but it's something you have to face.

Of course, he may really love you, after all, there is no love between him and his wife, there are only responsibilities and obligations. And later with her children. In fact, I think it, if you really like him, stick to it, it's easy to get priceless treasures, it's rare to have a lover, which of the things you just said are just the problems you need to consider and face, come on, support you!

But I still hope to wait until he divorces to be with him, come on, support you, because there is very little love now, of course, this is based on whether they see each other or not, and I wish you happiness!

Let's wait until he is divorced, such a bloody plot, there are too many on TV, which man is really divorced?

Breaking up is definitely hurting, and the degree of individuality is different. But it won't be cold from now on, time is the best healing agent, as long as you can stick to it at the beginning, don't do anything bad, and slowly it will get better, although you may not completely forget the relationship with that person, but the impact of people and feelings on you will become smaller and smaller. Life is changing and colorful, and you will continue to meet all kinds of other people in your later life, including new lovers who are suitable for you.

Being able to break up means that each other is still inappropriate, no matter which aspect is inappropriate, there will always be, so going with the flow and breaking up is not necessarily a bad thing. Life is a five-flavor bottle, do you have to taste the sweet and sour.

I think it will.,It depends on the different personalities.,The time you need to heal is also different.。。

Yes. It doesn't matter to the men anymore.

Maybe it's true, it takes a long time to turn the corner.

There's a process to everything, isn't there?

Growth takes process.

Love, of course, also needs a process.

The heart will be tired, and that is your love: in the journey of love, you give your heart.

Love will be cold, that's when you are hurt: In the world of love, there are always joys and sorrows.

She is not your end, which means that your end has not yet appeared.

The Land of Love – Don't Ask Why.

In love – no cause, no why.

If you love, don't regret it.

If you regret it, don't love it.

Yes! It's just that some people give up because of this, and some people are willing to wait a little longer!

I believe that the zodiac signs, you should look at what the zodiac signs have to say, and give him some enlightenment in the context of what he is doing now

A person has a character, don't try to change him.

Try to understand his thoughts and free him from loneliness.

Loneliness is the appearance, everyone needs time and space to be alone, and enjoying solitude is also a beautiful thing. But don't feel lonely in your heart, it's scary to always feel very lonely and to be a person!

Talk to him and tell him what he thinks and feels in his heart so that he doesn't feel lonely, and knowing that someone knows what he thinks will make him feel like he has found a soulmate, so that he will love you more.

Give him some enlightenment and let him express his inner feelings, so that I think he will feel happier.

What does it mean to be emotional?

What does it mean to have a rich heart? Lots of ideas, or what?

The daughter-in-law is not filial, and the son has to bear most of the responsibility, your education is not good or you are too dependent on her! If you are indeed unfilial and you feel stressed, divorce is the best option. She will not get all the family property in the divorce, there is a legal basis, the husband and wife share half of the property!

Friend, let's do it!!

It's so good to make trouble, you can't talk sweetly, there are a lot of contradictions, but there is room for redemption is that you don't keep arguing, you have to talk about it, don't get angry immediately because of her willfulness when you talk, you have to finish talking, if it doesn't work, you can do it casually.

One of the shrews, killed her to feed the pigs.

Like two people Peng Jiahui.

Loved two people.

Original singer: Peng Jiahui.

**: Bel Canto Glory.

Words: Yao Ruolong Music: Chen Guohua.

There is no need to recall the dusk when it had just rained heavily.

At the moment, there are only beautiful stars in the night sky.

I have gone through a journey that is half sweet and half sour.

My thin heart can be abundant.

The heart will be tired, and love will be cold.

This is a necessary process of affection.

Just someone just gives up.

There are also those who are willing to wait a little longer.

Wait for a discovery.

Wait for a touch to make love boil again.

Even if you care a lot about self-esteem.

We depend on each other.

I have to admit it.

Give up freedom like two people.

Two people tied up.

Don't give in to each other or love each other and share a lifetime.

I don't like to be lively, I like two people.

Just the two of us.

In a floating restless world.

Find stability.

Loved two people.

There is no need to recall the dusk when it had just rained heavily.

At the moment, there are only beautiful stars in the night sky.

I have gone through a journey that is half sweet and half sour.

My thin heart can be abundant.

The heart will be tired, and love will be cold.

This is a necessary process of affection.

Just someone just gives up.

There are also those who are willing to wait a little longer.

Wait for a discovery, wait for a touch, and let love boil again.

Even if you care a lot about self-esteem.

We rely on each other and have to admit it.

Give up freedom like two people.

Two people tied up.

Don't give in to each other or love each other and share a lifetime.

I don't like to be lively, I like two people.

Just the two of us.

Find peace in a world of rot.

Sometimes caring is just exchanging a look.

Soothing is a warm and tight kiss.

Love is unreasonable and makes me a little bit.

Thoughtfulness is occasionally allowed to make you not like a lover.

The heart will be tired, and love will be cold.

This is a necessary process of affection.

Just someone just gives up.

There are also those who are willing to wait a little longer.

Wait for a discovery, wait for a touch, and let love boil again.

Even if you care a lot about self-esteem.

We rely on each other and have to admit it.

Give up freedom like two people.

Two people tied up.

Don't give in to each other or love each other and share a lifetime.

I don't like to be lively, I like two people.

Just the two of us.

Find peace in a world of rot.

Find peace in a world of unrest.

Singer: Peng Jiahui **: "Love Singer" likes two people.

Like two people Peng Jiahui's song.

I wanted to say something, but after looking at it, I still support lll8889, and that's what I want to say.

Although I'm a man, I also feel that your contribution is really a little unworthy, don't you think? He didn't do what a boyfriend should do in the first place, what do you say? I think that's what everyone thinks.

I think he'll come back if you go to him now, I promise!

But that's not interesting, it's pointless