Why Loved Ones Always Hurt Me the Most 20

Of course, he hurts you the most because you love him, care about him, because he is the person you love the most, think about it, if he is a person who doesn't matter to you, you don't care about him at all, how can he break your heart?

It's because I care that my heart hurts!

It's the same as if you lost 1 yuan and 1 million yuan!

You don't care about losing that $1, but what about $1 million?

What's more, she is worth more than 1 million?!

Because you care more about him than anyone else.

If you're a hedgehog, you're covered in spikes that protect you, but you're facing your most vulnerable point towards someone you trust

It's that you're defenseless, or you haven't thought that one day love will burn out.

I think that it is easy to cherish the person who is loved.

Because they care about you too much, it seems that everything is "should" be done for you, and you learn to be "picky" in the process of constantly "giving", so you will not know how to understand and understand their feelings.

Because they care about you too much, for you, when you are in a good mood, you can communicate with them very harmoniously and get along very well. And when you are depressed, you can transfer your dissatisfaction to the people who love you the most, so you will not understand the silent pain in their hearts.

Because they care about you too much, they should be there for you when you need them. And when you are upset, they should walk away silently. So you won't understand the frustration of them being treated as dispensable.

Because they care about you too much, for you, their care all the time will become an invisible constraint in your heart, making you feel overwhelmed, so you will mercilessly refuse their care for you. Leave one wound after another in their hearts.

The person who loves you the most hurts you the most, in fact, this is also the truth. In the face of the person we love the most, the person closest to us, we will always not want to make any pretense in front of him.

Unscrupulously become the original self, cry when you want to cry, laugh when you want to laugh, and don't hide any joys, sorrows and sorrows from him.

In the same way, all the dark sides of your life will be revealed to the other person.

We will always show the ugliest and truest self in front of the person we love the most, and we will hurt each other unintentionally, and we think it is the true feelings, but the end is to push them further and further.

Because, we always show our ugliest selves in front of the people we love the most.

1.Crying out of breath.

Maybe when a person grows up, no one can see him cry because his heart is strong enough. But only when facing you, he is always prone to tears. You tell him to break up, he cries so much that he can't breathe, begging you to stay.

And if a man has such a move, it is enough to show that you are his most beloved person. At this time, please consider whether to stay.

2.Spend a lot of money for you.

The man in front of you may not be rich enough, but as long as he has a heart that loves you, I believe you will live happily. Obviously, you don't have much money in your bag, but when you like it so much, he is willing to throw a lot of money for you, even if he takes out all his savings, he doesn't want to see you lose, which means that you are the woman he likes.

3.Eat, eat, eat.

Only in front of the woman he loves the most, a man will eat and eat, because you have made this big table in front of him, and he feels very happy. And he can't eat enough no matter how much he eats, so even if he survives, he has to eat without wasting. Love itself also requires scheming, and it takes two people to work hard together, to make concessions and changes for each other, in order to make this period of life better.

The most important thing is that we should progress with each other in our relationship and become a better version of ourselves, instead of staying where we are, ignoring the feelings of the other half, and stubbornly becoming what we want.

As you said, he and she are your favorite, you love him She loves very deeply, in fact, love is also a law of nature, the love you give is proportional to the damage you receive, for example, if you slap a ball on the ground, the harder you use it, the more powerful it will be. You love him and her so hard, and he doesn't realize how much, and in turn it hurts you, and I think you try to change the way you love him, maybe he can read it. It's like opening a lock, the key can be easily opened with the right one for him or her.

Reading your question, I can feel that you are a caring person, and I sincerely bless you :)

In fact, there are many girls who are like you and have the same experience as you.

Hate ** is love, there is love to hate, but no matter how much we hate him, we can't do anything illegal, right?

Although his behavior was shameful, it was because you made the wrong decision and looked at the wrong person that you repeatedly fell into pain and let him succeed.

We are no longer children, and we should learn to think about our mistakes when we encounter problems.

No one wants this kind of thing to happen, but the fact exists, I think you should stand up and leave that stinky man!

After one thing, grow a wisdom! Be careful in the future, learn to protect yourself, I understand your feelings, but only you can help yourself and slowly come out.

Love just pulls. Because you love him, you can feel all the feelings he left for you, you will care so much, because you really love him, love is like this, we are all people who have been paying for love, and we will be more mature after being hurt, I wish you happiness as soon as possible.

It's right that you love him, he has a girlfriend. He doesn't love you. There's no point in going on. Letting go is your best bet.