What do you think should be done with the money between our husband and wife?

Your wife is actually okay, and sending money home is also because she wants to be filial to her parents, but she doesn't think about the future of your own family, I think girls are like this, especially a little simple girls will not think very far, not as long-term as your men...

As for loving to spend money, and use your salary card to buy clothes, it is estimated that it is also a bit of a little girl's vanity, girls hope that their husbands will love themselves more, and using their husband's money will make them feel satisfied and happy, it's not really so selfish, and now the salary card is now given to you, and there may be points in the heart...

It's better to talk to her about this problem, tell him like a brother, don't complain, have a calm heart, express that you want to hurt her but can't ignore the reality of the situation yet, if it's a good girl, you should reflect on yourself and then accept it.

Bottom leak! Money can reflect the strength of the family, just like a country's prime minister flows money abroad! What does this show about the harmony of your family? Is she talking to you? Or is it morbid? You should take a good look at it, there is still a long way to go!

Communicate well and talk about her life in the future, if she is the one who lives her life, it will change.

She doesn't love you! That's not going to live! I want to be the so-called of the superior society"Mrs. Kuo"

Don't ask for this, she'll suck you dry sooner or later. It's scary.

Say bye-bye! Will it be reluctant?

Then make do with it! Man!!

I think the communication between the two people is the most important, find a chance to talk openly and honestly, if she really loves you and hopes to live with you in the future, I think she will change.

There is also a word of advice: although work is important, don't ignore the feelings of the people around you!! Be careful that feelings are weakened by this.

I wish you a happy family!!

How can this be, you want a child, see who cares about the child's food and drink, what to do, maybe she will know how to save money by then.

lz I think you are very stingy Men are brain-dead Women are selfish and useless Imagine the stupid face of a brain-dead child: Men are atmospheric How to do it to their wives Women say that men should give women flowers to make money I laughed.

You are doing the right thing Everyone is not a big money To live Of course the money must be calculated clearly You are filial to your parents every once in a while I have nothing to say Human nature But what your wife does is not absolutely bad Because she is using the money she earns Since he is so filial and does not care about himself Well, what common expenses will be shared equally in the future Your own expenses will be borne by yourself You don't give her money Don't use his money As for the salary card, of course, it is insured in your own hands.

There must be a shopkeeper in a family, like you, you should find an opportunity to talk calmly with your wife, and in the future, the family's money should be deposited into an account, and you must greet each other regardless of income or expenditure.

Like my family, I usually take the money, he pays me the salary, I go to save, but if I want to withdraw the money, I will only withdraw it with my husband's consent. And we have to deposit a fixed amount of 2,000 yuan on the 10th of every month, and he takes a little bit and I take a little as my usual pocket money. In this way, there will be no unnecessary misunderstanding between the husband and wife.

Husband and wife should be mutual, and it shouldn't be so clear.

What do you care about each other after you have received the certificate The man makes money to support his family, and it is natural to spend money on his wife, and she also has to control the family's firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and you need laundry detergent to wash your clothes. Women, just like to buy a dress or something, it's not a big problem, and when she gets married and has children, is she willing to buy it? She is not allowed to save some money for milk powder for her child

It is recommended to follow the following principles:

1. Money for the couplePut it together,After marriage, the husband and wife are not separated from each other, and the two people should put the money together to make each other's feelings more solid;

2. Husband and wife use moneyTell each otherIf you need to use money in life, you should first tell your lover and ask for your lover's consent before using it;

3. Husband and wife notAble to hide your own little vault,In life, you should keep all your money together, and you can't hide your own small coffers, otherwise the other party will not trust you;

4. Money for husband and wifeIt cannot be fortified, you can't hide your money, you should tell your lover how much money you earn, this behavior can make husband and wife trust each other;

5. Husband and wifeYou can't restrict the other party from using moneyIn life, if your lover needs money, you must not restrict it, otherwise it will hurt the feelings of the husband and wife;

Precautions for handling money between husband and wife

A couple is the most intimate relationship from the moment they receive their marriage certificate, and both people should treat each other as their dearest people, and then find ways to make each other grow old. In such a process, couples should have a reasonable way to deal with money problems, and only in this way can they achieve happiness.

Only by handling the problem of money well can husband and wife avoid principled conflicts in marriage, and can also make husband and wife trust each other, and finally have a happy ending.

Hello! In fact, the couple's money management must be done properly, and improper management will cause many family disputes and even family accidents.

Money management between husband and wife can be roughly divided into three situations:

1. The woman manages the money and earns money for the family, and the man obeys the woman and is responsible for the main economic income of the family.

This is the most common situation in today's society. The woman in the family is the eldest. Men toil in the management of women's property.

Pros: 1The economy is well managed.

2.The family atmosphere is harmonious.

3.The vanity of a woman is satisfied, and the grandeur of a man is sublimated.

4.Parents and in-laws can rest assured that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be relatively harmonious.

5.Women are more careful, and when they spend money, they can roughly recall themselves where the money was spent.

6.If there are children at home, it should be the mother who buys some daily snacks for the child, so it will be more convenient for the woman to manage the money.

Cons: Women are more likely to spend money, spend money indiscriminately, spend money quickly, and spend money to show off.

2. The man manages the money, and the woman is less involved or not involved in financial management.

Pros: Men spend money through their brains, and they spend more rationally.

Disadvantages: Caring for children is relatively small.

There are not many people who try this in today's society.

3. Men and women manage their finances together.

Pros: 1Fair.

2.Disputes are rare, and families are in harmony.

3.It is conducive to cultivating the spirit of cooperation and harmony between husband and wife, and is a way for family couples to get along with each other, which is very much needed in society today.

Cons: 1It's too bad, it hurts feelings.

2.Create a sense of distance from each other.

Of course, my views are not representative of everyone, and I hope you will weigh them carefully.

Whether it is the in-laws or the mother's family, if they really need a sum of money urgently, it is okay for the husband and wife to discuss the funding.

However, from the perspective of marriage, the income of the husband and wife is an integral part of the joint property of the family, whether it is the money in the family account or the income of the individual, it belongs to the husband and wife.

Some couples will have an agreement on finances, such as the man's income is handed over, and the woman is in charge of the family finances for redistribution and savings.

In addition to household expenses, couples have a fixed amount for personal consumption. Then, this part of the money can be used by the individual at will, and it can be spent or given to others.

If the husband and wife do not jointly manage the income, then it should be agreed in advance on the proportion of important expenses or relatively large expenses that should be shared by the husband and wife.

There is not much contradiction between everyone managing their own part of the money within the agreed framework.

But if one partner deliberately avoids family responsibilities and blindly transfers or gives money to his or her parents, the other parent will feel unbalanced.

The family is a common family, and if you do not fulfill your responsibilities but want to help your in-laws or mother's family unprincipledly, you will give people the feeling of "having an outside heart".

So, if the husband or wife is always taking money behind their backs to their parents, they need to communicate and ask what is the reason for this.

If you are really in trouble and in need, you can help together, instead of doing it secretly behind the other person's back.

If you are partial to your parents, then you have to be open and honest about the rent and make it clear what you feel in your heart, and if you do this, does he think it is reasonable?

All in all, if there are conflicts between husband and wife, they must communicate frankly, find out what the cause of the problem is, face the reality together, respect and understand each other, so that the relationship between husband and wife can be stable and the marriage happier.

01 Be honest with each other and talk generously about money.

In the book "A Brief History of Mankind", it is written: "In today's society, money has defeated any religion and has become the basic tool of human behavior and communication, and almost no social behavior can be completely free from the influence of money." "Marriage is no exception, a good marriage is inseparable from a material foundation, and feelings without a material foundation to support it are like a castle in the air.

There are many couples who are ashamed to talk about money, and they are also very shy about talking about money, thinking that talking about money will hurt each other's pure feelings. But we don't live in a fairy tale, but in the world, and in the worldly marriage, it seems that there is a smell of money.

Life is inseparable from money, and if you deliberately avoid the topic of "money", you will have problems with each other, and conflicts will accumulate over time.

02 Establish a common family account and manage it together.

Nowadays, many people advocate AA marriage, in fact, AA marriage does not mean that all expenses should be 55 cents, but let both husband and wife participate in the management of family affairs and finances.

A better way to manage family finances than the AA system is to establish a family account, where the husband and wife keep the accounts together and manage them together.

Funds from the family account** may be transferred by one person or both husband and wife in a certain proportion according to the actual income of the family, and the joint expenses of the family shall be paid by the family account.

A family account can be set up with a master account, or multiple details can be set according to the allocation of family assets. For example, mortgage repayment, children's education, children's daily consumption, family daily consumption, human affection, filial piety to parents, insurance, reserves, financial management, etc.

Establish family accounts, keep accounts together, participate in the financial management of the family together, think in one place, and work hard in one place, so that life can become more and more prosperous.

03 Each has the right to control money, and they don't care.

It is often advocated: "At any time, maintaining self-independence is the greatest confidence in marriage." ”

Many people yearn for freedom and independence.

If only one spouse is in complete control of the finances, it is like completely depriving the other spouse of a sense of participation and financial control.

If you meet someone who is picky, complaining, and calculating, then life is really miserable!

Establish a family account to ensure the daily expenses of the family, and the husband and wife can reserve a part of the discretionary funds for themselves. These funds can be used to fulfill personal hobbies or to prepare holiday surprises for each other.

The two happy little couples around me are to manage the family expenses together, and then leave some pocket money for themselves, the pocket money is free to use, the husband and wife do not interfere with each other, occasionally have a little romance, and live a life of envy of others!

A happy marriage embodies love, understanding, trust, respect and tolerance everywhere, and the economy is transparent and free, and the marriage will be more stable and happier if it is not overly dependent and not overly dependent.