The delivery man waited for the meal to smash things, and was beaten by the store s big colander and

The society is developing faster and faster, the pressure is getting bigger and bigger, and people's hearts are becoming more and more impetuous, resulting in people becoming more and more irritable. Thinking about using violence to make the other party submit, never thinking that the other party is also your murderer, he is more fierce than you, violence will not solve the problem, but will intensify the conflict. When encountering things, we can't act impulsively, we need to calm down, and we must have the ability to adjust our mentality in time in the face of bad emotions.

When the delivery man was waiting for the meal, he broke down and smashed the things in the store because the store couldn't serve the meal for a long time, and then he was smashed by the owner with a big colander and cried. Both sides are at fault, the delivery man should not smash things to vent after an emotional breakdown, and the owner should not smash people.

Adults collapsed only in an instant, and a delivery man broke down emotionally while waiting for a meal, and was beaten by the store**On the Internet, it caused netizens to think deeply, and the psychological tolerance of adults is getting weaker and weaker. A takeaway in Quanzhou was distributed five orders in a row by the platform, and after waiting for a long time in a store or still not getting the meal, he urged the store to hurry up in a somewhat heavy tone, but the response was "love to send it or not, not to send it down".

When the delivery man heard this, he broke down and smashed the store's things, and the boss beat the delivery man with a big colander. The delivery man couldn't beat the boss, so he squatted on the ground and broke down and cried. In the end, the store and the delivery man reached a settlement, and the store compensated 4,000 yuan for medical expenses.

In fact, this matter does not need to be fought by both sides at all, and mutual understanding can solve the problem by taking a step back. Both sides are at fault, and their tempers are too short-tempered.

Taking a step back, there are many incidents of fighting and hurting people, which may be because of a small incident as the fuse, and as a result, both sides are unwilling to retreat, but make the small thing bigger. Some people may think that regression is cowardice, but in fact, regression is a kind of energy, and the difference between people and beasts is that there is a bottom line to be tolerant. Conflicts that don't want can be resolved by themselves, and maintaining a good attitude is the ability that contemporary people should have.

Each has its own pressure, beyond the scope of bearing, and some people collapse when they can't control it. In this incident, the delivery man suffered from not being able to get income after the order was completed, and the longer he waited, the more anxious he became, and the store was too busy, weak, and impatient, and couldn't help but get angry when he saw the delivery man smashing things. Fortunately, the two sides settled under the mediation, and I hope that they can be calmer in the future.

Because the pressure of people nowadays is too great, the price is getting higher and higher, but their wages are not **, and they are still carrying car loans and mortgages, they feel anxious when they think about it, so they can not be irritable!

You can't blame the delivery staff for being too irritable, it's that the current delivery industry is not easy to do, and it will be reported by customers if it's a minute or two late.

People are becoming more and more irritable because there is too much pressure on social survival, and there is also pressure from the family, which makes people breathless, causing people to become more and more irritable.

Maybe his life is under great pressure, but in fact, I've become more and more irritable in recent years, but no one else can see it. Everyone understands that everyone has the pressure of not being able to tell outsiders.

The pressure of life is getting bigger and bigger, and the fast pace of life and the sense of oppression are easy to make people impulsive and irritable.

Because many men now have to support their families and face various suppressions and tests in society, they will inevitably become more and more irritable.

Because everyone is difficult, the people waiting for the meal are in a hurry to eat, the delivery person is in a hurry to deliver the food, and the store has to prepare the food of the customers in the store, everyone has difficulties, but they can't solve it, so they are so irritable.

He was also forced, because the takeaway platform has very strict requirements for food delivery time, and it is not okay to be a minute late, so mutual understanding is required.

It's not that the parties don't have a voice.

The delivery staff is very hard, and after waiting for a long time, I am afraid that it will affect the use, and the owner of the store will hit the wrong person.

I feel very sorry for this takeaway guy Even though he is not doing it right, he shouldn't have an emotional breakdown and shouldn't smash other people's things.

But this takeaway platform has such a tight time requirement, should it set aside free time to think about the takeaway brother? The takeaway brother wanted to be fast, but the food in the store was not ready, and the meal could not be delivered, so he could not deliver it, and he must be in a hurry. I'm afraid of a ticket.

It's better for both sides to understand.

To be honest, I can understand the delivery man, although many people scolded him.

But this incident is not the fault of the delivery staff, but the main responsibility of the delivery platform.

Food delivery platforms set the delivery time of delivery workers very tightly, and their work is very stressful.

If they overtime, they will have to deduct their wages, and they have to deliver a lot of meals to make up for the overtime.

And look at the October 30th delivery man waiting for the meal to collapse and smash things, and was beaten and cried by the owner, meaning, then he sells tableware, and the delivery staff is to kill teammates, and they will smash things when they are patient and anxious, and if they don't hit you, they will hit you right.

I think this is also caused by the pressure of life, and the life of the delivery person is also very stressful. They hurried to catch up, just for a few dollars a single order. If you are late, you may also be deducted. Life is not easy.

In fact, both sides of the matter are due to the fact that the other party is too impulsive, and I think both sides have extenuating circumstances and unforgivable places. There are mistakes on both sides.

This problem has appeared here before, that is, the irrationality of the two sides caused the conflict between the two parties, and now that there is a lot of business, it is better to understand and tolerate each other.

I watched the incident on October 30 [the delivery man broke down and smashed things while waiting for the meal and was beaten and cried by the shopkeeper]? This is because the delivery staff is too stressed, and if you are a little late, you will be complained, which is very difficult! We have to understand the hard work of the delivery staff!

Nowadays, no one is easy in society, and even if you can't understand each other, there is no need to destroy other people's furniture.

We can all understand the fact that the delivery man collapsed because of waiting for food, but the fact that he smashed things is also not forgivable. His family has already been suspected of a certain aspect. But society is actually like this, a little more understanding, will be more beautiful.

Therefore, I hope that the owner can also give the same hope to the delivery staff.

Competition is fierce, leading to ...... stores may be overly picky about food delivery workersCausing employees to lose control of their emotions.

No matter what, the store doesn't have the right to beat up the delivery staff, right?

Yes, you are in a "superior" position than the food delivery staff.

But all beings are equal, who gave you the right to beat people?

The beaten delivery man is also sad, why not choose another one?

Can't you go?

In fact, I think both sides of this matter are too impulsive, and although the delivery man and other things have been waiting for a long time, they can't smash other people's things. Even though the shopkeeper's things were smashed, he couldn't beat people up, so they both made mistakes, so I think such things were caused by being too impulsive.

In fact, takeaway delivery is also quite hard. Sometimes it's not their responsibility or the merchant's side is slow to produce food, and they often have to wait there for delays. It is not easy for the delivery staff to deliver food, sometimes the delivery is not satisfied with the customer and has to give a bad review, which is related to the salary of the delivery staff, waiting for the meal to collapse and smash things is not the right behavior, you can communicate with the customer in advance or communicate well with the business, the owner in turn is also beating the delivery man is also not the right behavior, violence can not solve the problem, the two sides should communicate well and understand each other!

The takeaway service is much better than the express delivery, at least it can be delivered to the door, and the express delivery is directly thrown into the express supermarket without consent, hoping that the takeaway will not be like this. There are good and bad things about the platform being too strict, and being strict is good for customers, but the money from the fine has not been paid to the customer's account, and it has also led to excessive pressure on the delivery staff, and it is understandable that the little brother cleaned out of control and beat the owner.

This kind of thing happens a lot, it's just that this delivery guy is too composed, and it shouldn't happen.

First of all, the life of an adult is not easy! Then there is the rules of the platform, which need to be changed, which is too unreasonable.

This is also due to many reasons, the first is that the platform arranges a bit of a takeaway list. Time is too tight and not enough. The other is that the outbound speed of the restaurant is relatively slow, which causes the takeaway brother to be in a hurry to deliver the goods.

caused an emotional breakdown, smashed his storefront stuff, and then. The restaurant staff also didn't control their emotions and hit the delivery staff, so let's understand more.

It is not easy for the delivery staff to deliver food, sometimes the delivery is not satisfied with the customer and has to give a bad review, which is related to the salary of the delivery staff, waiting for the meal to collapse and smash things is not the right behavior, you can communicate with the customer in advance or communicate well with the business, the owner in turn is also beating the delivery man is also not the right behavior, violence can not solve the problem, the two sides should communicate well and understand each other!

I don't think it's the fault of the delivery staff, it's the fault of the platform, but it's not right for the delivery person to smash things like this, and it should be kind, just solve this matter after that, it's very extreme to smash things and be beaten by the owner like this, if a delivery person is so irritable, what about no one? Or should you stop doing this profession sooner rather than later?

I think both sides are responsible, the delivery man should not wait for the meal to smash things, and the owner should not beat the delivery person, both sides should control their emotions and understand and tolerate each other.

This should be a relatively common thing in ordinary life, because the delivery man is waiting for this time.

I think it's still a problem with the mechanism of the takeaway platform, the takeaway must be delivered within the specified time to get these few dollars, the restaurant has both dine-in and take-out is too busy, everyone makes so much money, and behind the contradiction is the sadness of the people at the bottom. It is also hoped that the mechanism of the takeaway platform will be reformed to reduce the burden on takeaways.

I think this society puts a lot of pressure on people, it's not easy to be born, it's not easy to live, it's not easy to live Everyone is working hard for their families and trying to make money.

The main reason is that the delivery man is for his own work, and the owner is also for his own work, all to make money, and in the end it is impossible to get along, which I think is a sign of immaturity.

The delivery man was beaten and cried by the owner when he broke down and smashed things while waiting for the meal, and the pressure on the delivery man was really great. The reason why I say this is because the time for some apps to pick up and deliver food to the takeaway brother has been reduced again and again, and it is really difficult for the takeaway brother to finish the meal without overtime! In this case, it will cause the takeaway brother to be under great psychological pressure, and he will be very anxious when waiting for the meal.

Especially when you find that the time is not enough, but the meal is still not available, the takeaway brother is easy to have an emotional breakdown. Because overtime not only means that the money for this order is gone, but also a fine will be imposed for overtime, and even the bonus will be gone. The pressure of the takeaway brother is obvious, the incident happened in Hangzhou, Zhejiang, the takeaway brother was beaten by the owner after waiting for the meal to collapse and smash things to vent, and the takeaway brother hugged his head and cried.

It's not easy, whether it's a merchant or a takeaway brother, it's actually not easy. Merchants are deducted by the APP, but in fact, the money earned can be counted on their fingers. And the takeaway brother is constantly being squeezed by the app, and he can't wait for the takeaway brother to deliver the food with flying, without considering whether the takeaway brother can do it and whether he can ensure his own safety.

It's not easy for merchants and takeaway brothers, and when this kind of thing happens, they are really holding back their anxiety to a certain extent before such a conflict breaks out. Merchants also want to deliver meals in a timely manner, and the takeaway brother also wants to deliver food without overtime, the main point is that the app has too little delivery time for the takeaway brother, and the meals are too dense in the diversion of merchants.

Psychological pressure should be relieved in a timely manner when the takeaway brother smashed things angrily, and the merchant angrily smashed the takeaway brother, both sides have psychological pressure, and it is still the psychological pressure that is accumulated. The takeaway brother must have a normal heart, relieve the pressure in his heart in a timely manner, and be calm in everything.

What's the use of smashing things when it's too late, and when it's a foregone conclusion to be punished, it's also a kind of courage to choose to accept it. In the final analysis, it is the imperfect app that will cause the takeaway brother to be under great pressure.

I have to say that the pressure on the delivery workers is very high, and every penny they earn is not easy, they are really racing against time, so we should really sympathize with the delivery workers.

The pressure on the delivery person is very high, if the attitude is not good, the complaint will be deducted money, and if it is not delivered in time, the money will also be deducted if it is complained.

The work pressure of the delivery staff is also quite high, if the delivery time is late, and you encounter a customer with a bad temper, give a bad review, it is not easy to deduct the salary of the takeaway brother, everyone understands each other.

From the above incident, it can be seen that every adult is under all kinds of invisible pressures, which may come from various pressures from society, as well as from themselves.

However, in fact, this situation can still be alleviated before it happens, whether it is a merchant or a delivery person, you can communicate with the customer first, saying that the delivery will be delayed, or you can't wait to cancel the order first.