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I'm now in my senior year, and my personal experience is not a good student in the eyes of the teacher, and I have a prominent side outside of class, so you have to dig or discover the underground.
Although your mother's point of view is a bit extreme, her intentions are good, she also wants you to cultivate your abilities, she thinks that in this way you can get a good life, and hopes that you will have a bright future.
There are many reasons for poor learning, such as wrong learning methods, lack of interest in learning, and prejudice against teachers.
When you encounter a problem, calm down, think about the reason for the problem, what the consequences will be, what options are there in the face of the problem, make a judgment, choose the best solution, the problem is solved, and naturally have the confidence to face the following test.
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Communicate more with your parents That's how I am, I tell my parents everything.
Show more of your strengths and recognize your weaknesses.
I don't know how old you are in the grade to study the classes that interest you.
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...Work hard, find a learning method that suits you, everyone will have setbacks, don't want to die at every turn, so it's even more useless, why don't you do what you should do when you're worried, or what you like to do, and change everyone's opinion of you.
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As a student, in addition to the intellectual factor, I think there are several things that must be possessed in order to become a good student:
1.Revenge with lofty ideals. Ideal is the driving force for progress, without ideals, the motivation is insufficient, and those who are not strong will will not reach the wisdom, this is the truth.
2.Cherish time, all those who have achieved in ancient and modern China and abroad must cherish time and race against time. In school, you can be quiet when you enter the room, and you can learn when you sit down. At home, you can use all the available time to read and study.
3.To have a plan, with a goal, you must also have a plan, to which time period to do every day, what to do, act according to the plan, and be strict with yourself.
4.Learn to self-study, develop a good habit of pre-studying, review the knowledge you have learned on time, and learn from the past.
5.Learning to cooperate, a person's strength is limited, and it is very important to be good at improving oneself with the help of external forces.
As a parent, if you want your child to excel, you must first do a good job of leading, goal-leading, and method-leading. The third is to do a good job of inspection and supervision. The last is to cultivate good habits, and good habits are not formed overnight, so we must be good at fighting protracted battles.
As a teacher, we also need to keep abreast of the ideological dynamics and do a good job of guidance and guidance.
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Summary. Eugenics cultivation measures.
1. Strengthen the education of the future ideal of eugenics, require each student to establish his or her own lofty ideals, and use the ideals to guide and motivate his own learning; To help eugenics establish their own goals, it is necessary to stimulate students' enthusiasm for learning through the guiding function and motivation function of goals, and to achieve the goals through the decomposition and implementation of goals. 2. Pay attention to the cultivation of learning methods, so that each student can master a set of learning methods suitable for themselves, and can learn independently after leaving teachers and going out of school. 1. Guide the preview, so that the eugenics can understand the importance of the preview.
Preview can clarify the basic knowledge in the book and complete the homework after class, so that the eugenics can clarify what is going on.
How to cultivate eugenics.
Eugenics cultivation measures.
1. Strengthen the education of the future ideal of eugenics, require each student to establish his or her own lofty ideals, and use the ideals to guide and motivate his own learning; To help eugenics establish their own goals, it is necessary to stimulate students' enthusiasm for learning through the guiding function and motivation function of goals, and to achieve the goals through the decomposition and implementation of goals. 2. Pay attention to the cultivation of learning methods, so that each student can master a set of learning methods suitable for themselves, and can learn independently after leaving teachers and going out of school. 1. Guide the preview, so that the eugenics can understand the importance of the preview.
Preview can clarify the basic knowledge in the book and complete the homework after class, so that the eugenics can clarify what is going on.
Excuse me, but please go into more detail?
Eugenics cultivation measures.
1. Strengthen the education of the future ideal of eugenics, require each student to establish his or her own lofty ideals, and use the ideals to guide and motivate his own learning; To help eugenics establish their own goals, it is necessary to stimulate students' enthusiasm for learning through the guiding function and motivation function of goals, and to achieve the goals through the decomposition and implementation of goals. 2. Pay attention to the cultivation of learning methods, so that each student can master a set of learning methods suitable for themselves, and can learn independently after leaving teachers and going out of school. 1. Guide the preview, so that the eugenics can understand the importance of the preview.
Preview can clarify the basic knowledge in the book and complete the homework after class, so that the eugenics can clarify what is going on.
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1. Meet the self-esteem and psychological needs of students with poor academic performance.
Psychology says that everyone has a need for self-esteem psychologically. Most of the poor students also have a high desire and enthusiasm for learning, but due to their interests, hobbies, improper learning methods, etc., they have temporarily failed in learning. At this time, if parents or teachers use simple and rude methods to scold, sarcastic, sarcastic, or treat students with disappointment, ignorance, discrimination, etc., it will hurt students' self-esteem.
Primary and secondary school students are not psychologically mature enough, and they are prone to go to extremes, and when their self-esteem is hurt, they often retaliate with the behavior of "breaking the jar and breaking it". Under the domination of this mentality, the more you force him to study, the more disgusted he will be, and his academic performance will get worse and worse. Therefore, it is necessary to satisfy the psychological needs of self-esteem, prevent rebellion, and pay special attention to treating them with equality, respect, trust, friendliness and care.
Poor students have poor academic performance and great psychological pressure, so they need the understanding, sympathy and care of parents and teachers, so we should have more contact and talk with poor students, make friends with them, meet their psychological needs, and form a harmonious parent-child relationship and teacher-student relationship.
2. Enable students with poor academic performance to get rid of low self-esteem and establish self-confidence.
Although many poor students look like they don't care about their academic failures, they actually have a heavy inferiority complex buried deep in their hearts. To let poor students get rid of inferiority complex and establish self-confidence, we should first explain the reason, so that they understand that poor academic performance does not mean that their intelligence must be poor, as long as they are self-confident, self-reliant, have proper methods, and work hard, they will definitely be able to catch up with the top students. Secondly, in the classroom teaching, some problems that poor students can come up to let poor students come up should be designed to praise them in time.
In this way, poor students can often experience the joy of success and continuously enhance their self-confidence. Third, open a "small stove" for poor students after class, strengthen the guidance of learning methods, preview with them before class, find out difficulties, so that they can think independently; After class, discuss problems with them and check the effectiveness of learning. Before each exam, you should analyze the key and difficult points of the textbook with the poor students, and teach them the skills of doing and answering questions.
It is also necessary to insist on "follow-up tutoring", which will enable poor students to slowly learn scientific learning methods and continuously improve their academic performance. Poor students will also get more joy and a sense of success from it, gradually get rid of low self-esteem, build self-confidence, and enhance their initiative and enthusiasm for learning.
3. Counsel the different causes of poor academic performance.
There are many reasons for students' poor academic performance, some are obsessed with the Internet, some are fascinated by watching martial arts and have no intention of learning, some are unable to concentrate on learning because of early love, and there is a lack of warmth and love in the family, etc., teachers and parents should treat them like bosom friends, on the one hand, give them full respect, understanding and trust, on the other hand, according to their different psychological characteristics, with the way they are willing to accept, "prescribe the right medicine", and carry out individual psychological guidance, Let them devote their main energy to studying, so that they can get out of the psychological misunderstanding.
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How to make a poor student become a good student? Poor students are born after repeated blows of failure, and if a poor student becomes better, let him enjoy the joy of success repeatedly, and the student will slowly become better.
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Bottom line: Do you really think grades are that important?
If the answer is "yes", it would be the sorrow of education. On reflection, do you really think that a good grade is more to be proud of than the excellent interpersonal skills you have?
I used to be a good student, not in the top 20 and in the top 50 in my grade. Let me tell you, those good students must envy your position and connections, because I was the same back then.
You listen, a successful student does not mean that you have to be able to do more questions and get good grades, but you have to learn how to become a successful person and have a skill. You say that you are very popular, I think you are not only very popular, but also have considerable social activity ability. This alone is a rare treasure when you grow up.
Those so-called "well-rounded good students" may not be able to have them in their lifetime. This is the skill that makes you superior to others, which is not comparable to academic performance, and you will know later.
As for the grades, the middle and upper grades are very good, and you can't get into Tsinghua University and Peking University, but it's okay to go to a better university, that's enough, don't force yourself too much. Besides, it's only the second year of junior high school, and you won't be able to see the real chapter until the second semester of the third year of junior high school, when all the classes are completed and all the knowledge is integrated. Especially mathematics and physics.
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Seriously, I was the same as you in junior high school, I was also of average age, sometimes I was lower, I asked for a tutor before the high school entrance examination, thinking that I could raise some points, in fact, it was really psychological comfort, and in the end I still played average and went to an ordinary high school. I'm in my second year of high school, and my junior high school is in a good school, so I feel like I'm inferior everywhere. But when I got to high school, I still studied the same way as in junior high school, and my grades went up all of a sudden.
One is because there are really a lot of people in high school who don't study, and there are family connections, and the other is that I am in general high school, and there are not many top students around me, and the pressure is small, so I have been in the top 20 of my grade. Later, at the class reunion, because of its unified examination, I asked the results of the students who were admitted to key schools, and he scored 50 points higher than me in the high school entrance examination! However, when he didn't score as well as me on several exams in high school, I knew that he was starting to be proud.
Now the grades are nothing, I study literature, and you will feel your strength when you are divided into classes in the future, and I must remind you, if you study literature in the future, you must study history well, this thing is not something that can be made up for a while, come on! The high school entrance examination is almost enough, and high school mainly relies on itself!
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You are experiencing a learning bottleneck. I tried, but I felt like it didn't work much. This is also a mistake in education, you better watch the two movies "Three Fools Make Trouble in Bolly's House" and "Stars on Earth" to understand.
Sometimes temporary failure does not mean failure, always encourage yourself, I can do it. Criticism from others does not dampen our enthusiasm. When we don't feel good, do something confident.
For today's exam-oriented education, we have to pay attention to the key points and difficulties in the textbook, understand the knowledge context of the textbook, take notes on specific knowledge points, and add practice questions. Good luck with your studies!
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I don't remember who said such a sentence, "If you want to succeed, you must imitate the behavior of successful people", that is, what successful people do, you follow it, of course, this refers to imitation in learning. Hope it helps.
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Learn to make a plan and do it exactly according to the plan, your intelligence is definitely not a problem, I think it should be a matter of time coordination, learning should be the first priority, and you know so many students who are excellent in character and learning, ask others for advice.
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In high school, then go to the liberal arts, develop in the liberal arts, firmly believe that yourself is the premise, but you must usually plan your time strictly, do not study in the club, and never work in the club when you should study. Thinking more about your own strengths is conducive to increasing your self-confidence, so that you can learn well, and then increase your self-confidence, enter a virtuous circle, and hope to help you.
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Go with the flow My brother was out every day in junior high school In the end, he wasn't admitted to high school and was admitted to college, so he faced it with a normal heart Don't put too much pressure on yourself There is no hurdle that you can't get over
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Don't worry, the more anxious you are, the more irritable you will be, although the grades have regressed, but the self-motivation is still there, which shows that there is still a lot of hope!
First, you have to believe in yourself.
Second, think about it, is it not the time that should be used is not used, it is not that it takes a long time to gain more than others, efficiency, efficiency is very important, others want to take ten hours to complete it must take eight hours to complete, and the two hours in the middle are squeezed out from the daze, slow movements, eating, and talking to others.
Third, it will be helpful to listen to the experiences of students who have studied well.
Fourth, make a study plan, what to see and memorize every day, such as Chinese, these are accumulated in this way, the time is short, you can't see it, and after a long time, you will be grateful for the previous insistence.
It's best to adjust your mentality, in fact, as long as you learn, grades are naturally a matter of course, and you must usually work and rest, so as to improve your memory. After all, everyone's daily energy is limited, and sometimes it is normal to be impetuous, so it will be fine after a while, don't worry too much.
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