Are you more troubled than happy in your marriage?

I am now a person in marriage, although there are many unsatisfactory things, but I never feel that there is more trouble than happiness. Marriage allowed me to have a child, and in front of the child, I feel that I have never been happier than ever. No matter what you need to face in your marriage, no matter how much trouble you have in front of your children, it will disappear.

In marriage, you may encounter a lot of very unsatisfactory mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships, and unconditional forbearance is not advocated, but you can choose to stay away, even if the house she lives in is still for you, even if the furniture they use is what you bought, it doesn't matter, because there is a conflict, you can rent a house with your children outside, and you can afford it. This is the happiness in marriage.

Maybe sometimes, the mortgage will overwhelm you, but you still work hard to get the child's milk powder money, this is the charm of marriage. Marriage is not a matter of two people, it is two families, but in marriage, you can not care about many places in your life, even your husband, as long as he is standing in a position where you think it is not okay, then the child is your confidence. As long as the child is doing well, the rest can not be cared about.

In marriage, there are indeed a lot of troubles, because there are too many people who want to take care of themselves, not only their husbands, but also a large group of relatives who are good for you, although I want to yell at them: If we are good, don't care! But he didn't yell at it, so he took the child away.

Marriage is about husband, children, and myself, and I never felt the need to listen to the inexplicable advice of my so-called relatives. This kind of distress also makes me feel more determined that as long as I have a strong enough ability to earn money and support myself and my children, others can do it even if they don't see each other in this life. Because children are their own happiness.

No, I feel very happy.

Today is the fifth day of my baby's birth, and from falling in love to now, I feel that my marriage with my husband is correct and happy.

My husband and I got married the year we graduated, after four years of campus love. Of course, there is a need to run in between two people, especially in a marriage like ours with a relatively large geographical gap. In fact, we are not used to the kind of life in each other's homes, and we are quite different in terms of eating habits and customs.

Even so, although there are stumbles in life, the right track is still a happy marriage.

The labor pains of giving birth were almost unbearable pains, and he was with me throughout the labor pains, which was very distressing. I went into the delivery room, and he stayed at the door, and I stayed in for hours, and he stayed in for hours. The baby was pushed out first, and he still didn't leave the delivery room until I was pushed out by my aunt.

The moment the door opened, he was alone. At that moment, I was relieved.

To be honest, I am in the painful period of feeding my baby right now, and although I know that my husband loves me very much, he can't help me bear a lot of pain, so he can only comfort me often. Because of feeding the baby, I often can't sleep well at night, so he stays with me and wants me to be there when I need help.

Many times, my husband and I have actually reached a tacit understanding, we will think more about each other, think more about each other's feelings, and because of this, although we occasionally make trouble, but when we encounter something, we will support each other and help each other.

Two people, from love to marriage, understand each other and support each other, I think this kind of marriage is undoubtedly the happiest marriage. So, we have troubles, but they are far less than happy.

There is no smooth sailing in marriage, there must be troubles and happy times, don't pay special attention, the road is step by step.

Without this feeling, it is normal to have troubles, but most of the time it is happy, although there will be conflicts over small things, but after a while, they can be reconciled.

No, because if there are difficulties, they can be solved very well, and they can also get to know each other better.

I don't think so, I feel that I am very happy in my marriage and there is nothing troubled about me.

There are many people who are happy in married life, in fact, some people feel that their married life is unsatisfactory, mostly because of high expectations, the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment, the key is to have a correct attitude.

Attitudes towards marriage do change somewhat between different age groups, and these changes are mainly influenced by factors such as socio-cultural, economic status, education, and personal values. Here are some common age groups that change in attitudes towards marriage:

Adolescence and early adolescence (10-20 years):

At this age, marriage is often not their primary concern. They are more focused on academics, hobbies, and self-exploration.

Adolescents have an idealized view of marriage and often see it as a symbol of romantic love and living together.

Middle adolescence (20-30 years):

At this age, people usually start to think seriously about marriage. He began to build a career, became financially independent, lost a lot and was looking for a stable partner.

Marriage is seen as the foundation for stability and family building. People may pay more attention to factors such as their partner's financial status, family background, and shared values.

Late adolescence and early middle age (30-40 years):

At this age, some have married and started their own families. They may be more focused on family responsibilities and their children's education.

Middle age (40-60 years):

At this age, some may be divorced or have children grown up. They may reconsider the meaning of marriage and may place more emphasis on emotional connection and shared interests with their partner.

Later life (60 years and older):

At this age, people may have different attitudes towards marriage. Some people may wish to find a partner to spend their old age with, while others may be more focused on friendship and family relationships.

For some, marriage is no longer a priority for them, but a concern for personal happiness and health.

It is important to note that the above is only a general observation and there will be great differences between individuals. Changes in marital attitudes are influenced by personal experiences and values.

Everyone's experiences and perceptions may be different.

In fact, our whole life is in the process of comparison, when we are young, we will compare with other people's children. When we get older, we will compare ourselves with our colleagues. When we get married, we compare them with the marriages of those around us.

In fact, we will find that it seems that everyone else is very happy, why is that?

When a person feels that the marriages around them are happy, in fact, it also means that their marriages are unhappy, because they will feel that others are happy. Because in these comparisons, there must be a reference, and many people will regard themselves as this reference, when we see other people's happy marriages, we will think of whether our marriage is happy or not. I think a lot of people get an answer that is not for sure, that is, they feel that their marriage is unhappy.

Because we are always contrasting, and we are always putting ourselves in a lower position.

In fact, this also shows that we are making excuses for our own lives, because our marriage is not very happy, so we will always look at how others are living. In fact, we are subconsciously trying to find a way for ourselves, if we find that other people's marriages are unhappy, then maybe we will tell ourselves that I am doing well, my marriage is still very happy. But in fact, when we think that other people's marriages, or the marriages around us, are happy, we are actually finding a way for ourselves.

It's just that we didn't get the results we wanted.

And in the process of finding out, we actually want to escape from the environment around us, that is, when we feel that someone else's marriage is relatively happy, our marriage is unhappy. At this time, we are constantly comparing ourselves to others, trying to find the reasons we can find for ourselves. When the reason in our hearts is not valid, we actually want to escape.

This is because the people around you can be happy in marriage, and they are also very beautiful in terms of feelings, so you are also very envious of the marriages around you.

This is because you can always see the happiness in other people's marriages, but you can't see the happiness in your own, so you will feel this way.

Because you don't feel their real marriage at all, in fact, it's also because what you see is only the surface.

This may be due to your subconscious yearning for marriage, which is why you feel that the marriage around you is very happy.

Everyone's marriage is different, if you find the right person, you will be happy, and if you find the wrong person, you will be unhappy, many celebrities are examples.

I think that whether the people around me are happy or not will not affect their own views on marriage, because in a marriage, we know whether we are happy or unhappy in our marriage, and we often see only the surface of marriage, and do not understand the real situation inside their marriage. <>

Sometimes we are very envious of those wealthy families, and we will feel that they marry into wealthy families, but we don't know that they have a rough life without Kai, and they will also face the phenomenon of being looked down upon by each other's parents. Although many ordinary marriages seem dull, they are very warm, so I don't think I need to look at other people's marriages, I just need to manage my own marriage. <>

I think a good marriage is the joint efforts of both parties, both of them are paying for the family, they don't care who pays more, the two of them tolerate each other, understand each other, and will stand in each other's point of view. Many people will compare in marriage, often see that the people around them are very happy, they will compare, feel that they can be like this, then they also need to be like this, will imitate them, but the situation of each family is different, we imitate Qiaosui in this way, it will only add a lot of burden to their families, so we don't need to compare in marriage, we need to adjust our mentality, as long as we live a good life, and we don't need to envy others, Your marriage can also be very happy. If you feel that your marriage is unhappy, then try to make yourself happy, think about the reasons that can make us persevere, the other party still has advantages, think about why you were with the other party in the first place, why you chose to enter marriage with him, think about your original intention, so that you have the determination to go on together, we must learn to be content, only contentment can be happy, don't go to extravagance, just need to live the life in front of you, you can make your marriage happy.

Of course it does. Because we will experience the feeling that marriage brings us through other people's marriages, and because of the changes that have occurred in other people's marriages, we will also think that our own marriages will bring us the impact of changing our beliefs.

It won't affect my opinion of marriage and brotherhood; If you want to effectively adjust your mentality, you must make yourself simpler and brighter, or devote yourself to things that interest you, participate in more social activities, or travel with friends, so as to effectively divert your attention and adjust your mentality.

No, I don't think it has anything to do with me. When encountering such a disturbing thing, money should be watched more, and a happy marriage can also watch more short **, and then adjust your mentality, you can listen to songs to divert your attention.

As we all know, people have to touch each other every day to become more and more cooperative. However, some couples, even though they are married, often do not be able to stay together because of their work. In fact, there is no special use for playing **** every day, and it is not as good as a hug.

It will also make us feel more uncomfortable than a foreign relationship, which will be a kind of discipline for the marriage, and we will be more disappointed in mutual respect.

Couples who have been separated for too long gradually get used to living alone, and over time they don't care so much about the other party. After a long time, such a love will have no follow-up, and after emotional consumption, the two people will end their marriage. A marriage that has been separated for too long is not easy to achieve happiness after all, but will make two people physically and mentally exhausted.

The most important thing between two people is that the three views are the same, and those who do not agree with the three views will often have disputes when they are in the opposition. After all, two people living together together is not a matter of one or two days, but a lifetime. After getting married, two people have different views and different personal hobbies, so there will always be contradictions.

And there is no way to reach an agreement, and there will always be endless quarrels after the death of such couples. From the beginning of love to the end of boredom, two people are tormented by each other in their daily lives. In the end, I broke up one by one, and I felt very tired when I got along.

In fact, I think the most terrible thing in a relationship is cold violence. Cold violence can make two people who love each other stranger. There are some couples who seem to cherish each other, but over time they find that they don't pay attention to the other partner at all.

If there is any problem that is not dealt with in time, the love of two people will cause a crack, and after a long time, both people will not pay attention to the other party, so that the hearts of two people will become more and more tired. Cold violence will erupt when it accumulates to a certain extent, and it will be difficult to end it again.

Many lovers who love each other have never experienced marriage and therefore do not understand what kind of situation they will face in marriage. I don't even know what kind of hardships will be encountered, so that many couples have already had a sign of divorce from the beginning of their marriage. Of course, a good married life is to make yourself feel married, to experience many happy experiences for yourself, to gradually have expectations for the daily life of marriage, and to like to be with your other half.

If you can't do this, then don't take the initiative to merge and prove that this marriage is not for you.