In the past, it was to raise children to prevent old age, why do some people now say that it is to p

In the past, it was to raise children to prevent old age, why do some people now say that it is to provide for the elderly and prevent children? With the development of society, the future pension will no longer support children and protect the elderly, but will protect social pensions. First of all, pension includes economic support and life care, in the case of slow social and economic development, the demand for pension can only fall on individuals and their families, but in fact there are great contradictions and hidden dangers.

On the one hand, for families with poor economic conditions, pension difficulties, poor health of the elderly, no income, future generations must be busy living and studying, and give good care and time to the elderly. This will cause a double loss: the elderly do not care about themselves, and their work and life are in a mess; Worse,Not all families have filial sons, and elder abuse is not uncommon

To date, socio-economic and social civilization has developed, and the responsibility of caring for the elderly will eventually be socialized and will be assumed by ** and various types of elderly care institutions. In fact, this model has been popularized in developed countries such as Europe, the United States and Japan, so China must learn from experience and find ways to provide for the elderly.

No matter what city or country it isParents in a family are struggling to raise their children, in order to raise their children, live a poor life, and pay for their children's schooling, buying a house or getting married. The efforts of parents are selfless and are all about the goal of their children's lives. They think that as long as the children are good, everything will be fine.

In the process, they completely forget about their existence and don't care who will take care of them in the future.

We are entering an era of social change that is shaking the planet, and the agrarian society is rapidly moving into the industrial society on which people dependMaterial conditions, lifestyles, family forms and possessions create an environmentHuge changes are taking place. The traditional concept of pension is no longer applicable.

I think it's not good to think that a lot of children don't support their parents anymore.

Maybe it's because the filial piety of today's children is not very satisfactory to the elderly.

Because these things are constantly summarized by people in the process of continuous development.

Net, chicken or egg first, no. It's useless to talk about it, I want to eat chickens and eggs. In the same way, raising children to prevent the elderly or to protect children is the same as diverting attention, the elderly and children can you say who you lost, the old people can't go back, so everyone doesn't have children, and the three monks have no water to drink, it's a secret that can't be said.

I think it's because everyone's concept has changed now, and then the problem of pension is getting more and more serious.

Even if it's not, you have to know that there are a lot of unfilial children now, if you are old, it will bring a lot of burden to the child, Suitanqiao, then he will be very tired. Imitation.

I don't think so, if you encounter a loss to Bu Kongdou is particularly selfish and not good to you, it will be difficult for you to live comfortably when you are old, and you will not get any financial help.

This depends on whether the children you raise are good children, and most children are still very filial anyway.

It means that people should be filial and filial, and handing over a glass of water to relatives and the elderly who are sick in bed is better than the firecrackers in front of the grave after death. The true connotation of filial piety, when the parents are alive, do more filial piety, worthy of the parenting grace, don't wait for the old man to die extravagant and wasteful, then it is meaningless.

China's traditional way of providing for the elderly is to raise children and prevent old age. When people reach the age of old age, most people's physical condition is deteriorating, and some are sick and painful, and it is difficult to take care of themselves. At this time, the elderly need to be accompanied and taken care of by their children and grandchildren, serve tea and water, take care of food and daily life, and the elderly can spend their old age in peace.

When the old man was alive, he was disgusted or disgusted. Treat the sick old man in bed as a burden, and don't want to look at it, let alone serve tea, water, feed, dress, and hygiene, as long as you don't speak ill of each other, thank God. The old man suffered from the indifference of human affection, and went to heaven with grief.

is such an unfilial son, who is lively and lively about the old man's affairs, and is not sloppy at all; Wailing at the funeral. Every year, we don't forget to burn paper for the deceased, although it is a way to remember the deceased, but this is nothing. If the relatives are alive, let them eat and drink well, and send a bowl of water when they are thirsty, then it is much better than this kind of burning more paper on the grave.

Benefits of caring for the elderly.

The care and companionship of relatives can not only alleviate the pain of the elderly psychologically, but also soothe them spiritually. Let the old man at sunset feel that he has something to rely on and something to rely on.

When the old man was alive, he was well taken care of in life, and even if he really left one day, he walked peacefully. As the descendants of the elderly, I am worthy of my heart, because I have done my best to take care of the elderly, so that the old man has no tears and no regrets, and he walks calmly and safely.

More than that. First, the cost of childbirth has increased significantly. It used to be an extra child.

The child is to add a pair of "chopsticks", but also to share more land, and now it is simply added "golden chopsticks", from milk powder, diapers, body milk, nutrition and other supplies to spend money, and then to kindergarten, trusteeship, various interest classes, tutoring, for fear that he will lag behind his peers at the starting line, so that the increasingly serious "involution" can be consumed?

Second, the work pressure has increased. The pace of work is so fast, the ridge is high, big.

996 is the norm in the city, and even your own weekends can't be guaranteed, how to take care of your children? Moreover, the child has to take maternity leave for a lifetime, and some people's careers are on the rise, so they will face the contradiction of suspension. Basically, I don't have the energy to give birth to children and take care of children, so I leave them to my parents to bring, and now I don't have the same left-behind children as we used to throw them to their parents, worrying that they will not bring them well.

Third, there is a risk of childbirth. Most of us get married after graduating from college, and the time to get married and have children is constantly delayed, especially when older women have a second child, they may face accelerated aging, high blood pressure and other grinding.

There is a saying in the capital country of China Oak, raising children to prevent old age, the reason why we have children is to wait for us to be old, someone to take care of ourselves. However, with the development of the times, people's economic level has also been greatly improved, and many people have a pension after retirement, or have accumulated enough wealth through hard work when they are young to ensure their pension life, and there is no need to rely on children to support the elderly.

Therefore, there are more and more Dink couples, who think: we don't rely on children to support the elderly, so what's the point of having children?

You must know that the cost of raising a child is too high now, and it is not easy to bring up a child, and parents have to help their children buy a car and a house, get married and have children, and even when they are old, it is difficult to have their own free time, and they have to help their children take care of their children.

The concept of raising children to prevent old age is getting weaker and weaker, and many young couples can't figure out why they want to have children.

When I was watching a variety show recently, the host of the show raised this question, I don't want to get married before I get married, and I don't want children after I get married, because I don't understand what the meaning of having children is. Spending money and having children is a very troublesome thing that will bring a lot of troubles to your life, which can be completely avoided, so you don't want to, because children disrupt your normal life.

The thoughts of this show host are naturally also the thoughts of many young couples, they don't know why they want to have children, is it just to pass on the lineage? If it is to have a child for the sake of having a child, what is the meaning of marriage?

Regarding the host's question, Xiang Huaqiang's wife Chen Lan gave this answer: When I am getting old day by day, but my youth continues in the child letter like a reed, he has grown up, so my time has not disappeared, and many people will ask where has the time gone? I saw it in children.

Xiang Tai, who is in his 60s, is the only one among the guests of the show who is ready to be a mother-in-law, and because he is older, he has experienced a lot of things, so he sees things very clearly, and people live well.

It is everyone's freedom to have children or not, but if you decide to have children, it is best for couples to make a careful decision after thinking it through, and once you become a parent, your responsibility becomes stronger.