People with high scores for help and good language expressions

Why do you say my mother will look down on you?

I don't want to argue with you, facts speak louder than words, you don't dare to marry me, how can you succeed.

I'm a little worried, is she trying to share with you?

Since you don't know what else to say about the defense, you will do everything you can to keep him. If you want us to be eloquent to help you and give you advice, it is better for you to use your eloquence to convince her. For example, if you give her some vows or something like that (most girls believe in boys' vows).

Find a way to appease her, and from the materials, it can be seen that she is very confused.

You can't help but observe what changes she has made recently, and figure out if you really want to break up with you or this problem, Some girls are very good at making appearances when they break up, wishing you luck.

Since he likes you very much, he can't leave you for such a reason, maybe something, you just have to be nice to her

I don't express it well.

Come join in the fun

We are eloquent and useful, so I will go and help you; Use your sincerity and your love to resolve the fear in his heart, often take him to your house and have more contact with your mother, so that he can feel your mother's goodness, spend more time with him, and care more about him

If it still doesn't work, something is wrong with his feelings

Do you care what my family thinks of you? I can tell you for sure, whether they oppose it or not, I will be with you forever. Haven't you ever liked me? If there is one, let me spend this limited time together.

Tell her: I love you very much, I will protect you for the rest of my life, and I will never let you be hurt!

Remember to do what you say! `)

Girls mind their boyfriend's attitude towards their mother-in-law the most. The mother-in-law is happy, and the son-in-law who has not passed the door can be turned positive.

You can take her to meet your mom and let them have a good relationship so that the girlfriend can remove this psychological shadow.

It can be seen from your narration that you like her, she likes you, and she is psychologically conflicted.

The following remarks are a summary of Bai's own experience in making friends:

Make a dog meat friend to vote into.

zhili, dao

Be wide. Make ordinary friends and vote for it.

Virtue within, tolerance and harmony.

Make close friends and treat them with sincerity and courtesy.

Finally, I would like to send you a sentence, "being able to detach and be able to merge is a great virtue." (Make friends, life, and do things according to their intentions, taste it carefully!) ）

Make close friends and treat them with sincerity and courtesy. Remember this sentence! I think that's the kind of friend you're going to make.

Looking at your plea with this supplement, I have summarized the following:

Big deal, clearly.

Say; Bai trifles, humorous du

said; zhi

In a hurry, say dao slowly;

There is no matter of holding back, say cautiously;

What didn't happen, don't answer and talk nonsense;

If you can't do it, don't talk nonsense;

You can't say anything that hurts others;

Don't say anything you hate;

Happy things, depending on the object said;

Don't say sad things when you see people;

Other people's business is said on different occasions;

Listen to what your heart has to say;

Now I will talk about what I have done;

The future, the future will be discussed.

There is a certain amount of skill in talking to you, but there are still some important points!

You need to understand what is wrong with your real DAO.

You say back to you not very.

Silent answer. --Shows that you can speak quite well.

You say that you don't think of what to do--- which means that you are more rational when you speak.

If you care about other people's interjections--- it means that you should care about other people's feelings.

Speaking in a small group isn't just about the way you speak, the technique, but also.

1.Your place in the crowd is your family background, academic background.

2.You give the impression you look like, your voice.

3.What is your role in this group, whether you are a constant caller or a being commanded.

4.Can your usual behavior stir up the atmosphere, for example, when classmates gather at the dinner table to do something together, such as a toast, go to another table to toast, say some polite words, empty words, etc.

In fact, it is an adaptability, what role do you play in a group when you adapt to it?

Depending on your question, it may be that your team and friends are more powerful and more proud. The situation should be shown to them with your abilities! The proud obey only those who are stronger than them.

Also you may be a little less confident and you need to be recognized by others.

So the advice for you is: be thick-skinned and don't think too much about the consequences. Usually do more interpersonal homework and buy the hearts of the people. If you want to open some, don't worry about some small things, and keep it in your heart and can't calm down for a long time.

Reduce the number of times you speak.

The so-called silence is golden, and rare things are more valuable.

Don't let others think you're cheap.

I used to be like this, this is a sign of lack of self-confidence, don't be afraid when you speak, say boldly and confidently if you think it's right, don't be afraid if you don't get the approval of others, overcoming difficulties is victory, and there will always be people who will appreciate you in the future!

You must be able to speak first, and first make yourself rich in language, books, life, and your own knowledge. If you don't know a few tricks, you can't tell.

That's because your influence or your image isn't recognized by others! I think you're the kind of careless person who does things! Is it not the key point of the analysis problem that is not well expressed!

In fact, you have enough words, and your speaking skills lie in speaking finely, speaking, explaining, saying everything, saying what should be said, and not saying what should be said is the most missed.

No more, thank you!

This can only say what you propose or what the topic is.

DU has nothing to build a tree.

For your own evaluation, I suggest that you don't be too straightforward, what you should answer and what you shouldn't say, and handle it yourself. Although this is a bit of a "no vomiting" feeling, it is very important in interpersonal communication.

It's up to you to interject and shift the topic of someone else's conversation, and you can pick up on their conversation and slowly pull the topic in your direction.

The skill of speaking is: think well before you speak, don't speak blindly. Also, find out the psychology of the person you are talking to, and try to get to the other person's heart.

This is the reason why you have no enthusiasm and confidence in your work, since you work, the purpose is to go to a higher place, how can you go to a higher place, of course, let the comrades or everyone recognize you first, right, in the words handed down by the ancestors: the hidden dragon does not use, the meaning of your situation is that you do not occupy people, when talking about the sky, it means that you are not mature enough, the time is not at this time, talking about the location is to say that you are not even good at interpersonal relationships, let alone status, so you first do a good job, how can you be a good person, It means to do a good job in interpersonal relations, when speaking, don't speak out, listen to other people's opinions, which means listening, I send you 2 words to give and ask, and the meaning of the house is that they say that you give up and ask after thinking, and remember why the good place is not good, of course, it is not enough for you to come out in this way, you have to rely on interpersonal relationships, and then other people's opinions you think whose opinions are often taken, you also think you can, you applaud and stand up and say that you agree, and praise the other party for saying good, don't say superfluous words, After a long time, the other party may pay attention to you, and when the time is ripe, say what you have carefully thought, and maybe the person you have praised will agree with you. By then you have already taken possession of people.

You can remember that if you continue to answer boldly, it will cause problems, such as others don't care about you, let alone the boss, establish a foundation for yourself in the company first, don't talk nonsense, go to a high place if you are just bold Isn't this just a big head, what kind of climate can it become, remember oh don't be in a hurry.

The main point of the speech is "leading" and "synchronizing".

You are talking to someone, and the purpose of your speech is to make him understand what you are trying to say, so you have to lead his mind and synchronize it with the thought you are expressing.

It's not a matter of interjecting stupid, it's that you don't have enough self-confidence.

Be confident, you're the best.

The Magnum trilogy says, asks, speaks. After that, make a self-statement again, then throw an open-ended question, and then self-statement.

It doesn't matter how you say it, the most important thing is the attitude or something, in a more relaxed atmosphere and a more relaxed opening, don't offend people with a black face at the beginning.

To pay back what you owe is not to offend people.

You can ask him directly, but don't ask for it when there is someone around.

As for the rhetoric, it's very simple, straight to the point: xx, you borrowed 1,000 yuan from me a few years ago, but because you were too busy, I was embarrassed to tell you. Now I need this money for something, if it is convenient for you lately, can you give me back this money?

In this way, he not only gave his friend face, but also expressed his own meaning.

If he really treats you as a friend, he won't forget it. If you really don't pay it back, you can only resort to law (with evidence), or forget it.

Find someone who has a good relationship between the two of you as a foreshadowing. Than so, people are called "Xiao Zhang".

You met your friends. You say, "I'm here to apologize to you today." I'm sorry.

Your friend must be amazed: What is it?

You say, "Xiao Zhang, the day before yesterday, he told me that he mentioned to you the 1,000 yuan a few years ago on my behalf." Oh, you say, who will give it to whom! He also said, what year-end bonus did you give out recently? I'm sorry.

Of course, after the matter is successful, you must explain your "white lie" to Xiao Zhang.

I've had a similar situation.

You can deliberately put him on one merit.

Zoom in, praise him.

When he's very happy, you can smile at him.

If you can give me my money back.

I will love you even more.

It works, so try it.

Make an appointment with him first.

Then chat together. Slowly get into the topic.

Ask him: I seem to have lent you 1,000 yuan six or seven years ago?

When will I return me, I will invite you to dinner!

You're going to have to ask questions like this that are in his interest.

If he doesn't admit it, then the landlord you have to come to something hard and reminisce about the past. But keep it simple and don't be too wordy.

If you are afraid of offending him, you are very wrong. Since you are good friends, if you get angry easily when you talk about such topics, then he is not worthy of being friends.

Just like what you just said, he is not afraid of offending you when he borrows your money, what are you afraid of! People really have to learn to let go.

Alas. World.

Ask him to borrow money, and if he doesn't, ask him to pay it back.

If he borrows, you don't pay it back, and if he asks, you say he still borrowed money from you and hasn't paid it back.

If he doesn't ask, you don't have to pay attention. Ha ha.

It's not your fault, is it?

Say that you have something, and borrow money from him, and when he asks you for money, you say that he still owes you money, and he will remember, and some people he doesn't remember but doesn't want to think about it, and doesn't want to pay it back, go and see what he says, good luck.

You can tell him directly, dear New Year, the landlord's family has no surplus grain, and the 1,000 oceans should be returned. When you say it, the tone is hippie and teasing, and the embarrassing things are not so embarrassing, I think generally people with skin and face will blush.

Six or seven years ago? Why did you go earlier? I suggest that you still treat this money as if it were for him, how to say it after so long is not a problem, in case he dies and does not admit it, or insists that he will pay it back, what will you do? Let's just lose the money.

You just tell her directly, you urgently need money to call him back, it's good if you don't have people, you can't say it, you can't do it.

1. Go to him with an IOU

Second, find someone who is more familiar with you, and when you are with the three of you who owe you money, start with other topics, and then slowly move on to the topic of economy, and then talk about the topic of borrowing money between others and not paying it back, if he still doesn't remember or is cheeky and doesn't take the initiative to say it, just tell the story of you borrowed money from a friend in a joking tone (that is, the story of this friend's borrowing money, be sure to tell the details). If he is still indifferent, your money will be wasted, just pay the tuition, and you will have to show your eyes to see people in the future!

Many people encounter this problem, it is possible that the money will not come back, or only a small part of it, friends come to find face, and if they don't take it, there is no favor, which is really nerve-wracking.

I encounter this kind of thing is to see how this person is, if he forgets I will knock on the side to remind him, if he deliberately does not pay it back, I will pick out and say, saying that I should give it to you, you are not easy, friends should help you. I'd only lose a fraction of my money, and he'd feel like I'm losing it.

Don't make yourself uncomfortable, just donate.

I also asked him to borrow money to see what he said.

There is no shortage of this money, forget it! It doesn't matter if six or seven years have passed! If he has a good heart, he can say it directly! Don't worry! It can also be because he may have dropped on purpose!