I don t have a job, I take it at home for a long time, and I don t go out

It does not mean that everyone can have academic qualifications and work ability when they just come out to work, these are mainly cultivated and exercised slowly in the process of work.

In fact, it is almost impossible to have a job that has just joined the job and wants to have an easy and well-paid job, and I am afraid that few people can have such opportunities and backgrounds.

If you can't endure hardship yourself, then don't suffer now, just wait to suffer when everyone else is enjoying happiness, there are some things we don't do at this time, there will always be time to do it. It is impossible for our parents to support us for a lifetime, everything has to be exercised slowly. Since we are still young, what about enduring a little hardship, not only exercising our bodies, but also honing our will, wouldn't it be a matter of killing two birds with one stone, plus we can also get some rewards from the process of enduring hardships, then it is even more difficult to kill three birds with one stone.

Why don't we do such a thing? You tell me?

People will always fall into confusion at a certain time, this is normal, now the pressure of social life is very high, and the social atmosphere is not very good, then we just come out of work naturally have to be strict with ourselves, lower our living standards first, and slowly work hard to change this state, so that we can have a way out, in order to live their own life.

Stay at home,I'm afraid it's not a good thing,Even if you buy lottery tickets, you have to go to the place where the lottery ticket is sold,I hope you can get out of the confusion as soon as possible,Face your life,For yourself and for your family, make yourself tougher.

It's similar to you, but I'm worse than you. I'm in Beijing, so there is no shortage of job opportunities, but there are too many people and the elimination rate is too high.

It's not that I don't want to work, but I've been to a lot of companies for interviews, big ones for mobile, and companies for small residential areas. It was brushed off for various reasons. It's been a long time since I graduated from my bachelor's degree.

Find, keep looking. There will be a way out.

I'm like you, I've been at home for 7 months, and I'm planning to find a job right away, otherwise people will be lazy once they play for a long time, I hope you can figure it out.

1.**, the monthly salary of opening an online store depends on the products you sell (clothes, mobile phones, etc., the monthly salary is higher), provided that you have a higher credibility. 2. R&D, you can develop at home (such as software, games, machinery, etc.), and then use various ways (such as display, online uploading, etc.), you can sign a contract and finally apply for a patent by the company or business, etc., and get a lot of income.

3. Creation, create your own articles (such as prose, **, etc.) at home, and then review and publish them in the original literature association. 4. Manual, take some parts (such as stickers, wear chains, etc.) in the factory, and then work at home, and deliver them to the manufacturer after finishing to get the corresponding remuneration.

How would a person feel if he didn't go to work for a long time and didn't have financial pressure to stay at home?

What is home? Home is a warm haven, and home is a place to relax yourself. After a day of working outside the home, you can let go of your burden, unload your burden, do whatever you want, be free, and enjoy another happy life.

This is the definition and feeling of home for people who work outside, and the intimacy of home is the opposite of the busyness of work.

But if you don't go to work, what does it feel like to stay at home for a long time, or is it not a warm haven and a free space?

According to the survey, 99% of housewives or housemen are disgusted and disgusted at home. Because they feel that they are staying at home, their lives are monotonous, their thoughts are simple, their actions are lazy, their reactions are sluggish, and even their IQ has dropped. The performance is out of touch with society, outdated, and unable to keep up with the situation.

Why do they live a life that workers envy, but they don't experience happiness?

The warmth of life is in contrast to the busy work.

There is a saying in China: without bitterness, there is no sweetness. That's why housewives and housemen don't experience a happy life.

Because they have no comparison, no contrast, and relax at home every day, even if there is no economic pressure, they will not experience happiness. Their monotonous life, only lonely and boring. If there is no pressure in life, there will be no motivation, no goal, and no meaning of hard work.

Even if you fall into the honey pot, you can't feel sweet, and no matter how delicious it is, it will taste greasy if you eat too much.

At home for a long time, IQ declines with loneliness.

Darwin's theory of evolution shows that human intelligence also improves when it is used, and degenerates if it is not used. Staying at home, there is no pressure to work, no motivation to fight, no clear goals. Every day's life is the same, eating, sleeping, tidying up the housework, simple and repetitive, not touching new things, not paying attention to changes in the outside world, not thinking about the future and future, the brain will also calm down, slow down, no need to remember, no need to think, no need to use the brain, let alone learning and progress.

Brain cells are then dormant and slow to renew. A warm family may release narcotics, and IQ will be dangerous.

Staying at home also has a home-based work status.

If a person does not go to work, it is also necessary to overcome the constraints and paralysis of the home. Home is the easiest place for people to lose their fighting spirit and let their guard down, but danger is slowly eating away at them. Therefore, there should be a regular life at home, and there should also be a work state.

Keep a quiet heart with a beating dream. At home, you should also have requirements for yourself, have arrangements, and have goals, mobilize your spirit, mobilize your thoughts, and work hard and struggle around a family goal.

A warm home is our dream, but we must not dream at home all the time, let home become the base for us to realize our dreams. No matter where we are, we have to fight for our dreams.

If you don't go to work for a long time, you will really be decadent at home, you will feel isolated from the world, and you will be derailed from society and your heart will become very inferior.

If you don't go to work for a long time, if you are at home every day, you will feel very lost, and you will feel flustered, and finally you will feel numb.

I was unemployed at home for 1 month, I felt like I was going crazy, I was nagged by my parents every day, and I was very idle, I couldn't sleep during the day, and I was so excited that I flew up at night.

Summary. What to do if your parents don't let you go out to work1 7 First of all, you must find a way to convince your parents, after all, work is what you love, your parents are your favorite, and between love and love, you must try to find a balance, so that your parents can see your hard work and let your parents know that they like this job very much. 2 7 Invite relatives and friends around you to help persuade your parents, sometimes there is still a sense of distance between children and parents, or some words are not spoken at all, at this time, you can ask relatives and friends around you to help, of course, relatives and friends trusted by parents, are people they recognize.

3 7 Take good care of yourself outside and make yourself in a better state. Sometimes when you go out to work, your parents are worried about yourself, and you are afraid that it is not easy to be alone outside, or you will be hurt, so you must learn to take care of yourself and let your parents rest assured. 4 7 Make an agreement with your parents that if you take care of yourself and make achievements, you will be allowed to go out to work.

What to do if your parents don't let you go out to work1 7 First of all, you must find a way to convince your parents, after all, work is what you love, your parents are your favorite, and between love and love, you must try to find a balance, so that your parents can see your hard work and let your parents know that they like this job very much. 2 7 Invite relatives and friends around you to help persuade your parents, sometimes there is still a sense of distance between children and parents, or some words are not spoken at all, at this time, you can ask relatives and friends around you to help, of course, relatives and friends trusted by parents, are people they recognize. 3 7 Take good care of yourself when you are outside, and make yourself in a better state.

Sometimes when I go out to work, my parents are worried about myself, and I am afraid that it is not easy for me to be outside alone, or I will be hurt by lack of rubber, so I must learn to take care of myself and let my parents rest assured. 4 7 Make an agreement with your parents that if you take care of yourself quietly and make achievements, you will be allowed to go out to work.

5 7 Find a boyfriend in a foreign place, and be a reliable person, so that your parents can rest assured. A reliable boyfriend will make parents feel a lot more secure, and will also allow themselves to be well taken care of. 6 7 Follow the advice of your parents and find a job in the local army instead of working in other places.

Let your parents rest assured that you have to play more love, why not? In fact, sometimes the job is not necessarily good in the field, and you can also find a suitable job in the local area. 7 7 No matter what, don't let your parents worry and be sad, work is important, but filial piety to your parents is equally important, whether you choose to work in the local area or choose to work in the field, you must be filial to your parents who are self-examining and enlightening, and don't let them worry.

Summary. Hello! We're glad to answer your questions! ~<

Dear, I don't want to go out, I don't want to go to work, I just want to be at home, and the problem you said is caused by very obvious mental and psychological factors such as anxiety and depression.

I don't want to go out, I don't want to go to work, I just want to

Hello! We're glad to answer your questions! ~<

Dear, I don't want to go out, I don't want to go to work, I just want to be at home, and the problem you said is caused by very obvious mental and psychological factors such as anxiety and depression.

Hello! We're glad to answer your questions! ~<

Dear, many people grow up in the process of growing up, they live in an environment where there is no love at home and their parents often quarrel. Whenever they achieved good results, they were eager for their parents to give them encouragement, but every time they got a blow from their parents. Children who grow up in such an environment will suffer a great blow to their self-confidence, and there will be some inferiority complex in their personality, and what is even more annoying is that due to the long-term blow by their parents, they are not cared for by their parents, and every time they communicate with others or get along with others, this will make them feel very uncomfortable.

Psychoanalysis: Hello subject, I will give you a big warm hug first

Your question is seen, through the text can feel the subject's current state, at the same time, the subject is actually very aware of himself, indicating that it is a good start, the following to the subject for reference:

1. About staying at home.

I don't want to work, I don't want to go out, I don't want to work and socialize, in fact, this is also a kind of closed performance of the subject paralyzing himself and escaping reality, for example, the subject mentioned that he likes his current job, but he doesn't get along well with his colleagues, so he resigned. But after resigning, the subject is worried about looking for a job again, what to do if the colleague is not good, and then because he is actually satisfied with the previous job, so the future work may feel inappropriate, and then that's it.

After a long time, or if it is delayed again and again, in fact, staying at home will also form a habit, so it will become more and more reluctant to go out to work, etc.

As for whether the subject is depressed, it is recommended that the subject can go to a regular hospital for consultation, but it is not recommended to easily make conclusions and label himself.

2. About parents.

After all, at the age of 26, we are already adults, in fact, there are many things, we need to be responsible for ourselves, after all, our parents are already old, not to say that it doesn't mean that we don't love you, things like this, in the end, we still have to rely on ourselves to come out, others can't help too much, or in the face of you at the moment, parents really don't know how to help you, so we still have to solve our own things, understand more about our family.

3. About the future.

At present, it seems that the subject is willing to return to the normal life of the past, if the subject feels that he still wants to do his previous job, it is recommended to inquire whether there is still a shortage of people, if the lack of the topic can be passed, and then go to work. As for the problem of interpersonal relationships, the subject does not need to worry too much, we just need to learn to separate the topics, work is a matter of work, and colleagues are a matter of colleagues. If there is an inevitable intersection between them, we slowly try to accept a current state, and we don't have to deliberately, just communicate normally, and do our part of the work normally.

In addition, there are actually methods for social relationships, and the subject can also take a look at this book, or there are online and offline courses that can also be learned, which may be helpful to the subject in the future. After all, we are in this society, and we will inevitably deal with people, and we must face up to and accept this practical problem.

Then there is the question of marriage, this or pants are actually people's usual clothes, if there is one, we should not exclude, face it head-on, don't feel that marriage must be abandoned. If something doesn't happen, let's not assume it too much.

Life is like a practice, we will meet all kinds of people, we will meet all kinds of things, and we will always grow through continuous experiences. In fact, there is a lot of beauty in life, go out and walk more, even the small flowers and grass around you are alive. I'm sure you'll do better.

I hope the above can inspire and harvest the subject

Looking forward to meeting a better you, the world loves you with us