What mistakes have you made so far? What happens to you if you make a mistake?

The most unforgivable thing I did was when I was a child. Because when I was a kid and went to the 23rd grade of elementary school, I was supposed to be in the second grade. At that time, we still burned firewood at home, and then the firewood stacks were placed on the construction site next door to our house.

Little boy, when he was a child, he was more naughty, lit firecrackers, and when he lit firecrackers, wasn't he the match? Lighting a match and burning the pile. Because there's that kind of plastic on the rainbow, and if you use the plastic film, and if you put the lighter on it, it will keep dripping, and that job will keep dripping, and the water will keep dripping, and it will be fun.

But when I got up in the morning, the fire couldn't be extinguished, so I said that it was quite a lot, and then there was smoke everywhere in the house, and everyone in the village knew about it. That's the same, the family beat me up. It's too much to think about now, and I won't forgive myself.

Or was he too naughty when he was a child. That thing was small, but fortunately it was burning at the time, and it was burning, and I didn't think about it so much before, and there was no fire or anything. It would be a shame to put it now.

This is something I've always remembered.

I'm a college student, and then I joined a club at the university, and that club needs to be on duty one day a week, and then, that day was supposed to be on duty, and I lied that I had something to do, and then I asked for leave and wouldn't be on duty. I think that's the biggest mistake I've ever made. Then I thought that no one was on duty in the office that day, and no one was there when someone went to the room.

Leads to a missed opportunity for others to donate materially. I was very ashamed of that.

I remember that we had to wait for a unit called the Highway Management Office, and the staff in it would receive a large number of cash checks every day, which had to be filled in the bill and the amount in capital, and they were too lazy to fill it out, so they put an envelope in a cash pocket and transported it to the bank for our teller to fill out. That day, I didn't know that my brain was broken, and I threw an envelope containing more than 50 cash checks.

I have had a good relationship with my grandmother since I was a child, and I almost grew up in my grandmother's house. Less is more, no less to make the old man angry. When I first started working and had a little income, I planned to take my grandmother to the aquarium, but when I calculated the total cost, the cost was roughly equivalent to a month's salary of mine.

I thought I'd wait a while to go again, and wait for more money in my hand. But the son wants to be filial and his relatives are not there, treat our relatives and friends well, and many opportunities are fleeting, leaving no regrets.

I will. The journey of life is high and wide, and the end of the world is far away; And we are always easy to get lost, so that we make wrong choices, but no matter what kind of mistakes, as long as we have the courage to bear and correct, it is not too bad. Buddhism has clouds:

The bitter sea is boundless, and the shore is turned back. "No matter how far we go or how wrong we are, as long as we are willing to turn back, there will always be a better way out.

To err is human; Moreover, making mistakes is indispensable for a long life; Life needs to make mistakes, because there are mistakes, will be self-introspective, self-awakening, self-realization; So as to be better treated with life. Don't doubt your ability to fight early because of a momentary mistake, and don't deny other people's lives because of a momentary mistake, people live a lifetime, not because of a mistake can be changed. Don't be easily discouraged and compromised, because all the mistakes today are indispensable tests in life, and they are also for a more exciting tomorrow for Lu Mo.

Life in the world is always half good and bad, right and wrong; There is no need to be sad about some things and mistakes, and there is no need to panic when some roads and mistakes are taken. The journey of life is long, there will always be some ups and downs on the road, and there will always be some mistakes and regrets. We should be glad that on the journey ahead, every mistake is another growth in life, and we can only find our own right direction by constantly exploring and making mistakes.

I always make a lot of mistakes, and I think I will, but when I start doing things, I mess up, and it's wrong, and I forgot what I wanted to do at the beginning.

I am obviously very white, what to do and what not to do, but let myself do it, I don't understand, I mess up the proportions, I make one mistake after another, I am a little speechless to myself, a little disappointed, and I no longer expect too much from myself.

Do things by yourself, and when others say a word, they are in a hurry and don't know what to do.

When I teach others to do it, I am well organized, I have not been messed up, I am a leader, and people know that I am a person who can't do things.

All kinds of things, I am very helpless, I can't, what I say, what I think is the same as what I do. Hurt yourself to do things, just like a child, originally their minds are very mature, will do, do well, do decently, do not let people say that they can't do well, no measure, no priority, no matter the urgency of the matter, and know whether it is serious or not, just can't do it, not to develop in the direction of ignorance, so that they don't understand anything, they can't do anything.

I'm very distressed, is it true that I can't do it? Or is there any reason why I can't do it, it's that I was too nervous at the time, and when I was nervous, I forgot about it, so I messed up, and I didn't have anything in my head, ink. I feel very sad that my words and deeds are inconsistent, my actions can't keep up with my thoughts, and I don't be bold enough.

What the hell is wrong with me, and why is this happening?

You should do things with your own thoughts, be bold, be bold, don't let yourself do mistakes frequently, an older person, do things not reliably, do mistakes and be reckless, do things not skillfully, can you be steady, do things as mature and sophisticated as your own thoughts.

I remember when I first arrived at my new position, my boss's boss and I had a one-on-one interview.

He asked me a question that I hadn't thought of at the time.

That is, what is the worst mistake you have ever made?

Then he said, don't be afraid to make mistakes.

I understood that his intention was to encourage me to let it go.

I agree with this attitude towards making mistakes.

Therefore, I also made my position clear to my subordinates. It doesn't matter if you make a mistake, you just pay the tuition at that time. But learn from it and don't make the same mistakes over and over again.

Some people are afraid because they are afraid of making mistakes. And the reason why I am afraid of making mistakes is because I am afraid of ruining my image.

This is typical of expressive thinking. Think that your performance is a reflection of your own level. So, don't do it if you're not sure. In doing so, Yahweh missed many opportunities.

The opposite is a growth mindset.

People with a growth mindset don't take their current performance so seriously. Because, they believe that competence is dynamic and can be improved. Every mistake made is a great opportunity for growth and a ladder of progress.

Therefore, the important thing is not how to sail now, but what can become in the future.

Obviously, a growth mindset is more conducive to individual development.

There are also some people who, once they make a mistake, are prone to self-blame and chagrin. Such emotions do not help. Mr. Chen Haixian once mentioned a way to crack the problem - make a plan to make mistakes.

Mistake planning refers to how many mistakes you are asked to make in a given time. Sounds anomalous. But it works. Because, once you really make a mistake, the mistake will come according to the plan, so there is no need to blame yourself ......

To sum it up. It's not terrible to make mistakes. In fact, making mistakes can be a fast track to progress. A growth mindset and a plan to make mistakes can help eliminate the bad emotions of making mistakes.

May there be no mistakes made in vain in life, and every mistake will be exchanged for progress.