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Round 1: Self-Presentation.

We think. Be honest. Can't lie.

Where a white lie lies, lies are at all. Since it is a lie, it is malicious. There is no distinction between white lies and malicious lies.

Because where a white lie lies, it is a deception. It's lying. If once the lie is exposed.

The consequence is to put a lot of pressure on the victims. Make the victim think they have been deceived. There is an infinite amount of anger.

There is a chance that the victim will act excessively because of this anger. So. I think.

There can be no lies in life. Even a white lie.

Everyone knows the story of "Here Comes the Wolf". It's a story about a child who lied and was eaten by a wolf. So.

If the kid hadn't lied at the time. It will not lead to the consequence of the common destruction of man and sheep. This story teaches us to be honest in everything we do.

Can't lie. Failure to do so will lead to serious consequences. Even at the cost of their lives.

Second round: independent debate.

I would like to ask. If a doctor deceives a dying person. And the patient who was deceived knew about it. He knows. His family and his doctors are deceiving themselves. Does he still have the courage to live?

If it's you. Scammed. What would you think in your heart? Do you want to tell a white lie?

Suppose your father. Mother. Brother. Brother. Sister. Younger sister. And so on and so on and so Would you think it's all well-intentioned?

Round 3: Summarizing the debate.

Our point of view is that integrity is the foundation of life. It is said in the Analects:

The people do not stand without faith. "This means that if the people on one side have no trust in the authorities. Then the country loses the foundation of its existence.

We are warned to be honest. Whether it's a white lie or a malicious lie, it's a lie. A lie is a lie.

Deceiving others will never end well. Again, it is declared: "The people cannot stand without faith!" ”

There is a serious logical error in the three arguments of the positive side to directly argue the harm of "excuses". At the same time, I found that the opponent's defense friend had logical errors in many places, and I will not list them all here.

We asked the other party to cite examples, but the other party said that there were many examples, and still did not cite a single example.

White lies are well known to everyone, and they are not a new concept, so why should they be defined?

The three arguments of the positive side repeatedly emphasized that the white lie was chronic poisoning and hidden, but it did not conduct rigorous argumentation or cite an example, but directly drew conclusions, and we cannot agree.

May I ask the opponent's defense friend, how does a white lie undermine integrity?

Counter]: The example of the opposing party's defense friend, lovers in love promise each other never to change their hearts, but later break up, this is not a white lie, but a malicious lie. It is a deception of the other party's feelings, and it cannot prove that a malicious lie is deceptive.

Counter]: Deception is certainly a lie, and a lie is not necessarily deception.

There are two kinds of lies: malicious and benign. Lying is an instinct of human beings, and as for whether it is honest or not, the key lies in what kind of lie it is. Then a malicious lie can of course be said to be deception, and a malicious lie is an act of seeking benefits for the liar, taking others as targets with a strong desire for profit and weak rationality, and not hesitating to harm others, which is a kind of behavior that harms others and benefits.

No matter how disguised a person is, no matter how he uses his rhetoric, how he racks his brains to put a white hat on his malicious lies, the lies he tells are all malicious and purposeful. But this is not the case with white lies, which are motivated by good intentions and have the purpose and purpose of defending the interests of others. The nature of a white lie itself determines that it is not malicious, but is based on the sincerity and goodness of the heart, and the lie that the person who is kind in itself is "forced" to tell in a certain state is good, and this lie is a kind of friendliness and a kind of concern for the subject.

This kind of lie is also a way of dealing with the world, a manifestation of the quality of thinking for others, and it is obvious that a white lie does not hinder integrity. A world without lies, like an earth without dust, does not exist, and the key is how we use it. White lies do not hinder integrity.

A lie is to make up a story, to make up a story is to deceive people, to deceive people is not to be honest, not to be honest is not to keep promises, if you don't keep your promises, others will not believe you, if you don't believe you, others will stay away from you, and you will never find friends after you are far away.

Integrity is paramount. Whether it's a white lie or an ordinary lie, it shouldn't come up all the time. Once a white lie is discovered, sometimes not only will it not get the result you want, but on the contrary, it will hurt the hearts of others.

And ordinary lies are even more unacceptable. That will make you lose the trust of others, and they will think that you are a dishonest person and will never tell you again. Gradually, people will turn away from you, and every word you say is untrue.

A lie is to make up a story, to make up a story is to deceive people, to deceive people is not to be honest, not to be honest is not to keep promises, if you do not keep promises, others will not believe you, if you do not believe in you, others will stay away from you, and after you are far away, you will never find friends again.

Suffer outside, don't let your parents know, and try to be the best version of yourself.

I'm going to use it too, and that's what I just put together.

Hope it helps! Thank you!

A white lie is a lie in itself. Lying, lying is deception, deception is immoral, immoral things are unpopular. But when we add a "good intention" to a lie, it seems that everyone may accept that a lie is a lie, and if the whole society tells these white lies, then don't we live in a hypocritical world?

There is a person who is terminally ill, in order to let him spend the rest of his life peacefully, relatives and friends unanimously hide him, there is no malice in this, and there is no selfish interest, but then the patient knows about it, and his heart is painful, and he is unwilling to cooperate**. The patient has the right to know everything, let him know everything, respect him, and let him make his own decisions, why not?

Both a lie? Where's the kindness?! That is, goodwill! Why lie?!

If you are trustworthy, you will be trustworthy, you will be trustworthy, you will be trustworthy, you will be successful, and if you are trustworthy, the Chinese nation will be eternal.

When a person loses his integrity, is his starting point still good?

Anyone who uses an excuse wants to use it to protect themselves or others. Help us save face so that we can endure setbacks.

Isn't this self-deception? Most excuses are destructive. Unconsciously use excuses, even if you don't fool others, you fool yourself. So I ask the other party to recognize, more integrity, less excuses!

We must reject lies and insist on integrity.

If you refuse at the beginning, you won't be in the embarrassing situation later.

On that day, as soon as I got out of school, my mother came to greet me, and I recognized my mother at a glance as she walked in a sea of people. I threw myself into my mother's arms and said proudly, "Mom, today's math teacher praised me and said that I have improved, and at the parent-teacher meeting, the teacher will definitely mention me and say that I have improved."

My mother looked at me with confidence and said, "Oh, yes, yes, then I have to listen carefully to what the teacher says." With that, my mother walked into the school and waved me home.

Along the way, I kept wondering what the teacher would say about me. Will she really praise me? Could the teacher not have mentioned me at all? I returned home with a nervous heart, eagerly waiting for my mother to come home.

Tick, tick, tick, tick" time is ticking. I sat in a chair and did my homework, but my heart had already flown to the class of the parent-teacher conference.

"The door is open!" Mom finally came back, and it was 6 o'clock in the afternoon. Without waiting for my mother to change her clothes, I couldn't wait to ask my mother:

Mom, how's it going? Did the teacher praise me? Mom looked at my expectant eyes, smiled slightly, and said happily

Of course I praised it. The teacher said that you have made progress in your studies, but you don't like to speak much in class, and it would be better if you spoke actively in class. When I heard this, it was sweeter than honey, and I couldn't have been happier!

Since then, I have been actively speaking in math class, and my math grades have improved a lot over the course of a semester. During class, the teacher often praised me. As a result, I became more interested in learning mathematics.

One semester later, when I was in the fifth grade, my mother suddenly asked me, "Why do you dare to speak in math class, but never raise your hand to speak in Chinese class?" "I said to my mother

My teacher praised me in a parent-teacher conference in Year 4 and gave me the confidence to speak actively. My mother was puzzled and asked, "Which time?"

Did I lie to you that the teacher praised you for that parent ......Oh......Not ......That ......"What? Lie to me? Mom actually lied to me and said that the teacher praised me!

That means the teacher didn't praise me at all! I was taken aback, and my mother hurriedly comforted me and said, "Well......."Kiki, in fact, the teacher did not praise you and say that you improved, but said that you were not active in speaking and did not participate in the class.

Mom just didn't want you to lose interest in math because the teacher didn't praise you, so she lied to you. I'm sorry! Mom didn't mean to lie to you....At this time, I really wanted to cry, and after listening to my mother's words, my tears could no longer be controlled, and they poured out all at once, and I threw myself into my mother's arms and cried ......

Honesty is seeking truth from facts, and lies negate facts! Based on the facts, both good and evil are false! Moreover, the result of good intentions is not necessarily the result of good intentions.

And the result is the bastard of lies! Although it is good, it cannot be denied its evil! It is quite right for the doctor to be silent and tell the truth to the patient and his family!

In the spirit of the Fa, the right to know cannot be deprived of "good intentions"!

First of all, a white lie is also a kind of lie, just like a benign malignant tumor in a human disease, no matter how different the results of the disease are, it is a disease and is harmful to human health. The same is true of white lies, although they can be accepted by people emotionally, and even white lies have good intentions, but they still belong to the substantive behavior that violates rational morality, that is, lying (pathology), so no matter what the purpose and result of a white lie is, it is an indisputable fact that it violates the principle of good faith.

When we look at things, we often add a very strong emotional color, which is the emotional stuff of human emotion. Although we know that well-intentioned deception is also deception, we always feel that the original intention is good, and the deceived person will not feel ashamed or even feel a little noble, and the deceived person will not feel indignant and condemn the deceiver even if he knows that it is deception, because of the loss of face and the goodwill of the deceiver's purpose. But that doesn't change the nature of the deception itself.

From a rational point of view, deception is a departure from good faith.

There are many white lies in everyday life, such as:

The people in charge of personnel management, when laying off employees, will find some excuses that do not damage the other party, and will not directly point out the defects and deficiencies of the other party, they will generally say: "You work very hard, the company is very recognized, but the company is more difficult now, so I have to endure the pain and so on" high-sounding words. There is no doubt that this is a kind of white lie.

But we can clearly see that this is also deception, and it does not help the employee to correct his shortcomings and do a better job.

We (the positive side) believe that a white lie hinders integrity, because since good intentions must have a good starting point and the purpose is to help others, then there is no need to lie, you can tell him the truth, which may not have as good an effect as a white lie, but at least let him have the right to know the truth and the ability to accept the cruel reality. After all, everyone who wants to understand a certain event must come for the truth, and a white lie cannot be equated with the truth, if you tell him something that does not match the facts, he may believe it the first time, but after a long time, you will lose your trust in him. Just as all lies are added with good intentions, and malicious lies are also under the banner of good intentions, won't the world be chaotic?

Mark Twain once said, "When you can't make up your mind, tell the truth." It will make your opponents feel embarrassed and your friends feel relieved. Therefore, the opinion of psychology experts is: do not lie easily, even if it is a white lie.

Now listen to the story "The Last Leaf": a girl who has pneumonia and thinks she is like the last leaf to fall from a tree outside her hospital room, and when it falls, she will die. An unknown painter, in order to save her life, made a leaf on that tree on a stormy night.

As a result, the girl survived, but he himself died of pneumonia due to cold. This painter lost his own life and saved the life of a young girl, his spirit is certainly precious, but have you ever thought that everyone's life is precious, we should not take it lightly, so this painter's intentions are worth learning from, but we should also think rationally about the consequences before doing it. You may think you're selfish, but who doesn't have a selfish heart?

If you were to find me a man who had no selfish intentions, I am afraid that it would be impossible to find a great living man except God, the King of all things and the purest heart in the world. Here, I would like to ask the opposing debater a question: why do you insist that white lies do not hinder good faith when the word "lie" is added to the white lies?

It is not a well-meaning "comforting word".

Change it yourself!