Why do some people like it but don t confess it in love?

When we face relationship problems, we will behave differently for different reasons. Some people think that if they like it, they have to say it, and some people are passionate about crushes.

In your life, are there people you like but don't confess, and you haven't been together?

4 reasons why you like someone, but don't confess.

Can't like it enough. Having a liking and liking are two different feelings. And love and love are two different things.

You like it in your heart, but you don't think it's time yet. You will console yourself with the lack of timing, but it may be that you don't like him that much.

You will feel that there is no need to confess, and you don't have to be together if you like it. You just need to wait slowly, and when fate arrives, we will naturally be together.

When we like someone, but we are hesitating whether we should confess it. Part of the reason is because I don't like it well enough.

Shy. Most women are very shy in their relationships. Of course, shyness is not a woman's specialty, and some men are also more introverted and shy.

Maybe it's because I'm not mature enough, or because I have low self-esteem. Even in the face of the person you like, you don't dare to say what is in your heart.

Even when talking to the other person, he is slurring and talking, and his behavior will become very weird.

This kind of person needs the person he likes to give him a little hint or encouragement in love.

Otherwise, it will be difficult for each other's feelings to progress.

I don't think there's hope.

People will have a very strange habit of looking down on people who are worse than themselves, or similar to themselves, but preferring people who are much better than themselves.

Although I like it, I also know in my heart that there is a big gap between each other. I know that there is no possibility for each other, so naturally I will not choose to confess.

will only hide the likes in their hearts, and look at each other silently in the corner.

Of course, there are also some people who think more long-term, or see more thoroughly. They knew in their hearts that they weren't suitable for each other.

Or maybe it's the current situation where two people are not suitable to be together. It may be because of academics, or it may be because of economics.

This kind of person is actually very rational, and even if he likes it, he will not say it when it is not suitable.

Pure appreciation.

Affection is not just about love between men and women, there is also simple appreciation. Because of being attracted to a certain point in the other person, the liking that arises.

This kind of liking is not love, but appreciation. When you feel this way, you look forward to communicating with each other more, but you don't have to be together.

This kind of simple appreciation, even if you don't confess, even if the two people are not together, you won't feel any regrets.

This liking is rare, but it is real.

Guess one is that you like the other party but the other party is already famous, and it is difficult to confess in the face of this, and the other is because you are more shy and dare not confess, so you can only like it silently.

Some people are afraid that the other party will not like him, and after the confession, he is afraid that he may not even be able to be a friend.

Because although these people like each other, they are very inferior in this relationship, so they dare not confess.

Enjoy the hazy feeling of love but can't, some people like ambiguous feelings, and sink into it, more is too much, less is not enough.

It may be that you don't know if the other party likes you, Two people who are ambiguous with each other, there must always be one of them who takes the initiative to take the first step, so that they will be together.

Because both men and women feel very embarrassed, after all, it is the confession of the person they like, and if something goes wrong, they will be embarrassed.

In reality, there are indeed such people, I think they are afraid of each other's rejection, so they dare not confess.

Maybe you have some scruples in your heart, afraid that saying it will destroy the beautiful relationship between the two people, or it may be that you don't like each other enough and don't want to establish a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, and think that the existing relationship is better.

may be tacitly waiting for the other party's confession, and at the same time imagining what kind of way or method the other party will use!

Sometimes love is the most beautiful when it is hazy, and we can choose the way we are in love, maybe it has not yet reached the point of confession.

It can be that the two feel that their current selves are not worthy of each other, and if they really like it, they should actively strive for it, after all, happiness is earned.

Maybe the two people don't dare to break that layer of relationship, I'm afraid that they won't even be friends in the end, and there may be two people who always want each other to confess first, and then drag no one to say it.

The reason why you like someone but don't confess it is that the other party is still observing or feels particularly inferior, and the success rate is relatively low, so you don't say it at all, otherwise you won't even be able to be a good friend. There are some people who are sea kings, who like a certain person and like a lot of people at the same time, usually more attentive, unwilling to determine a relationship with a person, but find themselves in a variety of emotions, and feel that such a self is more attractive. I don't want to settle down earlier, it is more difficult to want such a person to confess, and it is difficult for ordinary people to control.

Sometimes two people are naturally together and don't need to go through confession, so let's find out in detail!

One, the other party is still observing

Sometimes the time you have known someone is too short, although there will be a feeling of love at first sight, it is inevitable that you will want to observe more. Seeing whether the other party is worthy of their love, although some people look glamorous on the surface, their values are different from their own, and two people will only break up after getting along for a long time. Make an effort to observe before deciding to be together, this type of person is usually more cautious and represents an extremely responsible person.

As long as it is a recognized feeling, he will immediately confess.

Second, too low self-esteem

In the process of getting along with you, it is always revealed that you are particularly good, and his family background and education are not as good as a certain person, so he chose to bury this mind and did not want other ideas, otherwise the two will only drift apart, which is the last thing he wants to see. Like someone, the most important thing is to see the other person's happiness, not to possess it, people with low self-esteem are usually more fragile and sensitive in their hearts, and they are unwilling to break this balance, but they are still willing to continue to be friends.

Three, too distracted

It is difficult for a person with a heart to confess to a certain person, at most he will have an ambiguous relationship with others. When the opponent wants a name, he will definitely dodge because there are too many opportunities for him.

In short, no matter what the reason, the other party is reluctant to confess, don't be too anxious, it's yours who will always come. Don't keep forcing the other party to confess, it's unreasonable and a kind of moral kidnapping.

I think the reason why I like someone but don't confess may be that I don't dare to confess, that the other party already has a boyfriend, or that I know that two people can't be together, so I can't confess.

I think the biggest possibility of this is because of fear, afraid that I won't even be able to be a friend after I confess, and I can be by his side as a friend before I confess, but I can't after I confess.

It may be that this person has low self-esteem and is afraid of the other party's rejection, or it may be that he does not understand the other party's feelings for him and is not sure.

It is possible that you can't even make friends when you say it, and there will be a hint in your heart, which will create fear, fear of loss.

1. Do the right thing at the right age.

If you haven't been in a relationship many times, or you don't have a lot of emotional experience, then it's hard for you to really understand this sentence, why? Because I've seen too many young people, they haven't experienced much relationship, and they always feel that being with someone has to live a lifetime.

But a lot of the problems actually come from this, you are young now, and you are just in love, so it is easy to make promises that you simply can't keep.

For example, many boys have just been in love for less than half a year, and they begin to imagine the future with girls, such as "I will marry you in a few years, how long will I buy you a house in a few years, what is the name of our future child" and so on. To be honest, if you can't cash in on these short positions, it's all deception, but if you are a little sincere, it is better to promise the girl what to take her to eat on the weekend, and then it is really reliable.

Of course, I'm not saying that there is no need for commitment in love, but I think that if you are young people who have just fallen in love, what you have to do is to live a good life and accumulate your emotional foundation, rather than thinking about it for a lifetime at every turn. And when you are older, you should seriously think about getting married and having children, and learn to be responsible for your other half, instead of still thinking about the little girl or flirting with the little brother.

2. A good relationship doesn't require you to work hard.

If you can take a long-term view and zoom in on the pattern, you will find that everything we are doing in our relationship now is actually to find someone who is comfortable with us to live a lifetime.

And when you think so, you will know that "licking the dog" will never end well in love, because this humble, tormented and twisted state can easily exhaust a person's ability to love others.