What are some of your experiences where two people loved each other but had to break up?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-21
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Every love is a kind of good memory, even if the love that does not end up with nothing is worth remembering. It is a very beautiful thing to be able to love each other, but not everything in the world will have its own ideal happy ending. First love is the most memorable love in everyone's life, and I am no exception, because it was the first love in my life, and it was also the first love without any impurities.

    My first love and I have known each other since the second year of junior high school, and at that time we were just friends, and the two of us had no other superfluous ideas, just chatting together and having fun. After I entered high school, he chose to go to a technical school, and the contact between the two people slowly decreased, and there was no trace of each other later, and life went on like this. It wasn't until later that I entered my third year of high school when I suddenly received his **, he said that he asked a lot of people to get my **, and I was surprised at that time, because many of my friends in junior high school have faded out of each other's sight over time, and at that time I didn't expect that there would be a friend who would contact me after being silent for so long.

    Gradually, we are in contact more and more frequently, usually I tell him about my academic troubles, and he comforts me at the same time to talk about his experience, and then slowly feel that the relationship between the two people is beyond the scope of ordinary friends, and finally we are together, all of this is through ** contact and explanation, because we were very far away at that time. Later, I was very old-fashioned because of his reasons, when I applied for the college entrance examination, I filled in the university of a city near his city, and then I went to that university as I wished.

    When he learned that I was studying so far away from home, he was very touched and promised me to take care of me for the rest of my life. Because he is usually very busy at work, and I don't have time to look for him, only occasionally he will come to see me in his free time, but the stay is not long, we still rely on the Internet and ** contact, and the relationship is as good as in the past. Finally, during the summer of my sophomore year, I hadn't started school after two months of summer work, so I went to him.

    When the two of us finally got together in reality, we found that there seemed to be an inexplicable estrangement between the two people, and there was no way to get along well.

    In this way, we broke up without any accidents, and we broke up peacefully, because we both felt that we were not suitable for each other, and although we both loved each other, we really couldn't get close to each other when we came into real life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    People always think that two people who love each other should be together, but so many people in the world, even if they love each other deeply, have to separate, and there are too many things between them.

    It's graduation season again, and many couples have gone from being tired of being together all day to being in a long-distance relationship, and there are many people who can't stand being separated and then become strangers. What about our love after graduation? Many people who are still in love are separated because of graduation, and the distance is even more terrible in their eyes.

    When I was in junior high school, there were two classmates in the class who fell in love, and they were still young at that time, and they may not have a particularly deep understanding of love, but the two of them were really happy together, and anyone could see it.

    In the summer vacation of graduation, the two of them stayed together all day, walked side by side, walked around the park, and talked about what they would do in the future. All of us thought that the two of them could make it all the way to the end, and graduation would not be an obstacle for the two of them to go on together.

    But later, I heard that after going to high school, the two of them separated, on the one hand, because the two of them were in different places, and on the other hand, because the goals of both of them were different, the girl wanted to continue to go to school, but the boy chose to go into society, different life choices, and the two were separated like this.

    Those who were very optimistic about the love in the campus era slowly drifted away, and the class couples who thought they would never be separated also chose to wave their hands when faced with some problems that were difficult to overcome, not that they didn't love anymore, but they had to separate. I hope you don't regret loving me, and I hope our love can be a beautiful memory in each other's lives.

    It is not that you have to be together if you are deeply in love, there are many factors to consider, especially now that people are becoming more and more realistic, because if you don't work hard and don't get motivated, you may be separated. Those who are opposed by their parents may eventually choose to separate, and love is really small in front of some things.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When I was studying in a computer school, I had such a pair of classmates, the man was from the mountainous area, and the woman was from the suburbs, which was closer to the city!

    When I was classmates with them, they talked for 3 years, and they never told the woman's parents, and then they graduated, and the woman's parents knew, saying that the mountainous area was poor and could not be willing, and would suffer all the life, no matter how the man behaved, he would not let him be willing, and if he was willing, the woman's mother would drink the medicine and not live. When I heard this, the daughter was frightened, and cried and said to the boy to break up.

    Later, at a classmate's wedding, I met his classmate at that time, and his wife, who I went to pick up in the car, was definitely not the same female classmate as she was at the beginning! By the way, I asked him what he is doing now! Now he has bought more than 600,000 yuan and works as a manager in an advertising agency.

    The current wife is introduced and has children, and his original girlfriend also has children, but he said that the relationship between the two is very good, and now, he often takes his daughter with him. She took her son out for a meal. Look at the tone of his voice, each other still has each other in their hearts!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    We've known each other for five years, we've been together for three years, and we've given each other the best years of our youth, but unfortunately, we still haven't gone from school uniforms to wedding dresses. One day, when he came back from a happy shopping trip with me, he said let's separate, because he didn't give me a decent birthday, because he didn't have the money to marry me and didn't want to delay me. But I never wanted a decent birthday, I didn't want a car or a house, all I wanted was for us to be in love with each other and walk through the wind and rain together.

    His love is too selfless but not great! Goodbye, Shar Pei, never again!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If there is no other connection between two people, they can choose to separate after not falling in love, so as not to consume the feelings of two people. If the two parties are not burdened with family pressure, and there are no other financial entanglements, they only need to consider whether the two people love each other. If the two sides have other entanglements, they can choose to solve the problem first and then separate well, only in this way will there be no other problems, and there will be no trouble all over the ground because of the separation.

    If two people want to choose to separate, it must be because they don't love, so not loving can really be used as a reason for separation. Since you don't love each other anymore, don't delay each other's time, at this time, insisting on it for various reasons will make both parties fall into this kind of emotional pull, so it is better to choose to stop the loss in time and simply disconnect the relationship neatly. If you don't love each other, there is no need to continue to be together, otherwise the time in the future will become very difficult.

    The premise of two people being together is to love each other, and if two people who don't love each other are together, the future life will be very boring. Don't deliberately maintain false love for the sake of other people's eyes, because what is shown on the surface is indeed for others to see, but all kinds of suffering are borne by yourself, so there is no need to change your lifestyle because of the eyes of others. If you don't love each other, you should choose to let go directly, only in this way can you leave a better memory for each other.

    Being together with people who don't love each other will make life miserable for both people, and if you continue to live it, both people will feel that the other person is ignoring them. Don't live together when you have the choice, this kind of strange lifestyle is torture for both parties. This kind of marriage that does not disturb each other is very cold, although it will not cause trouble for each other, but people in this kind of emotion will feel that the family is no longer a gentle harbor.

    So people who don't love can choose to separate, which is the best way to solve it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Yes, if two people don't love anymore, they can be separated because there is no emotion, being together is just making both parties miserable, so if there is no affection, if there is no love, then it is okay to separate as soon as possible.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It is indeed possible to separate, because two people are not in love, even if they are reluctant to be together, it will be very painful, it is better to give each other freedom to find a new life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When you are in love, you are open-minded, tolerant, and tolerant. Each person is a unique person, so the idea is not the same thing is a common thing, when they clash with the lover's thoughts, everyone because of love, so choose to accommodate the other party, but our emotions, but by themselves quietly hidden in the bottom of the heart. It is very likely that the other party is the same, in some things, unwilling to be with us, so choose to endure and compromise, everyone reduces quarrels, chooses not to say, feels that taking a step back is an open sky, in fact, love is collapsing little by little.

    In the end, people have a stomach full of sour water, so we slowly complain and blame the other party, two people because of their grievances in love, the more noisy they are, the stronger they are, the more noisy they are, the more annoying they are, and then they tear their faces. Love, is never a one-time thing, there is no shortcut, and it is difficult to be lazy, two people together rely on perseverance, whether they can be from beginning to end, relying on management, the love we want is to love, while adjusting. In the relationship, everyone is always afraid that the other party is not right, which will lead him to negative emotions, so he compromises again and again, but a person really likes you, he will see that you emphasize the problem, and will communicate with you to solve it.

    In the relationship, many people can care about face very much, and they feel that expressing their opinions will make people feel that you have a small belly, a small belly, chatter, depression, etc., and it will also make the other party go against the face. It can be that for adults, face is not so important, think about it, if you know that love will go, you still insist on keeping each other's sons, don't say it? Love is never mainly because of a quarrel, because of a triviality, and becomes unbearable to look at directly, which is also caused by the accumulation of details, countless compromises, and unbalanced paying.

    Don't lose love for the sake of face for each other, the people who care about you will be noisy and noisy around you, and they will talk about it if they are not satisfied, and the people who don't love you can keep every mistake you in mind and leave in the end. Love is also managed by two people, and it is difficult to have love with one person's efforts, and only if two people support each other, they will be happy.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Mainly because of the disagreement between the three views, the two have different concepts about the common things that go through the sedan chair calendar, everyone is not bad and willing to understand and tolerate each other, and then they will quarrel and contradict each other, more and more, and finally break up.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Know. When two people don't have love, the distance between each other will get farther and farther away, and eventually they will break up.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    is probably because the three views do not agree, and the personality is not particularly suitable, neither of them will take a step back, and finally come to the situation of breaking up.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    After falling in love and breaking up, I felt that it should be a very lucky, happy and happy experience, I can face a new life again, and I have let go of my previous love

    Love is a matter of two people, not a person can leave and right after the breakup, the other party has nothing to do with you, don't pay attention to his life anymore, live your own life, learn to let go, and face your life again is the best, since you have broken up, don't care about him anymore, don't let the other party's life affect your life.

    No matter what, after separation, you should also pay attention to the way you get along with each other:

    1. If you can, don't contact it.

    Break up decisively, and don't make excuses to disturb the other party's already peaceful little life before you break up. Breaking the thread will eventually push you to the brink of collapse.

    2.Don't meet alone.

    Once from falling in love to breaking up, the two must have complained, and the heart of guarding against others is indispensable, and they avoid meeting alone after breaking up. If it is not necessary, it will not be seen. If you have to meet, ask a friend to come with you.

    3.Preserve the appearance of each other's hearts.

    After a breakup, some lovelorns like to say bad things about each other behind their backs and slander each other. Be forgiving and forgiving, not to mention the person you once loved so much?

    After falling out of love, some people look up at the sky at 45 degrees, and some people bloom in the direction of sunflowers. Regardless of each other's feelings, I wish you who are in love or who have loved each other before you can be okay after every parting.

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