Is there anyone who is not born with a lot of love for others?

It's not because I don't want to give a lot of love, but because I can't give a lot of love, in my subconscious, I just give myself all the love, but even if I give all the love, it's still not enough.

When it comes to giving all love, my first impression is of my parents, there is no one else who can give us all the love except my parents, even if I am a young couple who is in love, I can't give all my love to each other. From the beginning of our croaking to the ground, parents have loved us with all their might, those families with particularly good family conditions, it seems that the love given by parents is too much to enjoy, but on the contrary, those families in bad circumstances, such as families tormented by illness, families in the midst of war, those parents also want the best love for their children, but helplessly no matter how much they give, it will not seem to be enough, but they have given everything.

In my opinion, the parents in these unhappy families are the people who want to give more love to others but are not able to give more love. Maybe some young couples who are in love or young couples after marriage, old husbands and wives can also give all their love to each other, but that is already a minority of the few, more of them are those parents, family affection is always more integrated into their hearts than love.

So, don't always blame your parents for not loving you enough, in fact, they have given you everything, but only limited to their own ability, they can't make you look like those rich young ladies and young masters, but they have really given it their all. Love your parents, no matter what kind of situation they are, they will definitely give you the best, you will never need to doubt this, there is no pair of parents in the world will secretly hide their love and not give it to their children.

I don't think there is such a natural existence, and most of people's personalities are acquired. Even if the mother affects her mood during pregnancy for some reason, resulting in the child's personality being cold and not giving much love to others, I believe that these things can be changed after tomorrow. The most important thing is that I don't think anyone is born with someone who can't give too much love to others, and the reasons for this situation are as long as there are the following aspects.

The first aspect is because we are born with feelings, which is also where people distinguish from others, since we are born with feelings, how can we not give too much love to others. In life, I have only met people who can't express love, never seen people who can't love or people who want to love but can't give love to others, is that because of the loss of freedom?

The second aspect is that because this is a world full of love, how can a person who does not love survive in this world? The way of survival, reality will tell you, even if you really don't know how to love, I believe that under the infection of others, under the rules of society, you will learn everything, this is not a difficult thing to understand, love is what everyone has.

The third aspect, because the society we live in is a two-sided thing, no one can always give or accept unilaterally, existing in this society, as a part of human beings, you have to switch back and forth between these two roles, this is an unspoken rule, no one can break it, and then rewrite it.

Based on the above reasons, I think it is impossible to have a situation where we want to give love to others, but we can't, and it is the freedom of each of us to give love to others.