What are the amiable and respectable qualities of life of your grandparents in their old age?

Grandpa, in my heart, is very good. This excellence is reflected in his view of the world. He has an unworldly vision.

It is not easy to be bound by foreign objects. For example, in my grandfather's time, he paid attention to the right person. That is, the fingertips of the parents are married.

Love often doesn't have its own freedom, but my grandfather didn't think so, he thought that love can be free. <>

In the love of the eldest uncle, my grandfather has never objected, in fact, the eldest aunt's family conditions are relatively poor, and the quality of the eldest aunt's family is not high, belonging to the kind of greedy and cheap, and the reputation in the village is not very good. But my grandfather always told my uncle that as long as I am happy, there is nothing that I can't get over in life, and I don't need to care too much about other people's eyes, and life is always for myself. As for the living conditions in the future, it will all depend on the eldest uncle and aunt to work their own.

It is precisely because of my grandfather's words. The uncle bravely pursued his love, and now their life is quite nourishing. <>

Sometimes life isn't that scary, as long as you are bold enough to do what you want to do. Grandpa is also very righteous. My mother always said that my grandfather liked to help others, and even when his family had nothing, he would do his best, even if he borrowed money, he would help others.

I didn't witness anything like this directly, but I knew that my grandfather had a lot of friends. I believe that a well-connected person has his own excellent and unique side, at least he treats people very sincerely. Every time I go to my grandfather's house to play, I can always see groups of guests and friends.

You can also eat souvenirs from each place. So when I was a child, I went to my grandfather's house when I was the happiest. <>

My grandmother gave me the feeling that she didn't accept old age. The mentality is very young, and there is a heart that loves to learn. Whatever it is, I always want to try it.

She often calls my sister at home to teach her**. My mom didn't even learn it. I was actually taught by my grandmother.

When the smart phone came out, my grandmother gave up the old man's machine and bought a smart phone, and my uncle sometimes laughed at her for loving to join in the fun. Grandma also smiled and said, "Do you have to learn everything?" My grandmother now plays with smart phones, and that level is even better than my mother's.

My grandmother also loved to pursue health. In terms of diet, my grandmother resolutely did not eat fried food, but wanted to eat original ecological food and green products. I won't eat leftovers or anything like that.

In terms of sports, my grandmother insisted on going to square dancing with the aunt next door every day. I can't imagine that such a grandmother would like to go to KTV. She told us that singing is also an exercise for lung capacity.

So I especially enjoyed playing with my grandmother, and sometimes I even felt like a peer, and her young mentality was far beyond my mother's.

As the saying goes, there is a treasure in the family. In this way, my grandparents are two living treasures.

My grandfather was a hospitable man, even though he is now old and has a slight Alzheimer's, but he is still very warm to everyone, he has a literary dream, he said that his family was poor at that time, there was no money for him to study, and before he finished primary school, his father was gone, and he was forced to go home to work to support his family. It may seem incredible now, but in those days, reading was also a luxury.

But he has never given up his love for knowledge, until now, he has bought a lot of books, a lot of famous books, and he will read them when he is free. I read a book many times over and over again, which is something I can't match. When I was a child, a large group of us loved to gather around him and listen to him tell stories from books and his stories.

My grandfather liked to fill his pocket with a lot of candy, not for himself, but for the children who came home from school, and he said that children liked this. I was happier than anything else when I saw the children cheering.

My grandfather's memory is not very good now, and he forgets a lot of things after a while. He was always concerned about not letting us study, and often asked us how our homework was, even though he forgot it just a few minutes later. I remember that he once asked me more than a dozen times to study in ** now, and at that moment I really felt that they were old, and being with them more was the most genuine concern.

My grandmother was a very blessed and lovely person. She's not in good health, but I feel like she's more energetic than any of us youngsters. She loves cleanliness and always keeps her home in order, and there is not a single weed in front of or behind the yard.

Staying with her, I feel refreshed and clean.

My grandmother was also a good storyteller, and listening to her tell stories was wonderful, it was a storytelling version of a history book. Sometimes I think she can be a history teacher, and she should be an excellent history teacher. Listening to her, I feel like I'm never tired of listening to her, because she can always change her ways.

My grandmother was an expert cook, and the food she cooked was really delicious, the kind that could eat several bowls of rice when she cooked. When I asked her how she did it, she said she said she would just put the spices, and she didn't know you liked it so much. Also, cooking is all hands-on work, practice makes perfect, grandma has made a lifetime of dishes, the heat is controlled, and the seasoning is just right.

She is also a very polite and polite person, and I have to learn from her. Even if I do something for her now, she will say thank you to me and never take it for granted. She also taught me that you must have a mouth code outside, no one takes it for granted to help you, and you must learn to be grateful to people who are good to you.

I really hope that time can be slowed down a little more, so that I can feel the love of my grandparents and grandmothers, and let me love them well, so that I can learn their amiable and respectable quality of life.

My grandfather died of a fall before he was old. So I'm here to talk about a quality of life that my grandmother had in her old age.

My hometown is in Wuzhou, and when there was a big flood in 05, the village where the disaster relief went was my grandmother's village. The flood that year was unprecedentedly large, and most of the people in the village were left-behind children and the elderly. That year, my friends and I were requisitioned fishing boats to transport supplies and disaster relief together, and in order to know that my grandmother was from that village, I stayed in that village for a while, and I knew more about the distribution of people's houses, so our boat went to my grandmother's village to pick up the elderly and children in low-lying areas.

My grandmother's house is densely populated, with seven children and three elderly people.

When I picked up my grandmother's house, the two elderly people in her neighborhood got on the boat very pretentiously, and the children in the neighborhood kept crying. After I carried the children on board with my friends and my grandmother, I found that the boat had a deep draft, and if the boat was driven directly, it would be easy for the people on the boat to capsize if they were flustered, and it would be bad to leave anyone behind, after all, the flood was still rising.

At that time, my grandmother proposed: I will stay, these children still have a long way to go. I actually didn't want her to stay, but there was no better solution, so we helped her, put her on the roof, and then drove away, and when we came back to pick her up, the water level was almost below the roof, fortunately it was already a red brick house, if it was adobe, it would have collapsed.

That time, there was no danger, but I saw her spirit of giving up the opportunity to others, and I was slowly learning that if the water was a little bigger, maybe I would never see her again. My grandmother taught me a lesson.

Although my grandparents are old, their love for their children has not diminished with the years, my grandfather is already eighty years old, but he does not sit at home all day to spend his old age, he is still running around and working hard, just to reduce the financial burden of his children.

My grandfather was a farmer who lived a life of farming, harvesting melons and selling vegetables all his life. Since I went to college and was far away from home, I rarely had the opportunity to go home to see my grandparents throughout the year. After returning from this summer vacation, it was obvious that my grandfather had lost weight, and the whole person looked less energetic from top to bottom, but he still insisted on pushing the cart out to sell vegetables.

Grandma murdered him, "You can't hear it, you still sell something, you can't communicate with others when they ask you how much money you have", but my grandfather said very reasonably, "I can't write it down if I can't hear it, take a pen and take a notebook."

My grandfather is old and his ears are not good, and I can always hear my grandmother shouting and talking when I stay at home. My grandfather had worked hard all his life, and he couldn't stay at home and enjoy his old age when he was old, and he had to work outside, and from time to time he would go to the field to see those fruit trees. I do so much just to make my children and grandchildren not worry about the family's economy, and to earn a little money to support the old couple.

But isn't raising them so big just to have something to rely on when they grow old?

Grandparents not only love their children, but also take care of our grandchildren, as long as there is any need, they must meet the requirements as soon as possible, and they will never complain, they will not feel bitter or tired. Grandpa never showed all his love on his lips, saying how much he loved us, he integrated all the love into life, and we really felt the strong love from the rural elderly.

Grandma LiuGrandma Liu, an old lady with extraordinary talents. witnessed the whole process of the rise and fall of Jiafu. As soon as she entered the Rongguo Mansion, Grandma Liu was cautious and opened the joints.

Establish a relationship with the famous Jinling family, enter the Rongguo Mansion for the second time, and Grandma Liu is left and right, pretending to be crazy and stupid, deducing a person's way of success. Three into the Rongguo Mansion, Grandma Liu stepped forward, chivalrous and courageous, and became an important ending figure in "Dream of Red Mansions". How could an illiterate rural old lady swim in the Grand View Garden and lie in the Yihong Courtyard in Jiafu?

In "Dream of Red Mansions", the relationship between Grandma Liu and Jiafu has to start with his son-in-law Wang Gou'er, Wang Gou'er's ancestor used to be a small Beijing official, and he knew the father of Mrs. Wang of Jiafu, and because he was surnamed Wang, he "connected the sect" and became the "family" by taking the opportunity of "being an official in one place". So Wang Gou'er's family married the rich family of Jiafu. Later, this Wang Gou'er's family was not angry, and the family business was depressed, so he moved out of the city and lived in the countryside.

At the end of the winter, Wang Gou'er's family had nothing to do, and she couldn't take care of the end, so her mother-in-law Grandma Liu had to take advantage of this relationship to go to Jiafu to seek relief, so Grandma Liu staged it as soon as she entered Rongguo Mansion.

As soon as Grandma Liu entered the Rongguo Mansion, she was victorious, so that a small family of Zhuang gradually established a relationship with a famous family in Jinling. She not only made Jiafu recognize this relative, but also got back twenty taels of silver plus a penny of aid, so that the family of the village survived the difficulties. At this moment, Grandma Liu's mission in "Dream of Red Mansions" is only one-third completed, and the more important scenes are still to come.

Grandma Liu's second entry into the Grand View Garden, her fourth role is to lay the groundwork for the future defeat of Jiafu and the rescue of Sister Qiao. Here it is written that Wang Xifeng's daughter at that time, the eldest sister was playing with a big glaze, at that time, she had not yet taken the name, she had not yet named Sister Qiao, she was playing with a grapefruit, and she saw that Ban'er was holding a Buddha's hand in her hand, and then she wanted it. The maid coaxed Ban'er to change this Buddha's hand to the eldest sister for the grapefruit, Ban'er was tired of playing with the Buddha's hand, and he had been playing for a long time, and he saw that the grapefruit was round and fragrant, so he changed it, okay, what is the emphasis here?

This seems to be the result of fate in the dark and the guidance of the Buddha's hand, Cao Xueqin is here he made such a hint. Therefore, let Grandma Liu name it, Grandma Liu just said, take the word "Qiao", in the future, it will definitely be auspicious in trouble, and turn evil into good fortune, all from this "Qiao" word.