I found a boyfriend with a very strange personality, and I can t tell how I feel! Depressed

You sink your heart and think about what kind of person you want, what you value the most, if this man has the point that you value the most, then he is qualified to be your boyfriend;

In addition, you have to think about what you can't bear the most, if he has it, then you give up, there is no need to grieve your life for a relationship that doesn't know the ending.

It's better to separate as soon as possible I met a situation similar to you, not only hot and cold, sometimes it's good, sometimes it's cold, I've asked n times, if you think it's not suitable, you can separate, and he always says that I don't know either, it's complicated and messy, and so on, and I only got along for less than a month, and the relationship wasn't very deep, and I gave up later, Girls need to be cared for, and this kind of relationship is too insecure.

Maybe he's not confident in you. He is not as good as you in some aspects, has an inferiority complex, and is afraid of losing you.

You can be completely engaged, and maybe something will dispel his lack of self-confidence.

Have you made him feel secure You ask him this means that you don't know the bottom of your heart You have confidence and he will have confidence Why do you always have to be so passive If you are confident in the relationship between the two of you, I believe he will give you a sense of security.

Let's see if we can save his soul. Can you save him. If he doesn't have hope. Let's separate.

Then there's no need to be together.

Now I'm having fun.

Why do you want to think so much about eternity!

I can't even give you a positive answer, you have to think about it.

Accept him, encourage him, he's very responsible, and it's not just talking.

He's nervous in front of you, and he doesn't know what to say. It's more natural to not know how to get along.

Emotional matters need to be cultivated slowly, as long as your boyfriend is not less heelous and you still like him, you should get along with him and teach him more.

Introversion is caused by many factors.

Generally speaking, if you don't have confidence, look at how he dresses up or something, take him shopping if it's okay, dress up your boyfriend handsomely, so that he will find confidence.

And I've found that boys' hairstyles are very, very important.

I just couldn't find a hairstyle that worked for me. I'm so angry, I can't find a good publisher for any amount of money, I ask him to give a speech, it's okay to read the book "Speech and Eloquence", I can't speak, it's hard to be introverted, if you love him, you have to help him and enlighten him.

That's how you can be happier.

What is a man's character? What is a woman's character?

This is actually just a definition of character for most people in society, but it does not require that all people must be consistent, sex is born by nature, it is extremely difficult to change, love him, you have to tolerate all his strengths and weaknesses, so, the best advice is to go with the flow, not to try to change his personality God can do nothing about this, let alone us mortals?

I'm such a person too, help your boyfriend :

Try to be satisfied at your own convenience, and if you don't want to, try to let the other person know why you don't.

This will not let him think wildly, try to report him to sleep at night, so that he will feel better.

I'm also from Anhui, do you love him? Is he worthy of your love? I'm going to treat you like that before I get married, I don't need to say anything after I get married, make everything clear to him, if he loves you, he will change, otherwise it's over early.

Introverts generally don't like to express their feelings.

I don't know how often you communicate when you're together.

For example, talk about how he has been feeling lately.

Something has been stressing him out lately.

Something that made him unhappy.

Or something ** to him.

You can start by telling him what you are not happy about.

Let him open up to you as well.

You said you now run an internet café and laundry, and a small **.

That must be a lot.

So it's going to be a little stressful.

Love him and find the reason why he became strange.

If you really can't do it, you need to ask a doctor, and that's the last resort.

This kind of thing is very common in reality, generally parents can't accept it at first, but as long as two people really love each other, they can work together to convince them, but you said that your boyfriend didn't do this, I personally think that he doesn't love you enough, originally two people together will continue to face a lot of difficulties, if he doesn't even have the idea of sharing worries and facing difficulties together, it is his ......, you should give up, after all, loving him is to entrust him with your whole life, you have to think about it! Bless you.

Indeed, even a woman can't stand it.

However, LZ I would like to ask you, what kind of personality is suitable for you? Have you summarized it yourself?

1。He does not participate in some recreational activities, it is a matter of personal interest.

2。If you don't take the initiative to please you, you are not good at expressing your feelings.

3。Suspicion, everyone has it, but some people are stronger, precisely because they care about you and are afraid of losing you.

4。The phrase "sassy" should not be said, whether it is for your own woman or other people, this is a very unqualified performance, it is strongly recommended to change, it is necessary. (I think so.) ）

5。**Cold breath. It can also be regarded as your own way of expression, change it slowly, unless you don't like it very much.

6。It's also the simplest sentence. Love him and embrace all that he has.

Support hand-played.

No matter what personality he is, do you think anyone would get along with him because of one personality? If there are many people with similar or identical personalities in the world, wouldn't they all be able to live with you? Life is to be suitable for each other, the best complementary personalities, even if they complement each other, it is not required to be 100%, 80% is enough, and the remaining 20% is the small friction in life that requires both parties to constantly run in, change or get used to.

As long as you feel that two people are comfortable and happy together, it will make you feel that happiness is so simple and appropriate!

His personality may be like this, if you think you can adapt, just be together, otherwise make plans in advance.

It's hard to change. Unless he is hurt, if he is hurt, he is no longer yours. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, do you like his strengths or disadvantages, or do you hate his weaknesses? Bear with him.

It's best to find a psychiatrist to consult on how to get your boyfriend back into society, his mentality is very abnormal, and it is dangerous to be out of touch with society.

Your boyfriend's personality is quite depressing. People said that the young couple quarreled, and the head of the bed quarreled at the end of the bed, but apparently he didn't do it.

It seems that the problems between you are still relatively deep, maybe he has some knots in his heart, unspeakable secrets, and bitterness.

But I think he still cares about you, it's just that there is a problem with the communication between you, in fact, you can be more gentle, for example, if he ignores you, you will drill into his arms, tease him, don't feel embarrassed, because you are boyfriend and girlfriend, and you do this because you really need his arms, want to be harmonious with him, warm you and warm him.

You can also cry to him and let him know that he is wronged by you like this. You need him to be gentle with you.

There is no principle between the two people, and if you warm him, you can also warm him, so why not?

Haha, you're not bad, but who knows that you only care about praising yourself, I'm afraid that your temper is too bad, and someone else treats you like this, so I shouldn't be indifferent to you for a long time, you can say something on your mind, maybe you should have a big fight. The mood is coming! But there is a possibility that the other idea is not what is thought of you, but other thoughts, such as career problems.

At this time, you don't have to be discouraged, otherwise someone else will be disgusted, bear with it!