What should I do if my parents have no feelings? Do you agree with their divorce???

Updated on society 2024-04-19
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Agree, in fact, everyone has the right to choose their own life, just live happily for the rest of their lives, in fact, their divorce does not prevent you from loving them at the same time, and they will live the life they want, don't force themselves together, no matter who it is, you won't be happy if they are not together, just love them as before.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If the parents have no feelings, they are reluctant to be together for the sake of their children, which will only make the family unhappy. You ask this question, so you have to think about it again. You're great and will think about your parents.

    Do it with your parents, talk about it well, and if there is a problem, you can only solve it by saying it, because guessing what others think is not necessarily right, what your parents think is good, and it is good for them to agree, and there is nothing wrong with you agreeing. You have given your father the right to choose freely, and your parents love you more and bless you with a more perfect answer.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think it's better to let them go, but you have to think about your rights, what should they do if they leave you?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Well, you don't let them, they suffer, and you suffer too. They are gone, you see, no one is suffering.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's not a question of whether you can agree or not, and even if you don't, sooner or later they will go that way.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This is a very tangled question. First of all, you have to make sure that they are really emotionless. If one of the parties has another destination, then there is definitely no way to save the marriage, all you can do is look away.

    Don't say things that hurt them, they hurt you a fact, and you have to face it correctly. No matter who you live with, you must take into account the timely communication with the other party, and you must not alienate this family relationship.

    On the other hand, one or two more people are not a bad thing to love you.

    I wish you happiness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's best to persuade them not to divorce.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you don't get a marriage certificate, you can separate, and it is recommended to talk to your parents and make it clear.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Many times this is the case, there is no affection between husband and wife, and when their hearts are not together, they will say that each other is useless. I don't understand, why do you want to spend 12 years with your husband when he is worthless in your eyes? Do you want to be angry and have a second child with him?

    It seems to me that you are in a hurry to leave your husband now, and you hate him so much, probably not because he is really unbearable, but because your heart has changed. Don't forget, in your life there is also a family man who is good to you, for this man, no matter how bad your marriage is, how disappointed your husband is, and how good he is to you, you should choose to shield it, without such immunity and integrity, you are not a competent woman.

    For this reason, don't forget to reflect on who you are while counting down your husband. Including, if you want to escape from this marriage, why should your parents force them to stop you? You know, your parents are the people who love you the most in the world, they will never harm you, as a bystander, they may see it more clearly, if your husband is really useless, they will not bear to let you be wronged, please believe that the old man must also be for the good of you and your children.

    More often, why did Brother Shan choose to persuade and not persuade to leave? In fact, it is completely for the sake of the vital interests of the parties. As a bystander, you should be calmer and more responsible to help those who are deeply lost, instead of acting as a spectator and encouraging others to leave casually.

    We must analyze specific problems and proceed from reality, otherwise we will not have a backache when we stand and talk.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Then listen to the opinions of the elderly, and don't always think about divorce and make the elderly sad. In fact, divorce is not necessarily a good thing for you, two people can come together, there should still be feelings, and it is not a person's problem to get divorced.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't think it's right to ask my parents for advice because I don't have feelings, but what is the reason for divorce? Why are parents against divorce? If it is really because of a trivial quarrel and divorce, this requires both husband and wife to deal with the problem calmly, listen to the opinions of parents, do not divorce, if there is really no affection between husband and wife, and together is really tormenting each other, life is very painful, communicate with your parents, I believe that parents are reasonable people, will not interfere with your married life, as for whether to divorce is your freedom, divorce is protected by law, I hope you are happy every day, I wish you happiness!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When there is no emotion, I think it is normal to really want to divorce. But parents disagree and have their own considerations. Because they are afraid that after you get divorced, it may have an impact on your next paragraph or heart.

    At this time, I think you can think about it carefully and see if there is a way to get it back? Or make some more efforts to save your marriage. There's really no way to do it, I'm talking to your parents.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If there is no relationship, it means that both parties have certain responsibilities, and the parents do not agree to the divorce, then you should have a good talk between you, if it is for the sake of the children, find the reason for the existence of both parties, and believe that life will go on.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then do a good job of your parents' ideological work first, and tell your parents that you are suffering in this relationship, and you will only be good if you break away.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you feel that you really can't get along with your husband, then you choose to divorce, regardless of your parents' opinions, if there are no principled problems and contradictions between you, then I think you should stick to it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you don't have feelings, you won't be happy together, and it's only painful to be reluctantly together, so when you are parents, you don't know you, if you want to divorce the two of you really want to divorce, you will divorce, otherwise you waste time for a long time, and you won't be happy, it's best for two people to divorce and find their own happiness again.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You should let your parents understand you, after all, it is your feelings, not your parents' feelings, let your parents know that you are unhappy in this marriage, and your parents still want their children to be happy.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you have no feelings and want to divorce, and your parents don't agree, then you'd better take a look at it for a while, don't divorce at every turn, your parents agree that they feel together, and they should cherish it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you are sure that the marital relationship between the husband and wife does not exist, you can communicate more with your parents, and only by letting them know in their hearts that it is indeed impossible to save the marital relationship, can you earn their consent.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Since there is no affection, it is better not to continue such a marriage, because two people have no feelings to be together, form a stranger, and have no common language. Living together will not be happy, so tell your parents that they will support your divorce

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think if you really don't like him, you can actually discuss the divorce with your parents, I think the mountain master should go, after all, divorce is a big deal If you really don't think about it, I think you can discuss it with your parents, you can talk to them about the current relationship problems.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I have no feelings, I want to get a divorce, but my parents don't agree. None of your parents want their children to divorce, but two people have no feelings, and it's not interesting to be together. Your parents shouldn't stop it, get a divorce now.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If there is no relationship, then why did you get married in the first place? Both parents are good for you, you have to listen to their opinions, if you don't agree, think about it, and then consider whether to be together or not.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you don't have feelings, then divorce, your parents don't agree, that's your parents' opinion, after all, marriage is a personal matter, and your parents can't interfere strictly.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If two people have no affection in the marriage, and such a marriage is maintained, both people will be unhappy and tired. Even if your parents don't agree, you have to convince your parents. Besides, you can decide the marriage yourself.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In this case, you must talk to your parents, because your parents don't know how uncomfortable you are in marriage, so you can't empathize, I think in the end you should make your own decisions, don't listen to your parents, you have to listen to your own heart.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Be your own master! Parents can't protect you for the rest of your life! Life is this life, and no one knows if there is an afterlife! You must live well in this life! For this life, not to be a person! Decisive divorce! Go for a happy life!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Hello, only you know whether the shoes fit, and only you know whether the marriage is suitable for happiness.

    The marriage of two people, the two of you make your own decisions, after all, it is you, not your parents, who will live your life.

    You can't choose to live reluctantly just because your parents don't agree, it's you who suffers like that.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Marriage is your own, you can't obey your parents, if you don't have real feelings, this kind of marriage is also unhappy, you can communicate with your parents, maybe they will accept it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Your own parents can't decide, after all, two people have to live a lifetime, you don't regret it, you won't be happy if you don't have feelings, it's best to divorce yourself and find your own happiness again, otherwise you will regret it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Since you don't have feelings and want to divorce, if your parents don't agree, you have to communicate with them well, after all, your own parents can't manage so much.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Divorce and marriage should be your own initiative, because your parents don't know what your married life is like, so they will persuade you, and sometimes you still need to make your own decisions.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's their business if your parents don't agree, it's your life, you don't want to get divorced if you don't want to, why do you have to listen to your parents.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Since you are unhappy and unhappy, and you have no feelings, divorce, although your parents do not agree, but for your own sake to leave.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    But the parents are old, so they have their considerations, the key is whether you are happy or not, which is the key to whether you are separated or not.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It depends on the two of you whether you live or not, and although your parents are well-intentioned, they don't understand your living situation.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    The subject is good: The subject is anxious because his parents are going to divorce, because he doesn't know the age of the subject, but he can also feel the subject's troubles, powerlessness, well, first send a big hug to the subject here.

    The first thing I want to say to the subject is that divorce is a matter between two adults, inseparable, and it is a matter that they have to take seriously, mainly depending on whether there is affection or not, and whether there is love, we can't morally kidnap a person, so what if you follow Li Zhongying's classification of things? It's someone else's business.

    For other people's affairs, generally do not interfere, but can have an impact, as an important member of the family, you can promote good communication between parents, if the parents are not because of a third party involved, plus you, and the father also said that he is willing to correct, then there is still the possibility of continuing.

    In any case, divorce is a kind of harm to the children, but if the parents decide to divorce after serious consideration, as the subject must also deal with it, of course, the current situation, it should still be possible to change, as the subject, you can assist the father to do a little more, and make a good bridge between the parents.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Conflicts and conflicts between parents often have a great negative impact on children, which is also one of the things that makes children most anxious and worried. If parents do decide that they want a divorce, here are a few things you can consider:

    Try to communicate: If you are able to do so, try talking to your parents to understand their decisions and reasons and let them know how you feel. However, don't try to be an influence on your parents' decisions, but just express your inner feelings and emotions.

    Respect your parents' decisions: After your parents' decisions, try to understand and accept their decisions, and show your support and understanding as much as possible.

    Express emotions: For many children, this can be an emotionally sad process, don't bury it deep inside, but find it to talk to friends, relatives, or other trusted adults about your feelings.

    Keep it as normal as possible: Parental divorce can cause some inconvenience to children, but it's also crucial to keep school, social life, and daily routines as normal as possible.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Hello, it's hard to reunite after breaking the mirror, the twisted melon is not sweet, they are all adults, and they must have been well thought out, don't pay too much attention to your parents' divorce, they are still your parents after the divorce, just like the love of the past to you, the only thing that should be focused on improving yourself, love yourself well or cultivate, come on.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    The relationship between husband and wife is not good, but they do not divorce for the sake of their children, in fact, it is not good for the children:

    1.The child escapes reality.

    The husband and wife have to live together if they are not in harmony, disputes must be common, and it is impossible for children to know about every dispute, so in the long run, the children will not have a good grasp of the family relationship, and even afraid to deal with some trivial matters in the family, and avoid getting along with both parents.

    2.Stressful.

    When the husband and wife are not in harmony but do not divorce for the sake of the child, this will increase the pressure of the child's answer, because the child knows that the parents are not divorced for themselves, the parents sacrifice their emotional life, want to let themselves have a complete home, they should have a good future to repay their parents, so the pressure on the child will be very great, the little child actually knows a lot of things, some children are more precocious, they will be better until their parents are separated, but they are children after all, will blame his parents' unhappiness on himself.

    3.The personality becomes uncheerful.

    If the parents' emotional discord will make the child more sensitive, everyone will have a lot of topics around the family when they go to school, so the children in the family who are not in harmony with the husband and wife are inferior to this topic. Children who enter the family are also more sensitive, and they slowly know how to observe words and feelings, and they are also cautious with their parents.

    4.The impact on the child's later family and old age.

    First of all, it will be more difficult for children to deal with their relationship with their spouse in the future, because they never know what is the right and good way. Secondly, there are also some children who will resist marriage when they grow up, thinking that they do not have the confidence to live the sweet family life like in the TV series.

    In terms of family interaction, the relationship between husband and wife has a great impact on the children. The relationship is not good, but you still have to make do with your children, which is a hurt to all three of them!

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