I ve already given birth to a child, it s a boy, but it s not my husband s, it s my ex boyfriend s,

Confess, or it will always be your shadow.

After hearing what you said, it really hurts your man's brain!

Do you still love him?

Is your ex-boyfriend nice to you? Does he know that your child is him?

First, if you love your husband, live well with him, and protect your home for his love for you! Less to find other men outside you, walking more at night, you still need to be careful!

If you don't love it, divorce it, and even if you divorce, don't tell him that this child belongs to someone else, let him feel better, this fruit is of your own making, and you should bear it.

It's so easy for you to say and confess Haha This kind of thing has to be confessed It's divorce You have to say no or no Hey, I really can't say it, I can't say something bad You are very irresponsible to yourself Do you know that this is the kind of thing that a man can't tolerate the most Do you know Now this society doesn't talk about love or not But at least you have to be responsible for love Even if it's a little bit At least you have to be responsible for yourself You're married Hey, do you want to ruin yourself Now this society is good if you have money If I were that man Divorce you right away, do what you do, and bear the consequences.

Oh, my God! You....If I were your husband and loved you, my heart would be broken, men pay attention to these things, you better confess! (If you also love your husband) mobile phone answer, hard work, add points, I answered sincerely.

Your husband is like Nicholas Tse, the most hurt man.

Does your ex-boyfriend love you, or is it a free lover? You're not a good woman. This news is fake, right? I really dare to embarrass people here.

I think. Confess it to your husband. Have you watched a TV series with a true story or something

In summary. It's all a tragic end, not only the children are shadowed, but also the possibility of middle-aged divorce. Since the child has a father, the men have to take responsibility!

It is also possible that if your husband accepts you and forgives you. I believe I suffered a lot of psychological warfare during pregnancy, right?

You're going to make things bigger!! I can't help you

I really don't know how to say it. If you know now, why bother

Your problem is really too troublesome, if your husband knows about it, he will not forgive you, that man will tolerate such a thing.

If you're young, I suggest you don't think about it. Because you will have children yourself in the future, do you know how to be a mother and how to get along with children? You know that you are not mature, your job is not stable, and your parents don't know that you are dating again.

I think the timing of you knowing this is really bad.

The most important thing is that you have only been together for a month, and I suggest that you do not need to be a stepmother for the sake of this month's short relationship.

It's even more impossible to get married after only knowing each other for a month, don't you think it's sloppy and ridiculous?! I think his original intention of getting along with you needs to be scrutinized, why he has only been together for a month, and he is in a hurry to tell you that he has been married and has a child, and he has to keep urging you to see the child, I think all this is doubtful. He wants to hurry up and give the child a mother, then let him find it, it's not you anyway.

That's because you reject the shadow of that woman in your heart. Now in your mind, that child is a projection of that woman.

What you will have to face later is the situation of the family and his child. I guess from your family's point of view, you're going to have to work hard with him, even at the cost of a bitter one.

Secondly, the child is not guilty, whether it is yours or not, what is wrong with the child when he offends you? You have to be able to accept this child with love, and the child will reciprocate in the future. Your behavior towards your child as a child as a child will become a shadow when you grow up, and you should think about these two questions yourself.

How many years are there between you? How old are you? If you're not old, be realistic and listen to your parents.

The heat of love will pass soon, facing your future will be a long way away, and after the marriage begins, there will be more problems waiting for you to deal with than now, even his ex-wife and other problems. How much energy and experience do you have to deal with these problems? If you have really thought about these problems and you think that they will not be your problems, you can handle them.

Then I think you can choose your own love.

But from experience, parents are the ones who have come over, and you should listen to your parents more about this matter, and give yourself and each other more time. What do you think?

Landlord, are you still with the man? What is it now, I'm like you, but he's honest. He told me at the beginning.

"He never recognized the child. It's just that his parents insisted on it at that time, and they also bought it from the child's mother at that time."

--What is this???

Or is it his ???

Why do you feel that this is so inhuman???

You don't want your own flesh and blood, do you still expect him to be with you, a person who has no blood relationship, for the rest of his life?

This man is too much to trust.

Think carefully about whether you and your parents can accept it, and then decide whether it is suitable or not!

There's something for everyone!

My boyfriend also has a daughter with his ex, and his ex changed his mind and broke up. He was my classmate in elementary school. He told me everything before chasing me, he was very good to me, he took care of me, and they have been together for a year now, but I don't dare to tell my family, and I don't know how to say it, my family will definitely oppose it, my boyfriend already has a house and is trying to make money to buy a car.

Do you have the confidence to love this child, if you don't have faith, forget it, the child is too pitiful.

People who have children have to consider accepting each other's children when they get along, and they can't be like this all the time.

People always have to stick to their own decisions, and they have to weigh in their hearts whether they are worth it or not, and some people miss it for a lifetime.

I wonder how long you've been together? If it's not for a long time, you should have been dating for a while! He's just now telling you that he has a child, and I don't know if he lied to you.

Communicate with your parents.

You also need to communicate more with your boyfriend's family to determine whether everyone can get along well and live in peace for a long time.

This man is not good, now he loves you of course is good to you, you look at his attitude towards children, it proves that he is a person who is not responsible, you have to believe that men are minus points for women, don't go the wrong way.

Hey, my boyfriend also has a child with his ex, I have now beaten two children for him, I want him to give his son to his ex, but it seems that their whole family and even the whole world are not happy, the whole world can't understand how difficult it is to be a stepmother, and now I don't dare to tell the family, it's really difficult.

Or ask your parents for their opinions, after all, your parents won't lie to yourself! And it's not that your own children won't be happy in the future, what if you are going to have your own child in the future, it's not fair to your own child and that little girl, or think about it yourself, don't regret it then!

Love has to be accepted, love the house and the black.

Want to know if the landlord is still together? I've got a consent situation.

I'm in a similar situation to you. I wonder if you've been with him since. Is it bad for you after being together?

v The eighty-seventh episode of Song Gongming's battle against Youzhou Hu Yan scorched the general.

Two choices, if you want to continue to maintain the family, sink the truth into the sea, have a child with your husband as soon as possible, if you feel uneasy in conscience, face it directly, see how your husband makes a decision, and then solve it, because your husband has the right to know everything.

The son was not easy to come by, but the result was not biological, and the family could not accept it.

Xiaozhu and Xiaoqing have been married for many years, but they have never had children, because of Xiaoqing's own physique, the two often go to the hospital for examinations, and drink a lot of traditional Chinese medicine for conditioning, but it has been ineffective, and finally had to choose IVF.

After becoming pregnant, Xiaoqing also suffered a lot, and at first she was frightened and afraid, but she couldn't survive until her son was born, and something went wrong again.

The family was very happy when the child was born. But when the doctor entered the door, his solemn words made the family completely panic.

The doctor said that after the child did various examinations, the indicators were normal, but the only thing was that the child's blood type did not match that of his parents. This made the couple very embarrassed, especially Xiaoqing, as if they had done something wrong, but if you think about it carefully, this is IVF, is it a mistake in the hospital?

The family wanted an explanation from the hospital. Otherwise, it's unacceptable. The hospital was also confused, and after checking all the processes, there was no mistake, and finally as a last resort, the hospital suggested that Xiaoqing and his wife could do a paternity test to determine the specific situation.

After the paternity test results came out, everyone was even more confused, and the report showed that the children were Xiaozhu and Xiaoqing.

But why is the blood type not matched? Suddenly, the doctor thought of a relatively rare phenomenon in medicine, the phenomenon of "chimera", and then asked Xiaoqing's mother-in-law if she had been pregnant with two children before.

Xiaoqing's mother-in-law actually had a child in her belly when she was pregnant with Xiaoqing's husband, but because one of the fertilized eggs did not develop well at that time, it was absorbed by Xiaozhu, which is the reason why the blood type is not matched. Children now.

Hide it, it's a rotten stomach, and it's not a TV series, your husband won't know, but don't make mistakes in the future, treat your husband well, if you care about your husband, if it doesn't matter, you don't have to be afraid that he will know, right.

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Although there is no marriage registration, children out of wedlock are legal and the parties can negotiate custody of the children.

1. When the court awards the child to the woman's custody.

Clause. Children under the age of one or two generally live with their mothers. This is mainly due to the fact that the child is still in early childhood and needs the mother's breastfeeding, and the mother is more considerate and caring for the child.

Clause. 2. Although the child is over two years old, the woman has undergone sterilization and the man has not done it, and the age gap between the man and the woman is not very large, and the child is more likely to be awarded to the woman.

Clause. 3. The child has been living with the mother, and if the divorce changes to live with the father and the living habits of the child are greatly changed and affect their growth, the child is more likely to be awarded to the woman.

Clause. 4. Under the premise that the conditions for raising both men and women, such as job stability and income are not large, if the man is at fault for the breakdown of the relationship between the husband and wife, for example, there is evidence to prove that there is an extramarital affair, etc., the child is more likely to be awarded to the woman.

Fifth, the man has bad habits, such as gambling, drinking and other vices. Considering that the abuse has a detrimental effect on the child's development, the court will generally award the child to the woman.

Sixth, if both men and women are not at obvious fault and the conditions are equal in all aspects, if the woman's ideological quality is better and she has more time to take care of the child, she will be more likely to get custody of the child.

Seventh, children over the age of 10 are willing to live with their mothers.

2. When the court awards the child to the husband's custody.

First, the woman has a malignant infectious disease or other serious illness that affects the child's growth.

Second, the woman does not return home for a long time and does not fulfill her obligation to support her.

Third, the man has been sterilized or has lost the ability to have children.

Fourth, the man is older and has less chance of having another child, while the woman is in a better childbearing period.

Fifth, the woman has bad habits or other quality problems that may affect the child.

Sixth, the woman has a low income, an unstable job, and no fixed residence.

3. The opinion of the child's grandparents.

In general, parents are the direct guardians of the child, and the opinions of the grandparents and maternal grandparents have no direct impact on the ownership of the child's custody. However, if both parents are busy with work and other conditions are equal, the advice of the grandparents or grandparents who care for the child can be useful.

You are too hasty, you have children before you get married, and the children are ten years old, how can you easily waste your time, since this is the case, the child is innocent, you can not let the man take the child away, because it is not easy for you to work hard to bring up the child, he did not do the obligations of a father, and your ex-boyfriend also failed through the court, my country protects the rights and interests of women and children, and takes up the law to protect yourself.

You are not married, your marriage is not protected, and the child you have is 10 years old, although you have raised it with your own hands, if his biological father wants it, it depends on the child's own choice. Follow whomever you want.

If there is a marriage registration, the children out of wedlock are legal, and the parties can negotiate and settle the custody of the children. 1. The court awards the child to the woman.