How do I feel that life is all about work and marriage, so depressed

In this life, people must strive to exert their strength and affirm their value with their achievements at any time. Otherwise, you don't feel like you have a life. You don't have to force yourself to believe in the truth of life, because you were born under this truth.

Life itself is value. It is everyone's innate desire to make this rare life shine. Therefore, you must naturally be willing to fight for the brilliance of your own life.

If you cling to negative thoughts, you might as well try it and let yourself do nothing and desire nothing. He is not interested in eating, sleeping, or playing, and he is indifferent to all the beautiful scenery, making himself like dead wood and lifeless. I believe that after a day or two like this, you will compromise with the vitality that nature has given you.

Negative pessimistic thoughts sometimes have a poetic beauty, and because they show a rather cold analysis of life, they show another kind of cleverness. But it can only be a momentary radical idea, it only analyzes a small corner of life, and ignores the vast bright world in this dark corner.

I hope you can be inspired by this, only a few times people's hearts are unhappy because of major and specific reasons, and the rest are mostly due to their own excessive worries and losses.

It's not terrible to be tired, it's terrible to be not interested in everything, and to be enthusiastic about life, life can be bright.

Working and getting married are just part of your life.

If you think about it from a different perspective, you will have different answers to these questions.

It can be said that to achieve these two goals, it takes many efforts to do so, and if you want to have a good career, you need to have basic professional knowledge, you need to constantly recharge, you need to work hard, you need to have a good relationship with friends and colleagues... Having a good family requires you to look for it with your heart, you need to take care of your family with your heart, and so on and so forth... When one has so many things to do, will it still feel boring?

Hehe, it looks like you're in and out of an alley.

Turn it out and you'll see the wider world.

The content of life is very rich.

I have a good job and a happy family. This is the happiest thing that not everyone can have.

What is interesting to marry?

Since your girlfriend is a very realistic person, with your current conditions, you may not approve of your lack of girlfriend.

Now to get married, it's better to try to get married first, so that you can dress up and be bright.

Getting married is not an easy thing, it is a combination of two families, don't think too simply.

1 All many blind date married people get married without emotional foundation, at the beginning must be adapted or not used to it, but I personally think that since you are married, you should try to cultivate and cultivate feelings, after all, marriage is still quite important for a woman, maybe your friend is because he doesn't know much about his husband, he is still critical of each other in his heart, try to accept each other, maybe there is a feeling, of course, if you work hard or not, then you can only leave, the pursuit of happiness is everyone's right.

If your friend has the idea that "marriage = life is not free", even if she divorces or finds someone she loves, she will also live an unhappy life. If you didn't want this marriage at the beginning, you shouldn't passively agree to get married, and now that you have entered this marriage, you have to accept the fact that you are a married person. Only by acknowledging this fact can you continue to adjust your mentality and make your married life wonderful, right?

Also, I remind you that love is relative. No one can take for granted the love of others for him and her, and if your friend's husband has been in a state of unreciprocated giving for a long time, one day he will get tired and leave. I think that when young people face marriage, they will always be full of more or less fantasies, hoping that the other half will be perfect like the prince or princess in a fairy tale, or that he and she will be the most tender confidant in the world

When you are in pain, gently comfort yourself; When you are in trouble, help yourself to step out of the difficulty; accompany yourself when you are lonely; At night, listen quietly to yourself ......Some people may also substitute the image of the character they see on TV and newspapers into the face of this perfect confidant and combine it into a new image. If you have such thoughts, it only proves that your friend is not self-loving enough, and she does not know all about the person who has been with her in the mirror for more than 20 years. How can you be happy if you don't even know your true needs?

It is not enough to just lie still and complain about your own miserable situation, and rely on the pity of others to alleviate your own suffering. If you want to change the situation, stand up for yourself.

Hey, I'm married, what can I do? If she could, she wouldn't have tried to accept him. If the truth can't be handled, the only way is to divorce while there are no children now, but she must know that divorced people will gossip.

I can't say anything about emotional matters, or she makes her own idea, she feels right, so she can do it boldly! So as not to regret it! I hope your friend can come out of his troubles and be a happy woman! 1

It may be that she is used to being free, one person is fed, the whole family is not hungry, and now as soon as she gets married, she is not suitable for the life of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, no matter what she has, she must have an adaptation process, since she is married, she must live well, marriage is not child's play, if she wants to get married, if she wants to divorce, then even if she divorces, the next marriage will not be very smooth. Unless she is only in love for the rest of her life and does not get married!!

There is a story called, it is an emotional talk show on the radio, I remember someone once said: smart people do not have to do everything themselves, not every wind and waves to hit their heads and bleed, but learn from the experience and lessons of others, and wisely walk their own way.

It was a girl who hit the broadcast supporter, she was a little sad, she said that her boyfriend had cancer, because it was early on, but she didn't know how long he would live. She was sad and hesitant. Because their relationship is good, she is reluctant to break up.

If they break up, she is afraid that she will never find a boyfriend who loves her so much. But if she doesn't break up, she is afraid that her boyfriend will not be with him for long, and how lonely it will be to leave her alone; Or when his boyfriend passed away, she was no longer young, and it was difficult to find a good half. She asked the moderator, what should she do?

Do you persist or give up? She didn't want to let go of this relationship, but she was afraid that her boyfriend and her wouldn't last long... The host said, you are so selfish, you want everything, you don't want to let go of anything, and greedy people are the most painful.

The girl was silent for a few seconds and said, I hope to get long-term happiness and let him take care of me, but I am worried that he will not live long, and it is a pity that I give up now.

I think it's because to love someone is to give for him sincerely. Love is first and foremost giving, it is to make the other person happy, if one party is not so, love becomes a fragile empty bottle that will shatter when touched.

said to the man that he didn't love him anymore, and said divorce fiercely, don't have a soft heart.

Have the right mentality, since you choose to marry him, then I can be sure that this man still has something to attract you, so look for the good things in him and try to fall in love with him!

If it still doesn't work, choose to score again!

It's responsible to you and to the other person, isn't it?

In fact, these are the two states of marriage and non-marriage and have not yet adapted to it, I think she should try to accept this kind of life, and she has no feelings for her husband because she has not found her husband good! Marriage is also good to get married!

Marriage is your life's work, your husband loves you, so you tell him about working outside, or it's better to work by yourself. When you get married, you have to be responsible for yourself and your lover.

Personal humble opinion, hehe.

Now that you're married, you still have to be responsible.

Talk to your husband about whether he can help you change.

I also need to adjust my mentality more.

After marriage, it is definitely different from when you are single.

You must realize that after marriage, you have responsibilities.

Hurry up! It's not good to get hurt in the end.

Then get a divorce! That's a relief, too.

Divorce quilt, but the husband must be financially compensated.

Also, please don't get married in the future, because life after marriage is much the same.

Why don't you get divorced? Don't waste everyone's time, so it's better to get divorced early.

Married. You have to be responsible for others. You can't just leave. That's not good.

Marriage is also free. There is something. I regret losing it.

- -I knew why now!!

I felt that if I was submissive, I had to adapt.

There's no reason to worry, just face it

Isn't marriage a responsibility, or do you feel that since you are married, you shouldn't have other ideas, don't take chances, once you make a mistake, you can't turn back. When the time comes, let you say "You don't want to be like this, you didn't think that it will cause harm to others (including your family and a series of other people)" It's too late, and some consequences may be something you can't bear, don't do things that you regret not doing at the beginning.

If you really like you, then ask him to respect you, respect your marriage, and keep a moderate distance, I think someone who really likes you will protect your happiness will protect your happiness.

As long as you don't like other people!! In fact, it should be a good thing to be liked!! The key is that you have to hold on to yourself!!

It is advisable for you to finally have your own partner, show off less and take more family responsibilities.

It's their business that others like you, and if you waver, you're lacking in virtue.

Strengthen self-control, don't mislead others and yourself.

In my life, people always say that I like her, but I'm married, and it always bothers me.

You can be a good friend.

Like maybe it's admiring you.

Get the right balance.

Like is not necessarily love, love must be like!!

It's called amorous, and it's a bad habit to get rid of it. Being too nice to others will lead to misunderstanding. Don't bother yourself.

Good things, just grasp the measure.

Plain, firewood, rice, oil and salt, quarrels and sweetness coexist, and they run for life every day. There is no romance before marriage, no sweet words, and some personal time and space. Overall, it's still good, plain is happiness, and getting married is learning to experience life.

Hello, I use one sentence to summarize the feeling of getting married, it is like wearing a cotton coat for freedom, although the activities are restricted, but it feels very warm. After getting married, someone shares the joy, someone shares the pain, someone cares about going out, and of course there will be contradictions and quarrels, which is married life. I hope you will adopt it, thank you.

Life is diesel salt rice, feeling: sweet and sour.

You don't have what it takes to start a family. People must first have the ability and ability to support themselves before they can consider starting a family.

Let's work together, there is only the blessing that cannot be enjoyed, and there is no suffering that cannot be endured! Think about it! Since you have chosen each other, believe in each other and cheer together! Everything will be fine!

I don't have a stable job, and what kind of marriage is there? What to do, what to do, see for yourself! Doing things so sloppily!! Don't have a child now, or he'll suffer! Come on, landlord! See what job is right for you

Try to find a stable job, what is there to say, when you save money in your hands, you will have children or something.

You can also go crazy, you don't need to live according to the rules, I think you need to go out for a walk, if you can, go out and travel, meet different people, see their understanding of life. It's just my life understanding

The value of life is different from the value of reflecting oneself and others Young man has a different scenery on the road of life Calm down and don't think too much Please live according to your own heart.

Everybody is the same, if you really feel that anything is worthless, you can remember the fun in it, not no, but remember carefully --- what makes you happy is value.