Is it really that important?

It doesn't matter whether it's important or not, it depends on everyone's ability to bear it. Marriage is not the same as falling in love, marriage is a daily life, including eating, sleeping, getting up, etc., while falling in love is only together when playing, and the real face of other lives is not clear. So marriage is not the same as love, then, two people with different living environments live together, it is fresh for a while at the beginning, so after a long time, the living habits that they have developed at home for many years will gradually be revealed after a period of time after marriage, the two people have not adapted to each other, what to do if they are not contradictory, can the habits of many years be changed for the sake of another person, most people hope that the other person will adapt to their living habits, this is the most prominent point, and the most important point.

Let's start with that. The main question of this question is to look at yourself.

The traditional habits of Chinese history have their rationality

Of course, who doesn't want to live a life of money.

It depends on your means, and if you care what others think, of course it's important to be the right person. If you have the heart to choose a partner and can never leave him or her, then there is nothing to fear in the world.

Society is too realistic, it's not that you can't keep up, it's that society is developing too fast. Hah,

Wealth and power to a certain level, it depends on you, you go beyond wealth and power, you don't need to look at it, to put it bluntly, that is, you have too much money, power is more than the sky, then you don't have to be in the door, you just want to do whatever you want.

There is something reasonable about it, but it also depends on the specific situation.

Because of people, human accidents.

I think it's very important to marry the other party's family background:

1. The concept of marriage paying attention to the right family still has its truth in today's society. If you don't look at each other's family background when you get married, many problems will often arise after a long time. For example, when the gap between the economic conditions of the two families is huge, the concept of consumption is bound to be different, at this time, even if you simply go to the supermarket and have a meal, there may be disagreements.

2. If the economic conditions of the two families are very different, the status of the two parties will inevitably be unequal, and the poor family will inevitably have a sense of inferiority, while the rich party will have a sense of superiority. Over time, love may be worn out in self-entanglement and mutual torment. Therefore, although it is not a problem to always feel that there is love when you are in love, marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, so more factors need to be considered.

3. Nowadays, most people are supportive, and family conditions are very important factors. Although for many people, if they really meet the right person, the family environment can be ignored, but the problem is that it is very difficult for a person to meet a person in his life who is willing to fight the whole world for him and ignore all family conditions. Savages are selfish, if you don't love each other so much, how many people are willing to shout when you know that being with each other will lower your current standard of living.

4. What is more important than the other party's family conditions is the daily way the other party gets along with his parents, as well as the way the other party's parents behave, because this often affects his character. If the other party's parents are loyal and honest, then the real one is often upright and kind; If the other party's parents are stingy and stingy, then he may also laugh and be careful. A man and a woman in love, although not necessarily because of hypocrisy, are often able to successfully change color and give the best side to each other, and at this time, by observing his parents, he can also observe his nature.

I think that the relationship between the door and the wrong household is not worth insisting on.

Because two people grow up in different environments, their thinking and cognition will be different, so they cannot achieve good mutual respect and understanding in communication.

Therefore, we must learn to respect each other in life, so as to achieve better communication and get along.

1. Have self-confidence.

No matter who the other party is, we must first maintain self-confidence, do not be unconfident, whether it is words or deeds that look submissive, which is not conducive to communication, so we must behave generously and decently, and when we talk, we must also be confident in the first line of words, so that we are half the success of the communication.

2. The tone of communication is tactful.

When communicating, we can be straightforward about our intentions, but try to be tactful. Remember to go around and down, no one will like this, be sure to say your opinion in one sentence, straight to the point will help us improve the efficiency of doing things, and the other party will also save a lot of time.

3. Maintain patience in communication.

Be patient in communication and don't show boredom. If you really don't like to hear it, you must know how to avoid it skillfully and politely. In this way, you can also take into account the feelings of others.

4. Pay attention to the degree of advance and retreat.

If the other party is a person with a strong personality, it is likely that the spicy communication will not be smooth enough in the process of communication, at this time, you must know how to maintain a degree of advance and retreat, overcome rigidity with softness, and slowly persuade him.

5. Learn to know yourself and your opponent.

No matter who we communicate with, we must have an in-depth understanding of the other party in advance, so that it is simpler and easier to talk, if we don't even know who the person we are communicating with is, then how can we communicate more smoothly and happily, and sincerely communicate with each other.