Choose whether to work or love, make a choice before the National Day

Since your job is not a problem, of course you have to choose love. Not to mention the love you've been looking forward to for a long time.

And if you like each other and have a good impression of each other, you should seize the opportunity to develop well with the girl.

As long as you have a stable love with a girl, you will be in a good mood, and work will not be a problem.

Don't let the opportunity slip away from you.

You should have a good home and a love of your own. So that your days will get better and better.

It's hard to get back if love is lost, and you can change several jobs a year!

You should know which is more important!

Wishing you your true love!

Since it is not difficult to find a job, then choose love, love can give people a lot of spiritual support.

If you are not realistic, then choose love and ask yourself!

In the end, you said it yourself, your job is easy to change, and it is not difficult to find a new one. I want to have a home and a lover.

So what else do you ask? I know the answer, and I'm still asking.

Since the job is easy to change and easy to find, let's stay with her

Brothers are easy to find jobs, but true love is hard to find. A successful man must have a successful woman behind him. I hope you don't do things that you regret. Don't let a big man do things, mother-in-law, mother-in-law, cherish the people in front of you.

Didn't you choose them all? You're biased towards love, aren't you.

If you want me to say, sister, it's actually so difficult to do anything, but you love your boyfriend, it's not easy to find someone who loves yourself, and it's not easy to find a serious boyfriend according to what you said, and you can figure out a way for your own work, didn't you say that there are four ways And it all sounds good, hehe, I believe that you will get it through your own efforts, don't give up at any time Hehe, really, sister, I hope it can help you Hehe, I'm a freshman, and I'm still young, and these don't work much for you But I hope you will feel better after seeing it I wish you happiness!

It is only a matter of time for you to look at work and study in this way, but the importance of family affection needs to be taken care of.

Work and love are not contradictory, so it is advisable to choose work first. Love should follow people, with a good job, there will be a good life, and if life is good, love should be more satisfying.

The gods and horses are all floating clouds, and both are thrown.

Men should put their careers first, and only when they have a career can they have the ability to maintain love.

The price of love is higher, you can find a job, and good love is not so easy to get.

The right to devote time outside of work to love.

I suggest you still choose to work.

If he really loves you, he won't force you to do anything, but the fact that he is not forcing you now, it can be seen from this that he is still very responsible for you.

Unwilling to force you to do something you don't want to do, the reason why I recommend you to choose a job is because:

If he really loves you, he will definitely wait for you, or for you, go to the city where you work to find you, because he was sick before, he is afraid of affecting you and avoids you, which can show that he is a kind person, but your friend said that he was lying to you, and I can't say that it is wrong.

After all, it's up to you what you think!

Love is sometimes selfish, but it is really not easy to have it without selfishness!

I can say. If he's really not lying to you, he's definitely someone who deserves to be trusted for life!

No matter what, the final decision is still up to you, others can't help you, but I just hope you can think it through, don't choose things that are not good for you because of some external reasons!

Bless you and be happy!

There is also a transition period for career and love, but if you have a career, you don't have to rely on anyone.

People's pursuit is not the same, it depends on what you pay attention to, and it also has a lot to do with your age, it naturally has nothing to do with the young age, you can have more choices, otherwise you have to act cautiously.

Give up, true love is not important, if he really loves you, then you can persuade him to leave with you.

I think you should go to work, tell him how you feel about him in your heart, and then go, don't think about whether he lied to you, learn more, if you really love you, distance is not a problem.

I also feel that he is lying to you, and he is using the trick of pretending to be weak to stimulate a woman's motherhood. Many men use this trick to deceive women.

Love! Jobs are available, and true love is rare!

The job is more reliable than the man, or at least it looks more reliable than the man.

If he lied to you, don't believe it.

Does your boyfriend have any good advice if he goes? Or is he settled now? If not, then you let him stabilize his work, and then you can't be too blind to do things.

This question is really a little too difficult to answer, as I personally think that in front of love and work, I think men should make a difference and should focus on career, although love is also very important, because with a good job there is a better future, such love is the happiest is the happiest, I think every girl wants to find a man with a career to marry, I don't want to find a day of idleness of the kind of person to talk about love, even if there is I want to be that will not be too happy, but only short-lived.

If you really have to choose, choose a job, after all, this world is too realistic. If you really can't give up love, then give up your job and believe in the power of love.

The basis of love is money, if only one of the two of you is working, then for the time being, your salary is not enough to spend, if the money is not enough, you must find someone to borrow money, or find a family member to take money, but if you ask a family member to take money, you will definitely not want to, because you can already put into the work of the person, it is not practical to reach out to the family to get money, then find a friend to borrow money, borrow money, you will have to pay it back, if you are in arrears for too long, it must not feel good, then the direct result is that the two of you will have a conflict, once there is a conflict Your concept of love probably no longer exists So my suggestion is that you go to work Even if you are separated from each other If you have money, you can meet at any time China is now very developed You go to another place The plane is only two or three hours away It is okay to be economical to do a train At most, you can waste some time on the car But you can still text each other during a long vacation Don't tie your love because of money You chase the pace of life!!

I'm in the same situation as you!

This depends on which is more important in your heart now, if you are not by his side you can be fine, you can try, but if you can't do without each other, then don't separate, otherwise it will be very painful! That's how I am, in the end I still choose to be together, as long as we are together, support each other, help each other, the future will always be bright, there will definitely be good job opportunities, come on! I wish you happiness.

Love has to stand the test.

Whether before or after marriage, a woman should also have her own job and her own space, (equivalent to giving him his own space) The relationship between the two people will be better. If this goes on for a long time, there will be problems

I think you were able to fall out with your parents and be with him. What I got was the embarrassment of this kind of life now. It is necessary for you to accept this job.

1. You can temporarily ease your current life situation; Second, leave him, or go to serious love, if you really break up, it can only show that he is not worth paying so much for him. After all, only parents are the ones who truly love their children. 3. If you develop well, you can also let him transfer to the place where you work and work together!

Kill three birds with one stone! Why not.

A marriage without the blessing of parents is not happy. So you have to work hard! There are many things in life that are not under our control, and I hope you can take the helm yourself, because you will not regret the direction you have mastered (even if you choose the wrong one).

Without a job, there is no career and economic foundation, and love without an economic foundation is very tiring and difficult to maintain!

This is mainly about what advice your man will give you. And I think even if the two of them aren't in the same place. It doesn't mean that the love between the two is over.

If that's the case. I don't think you should be together. Because in the future, they will be arguing about these things.

So even if you go back to doing things. Learned. It will naturally be easier for you to come out and find something in the future.

But if you have you in your heart. Naturally, I won't give up on you because of this kind of thing. Besides.

Everyone naturally has their own career before they get married. Girls should think the same way. Because whether she marries or not, a woman must have her own territory, that is, her own base.

And it is not long before you are separated like this. It's just that you should be talking about getting married in a year. Your family doesn't agree because they're afraid you'll marry too far.

I was bullied later. You can't find anyone to say it. No one is going to help you or something.

This is what the adults in every family are worried about. And if any man says it. If you go back, he'll split up with you.

There is no need for this kind of man to fall out with his family for him. So, I suggest to you, you are still young and deserve to do the work that suits you. I've only been doing it for a year.

Learned. I'm afraid that there will be no place in the future. Therefore, your short separation is also equivalent to testing the hearts of the two of you, how important it is to both of you in your own hearts.

Don't wait until you're married to find out that you're just a dispensable person in his mind. It's too late to regret it. So you can talk to him.

Look at what he says. Of course, you can still make an appointment with each other on some holidays. No, it is not.

Although there is some bitterness of missing the separation of the two places. But for now, it's just a matter of separation. That's only about a year.

I'm sure you'll be able to get by with that little bit of time. Hope it helps.

Put your work first, after all, you are still young, and you should focus on your career. Love is hard to find, and if you really have fate, it will not be scattered because of distance.

Explain the situation to him, and then you can think about it and make a decision!

The economy determines the superstructure. Life can't be wasted on love. Let's go back. But you have faith in that man, you can wait. The decision is yours. But if you are so shaken, it means that you are not determined, so let's go back.

Let him go home with you and choose a place where there is development.

When you are young, you can rest assured that you will get married at work in the future, and you will regret that you didn't work hard, and if you really love, you won't divide it because you don't work together.

The two of them had a good consultation and saw what he thought. If you're not satisfied with your current job, you can change jobs instead of locations. You can still be with him this way. Love Don't let distance beat you.

Your current state is a decision you made before, and your choices in the present moment will determine your life later in life. Ask yourself, what do you want most? You, who can find the answer, believe that your decision is the right one!!

If you can compromise your family for his sake, of course, you can refuse your family's arrangement to go to the hospital to work.

Since you can't earn money at your job now, then you are changing to a better job, and at the same time, you must increase your knowledge and ability to continue to enjoy love and continue to live.

He has the ability to support you, so he chooses love; If you don't have the ability, you will work.

Career-oriented, you really have fate, not because of distance.

Let him go with you to work, or find another job with him.

Go home and discuss it.

How old are you? If it's not big, there will be opportunities in the future.

Work !How can you maintain love without a job?

Choosing one side and giving up one side will not be the perfect answer to your satisfaction. It's like asking you to give up your left or right hand. Let's find an option that can take care of the mean. Life needs to be maintained mentally and materially, and love and work are equally important. None of them are indispensable.

If it's true love, I choose love. If it's not or if the job allows you to find better love, then choose a job. If you're young, I think it's important to work.

Love, with different careers, you will find love, and with love, you will fight to cherish this love!

The choice is the hardest, we can't give up our career because of love, and we can't give up love because of our career.

I chose to "work", and now I start a business first and then start a family.

I suggest going to your job, just my suggestion, and seeing what you write is that you have just graduated, it is a difficult time for your career, and many people are slowly going up from here, some are smooth sailing, some are bumpy along the way, but they are all more difficult, and of course a new start is also a good new environment to exercise.

I know you're going to be reluctant to let go of that boyfriend of yours It's hard to let go of your feelings But there's no way Maybe they'll be separated in the future But even if it's in two places, it doesn't have to be separated What will happen if he dumps it for you one day It's important to take care of yourself first.

Even women can't rely solely on their significant other, they have to do their own thing.

Also, feelings can't be eaten.

Hope it helps.