I was confused about the future and told me what to do

Everyone will taste the taste of failure. I can relate to your mood right now. It's really hard to face the pressure at home and the pressure you give yourself.

However, I don't know if you have seen it, there are many rich people, many successful people, not with high education, not good background, but, there are even some foreign rich and successful people who earn countless dollars on one dollar. I want to say that, in fact, repeating may not be good, and it may not be good to be admitted to a major university. When you come out of this society, you will understand that what this society wants is strength, experience, and grasp.

If you make good use of the past few years in college and try to enrich yourself while others are eating, drinking and having fun, you are actually similar to those students at Tsinghua University and Peking University. If you can grasp the opportunity, if you can use the opportunity, then no matter what university you came from, it must be the most popular in this society. Do you think this society will want a nerd from Tsinghua University and Peking University?

Don't you believe that some companies just want these hard-working, hard-working and serious talents in universities that are not famous?

It's gold that always shines, you have to believe that, and you have to believe in yourself.

One failure in life does not mean that your life will be ruined here, you fall once, if you stand up, then it is no problem to fall a few more times next time, at least you will stand up. Yes, maybe you will have a hard time during this time, after all, it is a bit difficult to look up in front of outsiders, but you have to go through this. It has become unavoidable, and the only way to face it is to face such things in the future, which is just a lesson that God has prepared for you in advance.

I believe it, the famous university is not necessarily what the society needs, this society has a lot of talents, there are many places, each place needs different talents, it is impossible for every place to need people from famous universities, and they will always find their own world. If you really can't find it, then go and break out of the world yourself!

I've also encountered your situation, but I repeated, under all the pressure, but repeating is not as simple as saying, do you know what kind of suffering you have to go through, can you really be admitted to a good school as you said after repeating, I was admitted to the university I want to get through my efforts, and only after going through it did I know that some things are not very important, such as academic qualifications, now many times academic qualifications have no experience and experience are worth a future, you have to know that we are very smart, as long as you have confidence and a planNothing is difficult, difficulties are temporary, and after you have the academic qualifications you want, you have to go through all kinds of hardships that life gives you. This is the future!

Everything is decided by yourself, fate is in your own hands, since we have chosen to face no matter what the result is, and it is to face it with our heads held high, there is a direction for the choice, not the future, the future must be achieved through your hands and hearts to work hard.

I don't want to talk nonsense, you are very similar to me now, tell me what you think! There are some words that you listen to are not nonsense, and if you don't listen to them, they are nonsense, it's just what you think.

You don't have a very good frustration mentality.

You've been excellent since you were a child, and no one has ever criticized you.

When you get frustrated like this, you break down.

We have to be strong, and this setback is nothing.

Some people are worse off than you are, and they hold on.

That's how hopefully we can do it all over again when we're still young.

Right, you can't go to a good school, but you can go to one.

A good school can't just have two books, and people are not college students.

It's also making money, working in society, and now it's useless to just read.

There's a lot of social experience that you didn't lose, you said test.

Graduate school is not just a talk about the entrance examination, then you work hard, and then you will repeat it.

If you don't work hard, you won't be able to get in, right, you have hope, and you can in college.

Remember not to be discouraged when you are frustrated, think about the mistake first.

How to correct it, what to do in the future, and what kind of mentality to treat now.

We have to hold on, we have the capital, we are very young.

Although I don't support this, if you don't seize the opportunity, you won't go to a good university. But if you think about it, you can go to some school that doesn't pay you back for nothing: the teacher's school. Its implementation is the champion, only if you study hard, maybe you are an excellent teacher.

Don't force yourself and embarrass yourself, accept yourself, it doesn't matter what you take the test or what the future holds, just live happily and happily with your family.

I don't know what to do, but don't think too much about it.

First of all, learn to take responsibility for the results you caused and don't look back at the past.

Secondly, it is important whether you go to college or not, and it does not matter which college you go to.

Finally, since you go to college, what you want in your heart, how to do it, because, you find yourself standing in the new.

Starting point. Difficulties are everyone's there are, but they are not an excuse.

To be honest, I had a similar experience to you, I chose to go to a regular university. It's not easy for parents to spend money on our education, isn't it? Since we once put aside their care for us and didn't cherish it, we should also bear the responsibility for getting such a result.

If you really want to have a good future, then cherish the time you spend in college in the future, make good use of it, and strive for the future! What do you think?

Brothers. I don't know if you're **, a relative of mine had the same experience as you in his studies a few years ago. He was due to a family change a few days before the college entrance examination.

I only took two exams! We are from Zhejiang, and he went to a school there in Sichuan, majoring in finance! I think what is very valuable is that he has not been home for four years, and he has worked hard for four years in school to make up for other majors during the winter and summer vacations.

Now I am an employee of a ** company! Very good!

I think if you've been able to do that well, you'll be able to do it. Choose a major you like! I won't say much more about other words of encouragement. Just hope this example gives you a little confidence! Come on.

In view of your current situation, you can think about it, what is the use of going to university in China today? One can't find a job, and the other can't learn skills, but now our people's thinking is like this, and only by going to college can we get by. You're still young, there's a lot to learn, and there's a lot of work to try, so think about what you really like and then think about which direction to go.

The road is walked out by people, the key is to have a good mentality, if you have nothing to do, communicate with your friends more, and there will be a different state of thought.

Everyone has a time of confusion on the road ahead, once we are in such a period, we must quickly return ourselves to normal, so as not to delay the pace of progress. So, what if you are confused about the future? Let's take a look. How it works:

Take a break. We may be too tired recently, and our thoughts have been confused, at this time we might as well let ourselves temporarily stop moving forward, rest in place for a while, give ourselves a little vacation, maybe we will be full of hope for the future again.

Know how to talk. Many times we suppress something in our hearts, these things make us feel very lost, do not know how to deal with it, at this time we should learn to talk to someone, and seek a solution, so that once we move the big stone in our hearts, we can naturally continue to be on the road with ease.

Set goals. Some people are confused because they don't know what they want. If you can't find a way out at the moment, you might as well set yourself a goal and go for it. Then we will become scrappy.

Read good books. If you really don't know how to go in the future, you might as well read some good books to see how your predecessors were successful, how they were freed from pain, and how they came through confusion. Learning from our predecessors, I believe that we will also break through the haze and see the sunshine.

Calm down and think about it.

When you feel very confused about the future, you will be very anxious and irritable, at this time, calm down and think about it, think of practical methods, and make a plan, the more specific the plan, the better, so that the implementation will be effective.

Many people have been confused, you need to calm down and think about it, sometimes work is just to survive, only survival can be said to be ideal!

It's a good thing to be confused about the future, at least you can know that you are confused and have a clear understanding, which is better than living a comfortable and even muddy life now.

Standing at the current node, the society has become the era of mobile Internet, and the speed of change is so rapid that it can even be said that it has changed a lot in a few years. Then in the coming era of artificial intelligence, the changes will be faster, so there will not be too many "iron rice bowls" in the substantive sense in the future. Make good use of your time to do things that will help you in the future, and know that when you are young, if you don't have much material wealth, time is especially valuable.

If you are confused about the future, then you can think about what you want to do and take some time.

Let's figure out why I'm confused, huh. Do you have any stories? Tell me?