What is it like to have a girlfriend with the same personality as my mother?

It depends on what kind of person your mother is in your eyes and how she feels to you. Mother, is more disciplined and nagging, but she loves you very much, as long as the food is cooked for you, you can eat, the clothes will be washed for you, you can wear them, the bed will be made for you, and you can sleep. Everything is always done for you, and your life is to reach out for food and open your mouth.

What reminds me of this, Spring Breeze Ten Miles is not as good as your TV series. Qiushui in the play is to find a girlfriend with the same personality as her mother, Zhao Yingnan. After reading it, I especially understand why Qiushui's mother likes Zhao Yingnan as her daughter-in-law so much.

Zhao Yingnan, like Qiushui, was admitted to Beijing Renhe Medical College, which had been studying for eight consecutive years, during the military training, due to Qiushui's timidity, cowardice and Zhao Yingnan's horizontal knife to snatch love, a little trick and hard work, only then did Qiushui and Zhao Yingnan's seven-year relationship. Of course, that's a story for later. A year later, after the end of the military training, he went to Beijing Renhe Hospital for an internship.

With the passage of time and the stability of the relationship between the two, Zhao Yingnan always went to Qiushui's dormitory to help Qiushui wash clothes, pack things, and clean up the bed, which made Qiushui and their dormitory envious except Qiushui, and at the same time sighed that Qiushui had found a good girl, Xin Yi always said to Qiushui, don't lose Zhao Yingnan, Zhao Yingnan has paid a lot for him, and even the whole youth. However, what is robbed is robbed, and in the end, it can't withstand the person who has it at the beginning in my heart, the most ignorant and youthful feelings. <>

Xiaohong, at the first glance when she entered the school, she liked Qiushui, Qiushui didn't like her at first, but, within a few days, Qiushui was still shocked by Xiaohong's bravery and courage to be conquered at the same time, they liked each other, but, at this time, Zhao Yingnan took the initiative to help Qiushui, so that Qiushui moved his mind, he didn't know what to do, with his vanity, and with Xiaohong's character, he retreated, he felt that he couldn't control Xiaohong, he couldn't catch Xiaohong, so, Qiushui and Xiaohong, A farewell concubine spanned eight years, and in the final analysis, it couldn't withstand fate and work.

Everyone knows that Xiaohong has not fallen in love for Qiushui for seven years, and Zhao Yingnan also knows who the person in Qiushui's heart is, so Zhao Yingnan is not confident, she is always afraid that Xiaohong will contact Qiushui, gradually, she is a little "early" in Qiushui's eyes, and the problem is here, Zhao Yingnan has really done a lot of excessive things in order to keep Qiushui, especially with Qiushui's mother, Qiushui calls her "little mother". Qiushui said that the reason why he chose the eight-year school was because he wanted to escape from the clutches of his mother, and as a result, another "little mother" came.

Although I don't know what kind of personality your mother is, it's probably really annoying to see you ask such a question.

Some mothers will arrange everything for their children. Some mothers are big and informal. Some mothers have a strong personality and demand that their children must listen to their own arrangements. Some mothers have a gentle personality and know how to respect their children's wishes.

You came here to ask questions, probably because of your mother's personality, which makes you uncomfortable! And the girlfriend has a similar personality to the mother, so when you get along, you feel like you're facing another mother?

In fact, from a psychological point of view, women looking for a boyfriend are based on their fathers; Men looking for a girlfriend are modeled after their mothers. Then repeat your own family pattern of origin in marriage.

The so-called Oedipus plot is that boys will have the urge to "kill their fathers and marry their mothers" when they are young.

So theoretically, it's perfectly normal for you to find a girlfriend with a similar personality to your mother.

Feelings, it's similar to your life pattern in your original family, you used to be dominated by your mother, so after marriage, you will also be dominated by your wife; Approved and tolerated by your mother, your wife is probably a similar character, and the difference is not too big.

What the? You say you don't want to be dominated, you just want to be taken care of? How can you "turn over the serfs and sing"?

Don't be funny, there will be gains and losses, how can you only take advantage of the benefits, but not pay the price!

Do you want to live a life that is taken care of, but also want to be free from domination?

You see, the word "insatiable" is for you to think like that.

Of course, if you just want to get out of the original family model, instead of being greedy and extravagant for benefits, then there is no way, the first step of self-growth awakening, you have already done it.

The next step is to break the cycle and make a breakthrough in self-growth, which may take a relatively long time, and the process will be repeated, requiring you to do more long-term persistence.

Of course, you can give up at any time, go back to the safe zone, continue to be dominated by your mother and wife, save worry and effort, and lack a little freedom, do you want to try?

inexplicably thought of Zhang Wuji and Xu Shilin.

Zhang Wuji, we all know it, his mother is the daughter of King Yin Ye, Yin Susu, and the feeling on the rivers and lakes is not very good. It's a witch, and she told her son that the more beautiful a woman is, the more she can't believe it, well, I believe in this truth. After that, Zhang Wuji always believed in this truth, but when he met Zhu Jiuzhen, he met more people, beautiful women.

So Zhang Wuji's life of being fooled began, in fact, those who know should know that Yin Susu is not bad. It's just a bit rude, after all, Miss. Later, when he met Zhao Min, Zhang Wuji actually still had some feelings.

Because some of Zhao Min's styles are very similar to his mother, they are all the same rude, and when they meet someone they like, they are the same infatuated and serious. This is the reason why Zhang Wuji has a love-hate dilemma for Zhao Min.

may be because Hu Meiniang and Bai Suzhen's actors are the same person, I think the person Xu Shilin likes is the same person as his mother, but it seems to be the same, first of all, Bai Suzhen and Hu Meiniang are not human beings, and they are the same kind in their hearts. But Bai Suzhen has already gone to Leifeng Tower, but Xu Shilin has a childhood sweetheart by his side, but in the end he fell in love with Hu Meiniang, which has to be said because of the same appearance.

In fact, it's not a bad thing that the person you like has something in common with your mother, but it's actually because you have a mother-love complex. So the person you like is like your mother, if your mother is a good-tempered person, it's fine, if your mother is a short-tempered person, I really can't imagine how you will live in the future.

But no matter what, your mother's love for you is love, and if the person you like is like your mother, then there can be one more kind of love. Then you can put away your emotions, and you should treat your daughter-in-law like a mother in the future, otherwise I guess your mother will bully you with your daughter-in-law.

My girlfriend has a similar personality to my mother, and I feel like I have an extra mother to take care of because she knows how to take care of others and understand other people's feelings.

My other half is like that, really, the tone and personality of the voice are exactly the same, I didn't notice it at first, and the more I felt it, the more it looked. It feels like I can know what she's thinking all day long, and I know her very well, and she's glad I know her so well. But the only thing is that the control is too strict.

It is estimated that the family lives very harmoniously, and they all say that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, but they all know each other with the same personality, so it will be very good.

It depends on what kind of personality your mother is, but you may be happy! Only people with similar personalities can get along better.

Naturally not, but you also need to master, and your girlfriend and parents are not contradictory.

First of all, there is no doubt that you are friendly to your own women as a boyfriend, and boys need to take care of women in the first place; If you have already determined the relationship, and there is an overall plan such as getting married later, then you should be even more friendly to your daughter, that is, the person who will accompany you for a lifetime, the person who will let you pass on the lineage, every parent is very outstanding, as a husband, you need to learn to cherish and caring. If you think about it this way, you will check your parents better.

But the two are not contradictory, although they both involve love, but there are also different methods. Mom and Dad naturally have to be filial piety, usually pay more attention to and take care of them, and care about their clothing, food, housing and transportation. But frankly speaking, it will still be closer to the wife, and now the general newbies who are married will live in the new house and will continue to live separately from the in-laws, this factor will also cause a certain level of care for the daughter-in-law more, after all, the two will be together every day.

In fact, there is a very big contradiction of values between young people and their parents, as the parents and children of the post-50s, post-60s and even post-70s have a very big problem of the times, this kind of knot can not be untied in a day or two, or even a year or two. If you want to live in harmony together, you can not live together after starting a family, but you can live very closely. When it comes to girlfriends, if your parents are very smart and can talk to them about anything, if you feel that communication is blocked, then it is better to talk more first, and when the hearts of each other are as close as when they were children, they will say anything.

This is very normal, because children must be very dependent on their other half when they grow up, so they are better for their girlfriends, and I think this is a very normal behavior.

Such people are particularly emotional, because their girlfriends will marry them, and the two of them will go through a lifetime, so it is not easy to understand her better.

I think that in fact, such a boy is not very good, because it will have a certain influence, and such a girlfriend will also bring a certain amount of harm to each other.

Every time I go to her house, I feel very comfortable, and I am willing to go without worrying or fearing.

Everyone who saw me said that I was a good person: not only did I marry a good daughter-in-law who was like a flower and jade, gentle and virtuous, but also met a good father-in-law and a good mother-in-law.

Every weekend, a white car will be parked at the entrance of a residential building with three units, and two middle-aged couples in their fifties will step out of the car, smiling and carrying their luggage, hurriedly go upstairs, ring the doorbell of the residents on the first floor, and then a burst of laughter and laughter will drift in the wind. They were my dear and respectable father-in-law and mother-in-law, and they drove from a hundred miles away to see us coming.

His father-in-law had a fateful life, and his poor family background in his early years tempered his hard-working, decisive, self-reliant and self-reliant character. When he was young, he learned to cook first-hand and became a well-known master.

Whenever there is something going on, you can always see his tall posture and busy figure, and the dishes he makes are full of color and fragrance, which has won people's praise. The bold and capable, humorous and talkative father-in-law is everyone's pistachio. With him, there is laughter; With him, the popularity index remains high.

For decades, my father-in-law has long been recognized as the president of the Red and White Council.

The mother-in-law is kind and generous. Every time my wife goes home to go shopping with her mother-in-law to buy clothes, my mother-in-law always grabs the payment in front of my wife, and often twists with my wife.

Every time I go home and see the increasingly vicissitudes of life on the faces of my father-in-law and mother-in-law, and the gray hair on my sideburns, my heart trembles: If only I could turn back time! May they be young forever and have a young heart forever.

As the saying goes: a son-in-law is half a son. My father-in-law and mother-in-law treat me more like my own son, and I want to remember their kindness.

I felt that I was very comfortable with them, and when I got married to my girlfriend in the future, I would have a good relationship with my father-in-law and mother-in-law, and I suddenly let go of a stone in my heart.

In this way, you will be so lucky, the big problems that have been handed down for thousands of years can be solved, and your life will be like a fish in water after marriage.

I feel that the family atmosphere is very harmonious, and we are happy to be together as a family, and I feel very lucky to be part of such a family.

My girlfriend's parents have a very good personality and should be very happy, because a good family will also educate a good girl. So you have to cherish your girlfriend well.

My girlfriend's parents have very good personalities, and I feel very happy, because in this way, there will be a lot less conflict between me and her parents.

My girlfriend's parents have very good personalities, of course, I feel very lucky and happy, which means that you can get along well.

The woman's parents have a particularly good personality, which means that the girlfriend who came out of this kind of family also has a very good personality, and you are lucky to find a girlfriend with a good personality.

I was very envious of this family environment, and when I went to see them for the first time, I found that they were very kind and regarded me as a son.

Your girlfriend's parents have a very good personality, you should want to go to her house and sit there, and you also want to marry this girlfriend home as soon as possible, so as not to be snatched away.

Your girlfriend's parents have a very good personality, which makes it easier for you to communicate with them in the future, and you can also find them if you have problems in your later life.