My parents are deaf and dumb, will he mind, should I tell him?

Updated on amusement 2024-04-25
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Tell him! He loves you, not your parents, and has nothing to do with your parents, as long as you love each other. If he truly loves you, he won't care.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't hesitate, tell him early, if he minds very much, it's better to end it early, so as not to hurt you and waste your time, if he doesn't mind, continue to get along, but you have to find a chance to see if he is really acceptable, but you can't be deceived.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't think there's a need for a man to dislike a woman's family environment, unless he wants something from you.

    If not, then don't worry about it at all.

    He likes you, he just likes you as a person, and it has nothing to do with anything else.

    So don't worry about it and tell him sooner.

    If you have any questions, you can communicate early

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love needs to be honest, and if it were me I wouldn't mind, because I love you, and it will be you, not your parents, who will live with me in the future, and of course I respect them because the only thing in their lives is given to me, and I will love them!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Tell him, and he'll find out sooner or later.

    If he really likes you, he won't hesitate at first, but he will accept it in the end.

    Otherwise, his love for you is not all firm!

    Because he's going to live with you for the rest of his life, not with your parents

    Bless you!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If he loves you, how can he dislike your parents, what's wrong with the deaf and dumb, aren't they also human beings, should they be discriminated against? He can guarantee that he will not have any disasters in the future, if he really dislikes your parents, he will dislike you personally!Break up with him and say nothing!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If he's sincere, then he won't mind.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Tell me, you can't keep this kind of thing a secret.

    If he really doesn't want to be with you because of your parents, is this kind of man worth your life?

    That's the parents who gave birth to you and raised you!!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you really like it, you won't care.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's always going to be said, that's a matter of time, and if you say it's done, you've done the least you should have done, and it's not your business how you react, right?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If he cares if you tell me.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I'm also worried, I'm in the same situation as you, but sooner or later I'll have to know. I don't know what's wrong with you now.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Summary. Hello dear, many parents of deaf and dumb children feel that they cannot communicate with their children at home. In fact, parents are the first teachers of children, and deaf-mute children can understand their parents' intentions through their parents' tone, body movements, expressions, etc., when they speak, and know whether their parents care about and love him, and gradually understand the world around them through such communication and exchanges.

    Hello dear, many parents of deaf and dumb children feel that they cannot communicate with their children at home. In fact, parents are the first teachers of children, and deaf-mute children can understand their parents' intentions through their parents' tone, body movements, and expressions when they speak, and know whether their parents care about and love him, and gradually understand the world around them through such careful communication and exchanges. As long as parents master some methods of communicating with their children, they can carry out more intercourse.

    We are already husband and wife should receive the gift money, and the parents are selfish to pay back the money, because why didn't the parents discuss it with us.

    Dear, parents should do this because they don't want you to know. They're on their own. Or maybe they're keeping it for you.

    You're not right, besides, it's not my parents' money, it's supposed to be my parents' money, and others can't be selfish when I make my own decisions.

    Here's how to kiss your parents. It is not right for you to compare your philosophy with what your parents did.

    You don't think I'm right, it's just a matter of facts.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. Hello, I am Mr. Chen of Dabang Emotion! We're happy to answer your questions! The question is not difficult to choose, in principle, are you choosing a boyfriend or choosing a boyfriend's mother? The answer in your heart should be clear!

    Hello, I am Mr. Chen of Dabang Emotion! We're happy to answer your questions! The question is not difficult to choose, in principle, are you choosing a boyfriend or choosing a boyfriend's mother? The answer in your heart should be clear!

    It won't affect the child, and the child will be healthy! This is convenient for you to consult a doctor during the marriage test!

    Is it right to just check the body of the girl?

    Boys are also deaf, but boys' mothers are also deaf, will it affect?

    You can ask your teacher. It shows that you value your relationship! The foundation of your relationship is no problem!

    It's just that his mom is flawed! You have a hint of insecurity in your heart! Just speak up your concerns!

    The teacher will try to help you with the answers! Then you analyze it again, and I hope it can help you!

    The boy is deaf, but the boy's mother is also deaf, will having a child affect it?

    The boy is deaf, but the boy's mother is also deaf, will having a child affect it?

    During the marriage examination, both parties' bodies will be examined, and there is a lot of content! Then a manual will be given! Help you understand your health and fertility conditions!

    Okay, got it.

    Do you mean to say that your boyfriend is also deaf and dumb?

    Yes. At first you said his mom was, I thought your boyfriend was normal! That would hardly be a problem! But if your boyfriend is too, the odds are high! 30-50 odds.

    You first have to find out if they are born deaf and dumb, and if they are born deaf and dumb, it is a genetic defect! If it's the day after tomorrow! This is not the case!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This is to find out what the specific reason for your parents is deaf and mute, whether it is hereditary, and don't be suspicious.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First of all, you like each other, which is the most important cornerstone for you to continue to maintain and develop your relationship in the future, only two people who have a heart-to-heart relationship, love each other, and deep feelings, and no external resistance can separate you. This is the principle and belief that you must uphold.

    Secondly, your girlfriend is two years older than you, which is not a reason for you to break up, the basis of love is not feelings and not age, not to mention that she is only two years older than you, which is not a reason to break up. So you have to stick to the most important position of feelings.

    Moreover, her parents do not approve of your relationship, which can be called a huge obstacle to your relationship, but in this day and age, parental resistance is definitely not the most good reason. The most important thing is that your girlfriend must love you genuinely and unforgettable, and you must also love her so much that you can't break up. Stick to this principle, your girlfriend will never contact other boyfriends again, resolutely refuse to agree to her parents' request, and clearly tell her parents that if you don't marry, her parents will have no choice.

    So, you have to encourage your girlfriend to stick to this principle, and over time, her parents will back down and give in.

    In the end, you must work hard to get an ideal job position, strive to have an ideal personal income, and use your ability and strength to prove that you can completely let your girlfriend live a happy and happy life, completely dispel her parents' contempt and doubts about you, and thus eliminate the resistance from her parents.

    I wish you all a rainbow after the storm, a family, a long happiness, and sweet love!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    To be sure, children of deaf-mutes are not necessarily deaf-mute, and whether a deaf-mute person gives birth to a deaf-mute child depends on the cause of the disease. Generally speaking, there are two types of deaf-mutes: one is congenital deaf-mute and the other is acquired deaf-mute.

    There are two more types of congenital deafness: one is caused by environmental factors such as X-ray exposure, viral infections, and teratogenic drugs in the early stages of pregnancy, and this deafness is usually not inherited. The other is hereditary, generally belonging to autosomal recessive inheritance, and there are also dominant inheritance, and there are three ways of inheritance:

    1. The phenotype of the parents is normal, but they both carry the deaf-mute pathogenic gene, and the deaf-mute genes of the parents are passed on to the next generation, and a deaf-mute child will be born. If one of the parents is a carrier of the deaf-mute gene and is not deaf-mute, the next generation may also be a carrier of the deaf-mute gene and is not deaf-mute. 2. Both parents are born with hereditary deafness, and the children born are all deaf and mute, regardless of gender.

    In this case, fertility is not allowed. 3. One of the parents is born with hereditary deafness, and among the children born, one-half may be a sick child, and one-half may be a normal child, which is calculated according to the law of heredity.

    Acquired deafness and mute are caused by various external factors such as infectious diseases and drugs after the birth of the baby, and are not inherited.

    So don't worry, your boyfriend is normal, your kids must be normal.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It is recommended that you and your family go to the otolaryngology department of a major hospital for deafness genetic testing, one is to rule out family diseases, and the other is to eugenics, even if you have deafness genes, you can intervene in advance. The Ear Research Institute of Beijing 301 Hospital can do genetic testing.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Don't worry, deafness is generally not inherited. What is inherited will only be physique, so there will be a few people with bad ears in the family. For example, your family may be allergic to deafness drugs, as long as you don't use these drugs.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You don't have to.

    It's not up to you to decide, it's fate. But that can't be changed.

    The only thing you can change is yourself.

    First of all, you have to have a strong heart, never bow your head, and have the courage to break the boat.

    Secondly, you still have to learn a skill in a down-to-earth manner, so that at least you can be independent, and only when you are independent, can you truly live.

    Third, don't have too many complaints about your parents, they don't actually want you to be like this, but there may be various reasons that lead to your such a result.

    Fourth, don't be afraid of your own shortcomings, compared to those who are severely disabled, or who have no hands or feet. Or someone who has died. You've been lucky. At least, you're alive. So why don't you live well?

    Fifth, anyone is unknown about the future, such as Tangshan Da**, Wenchuan Da**, how many people have died before they have time to shout in their sleep, how many healthy people have become disabled again, and how many people have nothing in an instant, but life has to go on, as long as they are alive, they must continue.

    Be brave, don't care about other people's eyes, why should others look down on you when you yourself look down on yourself???

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It is true that parental opposition is a big reason for couples to separate. After all, we must listen to the orders of our parents, so what should we do? Do you just leave it to your devices? Not really!

    Let's learn from the experiences of couples who have struggled to stay together despite their parents' opposition.

    First, both couples love each other deeply and have strong beliefs!

    Second, encourage each other, trust each other, and strive to prove each other's abilities!

    Third, be financially independent and don't ask for a penny from your family! So that you don't eat people with short mouths!

    Fourth, it's best not to be in the same city as your parents. Go to the field with the people you love the most, and you will have a lot less trouble!

    If you can do the above points, then I believe that you can overcome the hurdle of your parents' opposition and move towards a happy life!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Marriage is a matter for the two of you, it has nothing to do with them, if he is good to you, let's be together.

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