What it s like to be with someone with an extreme personality

The experience is how there are still such people in the world, avoid them as soon as possible, avoid all unnecessary intersections, and refuse to ask for trouble. Because his personality is really extreme, after understanding it, I feel that it is better not to continue to understand. I want to walk away as soon as possible than being influenced by someone with an extreme personality, this kind of thing, once encountered, I don't want to be nosy for the rest of my life.

When we got along for more than half a year, after several quarrels and disputes, her performance made me feel incredible. Many times he threatened to die to prove how much he loved me. She tried standing on the top of the 15th floor until I ran up and carried her down out of breath; Tried a car rushing down the street to the road; I've taken sleeping pills and cut my wrists.

Afterwards, she said she was scaring me. But I don't want to live this life anymore. Life is like a chicken flying dog jumping like a TV series.

proposed to break up many times, but she couldn't get it by looking for death. I really couldn't stand it, and I was afraid that she would really do something stupid. If it happens, I don't think I'll ever forgive myself for the rest of my life.

I met my roommate's boyfriend, both of whom were my classmates, the boy was extreme to an incomprehensible point, in order to chase his roommate and save his roommate, there were even such things as secretly stalking, openly tailgating, guarding people downstairs, hugging the roommate in front of the public and not letting him go, not letting the roommate go back to the dormitory at night, following to the women's toilet, eavesdropping on the counselor's questions outside the door, the roommate hid from him and didn't dare to see him and hit ** to threaten to jump into the lake, kneeling in public, slapping himself, Taking fast-acting heart pills caused the heart to beat fast and foaming at the mouth, claiming to be caused by mood influence.

When I arrived every Thursday, basically the living expenses were used up, so I basically bought some food on Thursday night, and went to the cafeteria with my friends that day, and the money in the card was not enough, and she happened to see it next to her and then said that it was not enough to use her brush. Sometimes she would give me instant noodles or something. So I'm still very happy and grateful to her.

The classmates often played with their mobile phones in class, and after being discovered by the teacher, they became furious and began to yell, abuse the teacher, lift the table, smash things, and the security guards downstairs came to the door.

When Xiao W first came, she was also very kind, and she was unfamiliar with the place when she first came, so she happened to sit very close, and no one played with her, so I took my brother to play with her. Later, Xiao W started to throw face at me and my brother, and then stopped playing with us.

At night, I played with my boyfriend in the dormitory until three or four o'clock, and her roommate reminded me several times, and she couldn't sleep because of the noise, and she reflected with the teacher that it was another big quarrel.

People with extreme personalities exhibit excessive egotism, jealousy of others, stubborn pursuits, ignoring or not believing objective evidence that does not correspond to the patient's ideas, interpreting things around them as "conspiracy" that does not correspond to the actual situation.

1. Excessive conceit

Excessive conceit, blaming others for setbacks or failures, always thinking that they are right.

2. I hate others

I hate others and can't be tolerant of others' mistakes.

3. Stubbornly pursue

Detached from reality to argumentative and hostile, stubbornly pursuing unreasonable "rights" or interests of the individual.

4. Ignoring or not believing objective evidence that is inconsistent with the patient's ideas

Ignoring or not believing objective evidence that does not correspond to the patient's thinking. As a result, it is difficult to change a patient's mind with reason or facts.

5. Interpret the surrounding things as a "conspiracy" that does not conform to the actual situation

Interpreting things around you as a "conspiracy" that doesn't fit the reality of the situation and can become a person with an extreme idea of overprice.

Causes of extreme personalities

1. One-sidedness in understanding

Radical people look at problems with absolute, one-sided eyes. Always with tinted glasses.

2. Emotional impulsivity

The extreme expression of emotions is now according to personal likes and dislikes.

3. Recklessness in behavior

Extremism is manifested in recklessness and recklessness in action. For example, middle school students often think that friendship is a handout. When their friends are "bullied" by others, they often don't say a word, and immediately stand up to help their friends fight, treating brutality and recklessness as heroic acts.

It depends on whether the person is very talented, and if he is as talented as Musk, it is no problem to insist on himself.

If there is a lot of knowledge in the brain, then the extremes are not good, and ignorance will be manifested.

Personally, I think that the personality is extremely bad, for example, you can be kind, but you can't be too kind.