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Anonymous users2024-02-07You're not wrong, it's just that your family is short-sighted and can't see your future, thinking that getting married and having children is a lifetime!
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Anonymous users2024-02-06So what's not wrong?
Either convince the family or listen to the family.
What else can you do to leave your family and run away from home?
That would be naïve.
In fact, we live in the world, and it is impossible for us to do everything according to our hearts.
We can't change the world around us, we can only change ourselves.
All we have to do is accept what we have to accept, and enjoy our freedom to the extent that we can make our own decisions.
And then on a case-by-case basis, you've had a tragedy, and I'm guessing your family has recognized it.
They're not going to force you to get married anymore.
At this point, perhaps what you need to do is to cherish the freedom you can enjoy now.
Seize the time to pursue the happiness you want.
Speaking of power points, you can use this failed marriage as a reason why you want to control your own destiny.
In this respect, this failure is not the hope of a new life.
Wishing you happiness and a happy new year.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05You just have to work on it slowly. Girls are happy if they earn more money and have the ability to support themselves and their families.
Marriage can be a little later. I'm 24 now. I'm not married. And I think you have to take your time when you get married. You can't be impatient.
Landlord: I think you have to sort out what kind of life you want, how to work hard, and persevere, and it's the same for marriage. Be clear ... In this way, life will not be out of shape.
Of course, parents still have to understand, filial piety, understanding, long live, and a little more happy for the New Year.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04Marriage is not child's play Since you didn't want to be at the time, why did you want to get married Actually, did you seriously consider your own problems You said that you have a problem with your personality and want to do business Let's not talk about the size of the business Do you think that if your personality is doing business, will the communication with people be affected? Besides, have you ever thought about what business you want to do Do you want to open a store or something, choose a location, what to sell, how to solve the rent, what to do if you have a living problem, whether you have money, if you take money like a family, if you are not vigilant, what if the business is not good and you lose money, have you thought about it?
In fact, you are not very old, you are not looking for someone you like, how can you scribble to get married, like your first marriage, you can have a good chat with your family, you don't want to get married, you don't know each other very well, or don't love each other very much, this kind of marriage hurts the most is the woman, the psychological shadow can not be erased, if it is very much like doing business, you will think about it in all aspects, and then decide to fight for your goals, and hope that your life will be better in the future, and have a happy family.
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Anonymous users2024-02-03I used to be the same as you, but my family told me to go to the place where I never went, I found that as long as you live a good life in life, and then give your family a little good when you are fine, the family will be happy, their children are very promising, life is like this. Don't force yourself, don't go behind the backs of others, it's not good or bad, it's just that their ideas are different from yours, sometimes your parents may not be reliable, they will betray you for themselves, sometimes they will sacrifice them in order to help you, you must learn to think about human nature, and you can't blame your parents or who you are. It's just that you don't see the reality clearly, sometimes the display is very cruel, but the reality is also very beautiful.
How many years do you have to decide your parents for major events in your life now, you haven't thought about why you got married in the first place. Find the problem from within yourself. Everything is difficult to distinguish between right and wrong, oh, since you have been divided, go your own way, but at the same time, I want to warn you that any road is also full of hardships, if you are not psychologically ready to accept it, just like your marriage will eventually fail, by the way, I am also open**, now** is very big and chaotic, and at the same time the competition is also the most fierce time.
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Anonymous users2024-02-02Well, you're not wrong. Hope you get better,
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Anonymous users2024-02-01My parents thought it was my fault that others were targeting me, but I didn't do anything.
Kiss is happy to answer for you. <>
How to say it, your parents should have something unsatisfactory at work, parents all over the world love their children, maybe their love is extreme, you will slowly understand when you grow up, your parents are the ones who gave birth to you and raised you, you should tolerate them more. <>
Regarding their rude way of communicating, this is not advisable. I think you should be honest with your parents about it. Parents love their children to some extent, but their words make people feel more annoying.
You also need self-esteem. At the same time, you can ask the older, closer, authoritative elders around you to help you speak to your parents, and they will always listen. <>
I hope I can help you and wish you a happy life.
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Anonymous users2024-01-31Summary. According to your description, it is very painful for you to feel that everyone is targeting you, that your parents do not understand you, and that the high school entrance examination is very stressful. It is advisable to relax, everyone is directed at themselves and it may be just a delusion.
You can't hurt yourself when you feel wronged, you can write it when you feel that others can't understand you, or you can yell it out, and you must learn to decompress yourself. As long as you are strong inside, it doesn't matter what other people think.
My parents thought it was my fault that others were targeting me, but I didn't do anything.
According to your description, it is very painful for you to feel that everyone is targeting you, that your parents do not understand you, and that the high school entrance examination is very stressful. It is advisable to relax, everyone is directed at themselves and it may be just a delusion. You can't hurt yourself when you feel wronged, you can write it when you feel that others can't understand you, or you can yell it out, and you must learn to decompress yourself.
As long as you are strong inside, it doesn't matter what other people think.
You may not have a good relationship with your classmates, feel that everyone is targeting you, and your parents do not understand you, which makes you have bad emotional distress.
But they all thought it was my fault.
You can believe in yourself, or at least you have to know what is right and wrong.
Sometimes it's good to speak with facts, and prove with facts.
My parents said that I must have done something to make them target me.
No, it won't. If you don't even believe your parents, who else can you trust?
I don't want to live anymore.
If you want to open a little, don't turn the horns.
It's hard to live. You have to think about those people who are not easy, who are now in good health, and there are so many fun and beautiful things in the world.
What's so hard about it, and you're so young now.
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When I was in junior high school, I longed for the life of dropping out of school, smoking, drinking and going to nightclubs, and I always thought it was cool, so I changed from an excellent student who got a scholarship to a bad young man who was shouted and beaten by rats on the street, my father because of physical reasons on the one hand, on the other hand, I hit him with cancer, of course, I didn't understand that my father was on the verge of death, I was not admitted to high school, In order to stay away from my parents and not listen to their scolding, I chose to go to a nursing school in the field, in fact, it is nothing more than to avoid their sight, not by their side, I can skip class unscrupulously, sleep in class, do not write homework and do not study, until finally I learned nothing and let the school give my parents ** to take away and persuade me to quit, I was taken home by my mother, my father was very angry and did not give me a penny, and I had no choice but to go out to find a job, that job was to sell cosmetics in the mall, go to work at 9 o'clock in the morning and get off work at 9 o'clock in the evening, standing all day, And from home to the mall, and then from the mall home, every day 40 kilometers away I have to ride an electric car, sometimes it may suddenly rain, but also to ride home soaked in the rain, in fact, his heart is heartbroken, the job has intrigues, I often cry secretly, at that time I realized that I was really nothing without him, but I didn't dare to resign, because it was really difficult to find a job without a degree, and I didn't want to give up if I earned little money, and then my father died, Now I am also married, have children and have my own family, my mother often asks me if I regret the decision I made, I always want to make my own decisions I do not regret my life, I ask myself how can I not regret it, if I am obedient, will my father not go so early and insist on accompanying me for a few years, even if he goes to see that I am all stable, he will rest assured and happy to go, for my father this is the regret of my life, sometimes I quarrel with my husband, I will think if my father is in the case he knows will immediately rush over to protect me, Is I still a home to go back to, I'm the same as you, when my parents disciplined me during the rebellious period, I also had depression and wanted to commit suicide by taking sleeping pills, but I watched my mother anxiously send me to the hospital to shed tears for fear that I really felt very unfilial at the moment when I had an accident, I want to share my own story with you, I hope you don't have psychological pressure, there are too many unsatisfactory things in life, when it is to give yourself some challenges, so that you can meet a better self, and it is also a kind of happiness to make my parents happy, if my father is not dead, If I still have a chance, then I will definitely choose not to disappoint him.
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