Should I get 10W bride price money when I get married? 10

It doesn't matter who you are in love, but you have to choose the right person when you get married.

But now, if you really like her and plan to marry her, you have to calmly refuse all kinds of unreasonable demands in her family. Otherwise, it will definitely affect your married life. You can say, if you don't think about it, you have to think about your daughter, with this 100,000, how happy our lives will be after marriage.

But to be honest, her parents are insanely poor, and I don't think they'll understand your struggle, so I don't approve of you choosing her. It may not be fair to her, but it is even more unfair to you and your parents if you choose to accept her family's demands.

People who really like you will follow you with all their hearts, even if their parents don't agree, she will do it herself, I feel like your daughter-in-law is a little something、、、 I guess ha, don't blame me for speaking badly, is your girlfriend more scheming than you? I feel that after getting married, the daughter-in-law and your parents will be very distressed, I feel that I just got married this year, we have been together for four years, at first her mother did not agree with us being together, but after a long time, she saw that we were very good together, her mother agreed, their family did not have any requirements, the bride price can be given as much as possible, the most important thing is to have that meaning, I feel that you are not marrying a daughter-in-law, but buying a daughter-in-law, if this is the case, your future problems will come one after another, brother, Remember that "it is better to lack than to overuse", and find the one who understands you, loves you, and loves your parents, which is the person you are waiting for in this life

Did their parents buy and sell their daughter's marriage? I hate such parents the most, joking about the happiness of their children.

It's not easy for you to get to this point, how can a good love make them so disgusting.

At the beginning, you were not afraid that their family would be poor, and you were still with her, but now you might as well ask her, if I have no money, will you still marry me?

If you really love each other. Those don't matter at all.

Do you know if I have a bad woman in my family, if a woman with bad conditions finds a man with good conditions.

It's nice to be able to get married. If you want to buy a house or ask for money, unless the woman's family also wants to accompany a car or something.

Don't get used to their stinky problems. After their family continues like this, you will still take care of your family and ask for money when you get married.

Think about your parents, if your girlfriend loves you, how can he tolerate her parents being so excessive.

Unless I'm with you at the beginning, I'm going to be with you because of your family's conditions.

This is actually not supposed to be, after all, you have already paid a lot of money, and you are asking for bride price, which is a bit too much. It is recommended to communicate your own situation well, and if she insists, it is actually not recommended that you associate with her.

100,000 is not a decimal number. Communicate more with your girlfriend. If she doesn't want to, her parents can't help it, if your girlfriend is, if you don't take the 100,000 yuan and don't get married, this kind of woman doesn't want it.

In fact, the woman wants to give money, and this money is also for you to use after marriage, and the woman's parents will not get anything. Discuss it with your parents and it will be resolved. Everyone is well-intentioned and loves this family.

This woman is too much, be content, my husband and I are naked married, both parties are single parents, nothing, the two want to be happy and happy together, those materials can be fought for by the two of them, don't embarrass the old man.

Communicate well with your girlfriend actually! She should be able to understand the situation, her family is also a bit excessive, and there are too many requirements, if the man is in the same situation as her family, how many are they willing?

Hey, you can ask your father-in-law and mother-in-law, are they planning to sell their daughters, this is such a family, they will kill you in the future, and your wife is too ignorant, then you should be a cash cow.

Look at the conditions, just enough... I feel like I'm selling girls, not family girls... Feelings are a matter of two people, and no one can stop who and whom. I wish you all happiness·1··

If two people really love each other, they will consider each other's feelings and not make some excessive demands.

You're married to a bottomless pit. Let's check out how much the bride price is.

Do you want a b face, it's not easy for your parents to buy a house, and you want 10w? According to the face of the face, this kind of woman quickly threw it away.

Do you have feelings and want a bride price? 100,000 more, it's funny.

Money is not the balance of love.

Is their family going to sell their daughter? It's a bit excessive.

Dry them for a few years without conditions.

Upper medium. In the current social environment, a bride price of about 100,000 yuan is considered to be above the average level for most people. The amount of the bride price is related to the regional economy, but the regional economic development is not the only factor.

2. For example, in first-tier cities such as Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, many newlyweds get married with a bride price of about 100,000 yuan. In some remote areas, when the economy is underdeveloped, the bride price may reach about 150,000 yuan.

3. To measure whether the bride price of 100,000 yuan is normal for you, you must judge it in combination with local customs and economic strength. The sky-high bride price that exceeds our financial ability is a custom that we must resist.

Second, is the bride price of 100,000 very little?

The bride price is quite cheap for families with superior family conditions. Especially families with a certain social status attach great importance to pomp and circumstance, and only seek the best. So such a family, their number must be far more than the 100,000, presumably those millions, tens of millions of bride price news, everyone has also read a lot, and they all understand their definition of money.

For working families, the bride price may be all the savings saved by the parents in the first half of their lives, or it may be the money for the elderly in the future. For such a family, 100,000 yuan is a very large amount of money, and spending it all at once can be said to be "breaking the muscles and bones". As a son, seeing his parents take out pension money to pay the bride price, it must not be a taste in his heart.

For some people with lower incomes, that's an astronomical amount. It is possible to get married once, not only to spend all the family's savings, but also to borrow money from relatives and friends to make up, in the preparation of the wedding banquet must also be short of funds, such a marriage can only live in debt repayment, life pressure and hardship.

3. The bride price is normal.

According to local customs.

Different places, the number of bride price required is different, for example, many areas in Guangdong do not have bride price, even if the woman wants a bride price, it is a good bride price, but it is generally between 10,000 yuan and 30,000 yuan, which is not high. However, first-tier cities, such as Beijing and Shanghai, have high consumption levels, and the number of bride prices is naturally high.

The bride price is generally higher in rural areas than in urban areas.

The marriage customs in the cities are deeply influenced by Western culture, although they still maintain some traditional marriage habits, but they are obviously not orthodox enough, the marriage customs in the countryside themselves are less influenced by other cultures, and the education level is backward, and the concept has not yet formed a correct view of the bride price, so the bride price in the countryside will be higher than that in the cities.

I think it has nothing to do with the bride price, don't think that the bride price is less faceless in front of relatives and friends, if two people really have feelings, it is much better to live happily than anyone else than to give you 100,000 bride price. The bride price is actually two families to help a new home, so that the two of you have a start-up capital, I think it has nothing to do with how much, and because the bride price is a little estranged, not the problem of the two of you, it is the problem of your parents, my sister gave a symbolic 50,000 when she got married, and she has not given the house, and now she lives in a 180-square-meter house with my brother-in-law, and my brother-in-law is obedient like a dog. . . But the old woman is not good, and things are forced, so I don't see her, and I look at the provincial anger.

So it depends on the two of you, to see if your boyfriend is worth entrusting, if his parents have a lot of things, they must ask for it, and they will be angry after the door.

If the man is very rich, 100,000 yuan is just a small amount of money for him or their family, of course 100,000 yuan is not much, but if in order to get married, to give this bride price, you need to use all the money of him or his family, and you have to ask others to borrow it, of course, there are more, and you have to understand, if you borrow money to get married, these money will be paid back together, the gains outweigh the losses, everything depends on the situation! You can't look at how much money other people are going to get married, it's easy, so you think you can do the same. In general, according to the actual situation, don't die, save face, and suffer the crime!

Haha, friend, your question, I analyze it like this, I don't know if it's right or not, please don't be angry, the analysis is as follows: 1, the number you said, see who you say, there are really not many people with better family backgrounds. But the family situation is a little worse, and I really can't get it.

2. On the issue of asking for a bride price, we must not compare it with you, but start from the actual situation. 3, everyone can understand your thoughts, after all, it is a big deal for a girl to get married, but since you have feelings, you should consider the actual situation of his family and listen to your boyfriend's thoughts. 4. In general, be optimistic about your marriage, because both parents are in favor, the key to the current problem lies with you, and it is recommended that you deal with it according to the actual situation.

Please consider whether you are right or not. I wish you lovers to be married.

If you and your boyfriend really love each other, and most of your boyfriend's money has paid off the mortgage, don't worry about this bride price, and live your own little life together after getting married.

Different regions, different family conditions are not the same for the bride price, the bride price of 100,000 should not be too much, but for the same family background, 100,000 bride price is not less.

100,000 yuan is not much at all, and now a pound of pork is more than 30 yuan!

Is the bride price more than 100,000? Ann's current standard of living. 100,000 yuan is not too much and not too little, which is quite reasonable.

If the boy loves you enough, then he will definitely try his best to marry you.

How to say, every place is different, we are 50,000! Of course, this side is poorer!

The bride price should not be an emotional hindrance.

There is a guy with a monthly salary of four or five thousand, and his family background is extremely average, he begged his girlfriend to lower the bride price when eating hot pot, "It's okay to have a little less, I really can't take out the 200,000 bride price," his girlfriend was indomitable, probably angry, and said, "Then you drink the rest of the soup base, I don't want it," I didn't expect the guy to take it seriously, and drank the red soup base of the hot pot on the table, which is funny and pitiful, and the bride price should really not be an obstacle to feelings, but should be a blessing and icing on the cake for a better life, The happiness of marriage is not determined by the level of gift money and the size of the marriage room, the important thing is that each other occupies the weight and status in each other's hearts.

The bride price and the setting of wine are vulgar.

On the one hand, it expresses the sincerity of the woman, and on the other hand, it also shows itself to the woman's family, and he has the ability to make the woman happy, repay the mother's family, and let the mother's family feel at ease, my friend's best friend Xiaoli, 28 years old, has been talking about marriage with her boyfriend Zihao for a year, but because of this matter, she was stiff, and bought a house with 1 million full money, but she was unwilling to take out 20,000 dowry, according to local customs, it is generally 30,000, 20,000 is already considered less, just a formality, meaning, I thought Zihao should be happy to agree, but I didn't expect Zihao to refuse categorically, he thinks that the bride price and wine are vulgar, there should not be, he has bought a house for a wedding house, Xiaoli has no reason to ask for more, and even asked Xiaoli to take out 100,000 yuan to decorate the house.

Why not accommodate appropriately.

Zihao is in business, and his shrewd personality is understandable, but it is not interesting to be careful about marriage, what people are trying to do is a sense of ritual and attitude, Zihao does this, which is equivalent to showing that Xiaoli's weight in his heart is not enough, and he uses money to test love, many people can't stand the test, in fact, they just love each other deeply enough, and they feel that the other party is not worth the price, so even if they barely meet the conditions proposed by the other party, they may not be truly happy after marriage, according to the current stage of social development, The bride price is far from the stage of disappearing, that is the touchstone of feelings, you can take out 1 million in full, but you are not willing to take out 20,000, it is really unreasonable, creating a sense of ritual to meet the emotional needs of the other party, it is a compulsory course for feelings, and it doesn't matter if you are properly accommodating.

I have been dating my boyfriend for half a year, talking about marriage, but because of the 100,000 bride price, I think you may be because the bride price is too much, and your boyfriend can't take out so much money, so your wedding will be deadlocked. When you get along, do you know his family situation, whether his family is rich or poor, if his family is very rich, then this matter is his fault, maybe for some reason he doesn't want to take out the money, or maybe when you first talked, the man didn't agree.

If his family is very poor, then 100,000 bride price is a lot of money for him, if you really want to come up with 100,000 bride price, it is equivalent to letting their family smash the pot and sell iron to marry you, if it is for this reason, you can discuss with your boyfriend well, you can also properly point out and do not reduce the bride price money a little, at least let the man be able to accept it, if it has been so deadlocked, it is also a blow to your feelings.

In fact, in today's society, how many couples have parted ways in the end because of the bride price, some people don't want to take it, but they really can't take it, you can't ask a man to borrow money to marry you, then this foreign debt still needs you to repay. There are also some people who don't want to take this money, thinking that it is not worth it, and this is indeed the case, some people get married, the bride price is less than tens of thousands, and more than hundreds of thousands, is this marrying a daughter or selling a daughter, besides, maybe marrying another woman doesn't cost money at all, why does he spend hundreds of thousands to marry you? Anyway, the current marriage is also unstable, and maybe they will part ways at some point.

So, in my opinion, if you really love your boyfriend, don't worry about the bride price, his money is not your money in the end, why make a fuss about the bride price? In fact, most of the sheds are shacked, and the women ask for a bride price, and they are all parents.