Why doesn t my girlfriend let me hold hands, and my girlfriend won t let me hold hands?

Send her home? That's probably because I'm afraid that my relatives and neighbors will see it! ~~

The girl's family is more strict! ~~

I think it's very good, it shows that your girlfriend is very reserved.

It's not like my friend who has a patch for men, because I have friends who have nothing to do.

The second time we met, it was k, which made me feel that this woman was too self-respecting.

Silly, because the first time a boy held her hand, she was shy and nervous, afraid that the people around her would look at her the same way.

Or maybe she hasn't figured it out yet, you're not reliable

Or her family is very strict, she is afraid of being seen by her family, etc

Trust me

Because I was like that when my boyfriend held my hand for the first time, my boyfriend tried a lot to convince me

So I agreed to hold hands with him

Maybe she wishes you could pull her tail?

God, it's cruel to me not to share something like this.

I don't like and accept you completely, so take your time.

You can put: You hold her hand.

The details of the telling. Sue us.

Including you. Said it at the time.

What words! These details.

are all important.

It depends on the specific situation, such as how long you have been in contact with each other, to what extent, etc.

Be shy, or there's something unspeakable.

Whoever said that it's still a girl, I don't think it's, it's because she doesn't like it, you know, because she's really stupid when she has someone else.

He doesn't want to fall in love for the time being, stupid person or he's still defensive of you.

If the girl likes you, she will make a lot of reactions to give back to you, such as she will take the lead in flirting with you, take the initiative to care about all aspects of your affairs, blush together, brush your hair, will not hide when you are close, will not be uncomfortable face-to-face (you have been dating for a while), and will take the lead in adjusting the atmosphere. There must be more than three body words to show that she likes you. Otherwise, she is with you, but she has not accepted it in her heart and has no feelings for you!

Remember, brother, the girl won't even let you hold hands, it's your problem, and it hasn't given people the feeling they want. Are you worth (not money) the characteristics of a man?

If it's a middle and high school student, it's normal for your girlfriend not to let you hold hands, because it may be known to the whole class as soon as your classmates see it. If you don't know, the head teacher will talk to you!

If you are a college student, this is not very normal, because after all, they are all college students, and their thoughts and behaviors are less restricted. If you don't hold hands for two months together, there are some problems!

If both of you are social people, then I advise you to end it early!

Of course, there may be many other factors, such as your girlfriend's personality, whether the time and place you want to hold hands are appropriate, and so on.

Of course, whether you want to be together or not depends on how much you love her and whether you can understand her character and other questions!

So the decision is up to you, of course, I personally recommend that you communicate with her more, see what the problem is, and then find a way to solve it!

1. Analyze the reason why your girlfriend doesn't like you to hold her.

For couples, holding hands is the most common thing. Soon after the boy and girl established a relationship, they did not hold hands for many reasons. For example, the girlfriend is introverted, she doesn't know enough when she just dates, the girlfriend has sweaty hands, the girlfriend is a traditional girl, the girlfriend is too shy, and so on.

If your girlfriend likes you and just doesn't like you holding her hand, that's easy.

If your girlfriend doesn't want to, she doesn't want to. Intimacy is built step by step, and the early appearance of overly intimate physical behavior is bound to cause feelings of tension and anxiety. If it is because the girlfriend's original family may be very strict about physical contact, and she is reluctant to hold hands because of tradition, these can be slowly changed through later relationships.

If your girlfriend doesn't let you hold hands, it means that your girlfriend hasn't completely accepted you and wants to get along with you and test you for a while.

First of all, we must correct our mentality, don't have a fear of rejection because of one or two failures in holding hands, and dare not try to hold hands with girls again. Moreover, you must understand that if a girl is willing to agree to an appointment, it must be because you are attractive and she is still interested in you.

Your girlfriend won't let you hold hands, it's likely that he thinks your relationship hasn't developed so quickly, or that you haven't reached the point where you can hold hands.

If your girlfriend is reserved and shy at the beginning of a relationship, she will indeed be embarrassed to let you hold her hand, which will take a process. I believe that you can hold hands after getting along with each other slowly.

That's because your emotional foundation is not deep, and the other party feels that it has not yet reached this point, so the proposal to reject such an intimate behavior, the two of them are communicating in depth, if the right situation is right, everything will fall into place, and the girlfriend will not refuse again.

As a girlfriend, holding hands is the most normal thing, and if a girl is not willing to let a boy hold hands, I think this girl still doesn't like this boy.

Hello, it proves that your girlfriend and your relationship are not very familiar, and the relationship between him and you is just the beginning of a new relationship, so you should wait a little longer, don't be too anxious, you have to lay a kind of emotional foundation.

Girls who have just started falling in love are more shy, they feel that men and women should keep their distance, so they will be shy, such girls are generally more reserved, do not like to talk, but are very gentle.

Brother, you are already in love with him, he doesn't let you hold hands, you are stronger, girls like boys to be domineering.

It may be that your relationship hasn't developed to that point, so don't worry too much.

Girlfriend won't let hold hands. The main reason is that you don't get his heart. So he doesn't want you to hold it yet, so if you want your girlfriend to hold hands, you need to put in more effort to be better for her, so that it is possible for your girlfriend to be better for you.

Summary. Hello girlfriend doesn't give a handle, there may be two reasons for not letting it. The first is that she thinks that she has not yet reached this level, and she still needs to understand more before she can slowly accept you, and finally she may agree, or she is still young or has just known each other for a short time or does not want to talk about it for the time being.

The second. It's just not very satisfying. Whether the relationship can be determined, is still hesitant, maybe it is not enough to like it, so I can't make up my mind for the time being, whether to continue.

No matter what, you should respect each other, since you want to be together. You should care about her feelings until she agrees.

Hello girlfriend doesn't give a handle, there may be two reasons for not letting it. The first is that she thinks that she has not yet reached this level, and she still needs to understand more before she can slowly accept you, and finally she may agree, or she is still young or has just known each other for a short time or does not want to talk about it for the time being. The second.

It's just not very satisfying. Whether the relationship can be determined, is still hesitant, maybe it is not enough to like it, so I can't make up my mind for the time being, whether to continue. No matter what, you should respect each other, since you want to be together.

You should care about her feelings until she agrees.

I like the baby's hand, I like you to be fat and thin, I want to pull it.

Summary. Hello, what should I do if my girlfriend doesn't let me hold hands, this situation is actually that she thinks that it has not reached this level, and she still needs more understanding before she can accept you slowly, and finally she may agree, or she is still young or has just met for a short time or does not want to talk about it for the time being. And I'm not very satisfied.

Whether the relationship can be determined, we are still hesitating so we will be rejected, so at this time we should pay more for her, and it will be better to take the initiative after giving each other a period of time.

Hello, what should I do if my girlfriend doesn't let me hold hands, this situation is actually that she thinks that it has not reached this level, and she still needs more understanding before she can accept you slowly, and finally she may agree, or she is still young or has just met for a short time or does not want to talk about it for the time being. And I'm not very satisfied. Whether the relationship can be determined, we are still hesitating so we will be rejected, so at this time we should pay more for her, and it will be better to take the initiative after giving each other a period of time.

But when we first talked, she let her hold hands.

Then we should consider whether it is ** to make her angry.

She is hinting at us with her deeds.

No, I don't. She let the kiss just not let hold hands.

Is it in a multi-person setting?

If she doesn't let the kiss hold hands, it may be that she feels uncomfortable and expresses it in a multi-person situation.

She does the same in places where there are fewer people.

This behavior is not normal, but the current situation will not be bad in terms of accepting kissing, but it is more withdrawn as the reason for resisting holding hands, so we should communicate the specific reasons to know her thoughts.

Good. Yes, so in many cases, a woman or kiss will be irresistible and hold hands, but she will deliberately refuse your mentality of making you value each other, which is a relatively normal performance, so communicate clearly or we will not always think about it.

What is the reason for not holding hands? Didn't she tell you?

It's normal for boyfriends and girlfriends to hold hands with each other. She won't let you hold hands, is it because she feels shy?

It's not impossible, girls are quite shy. In this case, you can only take your time. After a while, her mentality is relaxed, and you can also hold her Qingling hand.

Don't be in a hurry, don't be angry, slowly coax her, what can I do if I ask for a girlfriend? I can only coax it!