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It depends on whether your mouth is good or not, and I will provide you with some solutions:
1.Love your girlfriend from the bottom of your heart, parents want to marry their daughter to someone who can love her. Only true love will be expressed in the details.
2.For the first visit, be sure to prepare a gift, which is a kind of etiquette and a kind of respect, and the gift is just chosen carefully, and it is best to ask for your girlfriend's opinion. Don't let the other parent have the idea that there will be differences in food and culture in different regions, and they will worry about whether their daughter's diet and lifestyle will change greatly in the future, and whether they will not be used to it.
3.Don't show intimacy with your girlfriend, be caring and considerate, but not intimate. This is respect for the elderly. After all, the old man is still more traditional.
4.Words and actions are appropriate, as the netizens above said, there is a standing phase, and there is a sitting phase. Help the elderly to do more. Dress cleanly, comfortably, and appropriately.
5.You must have a self-motivated mindset and not a view that depends on your parents. Be a man with a sense of responsibility.
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I'm in the same situation as the landlord, I also took my girlfriend to meet my parents, but my girlfriend never told my family because I was afraid that my family would oppose it. We have been dating for 3 years, and I have been to their house once, both as classmates. Of course, parents will not object to bringing their classmates there.
But paper can't contain the fire after all, just during the winter vacation, his mother found out, and my girlfriend said that her mother just said to her: don't make friends so early. But his brother is very supportive, that is, let us not be greedy for fun now, and learn more knowledge.
In fact, it is normal that the reason why the man's parents do not object is because you will add members to the family, and the parents hope to hold their grandchildren as soon as possible and pass on the lineage; The woman's family hopes that their daughter can find a happy family, after all, she is in someone else's house after getting married. In short, I personally think that it is still a relationship between some traditional concepts.
Therefore, the landlord should be like us, and get along, and when you have certain achievements in the future, you have the ability, so that you can go to your "mother-in-law's" house in the bright light! At that time, I can guarantee that as long as you have a good character, they will not object! Let's do it together!!
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To make parents accept their daughter to marry you, you must make them feel that you are a responsible man, and love her.
Now that the parents don't agree, don't rush to see your parents first.
You have to love her sincerely, and it's never too late to see you again in a year or two.
But be responsible. This is what parents value more, and it is also the guarantee of the future happiness of both of you.
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How do I mention my parents to my girlfriend? It's very easy to talk to your girlfriend about meeting your parents, and you can just say that you want to meet your parents. This will also increase the relationship between the two of you even more.
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If she likes you and you like her, when the time comes, you can mention it. Let's just say that we have been together for so long, shouldn't you go home with me to meet my parents, and let me meet your parents!
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It is necessary for both parties to get along for a period of time, and then mention it when each other's feelings are stable.
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It's very easy to talk to your girlfriend about your parents, you can just talk to him about it.
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If the girl thinks that you belong to you, then she will take you to meet the parents, and if she is not ready, she will take you to meet the parents.
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Buy something and go see you. Say hello, awkward chat, it's all like that. What are you afraid of?
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Just say it, what's embarrassing, it means that you want to develop further with her.
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How do I mention my parents to my girlfriend? Just say it, there's no need to beat around the bush.
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We agree with each other. I've sued my parents, they want to see you, can I take the time to come to my house another day?
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Can I go see my aunt and uncle?
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Fall in love again at the right age:
The reason why many parents interfere is that their children start to fall in love when they are still very young, after all, they are still students, and they will inevitably miss each other when they are in love, so that the attention in class will be distracted and it is easy to affect learning.
Don't interfere with your own learning:
It is best to start dating after graduation, or when you are about to intern at university, and if it has already begun, you should also grasp the proportions of love, and at the same time do not affect your studies, academics are the most important.
Rational communication with parents:
I have met a lot of friends, fell in love when I was young, was discovered by my parents, and then quarreled every day, in fact, both sides of the quarrel could not solve the problem, or spread out all the problems to communicate carefully, and each other took a step back.
Ask the parents about the reason for the objection
Sometimes there are other factors in the opposition of parents, after introducing their boyfriend and girlfriend to their parents, parents don't like it, don't guess the reason, or ask your parents directly, see what the boyfriend and girlfriend don't meet their minds.
Improving each other's shortcomings:
There may be a variety of reasons for the objection, and it may be very surprising to you, but if your parents ask for something that you can do with each other, then prove it to your parents and change what they think you are flawed.
Tell parents about the decision to stick with it:
The reason why many couples don't go to the end is because they gave up prematurely, after all, it's still up to you to get the marriage certificate, and tell everyone who opposes you that you will always stick to it and won't waver.
Maybe in addition to your relatives and elders, your friends are not used to you being together, you must be prepared to accept their opposing eyes, have a certain psychological preparation, at first you may not be comfortable, but if you really love each other, slowly they will also accept.
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