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The world is so noisy that it makes the silent look a little silly.
Silence is not wrong, but excessive silence is.
Silence with one's own principles and ideas is wisdom, and wisdom is foolishness.
Not daring to argue or being afraid to communicate with others and not assertive is cowardice and wrong.
It is said that silence is gold, but gold without edges and corners will only continue to hide in the stone, not being discovered, it is gold and has lost its original light, that is, fast stone.
Either it explodes in silence or it perishes in silence. The key is to grasp the scale of your heart.
Good luck and be brave.
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Yes, not all silence will be exchanged for believing and understanding. It's good to understand each other, but explanations are often useful. It's a must. Don't believe that silence is the best option, so that others will mistakenly think that you are really wrong.
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Sometimes yes, it depends. Like there's a pit up ahead, you know. But others are focused on other things and don't pay attention.
This is where silence is wrong. As for the question you asked, if it is a relationship problem, it is more necessary to communicate, otherwise it will cause mutual suspicion, and such a love or marriage will be very unsatisfactory.
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Silence can mean different things to different people in different contexts. Therefore, there is no need to dwell on whether it is wrong or not, the key is whether you think you should be silent and have a clear conscience.
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It depends! Sometimes it's not good to live too much, and sometimes it's not good to be silent!
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Although silence is golden, sometimes you should say it when you should say it, and it is not okay to endure it all the time.
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Yes, sometimes, silence is wrong. It's hard to be a human being.
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Well, it depends, but no one likes silence.
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Silence only deepens the conflict and makes it more depressing.
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Sometimes silence is good.
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There is no right or wrong, silence is silence.
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The specific situation needs to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis.
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This is from the poem "The Silence of Banzaguru Baima", which means that no matter what your attitude is towards me, my attitude and posture are there anyway, although it also expresses some deep feelings, but no matter what kind of attitude you have, it will not have much impact on yourself.
This is actually to show that you don't care, whether it's feelings or something else, it's your own business, so you can always behave very upright. In fact, this is no desire and no desire, so it can behave like this.
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When you are silent, if you don't speak, your thoughts will not be disturbed by the outside world, you can see a lot of things clearly, and your brain is thinking rapidly, so you are full, and when you speak, you will be less quiet and comfortable when talking to yourself, and you will naturally feel empty.
This sentence comes from Lu Xun's "Wild Grass".
Excerpt: When I'm silent, I feel fulfilled; I will open my mouth and feel empty at the same time.
Past lives are dead. I rejoiced in this death, because I knew that it had lived. The life of the dead is decayed.
Rot. I rejoice in this decay, because I know that it is not empty.
It is my sin that the mud of life is abandoned to the earth, and no trees grow but only weeds.
The weeds are not deep at all, and the flowers and leaves are not beautiful, but they absorb the dew, the water, the blood and flesh of the dead, and each takes its own survival.
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<> "Are You Silent Too?"
<> "Are You Silent Too?"
Have you noticed? Now the middle-aged people in the system are collectively silent!!
The new generation of post-90s and even post-95s.
The young Yechi leader, about 30 years old, has already begun to rise to the top. Middle-aged people in their forties and fifties continue to be obscure, and after all the good things about promotions, promotions, and salary increases are hopeless, middle-aged people begin to have no desires, gradually become more and more transparent, and then completely lie flat, and they are no longer intriguing in the unit, and they are too lazy to watch the leaders draw cakes in the meeting. Middle-aged people see through the workplace, so, melt.
Difficult to promote. So, let's see it, love what's wrong. Middle-aged people find that once people lie flat, this day is better, people are relaxed, they are much happier, no desire is the easiest, there is no need to deliberately please the leader in the unit, those who play on the scene, there is no need to pretend anymore, if you want to participate in the entertainment, you will not participate, and the gossip between people in the unit is not at all.
If you think about it, those parents are short, so let it go. People who have worked in the system for more than ten years to middle-aged, after experiencing the vicissitudes of the years, people.
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A normal week, let's say something.
Let's just say the word "silence". I read some words from the book, and I realized that it was immature to write by memory and understanding.
What we usually call silence may mean not speaking and not loving to express yourself. In fact, silence can be divided into several types:
1.Silence without a voice.
This kind of discourse power refers to the weight in terms of the weight of speech. That's probably what we often mean when we talk about "people are soft-spoken".
The weight of a newcomer's speech from the pulpit is weaker than that of an older, senior.
For another example, a lot of folk feedback, if it is closed or distorted through **, that voice is no longer your original meaning.
Of course, there is also the possibility that you will not have the opportunity to speak at all, and you will not be able to say a word.
There are many examples.
2.Disgusted with the right to speak, so silent.
When you talk to someone about a topic, you disagree, or the other person wants to impose their personal ideas on you, or they talk to themselves in disregard, or they judge you intentionally or unintentionally, and they lash out morally. In short, it makes you feel sick and thus too lazy to continue the in-depth discussion and debate, so choose silence.
There is another way of aversion to the right to speak, although it is ostensibly speaking, it can still be considered "silent", which I understand as "insincere", which is also very common.
For example, you talk to someone you hate, and you don't want to tell the truth.
Another example, in the unit. Someone with outstanding performance is elected as an outstanding representative to speak on stage. At this time, you may not be all up to yourself, because your words will be more representative of the company's consciousness, and you always have to confide a lot of official words and clichés on stage, and it is inevitable that you will not be sincere, although you speak, but you think that what you say is not true, so it can be considered "silent".
3.There is a hidden secret, and it is not convenient to speak.
That is, there is a reason for not wanting to tell people, and they choose not to say it.
For example, in the extreme, murderers are eager to hide for the rest of their lives, and even if they are caught, they choose not to tell or lie all the time.
Another example is when someone asks a sensitive question, you just avoid talking about it and choose to remain silent.
In fact, the silent person is also divided into thinking silence and lazy silence, silence is not for the sake of not thinking, but a conscious choice in a particular situation, or to protect oneself wisely, or to show an attitude, or not to go with the flow, or for other reasons.
There is no right or wrong in silence, and everyone has the freedom to express themselves or not. However, after all, we are a member of society, and what should be expressed is still to be expressed, otherwise how to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings and how to cooperate more effectively.
Understanding is really limited, but I hope that I can experience it more and achieve a balance between expression and silence.
Few friends, bad impressions, others will alienate you, think you are indifferent, lonely, and your lover will not be able to bear the silent days and red apricots will go out of the wall. , and the benefits of silence are: avoid unnecessary trouble, the person who becomes friends with you is a true friend, and the handsome guy silence is attractive to the opposite sex, because it is called cold, silent people are more mature in thinking, at least they use the time they talk to think, so, silent people have strong thinking ability, because they think a lot, and their perception ability is also very strong, in short, silent people are very good, but you can be silent to everyone, but you can't be silent to your lover.
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