Was there a moment when you felt like you were a child from the family?

<> my mom gave me an ear plucker for my birthday!!

I went to our assembly with my mom and dad, and when they got home, they found out I was gone. Oh! No, it was my grandfather who found out, and my grandfather said that the child didn't go with you?

My mom and dad just remembered that I wasn't at school! I went to the rally with them! <>

I'm 19 years old, and my dad asked me, "Son, how old are you this year, is it about to take the college entrance examination, hurry up and read more books, don't play with your phone every day, do you hear it?" "I". This year's freshman year) <>

After I went to college, they converted my room into a utility room, and when I came back, I realized that I was a kid who picked it up. (I've been sleeping on the couch for three days!) ）<

Once I went to our city with my mother to watch a show, because there were so many people, we had to squeeze in a little bit, because when I was squeezing, the people behind me stepped on my shoes, I didn't react myself, I lay on the ground, my mother looked back at me, and then rolled her eyes and went to the front to squeeze... I asked my mom on the way back why she didn't help me, and my mom said she thought I was ashamed...

My mom did something that has left a shadow in my heart until now, I feel that she doesn't want me anymore, when I was in kindergarten, there were no electric cars at that time, only bicycles, the neighbor's people had something, so I asked my mother to bring other people's children back, my mom promised people, and when my mom got out of school, I watched, my mom was in the shocked eyes of me and the neighbor's children, while talking to others, while carrying the neighbor's children into the car, and then my mom took the people away. Let's go...

My mom told me that you look so ugly and look like your dad, and my dad said that you look like your mom. I asked them myself, am I that ugly? Together, they say "Yes! ”<

During the summer vacation, my mom and my dad took my sister on a trip, and left me a note, as well as a box of instant noodles, the note said, let's go out for a few days, this is your meal for a week, don't eat so fast, there's nothing in the refrigerator, eat fast, I'm afraid you won't last a week...

is the second oldest in the family, has a low sense of existence, and is often either bullied by his sister or ignored by his parents, and really doubts whether he picked it up, or. Charge the phone bill?! Let's talk about a few things that make me remember and start to doubt life.

First, on the night of the Chinese New Year's Eve last year, my father suddenly asked me during dinner: "Dad has a very serious matter to tell you, you must tell your father the truth." At that time, there were 10,000 alpacas roaring in my heart, what's the matter, could it be that the little thing I was doing at school was discovered by my father!!

Does my dad know who I'm talking to!! No, I haven't told anyone about it Just as I was about to tell my dad that I didn't talk to, my dad said, "How old are you for the Chinese New Year this year?"

Isn't it almost twenty? "Another herd of alpacas galloping in my heart. Dad, I'm twenty-three years old.

Second, the year before last on my birthday, I got up early to see a missed call from my sister, the baby said that he was very excited, and immediately went back to his sister, and asked sweetly, "Sister, what are you doing when you hit me in the morning?" My sister said calmly on the other end of the **: "Oh, I want to call grandma, I made a mistake."

Oh, it's okay, sister. The baby was unwilling, so he picked up** and called his mother**, "Do you have anything to do, call early in the morning?" "Mom, can't you fight ** if you're fine?

It's okay, Mom will hang up first, Mom is busy! ”.The baby is bitter, but the baby doesn't say.

The baby thought about it, and the grandmother at home liked me the most, and called the grandmother, "Grandma, how are you doing, are you in good health?" "Okay, grandma. Then my grandmother said for half an hour, let me eat more, dress more, and take care of my own affairs.

Later, I called my mother three **, but my mother still didn't remember that it was my birthday, alas, it was all tears when I said too much. Cry a little longer.

3. When I was in high school, I went to boarding school, and I went home once a month, and I remember that time when I went home, I suddenly found that I couldn't open the door of my house with the key, and then called the family **, but no one answered. I had to squat at my door, and when it was night, it was dark, and I found that it was not my parents who came back. What's the matter, what about my parents?!

When I asked, I learned that it was my parents who rented out their house. Alas, the new home was too far away, so I had to go back to school. The feeling of being unattended, the baby understands at that moment.

Damn, I didn't pick it up!

There are parents who have big hearts, and sometimes I really feel that I was picked up, but fortunately there is a sister who looks the same, so I feel that I should be born to my parents, because I can't pick up two children who are several years apart and look the same.

This feeling was very strong when I was a child, and I think anyone with two children in a family would feel this way, but now I basically don't have that kind of childish thoughts. I remember when I was a kid, and I used to ask my mom how I got here and why I didn't look like anyone else. My sister and I are twins, and when I used to go to Shenzhen with my parents, my sister looked very similar to my mother, and I couldn't be seen by outsiders.

It's a little ridiculous to think about it, and I used to think that I must be an outsider. Every time I meet someone else, your family tells my mother that your daughter is so beautiful and looks the same as you, and her big eyes are so beautiful.

The key is that my sister's academic performance is also very good, so everyone likes her, the teacher is also very optimistic about her, my parents also think that she is a manufacturable material, and the requirements for her are also very strict, and I am a little careless, I still remember that it was when I graduated from high school, and my sister and I felt that I did not do well in the exam, so I said that I didn't want to study, but my parents heard this and criticized my sister fiercely, saying that she was so ignorant of things, and studying for her good. Then she told my parents that if you want to read, let's read together, but my father said that you read your book, and your sister doesn't have anything to do if she doesn't read, and when I heard that, I was very depressed. Why is there such a big difference in the treatment of children born in the same womb?

Is it because I don't have good grades like her? But this is not to say that it can be good. I also wanted to improve my math grades and become a good kid in my parents' hearts, is it really my fault?

I really couldn't figure out why, in fact, I knew it was because the family didn't have enough money, but I still had a hard time understanding my father's words. At that time, I really suspected that I was just a picked up kid, not valued, didn't want to invest more in my life, and besides, I didn't look like any of them. In this way, I have always had a hurdle in my heart that I can't overcome.

Until one day, when I was treated by my mother's blood transfusion in the hospital, I was sure that I was a member of this family, they didn't think I was superfluous, and the mood was really very happy, you must know that I have been living under the shadow of my sister since I was a child, and her excellence is even more humble. In that era, people only looked at academic performance and didn't look at other things, no matter how hard they worked, they should be hardworking, and studying well is the last word, so no one can be blamed.

Maybe it's this experience that has made me grow up slowly, and it has also taught us all how to be grateful. Sometimes parents may prefer one person in a certain matter, but they will definitely help another person behind the scenes, so when we have this kind of emotion, we must jump out of this circle and think about it, don't be quiet in the pain of our own making, time can heal a lot of sorrow and prove a lot of things.

Hahaha, this question is embarrassing, so are you going to open the sad history, is Avibati ready? Black history is about to be staged