What moment did you feel like you were vulnerable?

I remember the most vulnerable time, separated from people who have been in love for 7 years, separated by abandonment, went to work in a city alone, it was raining heavily, the traffic in this city was all paralyzed, the water on the highway was not over the calf, I walked alone on the road, I didn't know how to go home, I didn't know when to go home, it happened that day I had a terrible toothache, and at eight o'clock in the evening, I saw the community hospital go in and get some medicine. At that time, I probably thought about thinking about the hospital and thinking about what to do. I used to have a toothache and couldn't go to see it alone, I didn't encounter heavy rain, traffic was paralyzed, and I couldn't go home alone.

It's a feeling of despair, but looking back, life is on its own after all, and after all, it has experienced too many firsts. It's okay, it'll be fine next time.

Fragility is the kind of thing that is most likely to appear when you are alone. We've gotten used to putting on a mask and giving others a very strong feeling, we've gotten used to protecting our own weaknesses, we've gotten used to being that inconsistent self. Fragile this kind of thing, the night is most likely to appear, the night of a person.

When you are really overwhelmed by something, when there is really no one to help, people are really vulnerable, and it feels like a touch.

I remember when I was alone last year, when my birthday was approaching in early July, my parents were abroad, working hard outside, and I didn't have a few friends, so on my birthday, I went to the tavern and ordered a beer, a plate of cucumbers, and a plate of tomatoes. Even if it's my birthday. At that moment, I couldn't help crying, I really couldn't bear too much alone.

Throughout my 2018, when I was alone, every moment made me feel that I was vulnerable, not that I was not strong, but that I also had times when I couldn't bear it.

Men are vulnerable, manifested at different ages, individuals with different personalities and experiences, and different environmental factors. Under normal circumstances, children and adolescents who have been wronged or frustrated will appear vulnerable when they return to their parents. Men in their youth, when they encounter the abandonment of love, appear vulnerable when they are not comforted.

Middle-aged men feel vulnerable when they know that their days are running out and their money is not needed.

When their apparent strength is ruthlessly revealed by reality and they break down and cry; When they work for a year but can't understand the paid and go home with no shame and cry bitterly; There are too many similar scenes, too many moving things. Men are not made of iron, they are also fleshy, so there will naturally be times when they are vulnerable.

Probably the status quo of middle-aged men, Zhang Ailing said: Middle-aged men often feel lonely, because as soon as he opens his eyes, he is surrounded by people who want to rely on him, but there is no one he can rely on. I think it must have been very fragile and had to be strong at that moment.

A friend of mine, introverted, conscientious, hard-working, hard-working in the unit, I have never seen him lose his temper, no matter how hard and tired he is, he will not say a word. At home, his wife is very strong, she has the final say in big and small things, she is justified or not, the man is very angry, but he has never complained about anything. Once, when he celebrated his birthday, he didn't know where he got the courage, he didn't spend it at home, he called a few friends, he drank a lot of wine that day, no one could persuade him, and his wife didn't listen to his words.

After drinking, he cried so loudly that no one could stop him, and he also picked up a sledgehammer and smashed the electrical appliances, furniture, cooking utensils, etc. at home! The next day, he returned to his previous state and went to work and live honestly.

When a guy likes a girl and knows each other from meeting each other, it is impossible to become a husband and wife for various reasons. And the loss of love, the inner pain is only felt by the person concerned, many people borrow alcohol, smoke, eliminate sorrow, alleviate the pain, and even cry secretly. But there is no return!

Lost loved ones.

I now feel very vulnerable, wronged, and secretly hiding and crying. Do something wrong, blame yourself, hide and cry secretly. Thinking of her daughter living a hard life with her, she hid and cried secretly.

My parents were worried about me, called me **, and I was homesick. Hide and cry secretly. How vulnerable I am.

Human fragility is often accompanied by powerlessness, and that deep sense of powerlessness makes one feel vulnerable.

I was in the hospital for half a year because of an accident, and I was a fragile person for half a year, because I was worried about the uncertainty of the future, and I was worried that I would not be able to support a family in the future, but would become a burden to the family.

When a person is most vulnerable, it is not that he is worried that he will be hurt, but that he has too many regrets to make up for the pain. I'll just briefly talk about what I went through.

I am a 30-year-old middle-aged man, very ordinary, like many people, in such a comfortable years, I take care of my family at two o'clock every day at work and work, live carefully, and dare not make a mistake, because I am carrying a family on my shoulders.

But there are unforeseen storms and clouds, and who knows which clouds will have rain.

That day I rode my electric car, as always to go to work, just out of the gate of the community, from the side of a silver van, because I just drove out of the intersection, the other party did not step on the brakes in time, so there happened a thing that everyone can imagine, Changhe bread vs electric motorcycle, only to hear a loud noise, my small electric car on the spot, and my flesh and blood luckily rolled into the grass of the green belt next to it.

At that time, I felt that the world was spinning, and I thought that I was going to drink Meng Po soup, but as I became more and more conscious, there was a clear pain, and my left leg hurt uncontrollably. The owner of the van dialed 120, and I don't know what happened after that.

The van refused to pay for the medical bills in advance, and I was asked to pay the money myself, and then the insurance company would report it to me together, I didn't expect him to do this.

Half a year later, I was discharged from the hospital, this half a year I was walking on thin ice, worried that I would become a waste, after an operation, the doctor said that it was very likely to leave sequelae, for me this is a bolt from the blue, a man less than 30 years old, how many things have not been done, how can he be willing to be a disabled person?

I woke up in countless dreams and dreamed that I had become a disabled person in a wheelchair, which was quite difficult and a low point in my life, and since then, I have had a new perspective on life and myself.

When I fall out of love, I often feel sorry for myself, I feel that I don't deserve such a setback, and I find myself vulnerable at that time.

I always chose to run away when I was in trouble, and then I realized that I was really vulnerable.

When I fell out of love and slumped, I realized that I was vulnerable and simply couldn't afford such a setback.

When my parents were sick and I couldn't do anything about it, I found myself vulnerable.

The moment my parents got sick, I really couldn't make myself strong.

I didn't resist when those people laughed at me for not having money and not being able to dress up, and I thought I was cowardly at that time. It was a scene that I will never forget for the rest of my life.

I'm a real rural girl. We don't have much money in our family! When I was in high school, my dad got sick and spent all the money in the family.

My mother farmed at home alone, and my brother worked hard outside to earn money. Because I still have to go to school. Dad can't do heavy work.

You can't go out to work. When I was in school, I actually had low self-esteem. Because I don't have any money.

The meals that the children eat at school are very good. The clothes they wore were all beautiful. You can buy whatever you want.

And me. Always save money at school. The clothes worn are also old.

The meals eaten were also the worst. I can't compare myself to others. So I have low self-esteem.

There were a lot of people at school who would laugh at me. Although they didn't laugh at me to my face, they laughed at me behind my back and hit me hard. I always hear people whispering that I look ugly.

There are always people who say that I don't look like a girl. But I was too inferior to resist them. Tears rolled in my eyes.

But I couldn't help it! Because I can't let people know I'm crying. Even if I don't have any money.

My clothes are very tattered. But I'm also a proud girl. So I didn't cry.

But I'm cowardly. Cowardly enough not to even dare to resist them. I still remember that I was the only one who was silently sad and didn't dare to say out loud, what's wrong with my lack of money?

I'm still happy, it's the best. When others laughed at me and had no money, I really thought I was cowardly. So I vowed from then on that I would definitely be a rich man in the future.

I'm not going to laugh at people like they do. I'm going to help the poor kids. Let them know that people are not short of ambitions.

It's not scary to have no money. The scary thing is that you don't have ambition.

A lot, I always feel that I am very unproductive, I can't do anything well, I can't let go of what I want to do, and then I ask the people around me what to do, and the people around me will encourage me. But every time I mustered up the courage to go, when I went to face it, I began to retreat again, I hated myself like this, I didn't have any opinions.

What I remember most deeply was that the school organized a sports test and said that it would be an 800-meter run. At that time, I thought that I could handle it very easily, so of course I was very relaxed, and I stupidly encouraged others, saying that it would be good to persevere, but in fact, 800 meters is easy. I started to regret it when I first started running, it was two laps in total, and by the halfway lap I was exhausted.

Then I started to walk, and I was very entangled in my heart, where did all the courage just now go?

A lot of times I think I'm cowardly and timid. It's not like others say what they say, what they want to do and start working in that direction, no matter what kind of difficulties they encounter and what they are difficult to choose, they can face it without the idea of retreating. But I, alas, am disappointed when I think about it, and I am also disappointed in myself, and I envy people like that.

I want to be like others, I have my own thoughts, I will work towards my dreams, I will not retreat, there will be no cowardice. I will move forward bravely and become a calm and unhurried person.

When the exam results came out, I was in a circle... At this moment, I was physically and mentally exhausted.

I think people are fragile, I think everyone will have a different person for some things to happen, I think people for some things, my own relatives did not survive the last moment, I think it is very fragile people's lives are also very short tomorrow and future, you don't know which one, will come first, so I think if there is an accident, it will be very uncomfortable, I have a cousin myself, and then he did not suffer the last moment of his life, that moment, I think people are so fragile, he didn't see his parents and didn't honor his parents, I think it's also the most regrettable thing in life, I think people are very fragile, once they don't survive the last moment, their lives will fall.

The moon is cloudy and sunny, and people have good and bad luck, so I think that when an accident happens, people are very vulnerable. Because you can never guarantee which one of the accidents and opportunities will come first, and you can never guarantee that your life will be smooth and safe, so when accidents happen, we are all fragile and we are all facing a problem, that is, human life is only once and cannot come again.

I feel that when something happens, something very uncomfortable, I will feel that people are particularly fragile, and I myself will be crushed by something, because I myself am a very sensitive person, once I have experienced a lot of uncomfortable moments, I myself am particularly uncomfortable, because I think that a person who is at a low point, his mood is particularly low, and his whole concept is also particularly depressed, so he will feel that life is so sad, he is particularly small, and people are so fragile, Whenever I go through some hardships and tribulations, when I have an emotional breakdown, I realize that I am so vulnerable, so vulnerable.

It was when I was in the intensive care unit, I saw someone else's mother holding her child there and crying, I found that people at that time were really too fragile, people are also a very fragile animal, his life depends on that moment, maybe if that moment, his loss will cause the collapse of the whole person, may leave because of a disease, this world, may leave this world because of a car accident, so people are very small and fragile.

It's when I was defeated by life, broke down to cry, and had no way to ease this thought, I felt lonely and silently hid in the corner. Don't worry too much about this situation, you need to keep a good mindset to face this problem so that you can solve it.