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Anonymous users2024-02-07Spend more time with your children, talk less about them, and especially talk less about your studies.
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Anonymous users2024-02-061.Communication: Communicate with children to understand why they don't want to learn, maybe because the learning is too difficult, or they are not interested in the learning content, etc., and only after understanding the problem can they solve it in a targeted manner.
2.Incentives: Give your children some incentives and rewards to make them motivated by learning, such as appropriate compliments, small gifts, etc.
3.Create a good learning environment: Provide a quiet, comfortable, and well-organized learning environment that makes it easier for children to concentrate on their studies and have a good learning atmosphere.
4.Find effective learning styles: Understand your child's learning style and interests, and find suitable learning styles for them, such as learning games, picture book teaching, etc.
5.Establish goals: Discuss goals and plans with children, let them clarify the goals of learning, and let children feel the importance of learning.
6.Continuous encouragement: Give timely encouragement and support to children in the learning process, so that children feel that their efforts are rewarded, and they are more confident to face the problems encountered in learning.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05Disadvantages of children's learning: lack of single-mindedness, poor self-control.
Advantages of children's learning: love to learn, love to ask questions.
Some of the child's behaviors are derived from a certain psychological foundation, if we want to change the child, we must first let the child understand why the parents let him change, what his own practices are unreasonable or even wrong, so that the child is willing to correct. It's better not to do what we want to do, but to say it in a way that is acceptable to our children.
When we want to correct a child's shortcomings, we can first find the advantages that are most closely connected with it, at this time the child's heart is warm and confident, when he has confidence in himself, we will point out a small shortcoming of his, he will not lose self-confidence because of such a small shortcoming, but there is a "I want to correct the small shortcomings, make myself better" upward psychology. In this way, the child will be very expectant of his parents to point out his shortcomings.
The second is to let the child feel that the parents believe in her, for most parents, they believe in their children, but their desire to control is too strong, and they are undisguised, and they always reveal their unease about their children, so that the children misunderstand that the mother does not believe her. If the child feels that her parents believe her, then the child will also tell the truth to her parents. In order to gain the trust of parents, we should be sincere when talking to our children, and do not show distrust. When a child talks about something, listen carefully even if we don't believe it, and then find hard evidence to uncover the truth and remind the child that she is not right.
In this way, we boil down the problem to the child's cognitive ability, and the child will not feel that we do not trust her.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04Hello friend. How to correct the carelessness of children in the lower grades of primary school? First of all, it is necessary to correct the child's learning attitude, improve the interest in learning, and enhance the sense of responsibility.
Parents can make their children aware of the dangers of carelessness through storytelling, heart-to-heart talks, etc., and know that they should take a serious attitude towards learning and not be perfunctory. For example, if you watch the "Kingdom of Carelessness" cartoon with your child, you can ask your child what he thinks after watching it, and inspire him to connect with him, so as to play an educational role.
Usually pay attention to cultivating children's good habits of being serious and meticulous. Parents should remind their children to take everything seriously, including every word and every question, so that children can develop a meticulous learning style. Attention should also be paid to teaching children how to learn, such as how to solve problems, how to recognize glyphs, and how to check homework.
Cultivate children's ability and habit of self-examination. Children are required to complete their homework every day, and they should conduct a self-examination, and through self-examination, they will find problems and loopholes in their homework. The test spoon reminds children to check the test paper carefully after doing it, and not let go of every mistake detail.
Some parents ordered a book of "Wrong Questions" for their children, and let their children copy the mistakes in their usual homework in the "Wrong Questions", correct and analyze the reasons, and received good results.
Parents often help their children check after they have completed their homework. At this time, parents must be clear about their identity, they are guiding learning rather than replacing learning, and don't pretend to be wrong and immediately say something like "you are wrong about this question". In the long run, the child will develop a serious dependency mentality, and once he leaves the parent, he will make mistakes.
After the child has finished his homework, parents should give the child time to check on his own and trust that he can do his own thing. Parents check again after the child has been checked. If you find a mistake, you should tell him, "There is a mistake here, but I am sure you will find it and correct it, and see how long it takes you to finish."
If the child finds a mistake, parents should praise it immediately and ask the child to say what went wrong. In the long run, the student learns to check on his own, and passively corrects mistakes to actively identify problems, so that he can avoid sloppiness when he leaves his parents, so as to achieve the desired results.
It is also necessary to praise and encourage the enthusiasm of the child to overcome the carelessness, and if the child has no mistakes or gets a full score, it can also be given some adaptive rewards, so that they can see progress and build confidence. Parents can also draw a homework error registration form for their child, paste it on the child's bedside, and let him fill in his own mistakes, which will greatly promote the child.
It is normal for students in the lower grades of primary school to be careless, it takes time to correct, parents should not be in a hurry, they need to be patient and guided, and gradually cultivate their children to develop serious and meticulous good habits, and they should also take corresponding measures according to the actual situation of their children. Persist for a while, and the child will naturally come out of the "kingdom of carelessness".
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Anonymous users2024-02-03Explain that your child is really smart. I was like that when I was a kid. Hehe.
For this question, the child thinks that the topic is simple and full of confidence to do it, but it leads to carelessness. Does your child get the difficult questions right and the easy ones wrong on the test? Carelessness, I think it's important to cultivate children's awareness.
Start with life and let him take everything he encounters seriously, no matter how difficult or simple. It takes your wit.
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Listen more, preach less, and help girls become independent as soon as possible Respect is very important for communication between parents and children, and listening itself is a kind of respect for children, which is more conducive to equal communication with children and more conducive to understanding children's voices, while preaching is often only superficial, and it is difficult to penetrate into the hearts of girls. The desire for independence represents an increase in the girl's sense of independence, and parents should learn more about the girl's sense of independence through effective listening, so as to give the girl more effective guidance.
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This is an old topic Every parent has your desire But there are very few children who can win glory for themselves I'm telling the truth In this world, most of them are mortals The biggest difference between mortals and great people is that their willpower is very different Some of them are born Some of them are nurtured If you really want to train your children to become excellent learners, then you can listen to my advice First of all, don't blindly tell your child those big truths, not only will he not be interested, but he will even lose more interest in learning because of your wordiness Everyone has a thirst for knowledge, it depends on how you guide it, children like different things, but there is one thing in common, that is, many children do not like to write homework in class, at this time, you have to let him be interested in learning independently, there are several ways, one is to cultivate his sense of competition from an early age, let him know that he must do everything from an early age, in order to do well, let him want to surpass his classmates in all aspects, always strive for the first, because learning must rely on subjective initiative, if you don't cultivate his interest No matter how much knowledge is stuffed into him, he doesn't want to accept it, and another way is to try to combine what he likes with the subject, so that he feels that the knowledge he hears in class is the knowledge of something he likes, and he will want to understand, but there is one obstacle, and that is that the teacher, usually, not every teacher can teach very well, and it is very attractive for children to listen, and there are indeed some teachers who not only teach badly, but also stifle the interest of their classmates, and this factor exists in many schools This can't be changed, and we can't do it so that our child can teach every subject well, so if you want to concentrate in class, you have to let him know that listening to the 40 minutes in class is much more effective than reading a book for 4 days, because that's the point, and if he listens to the class, he can save a lot of time to play, let him know that maybe he will seize the class time in order to have more time for leisure activities, and the problem of writing homework should develop his ability to calm down, and many children are playful, and they don't want to sit down and read their homework But if you make him think that the homework is very interesting and as fun as playing, then he will naturally be willing to do it, how to make him feel that writing homework is fun, the best way is to learn interactively, at this time, it is very necessary for adults to interact with him A question and an answer Adults must not use supervision to let children write homework, in this way, he will want to find opportunities to be lazy As for the test results, this is closely related to the usual mastery of knowledge As long as he has an interest in learning and learns well, then the natural exam will be very easy The so-called art masters are bold People who study well are not afraid of exams but want to let the scores of the exams prove their excellence Come on Educate children to take their time Don't worry I hope my advice can help you.