It seems that in the face of other people s labels, I have no ability to fight back at all

There's no need to fight back, others can say whatever they like, there's no need to mind this.

Whether it hurts or not is not up to others to decide, and others will not really understand themselves. Be true to your heart and face your heart. Whether it's anxiety or depression, talk to someone more, and you will feel better when you talk about a lot of things.

When someone is talking about you behind your back, you should first feel happy, at least you haven't been forgotten, and it's good to be noticed all the time, so calm your mind, okay?

Secondly, we live, can not think that everyone will say good things about themselves, this is very, very difficult to do, and even if it is done, it is not a good thing, from a large point of view, how many good monarchs in history have brought earth-shaking changes to the strength and development of the Chinese nation, however, which one has not done it and posterity praises it every day, isn't it, not to mention that we, in modern life, there are many people who are good people, do nothing wrong, do nothing wrong, So how do they do it, let me tell you, what they do is very simple, if you don't say it, you won't say it's wrong, if you don't do it, you won't do it wrong, I often let the following employees deliberately do something to exercise, but for everyone who says it's good, the general ability is not very good, of course, some people's personality is very introverted, but this doesn't mean that they don't have their own principles, don't worry about these things, isn't there a saying that is not very good, go your own way and let others say it, Don't break your wings for the sake of other people's opinions or opinions, remember.

Finally, if hearing the words in your ears is very intolerable, you have three options: 1 When they are"The fairy fart is extraordinary"It doesn't matter if we think about you, because we are mortals, and the thoughts and sayings of the immortals are not something we can understand,2 Quarrel with them, too much reasoning is to prompt the other party to be unscrupulous, sometimes you don't need to speak, scold once, next time they will pay great attention to the way they treat you, our society can't get rid of the pressure of force on us for the time being3 Learn to be silent, China is a typical nation that sympathizes with the disadvantaged, your silence will only allow people to not speak out of sympathy, because in the face of your innocent eyes, They're going to come and comfort you, you know?

Learn these three ways, skillfully use, you will slowly get rid of troubles, and you will find that you are such a girl who can play psychological tactics, your self-confidence will increase day by day, then in the future, there is really no talk about you, either you are doing very well, they have nothing to say, or you have become extremely strong, they no longer dare to say, but, if it is relatives and friends, let them talk about it, don't we often talk about them, sometimes just because they are our relatives and friends, and not strangers, aren't they?

Strong ability is better than anything else, and it doesn't matter if you don't make friends with foxes and dogs. In fact, most of today's interpersonal relationships are quite boring, and it is a waste of energy to act on the spot. But people still need to have a real friend.

Real people can make real friends Friends are more about quality than quantity In a new company, even if you can't make friends, don't offend others Sometimes a little more aura is also helpful for work Maybe blame yourself for your lack of self-confidence.

I have a friend to know first, and after a long time, I can really deal with strangers.

I don't like other people, so it doesn't matter what I say to him.

Because you don't care at all.