What if my jealousy and suspicion are too heavy?

Guessing is that you are not at ease with her, you think about it carefully, how she usually treats you, is there anything that worries you, is she that kind of person, or guessing out of thin air will only increase your burden.

Jealousy is something everyone has, so you don't have to worry too much about it.

Excessive jealousy is harmful. If a person cannot regulate and control himself reasonably, his jealousy will pose a threat to others, and at the same time, cause his own psychological burden. If you're already feeling the burden, you'll need to adjust.

You can also treat the object of jealousy as an opponent and challenge him not to attack him. As the saying goes: as long as the kung fu is deep, the iron pestle is sharpened into a needle. There are many things that others can do, and I am equally capable of doing them, and I may do them better.

Jealousy: There are generally two situations:

1. Jealous of others, I can't see that others are better than myself, and I can't do it myself, so I try every possible way to make others can't.

2. I am jealous of others, I can't tolerate myself being inferior to others, others can do it, I must do it too, so I try my best to surpass others and be better than others.

Jealousy is common to everyone, depending on whether your psychology is sunny or dark. I appreciate it.

Second, I also hope that you are this kind of person, this kind of person is a strong person who is not willing to lag behind.

Then please open your mind first, you are jealous of the people around her, I think you care too much about her and are afraid of losing her, in fact, love is like quicksand, the more you want to grasp it, it will slowly slip away from your hands. Tying your lover too much will only suffocate love. I think there must be suspicion, but there must be a basis, and unfounded suspicion is not okay, let alone said.

You don't know her well enough, keep talking.

If this is often the case, it is recommended that you tell everyone about your childhood, so that it is easy to find the cause and know how to deal with it in the future.

As wide as the heart is, the road is as wide as it is.

Expand your horizons and expand your heart.

Love with confidence and love boldly.

Everyone will have jealousy, the branch chaos is just light and heavy, jealousy is heavy, that is, the view of things is more prejudiced, the character is not particularly open and cautious, people should learn to stand in the other party's perspective on things, to see, to share, so that jealousy, will slowly reduce filial piety.