The old man in the family has died less than three years ago, and there is a marriage in the family,

It depends on the customs of your place!

According to our place (Huanghuai area), the death of the old man in the family needs to be filial piety for three years! Children and grandchildren keep filial piety!

The first year does not post couplets.

The second year, a purple couplet was pasted.

Year 3 Paste light green couplets.

It can only be pasted in red in the fourth year.

In the case of marriage, only engagement!!

How to calculate the past three years is to calculate how many Qingming Festivals the old man has passed in the soil! That is, to celebrate three Qingming Festivals! That's it!

If you don't understand, just ask your elders, or ask some gentlemen!

Pure hand fighting!

The old man has left the world, and the period of filial piety is different:

Son: three years;

Sun Tzu: 100 days;

great-grandson: seven days;

Great-great-grandson: three days;

In the next generation, there will be "five suits", and there is no need to keep filial piety.

Look at your seniority at home and deal with it appropriately. It is not necessarily confined to the shackles of the old rites.

When the old man is alive, he is well supported and filial, and it is already "great filial piety".

After the death of the elderly, the children and grandchildren should return to normal life as soon as possible, which is also a "great filial piety".

There are differences in the customs of various places, the red couplet is generally two years later, the other can be based on their own character, some people pay attention to some people do not care too much, the calculation method of keeping filial piety for three years is to count the three Qingming Festival and counting the three fragrances of the tomb during the New Year, so that it is a complete three years of filial piety (if you want to paste the couplet, it is advisable to paste the purple red).

Don't stick the couplet first, if you want to paste it, you have to paste the couplet that is not red It looks even worse, you can paste the word Daifuku.

After two years, it's fine, and that's okay.

Not so much poverty-conscious, just take a sticker.

Yes? There are so many taboos ...

It is a traditional custom in our country that no couplets can be pasted less than three years after the death of a loved one.

Hometown customs: Someone in the family has passed away for three years and cannot paste red couplets, yellow in the first year; green in the second year; The third year is purple.

The mourning period is three years, but the mourning family cannot be pasted with red couplets. According to traditional customs, during the mourning period, it is forbidden to take a bath, shave your head, change your clothes, or paste red couplets. With the progress of the times, the civilization and development of society, some traditional customs can be reformed.

For example, bathing, shaving your head, changing clothes.

However, the Chinese New Year cannot be pasted with red couplets, and the folk have been continuing, which is the respect for the deceased.

Although compared to the laughter and laughter of other people's families, this year without the company of his grandson and son is very lonely, and Uncle Cao is also immersed in the pain of losing his son and missing his son, but I believe that time will wash away all the unpleasantness, and one day Uncle Cao can calmly accept the fact that his son left and spend his old age in happiness.

No, first of all, because we have always advocated that "filial piety comes first, and paying attention to filial piety is the Chinese nation."

The fine tradition is followed by in ancient times, when the elderly in the family died, there was a system of mourning. Within three years of mourning, filial piety can not live at home, to live in a shed, wear filial piety clothes, sleep on straw mats to express the nostalgia of their parents, although with the progress of the times and the development of social civilization, some traditional customs have become outdated, but the New Year can not be pasted red Spring Festival couplets.

The tradition continues in the countryside as a sign of respect for the deceased.

When is the best time to unveil the Spring Festival couplets.

Spring Festival couplets have a festive and auspicious meaning, so the "old" Spring Festival couplets need to wait until the next year to paste the Spring Festival couplets before removing and pasting the new Spring Festival couplets, meaning to say goodbye to the old and welcome the new, good luck for a year, in this whole year, if the Spring Festival couplets are damaged, they need to be repaired in time. The saying of tearing the Spring Festival couplets is to remove the old and welcome the new, not to break or stand, everything he chooses can be discarded when he no longer meets his wishes, so he has no scruples about tearing the Spring Festival couplets, but the folk saying is that the Spring Festival couplets cannot be torn before the Spring Festival is over. If you tear it off, you need to wait until after the fifteenth day of the first month, or when you post the New Year couplets on Chinese New Year's Eve of the following year.

The death of the old man is a sad thing, and the Spring Festival is a festive festival, the two seem to have a relatively large conflict, but in fact, the ancients also regarded the death as a happy event, the so-called white happy event is this meaning, the Spring Festival is a red happy event, so there is still no such big contradiction between the two, but out of respect for the deceased, the Spring Festival couplets should not be posted on the same day.

No. If an elderly person dies in the family, you have to keep filial piety for three years, and between these three years, you can't post couplets during the New Year, but you can post a blessing on the door.

Hope the above can be helpful to you.

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That. 1. Do not paste red couplets: In China, red represents festivity, so in weddings, New Year's Holidays, National Day and other big festivals, red decorations are more, such as New Year's pasting red couplets, hanging red lanterns, etc., to express celebration.

If there is an elderly person in the family who dies, catch up with the New Year's holiday, one can not paste red couplets; 2. You can't participate.

If an elderly person dies in the family, the person who died in that year cannot be pasted with a red couplet, but can use yellow or green, and in some places it is determined by the number of years the old man died.

No. The old man in the family died, and the younger generation generally did not stick the red couplets for three years from that year, and kept the system with white, green and yellow, the first year with white paper, the second year of green paper, the third year of yellow paper, and the fourth year of mourning before resuming the use of red paper, so the white, green and yellow couplets are commonly known as "filial piety", "filial piety" or "Ding Wei Lian". There are also places that yellow couplets are pasted in the first year, blue couplets in the second year, and green couplets in the third year.

There are also places that simply do not post couplets for three years to express sorrow, so it is necessary to post couplets during the Spring Festival.

The color of the couplet is in turn related to local folklore. The most common thing to see is red, and red represents welcome. In some places there are also white, yellow, purple, green and blue, etc.

For example, in Hubei, yellow represents the remembrance of the deceased relative, purple and blue represent the second year of the sacrifice of the deceased, and green represents the third year of the sacrifice of the deceased. In some places, white represents the memory of a new loved one.

1. Don't stick couplets, which is a respect for the old man who has passed away. During the Spring Festival, if we put a couplet, it is an disrespectful attitude towards the dead elderly. Relatives and friends on the side will also ridicule Bubi for understanding filial piety, we all know that filial piety comes first.

We abide by the rules handed down by our ancestors, and after death, we must observe filial piety for several years.

2. It is a kind of support for the thoughts of relatives, and more of a commemoration of the deceased elderly. Another way to do this can be seen that part of it is the inheritance of traditional culture. In some families, if a loved one dies, it is not possible to eat big fish and meat, and avoid music at home.

For the concept of filial piety, it is a noble virtue of our nation.

3. In some places, you don't know that you only have to keep filial piety for your deceased relatives, and you can't paste couplets on the door key. The juniors in the family, as well as some relatives who are related to each other, should try to avoid getting married for three years. If the three-year period has passed, the children can marry in style.

4. These are the influences of some customs and habits in our country, and of course, the way of influence has also been passed down. Deceased relatives should indeed be respected, and this custom can be passed down further.

In the first three Spring Festivals of the death of a loved one, you can't stick red couplets, and in these three Spring Festivals, it's best not to visit relatives and friends during the first month, and don't go to your neighbor's house to pay New Year's greetings, others will not say that you are rude, but will understand you. On the other hand, if you go to someone else's house, they will not be very happy even if they don't say it. What we pay attention to here is that you have not been very lucky in the past three years, and if you go to someone else's house, you will also bring bad luck to others.

Especially during the Spring Festival, going to other people's homes is to add to the blockage of other people's homes.

In fact, these are the old rules, and now people rarely pay attention to these, but they feel that if their relatives have just died, they feel more heavy, and they are not willing to go to other people's homes. After a hundred years of the elderly in the family, every time it comes to the Spring Festival, the family does not say that the subsidy couplet, but the red couplet can not be pasted, and the color of the couplet is generally green. Moreover, red lanterns, neon lights, colored lights, etc. are not allowed in the home.

The reason why the green couplet is pasted is because, after all, the Spring Festival is the most intense festival of the year for us Chinese, even if it is the deceased, it will be "New Year" on this day, and future generations will invite their ancestors to worship at home.

Couplets are an indispensable part of the Spring Festival culture, and red is mostly used in festive things, so in order to create the atmosphere of the Spring Festival, and in order to reflect the respect and nostalgia for the deceased, they will choose to use purple paper to write couplets. People have always believed that when something bad happens to their family, it is bad luck, or bad luck. If an elderly person dies in the family, there will be a buffer time, and after 3 years, blessings should come.

However, this idea is accompanied by feudal superstition.

factors. Finally, it expresses a kind of mourning, and the couplet is not posted for three years, which is an expression of the deceased's longing emotion. The Chinese New Year is a symbol of reunion, and at this time, it is easy to remind the family of the time when the deceased is still there, if the Spring Festival couplets are pasted.

It is also incompatible with this state of mind.

This is a kind of mourning for the loss of loved ones, and it is also one of the traditional etiquette and morality that the Chinese nation attaches the most importance to, and it also expresses respect for one's relatives; In some areas, if a relative dies in the family, the child is not allowed to get married and fall in love within three years, and if there is a marriage contract in advance, there is also a three-year filial piety period, and after three years, you can talk about marriage.

This is also a tradition, in remembrance, in memory of relatives, but also a kind of respect for relatives, and longing; Because it is a very sad thing to have a loved one in the family who dies, and it is a very festive thing to post couplets, so it is a conflict, so I don't post couplets for three years.

The reason why couplets cannot be pasted during the Spring Festival within three years of the death of relatives is mainly to effectively express a series of condolences to the deceased relatives, and it is also out of relative respect for relatives, of course, it is also due to some traditional customs.

The Spring Festival can not be pasted couplets, which is to express the mourning of their relatives, respect for relatives, is one of the traditional etiquette and morality in our country. It is a traditional custom.

Summary. Hello dear! The family members died and could not post couplets for the New Year, so if someone in the family died, the Spring Festival couplets could not be pasted during the New Year within three years.

The Spring Festival couplets are red, representing festivity, and clash with white things and filial piety, so they cannot be pasted couplets. In order to express the memory and respect for the deceased. As the old saying goes, filial piety comes first, filial piety is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and the countryside is not impregnated by modern culture, so the traditional culture is also the most intact.

Hello dear! The family members died and could not post couplets for the New Year, so if someone in the family died, the Spring Festival couplets could not be pasted during the New Year within three years. The Spring Festival couplets are red, representing festivity, and clash with white things and filial piety, so they cannot be pasted couplets.

In order to express the memory and respect for the deceased. As the old saying goes, filial piety is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and the pure and bright countryside is not impregnated by modern culture, so the traditional culture is also preserved as the most complete.

My uncle is dead, can I post couplets this year?

Hello dear! I can't stick it. You can't post Spring Festival couplets during the New Year within three years.

The Spring Festival couplets are red wax numbers, and the first expression of the generation wheel is festive, and the white thing is filial piety, so it can not be pasted couplet. It is a way to express the memory and respect for the deceased. If an immediate family member died in the family that year, it was pushed from the year of death to the next three years, and red couplets could not be posted in front of the door during the Chinese New Year.