How to chat with a woman, how to chat with a woman?

1. How to find a topic for chatting with girls.

1. In fact, there are certain skills in finding a topic, if you find a wrong topic, or a topic that girls are very sensitive to, but if you find the right topic, you can instantly get closer to the girl's closeness to you, and the two of you will have a good chat.

2. So how to find a topic for chatting with girls, first of all, you can start from the other party's recent situation to ask about the chat, but be careful not to say too personal words, if you say, "How have you lost weight recently?".Although every girl loves beauty and likes to listen to other people's praises, but getting thin is a very sensitive thing, especially if the other party is losing fat, the temper will be extraordinarily sensitive, and at this time, praising the other party like this may bring a sense of disgust.

3. Also, don't be too much like an elder, maybe you feel that you have a position to care about her as a friend or a suitor, but put yourself in her shoes and recall, if you have a friend, meeting every day is to say some big truths, like to teach you how to behave in the world, do you feel very stressed?

Second, what should I do if I have no topic to talk about with a girl?

1. If you have no topic to talk about with a girl, you can invite the other person to watch a movie to create a new topic for the two to chat.

2. If two people have just met, don't be anxious, there is no topic to talk about is only temporary, at this time you should not be too aggressive, calm down and wait, there may be a topic.

3. You can also take the initiative to talk to the other party by observing the girl's social networks to get information about what she is interested in recently.

4. If there is no topic to talk about, it may also be a good thing, it may be that you have talked too much with the other party, causing the other party to still digest some of the topics you said for a while, which proves that you have done your best in the development of this relationship, so what the final result will be, it still depends on fate.

The odds are very high. 1.Learn to understand others more.

When you communicate with others, it is best to learn to understand others, if the other party's personality is more sunny and cheerful, then we don't have to be too serious, and if the other party is a more serious character, then when we communicate with others, we must fully understand and respect them, to communicate carefully and carefully, if the other party is a friend who doesn't know each other, it is best to maintain respect and appropriate communication on daily topics.

2.Be appropriately silent and respectful.

When we encounter problems that we don't understand, we should ask others for advice, respect others when communicating, don't talk endlessly, but learn to remain silent, let the other party express their opinions more, and when we encounter things we don't understand, don't rush to express them, we should learn to listen carefully, and give people a humble and serious attitude.

3.Communicate more about positive topics that the other person is interested in.

When communicating with others, everyone likes to communicate their own topics of interest and like to express their knowledge to others, so we must first learn to understand and listen to others' opinions, so that the other party can feel your sincerity and feel that communicating with you is a very pleasant process, because everyone hopes that they can be understood and respected by others, and more exchanges of each other's expertise and knowledge are precisely to understand each other and have a common language with each other.

4.Learn to listen humbly and carefully.

When communicating with others, it is necessary to learn to listen carefully and carefully, do not interrupt others, and listen more patiently, so as to understand and respect others, and only in this way can we reflect our sincerity and modesty and courtesy, so as to gain true friendship.

5.Learn to praise others.

Praise is a kind of respect, but also a kind of recognition of the other party's performance, when communicating with others, if we can properly express praise for the opinions expressed by others, this is undoubtedly to give the other party a feeling of respect and recognition, the other party will also very much agree with our understanding and respect, at the same time the other party will also have a new understanding of us, effectively promote the happiness and smoothness of communication.