I m a man, and everyone says I m sick when I go out, what should I do?

If others say that you are sick, you must have a problem, nothing more than that you don't notice or don't recognize it. For example, some men are obviously men, but they have to dress like very special women, but in fact, this is a mental illness. When a person's behavior or thoughts seriously deviate from the socially accepted standards, then the person's heart is abnormal.

So sometimes saying that someone is sick is not necessarily an insult, and it is likely to be an objective judgment.

Start with yourself, reflect on yourself seriously, and figure out what makes others scold you for being sick. If you can't reflect on it, then ask others, ask why others scold themselves, if others scold themselves for no reason, it means that others have a problem, not that they are sick.

Find a friend and ask yourself what "disease" you have. If something is really wrong, change it, and if not, don't care too much about what others say.

Hopefully, thank you!

That means that your behavior has been out of the scope of normal people, you should take a good look at yourself to see if you are different from others, if so, then quickly correct, if you think you are okay, then do yourself and let others say it.

Go your own way, don't pay attention to what others say, and when you have a good achievement, others will look at you differently and will not say that you are sick.

If there is a disease, it must be cured, the root cause of the disease must be found, and the disease will be solved. I wish you good health and happiness.

Why do they all say that? Do you say you talk and do things? It's naïve. If that's the case. You have to change yourself. Build your confidence. Speaking and doing things become mature.

Why. Is it the way you dress or the way you talk? If you're dressed, read some magazines and buy some trendy brands. If you are talking and behaving, you should have time to read some communication books to improve yourself.

You should know whether you are sick or not, you don't have to care about other people's gossip, just be yourself.

Look at yourself in the mirror!

If you feel fine, leave others alone.

If you feel something is wrong, correct it.

Hello, you can find a suitable time to talk to your parents, understand the crux of the problem, and then deal with it according to the situation. Thank you.

So what's going on? When a lot of people deny themselves, sometimes it's not someone else's reason, it's your own, and if you're right, stick to yourself.

If you think you're not sick, go your own way and let others say it.

When a person says that you are sick, they all say that there is a problem, and the disease is in the ** change of symptoms, and tomorrow will be better.

It shows that you do have some problems that are unacceptable.

Go your own way and let others do the talking.

People don't say it for no reason.

a.Silence is golden.

b.Ask your doctor.

c.Observe others.

The key is whether you are sick, and if you are really sick, you have to go to the doctor.

Hello! Don't take it seriously, what are others for? Maybe people see the abnormality, and it doesn't cost much to go to the hospital for a checkup!

Hello, they shouldn't be referring to illness in that literal sense.

Either you are too confident in yourself, or you don't need to pay attention to them, you don't need to care about other people's eyes, just be yourself.

Explain that the person doesn't like you, and you should give up.

It may be a joke, and if you like someone else, you can tell him, and see the reaction, the worst thing is that you can't be friends, and you don't feel like you have anything to lose!

Only my brother knows if I'm sick or not.

What did you do to him, he said you were sick?

Don't be blinded by unworthy people.

But is it really sick?

Then I used to be a silent lamb, but now I am a living wolf....

Actually, I'm the same way, just be yourself.

If you don't speak, it's hard to find the object, so you might as well talk.

You can say: you don't speak, no one but you're dumb.

3. If the other party does scold him for being sick, he can also say that he is indeed sick, he is hot-headed, and he thinks of himself as a fool, which will make the other party feel a little collapsed and funny. It is necessary for us to analyze specific problems, if it is indeed an unintentional joke sometimes, then at this time you can also pretend to answer yourself formally, and there is indeed a description of hot-headedness, similar to this fake, serious way of answering will make the other party feel inexplicably funny.

In fact, for us to have a sense of humor at any time, then we should make a choice based on our own situation and specific plots, and then consider it according to the relationship between the other party and ourselves.

From the phrase "you are sick", the side shoots out the "general psychological pathology" of many people in our society who are uncivilized, have low quality, low cultivation, and have no education. Through my careful observation and research, I found that many people in society now, up to about 50 years old and down to about 10 years old, from the city to the countryside, whether they are people with higher education or people with low education, including illiterate, whether they are people with high quality or low quality, often say that "you are sick", and even proudly think that "fashion" is open and close to others.

I think that the person who said this sentence himself is essentially "sick", a kind of "sick psychology", and this popular phrase reflects the "regression" of the civilization level of many people in our society today.

I think that from the ancients to modern and modern times, the degree of civilization in speech is relatively high, and I never talk to others with the word "disease" when interacting with people.

When others say "you are sick", I don't think there is any clever answer to some people who say this, and it is more appropriate to directly hit them with a tooth for a tooth, because it is a sentence of "scolding", a sentence that does not respect the character and personality of the other party, and denigrates the dignity of others.

If I were to answer, I would ask a straight rhetorical question, humorously saying, "Can you guarantee that you will not get sick for the rest of your life??? Tell you: Friend, being sick is a good thing, it is a normal phenomenon of life, not getting sick is not a normal physiological phenomenon, it is very dangerous, maybe it will be short-lived.

I'm sick, do you have medicine? Don't bother me with myrrh, if you're talking about yourself, I'm sorry I'm not a veterinarian, so I didn't give you the medicine, turn left in front of the mental hospital, don't thank you or generally say that others are sick if you are sick, are you psychologically afraid? Still speechless?

Or is it yes, wasn't it infected by you, but I'm fine, you better hurry back to the mental hospital, or did you forget to take your medicine today and come out and talk nonsense? Why do others say that I am good, just say that I am sick, it seems that you are not lightly ill, and you have started to talk nonsense.

I have read a very good passage, when others scold you, "just bear with him, let him, let him, avoid him, bear with him, respect him, ignore him, stay for a few more years, and you look at him". There will always be all kinds of people in life, and when others insult you, people with high emotional intelligence will do the same.

If a person makes such a performance, as a bystander, looking at such a person, in fact, it is a kind of psychology to watch the excitement to watch, the more you pay attention to it, the more the emotions of such a person will rise, but it will intensify to us, direct response, it is meaningless, we had better control our emotions, do not because of such a low-quality person and lower their own quality, this is not right.

When you are indifferent, calmly looking into his eyes and letting him scold, it means that you are stronger than him. Sounds weird, right? You can try, when a person is angry, look into his eyes, you can really feel whether he is strong or weak-hearted, if the abuse offends your personality and your family, then, do you still need to endure this kind of thing?

Either you choose to leave, or you choose to fight back at him in the most direct and destructive way, if you don't move, you can defeat the enemy with one move!

The ancients said that the mouth could spit out roses and roses, and could also spit out tribulus terrestris.

Sometimes, it is not the benefit that hurts people the most.

zhi, but language. dao

The power of language is far greater than we think.

A cold word may leave a scar on the heart of someone else that will never be healed.

So you don't have to pay attention to him, a person who insults others is his most despicable quality.

"You have medicine.

Are you coming? "But this is also a relatively old source of stalks. Humor still depends on the situation and the occasion, such as the other party zhi is just joking to say a word, dao

You can just say, "yes, you're not sick," but if the other person is saying something serious, there's no need for humor.

Why am I sick and you still theorizing with me for so long, you yourself have a problem. Why do you talk to me when you think I'm sick, why don't you let me?

If you really don't know what to do, then you can say to those people: "Alas, a high-level animal like me can't compare with a low-level animal like you You say I'm sick?" I think you should get a pair of glasses, you don't have a good eye, right?

Ay! Too lazy to talk nonsense with you scumbags! A high-level animal like me and a low-level animal like you can't communicate well!

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You say I'm sick, but my symptoms aren't as severe as yours.

In the past few years, it was more popular for others to say that you were sick, and then directly ask him, do you have medicine?

Silence is louder than words, sometimes you don't need to argue with reason, and the best way to deal with a bored person is to ignore it.

It is impossible for people to scold the phrase "you are sick" for no reason, so it is also necessary to look at the problem and see what is going on!

Of course, the person who scolded me for being sick was infected.

I'm sick, and I wasn't infected by you.

Do you have any medicine? If so, why don't you treat yourself?

Look at how long I've been talking to you, and you're sick.

What did you say, what did your husband say about you?

The important thing between husband and wife is not to stare at each other's words, if you are not going to divorce, it is better to think seriously about why he said this about you and what you did to make him come to such a conclusion about you.

Whether he speaks well or not, whether there is something wrong with it is his problem, what you can do now is to reflect on whether you have no problem, if you have nothing to do and then think about how to communicate with him, don't go back as soon as he says it, in addition to letting the two of them fight will not have a better effect, for the sake of life, it is best to think about it seriously, even if you really can't get along with him in the future, you as a perfect person will not find a better belonging, so, as a woman, you must always remember to improve yourself and be a quality woman.

Are you too strict with him, nagging in front of him all day long?

He can't accept you.

That's why he says that about you.

It shows that he doesn't really love you.

I don't know how he usually treats you.

It doesn't look like your feelings will last long.

He's starting to get tired of you.

That's what he would say.

This problem is easy to solve! You may do things in your life, mother-in-law and mother-in-law, talk too much, so it seems nagging and boring, maybe you don't think, you don't realize your own shortcomings, and you can't understand the feelings of others, the object says you, and you yourself still feel wronged