I m a man, why do I think it s a bad thing to fall in love, and I resist it from the heart

Explain that your starting point is wrong, everyone is in love for marriage, if it is for the sake of only falling in love, it is indeed a bit bad, but the purpose of love is to get married, it is normal to think so, of course, there are also introductions to know blind dates, and they all need a process of understanding, everyone knows love before marriage is completely respectful of marriage, if you blindly get married, it is not suitable to divorce again is not a joke about marriage! So falling in love is a sign of more respect for marriage, are you resistant to marriage? If you don't resist it, then treat it with the same mentality as love, that's right, but you can't completely treat it as a married state, grasp your own mentality, there's nothing wrong with it, you may be more conservative, but it's not wrong to be conservative, right, as long as it's within the normal range, it's normal, some people tend to be conservative and some people tend to be open, so it's good to have a positive mentality

Love doesn't have to be immoral, but in today's society, there are often many sad examples of what love or love is like. From the perspective of love, many people have a certain amount of power to suppress and use each other's nature, and there are also some concepts that treat each other as the other half, and there is a limited and rigid relationship between two people who demand only "all my material characteristics".

Therefore, especially in today's society, if you don't fully respect and understand each other, love can easily become a bad behavior, so that both parties are hurt. Therefore, when you think that love is unethical, you are actually expressing resistance to this nature, because your view of love is different from the actual situation of love.

Hello, love for the purpose of marriage is not immoral, maybe it's a matter of being too conservative I used to be like this I used to chat with the opposite sex, and I will blush when I talk Don't want to don't want to fall in love I know that when I meet someone I like, the moment I am excited, I will desperately muster up the courage to pursue People always have to be in love to get married You can make more friends of the opposite sex with kindness in your heart Chat more and relax I believe that the person you love will not resist I wish you peace, health and happiness every day.

It may be that you have seen through the good, evil, beauty and ugliness in the world. It's because I saw through it that I resisted in my heart. However, there are still many beautiful people and things in the world, so you might as well open your heart and accept them.

Because the love that makes a strong impression on you is the one that is not aimed at marriage.

Love that is not aimed at marriage is just a pretext and excuse to achieve a certain goal under scheming. The basis of the bond between the two parties is not feelings, but some shady desires.

Adjusting the mentality, falling in love is a process of every adult's feelings, don't resist, accept it.

This is the distortion of your outlook on life, beautiful love is an eternal thing between human men and women, and family affection and friendship together constitute the relationship between people in the world.

It may be that you have a psychological problem, or you have a physical problem, there is no man who does not like to fall in love.

You feel that it is not worth talking to the object, but the vast majority of them like to fall in love, this is the normal physiological need of people, and falling in love is a very happy thing and trustworthy.

It's because you haven't met the person you love. Maybe you've been hurt. None of this matters.

Love is beautiful, as long as you have enough courage to start over with confidence. Take life well and live every day with sunshine. Love will come back to you.

Don't get tired. One failure does not mean eternal failure.

This is because you haven't met the person you love, and you haven't met the person you feel should give, so you feel bored, and you feel that giving is a very worthless thing and a waste of time.

How can you feel like this, if two people don't fall in love and don't interact together, how can they know whether it is suitable for each other to be together, and whether there is any need to continue walking, all of which must be through ordinary interactions in order to have a deep understanding.

Hello, this is the result of personal family, experience. If you haven't been in a relationship, you probably won't say that, it's actually beautiful to be in love.

Before I met the right person, I felt that falling in love was a waste of time and energy, and it was not worth spending a lot of money.

I think falling in love is a mutual thing. There's nothing unworthy, and if you don't feel it's worth it, you can choose not to fall in love.

Love is one thing you love me for. If you even have to worry about being in love, then you still don't want to be in love, maybe being single is more suitable for you.

Everyone's outlook on love and values are different, so you think that falling in love is not worth it, but others think it is very good and beautiful.

Because you have something more worthwhile to do, such as giving for the good of humanity.

At first glance, you just haven't talked about it, and falling in love is certainly a very worthwhile thing. The feeling is different, and the experience is definitely not the same.

In fact, there is nothing worth it or not worth in love, love is a beautiful thing, even if you break up in the end, it is a memory.

Falling in love is not a worthwhile thing, it depends on whether you want something that can bring you happiness.

If your mentality is so gray, then all kinds of things in life will feel meaningless, and this mentality needs to be changed.

Why do you think so?

Isn't it also a very important thing to fall in love in life? It's not even worth falling in love. So what's the worthwhile thing to do?

Different people think differently. Each of them retains their own opinions, so let's act differently because of this.

There is no value or not to fall in love, only whether you want him or not is a worthless thing.

Because you don't get true love, you don't feel worth it, and you don't think about it that way when you meet true love.

Well, if you meet the right person. It's all worth it, and if you don't meet it, it's not worth it

Falling in love is a wonderful thing and cannot be measured by whether it is worth it or not.

That's when you've been hurt, and it's hard for people who have been in the sea.

Falling in love is not something that can be said to be worthwhile or unworthy, it is a natural phenomenon that young people of school age should have, men marrying women.

It may be that you are very satisfied with your life now, and you have seen too much unhappiness between couples or something, and you don't want to become like this in the future.

The idea is a bit extreme, how can you know if two people are suitable if you don't fall in love, and you will only get married after falling in love.

See if you think that aspect is not worth it, it is not cost-effective. And then it depends on whether you find someone to give to each other

Because your mind is not on it. You haven't come out of the teenage years yet. Not yet grown-up.

You haven't found a worthy love yet, love has it, and it's worth it.

This may have something to do with your own view of love.

You misunderstood, I'm also a man, I like a person, not on the surface, but on the inside, crab.

The meaning of this sentence is that he thinks you are misunderstood, because he is also a man, and he also said the standard of people he likes.

Quite right. Looking for a girlfriend mainly depends on whether the character is good or not? Is the heart good? Is your personality good? Human character, temperament, and temperament are very important.

I don't know how old you are now. In life, each stage has what to do and what to assume at each stage. If you are still a student, the student's duty is to study, don't think of him, otherwise, after this stage, you will regret what you did.

If you have already stepped into society, don't worry, face the current life with a plain heart, go with the flow, and experience some things and your mind will change.

Do you want to know why it's awkward to be in a relationship, or are you confessing that you don't want to be in a relationship? Tell you a non-awkward secret Take your girlfriend to open a room After the event, you will never feel awkward This method is only suitable for people over 18 years old Caution.

Maybe you haven't met her in your life yet! So it feels awkward to fall in love. Actually, in my opinion, if you meet, you won't be so rational to think about whether this is too proactive here, and many girls want boys to take the initiative, even if you say why you are so straightforward.

Do you want to know why it's awkward to be in a relationship, or are you confessing that you don't want to be in a relationship?

Wait for a blind date to get married, and work hard if you don't want to talk.

Don't be too infatuated, put yourself in the right position of falling in love and studying, and your career, and you won't feel tired.

Trekking through the years, everyone has their own story, and the mood will be beautiful when you look down, and the mood will be bright when you look at it. Take a break when you are tired, dance with the breeze, be quiet when you are annoyed, gaze at the flowers and plants, slow down when you are in a hurry, and smile with yourself.

Either you didn't find the right person, and the effort is completely disproportionate to the return. That is, you chased someone who shouldn't be chasing. Either you haven't understood what love is from a psychological level, and when you understand something, you will find that love is just a matter of one person, not two people.

If love isn't right for you, you can listen to your inner thoughts and let it go.

Hello! Sometimes tiredness is a burden on the heart.

Don't think about it, take it easy.

A lot of times it's because we're wrong.

Because you're afraid that girls won't like you, there's no need to be too hypocritical, it's a beautiful thing to relax and talk about romance.

Falling in love is inherently tiring, and it represents a responsibility.

Don't get in the way, just talk to a few more women, multitasking, you won't be tired, but you can't empathize with other love, what you look for again, at most, is just to relieve boredom.

Because I care too much. So scarred.

It could be that your approach is wrong.

You're looking for a guy and you're going to get better.

Falling in love is a relaxing process, and you may not be there yet.

Don't do licking dogs, you won't get tired.

Haha can I say that I'm the same as you, I think men are particularly annoying, I have a headache to watch, falling in love is a waste of time, it's better to stay alone.

Because you haven't met the person you love, someone once said that when fate arrives, you can change everything, I wish you happiness (o)Oh!

1. Your emotions are a bit barren and you have no emotional needs;

2. Do you want to wait for others to pick up the leftovers?

3. Life with a partner is more perfect.

The landlord has love weakness, in fact, there is nothing abnormal, it's just that you haven't met what you like, adjust your mentality, live your life well, as long as you're happy.

It's okay, you're just too emotional, maybe you'll meet something better if you get hurt! There is no grass at the end of the world, God will close a window for you and open a door for you, maybe it's just that fate has not arrived, and there is something better waiting for you behind.

This world is like this, love is like catching a different train, you may miss fate, or you think you can walk with someone for a long time, but you get off the train halfway, it seems a pity But in the sea of life, someone misses you, so you can catch up with the best encounter Meet the last her. Cheer up and do your best!

Well, Xiaohua can see that you are one.

People who value feelings.

I paid my heart but was stabbed all over my body. Xiaohua has also had this kind of experience, and it is very uncomfortable, so I hope you don't feel too sad.

But I want to say that falling in love is a matter of two people, too little or too much is not suitable, to grasp the degree, pay too much will be looked down upon, pay too little will be blamed, there must be a scale in your heart.

Past relationships are difficult to give up because of loss, you must understand this truth, wipe away your tears and move on, one day you will not cry again.

PS: Don't be sad, you'll always meet good people ( 3 ).

I haven't met a good girl, I said that you men also deserve it, whether you are a good girl or not, you just like it.

The ugly ones are definitely not as good as the good-looking ones are suitable for falling in love. Why bother to be cheap, I am born to be useful.

I'm a girl, I've been in a few relationships, and I've been in a relationship like you, and I don't think I'm not suitable for a relationship.

It's just that I haven't found true love yet, and I don't know if you agree with my statement, but please think about it as well.

In fact, everyone has the right to fall in love, but it depends on whether the other party is the person you love?

Because you didn't find the right person for you, you were so stupid to get away in exchange for your real feelings.

With a glass heart, you need to be a strong heart.

Because you don't have a relationship at all, maybe you have a lot of things that don't match him, causing him to look down on you more and more.

Why does your boyfriend look down on you.

Analyse. The reason why the other party will look down on you.

A big reason for this could be because you are financially dependent on the other person.

That is, in your relationship.

The other party bears most of the economic expenses.

Suggestion. Learn to be financially independent.

Don't rely on each other.

In this way, we can respect each other.

It's easy to fall in love and hard to get along with. So sometimes the interaction between people is really unclear, but we all need to learn to be kind to ourselves when we grow up so big. This life is not long, you must live well.