What should be a good person, and what should be considered a good person?

Without attachment, there would be no suffering.

It's others who are selfish, but it's you who suffers.

Why bother. Children can't understand the sinister nature of the world, so they are happy.

Adults understand everything, so they all deteriorate.

It's better to be confused, understand everything, and it's yourself who is troubled.

Even if you understand it, sometimes you have to pretend that you don't understand.

In fact, it's good to live your own life.

What you do, what you play, what you say can make you happy.

How others are is someone else's business.

In fact, it is very difficult to do it, it depends on the individual's ability

No heart, no lungs" point, it doesn't matter the point.

Forehead... Don't hit me who are watching...

By the way

Be nice to your family, even if they have something you don't like.

But the one who is really good to you in this world is your family.

No one is perfect, so try to be tolerant and understanding.

If you are a parent, you will always experience more and have more experience.

Their words will still make sense after a long time.

Selfishness is an instinct, a self-protective nature given to us by God. The degree of selfishness is different, some are very selfish, some are called selfish, and some are a little selfish. The connotation of selfishness is also different.

Some are for themselves, some are for themselves, and some are for the collective, the group. In this sense, [being a human being] should:1

Do things that don't hurt people. 2.Do things that do not harm others but benefit yourself.

3.Do less things that harm others and benefit yourself. 4.

Don't do things that harm others or yourself.

People may want to see the world and taste all things, imagine what it means if they don't have a family? , It's nothing at home, if you even have to care about your family, who will dare to get along with you in the future. Therefore, this kind of problem is definitely not easy for people around me to say.

That's all it takes to complain here.

People are selfish! Including you and me....Some things are easier to figure out if you think about them from a different perspective..."Life has no meaning....So we have to define a meaning for our lives....To paraphrase the sentence "To live is to be meaningful, and to be meaningful is to live well"....

The nature is difficult to change, and the people you meet are not very good; You also have a problem with your worldview, communicate more with others, and do things generously, and your feelings will naturally be different. People live to enjoy life, and it is better for someone to share happiness.

Don't be too arbitrary. Selfishness may be a self-protective instinct, but not all people are selfish.

1. A few bunches of punch lines:

1. More communication, less problems.

2. Know more and make more friends.

3. Be calm and solve problems.

Second, think differently:

Put yourself in other people's shoes and feel how they feel, and you'll know how to act without messing things up, and that's the benefit of thinking differently.

Now add: Especially think about the problem from the customer's point of view, think about yourself as a customer, and you will know some of the other party's ideas.

Three, two people get along:

When two people get along, in addition to the basic sincerity, it is more important to understand (understand each other's situation or difficulties or hardships or performances), and then do self-adjustment and improvement (that is, adjust their mentality and improve their behavior), followed by care and care (more care can bring each other closer, and more care can deepen each other's understanding).

Now add: As Lianzhi said, when there is a contradiction:

1. Find problems in yourself first, don't complain about others first, and push the problem onto others.

2. To change things, first change yourself; To make things better, make yourself better first!

3. If you want others to respect you, you need to respect others first.

At the beginning of 06, a senior surnamed Liang, who had been in the supply and marketing cooperatives for decades, gave the lotus branch this sentence when chatting: things are reasonable, and the heart is peaceful! To comprehend the lotus branch more, it is really very philosophical, and I will also send it to you here to think about and comprehend.

Fourth, we must pay first

Everyone wants to be understood, cared for, and loved by others, but how? Hee-hee, just one sentence: if you want others to be good to you, you have to be good to others first.

That is to say, if you give your understanding, care and love first, you will get a correspondingly better return, believe it?!

Now add: Do you understand the concept of "giving"? Give it up before you get it.

As long as you understand the phrase "giving is happier than receiving", you will understand. Lotus Branch Lotus has been doing this, giving up its own knowledge, experience, experience and cases, to help friends who are destined, so that they can learn related knowledge, including health knowledge, and help them improve their health step by step, and Lotus Branch is the opportunity for others to understand, recognize, recognize and generate a small business. Even if there is no business, helping people is happy, isn't that good?

Accumulate virtue for this world, haha...

Fifth, be a person and do things:

A sage said to me: To learn to do things, you must first learn to be a man. To be a human being is to do a good job in the relationship between people (including family, relatives, friends, classmates, colleagues, neighbors, other organizations, etc.), which is also interpersonal relationships and connections.

Good connections can help you develop and help you succeed; If you mess up your connections, you'll have nothing and bear it alone.

1. Reservations: Excessive disputes are not beneficial to oneself and are unself-contained. In general, one should not rush to express one's attitude or express one's opinion, leaving people uncertain. Cautious silence is shrewd evasion.

2. Know yourself: Promote your most outstanding talents and cultivate other aspects. As long as you know your strengths and grasp them, all people will be prominent in something.

3. Never exaggerate: Exaggeration is detrimental to the truth and can easily make people doubt your opinion. The shrewd person restrains himself, shows caution, speaks concisely and to the point, and never exaggerates himself.

Overvaluing oneself is a form of lying. It can damage your reputation and have a very negative impact on your relationships. It is detrimental to your grace and intellect.

4. Adapt to the environment: survive the fittest, don't spend too much energy on chores, and maintain a good relationship between colleagues. Don't show off yourself every day, or others will get bored with you.

There must always be something new to the people. People who show a little bit every day will keep expectations alive and won't bury your talents.

5. Learn from each other's strengths: learn from others' strengths and make up for your own shortcomings. When communicating with friends, treat everyone with a humble and friendly attitude.

Treat your friends as teachers, blend useful knowledge with humorous words, and what you say will be praised, and what you hear will be learned.

6. Be concise and concise: conciseness can make people happy, make people like, and make people easy to accept. Verbosity and cumbersomeness will confuse and annoy you, and you will miss your goal. A concise and clear tone will definitely make you do more with less.

7. Never be arrogant: often talk about your strengths and show off your advantages in front of others. This invisibly devalues others and exalts yourself, and the result is that others look down on you more.

8. Never complain: Complaining will make you lose credibility. When you don't succeed in what you do, you have the courage to admit your shortcomings and try to make things work out.

Moderate self-examination will not make people look down on you, on the contrary, always emphasize objective reasons, complaining about this, complaining about that, will only make others despise you.

9. Don't lie and lose trust: Lying to friends and colleagues will lose the trust of friends and colleagues, so that friends and colleagues will never believe in you again, which is your biggest loss. We must avoid big words, we must do what we say, and we would rather not say what we can't do.

10. Be far-sighted: When wealth is prosperous, you should think of poverty, which is easy to do. Smart people prepare for winter. Be sure to make more friends. Maintain good relationships with friends and colleagues, and one day you will value people or things that don't seem important right now.

Be a good person: Excellent people, they have these 6 qualities.

1. Respect everyone around you. 2. Don't complain about anything. 3. Develop the habit of never speaking ill of others behind your back, and don't listen to others say bad things.

Fourth, develop the habit of doing good deeds, and never leave a name for doing good deeds. Fifth, there must be a city government, and sixth, never eat anyone's food empty-handed. 7. Cooperate with others, always let others earn a big head, and take a small head yourself.

Your own existence makes others feel happy, which is the highest state of being a human being.

Be worthy of yourself and others.

Take care of yourself and help others.

Be worthy of yourself and be worthy of others.

Through this story, I understand that you can't be as cunning as a fox, nor can you be as stupid as a chicken sister-in-law, and you must be as helpful as Aunt Goose and Aunt Duck!

Today is the first year of the chick, the chick Qier, the chick Mingzi, and the chick Liangzi! The sister-in-law of the chicken is going to cook a delicious meal for the mother of the four chickens, and she goes to the vegetable market early in the morning! From this, I felt that the mother chicken loved her baby chicks very much, and went to the vegetable market early in the morning to buy delicious food.

As soon as the chicken sister-in-law arrived at the vegetable market, she felt that everything was good, but she felt that it was not good to buy anything. The pickpocket fox also entered the vegetable market and wanted to fish in troubled waters, he looked around and stared at the chicken sister-in-law, and then the goose aunt and the duck aunt also came in and saw the fox. From it I felt:

Aunt Goose and Aunt Duck are the life-saving benefactors of the chicken sister-in-law, if there is no them, then the chicken sister-in-law will be "empty of people and money".

In the end, the sister-in-law didn't buy anything, and said, "I'm scared to death!" What about children's gifts?

Aunt Goose and Aunt Duck were very understanding, and each person took out 2 books from their bags: "Eliminating Harm Around the Place", "Cao Chong Called the Elephant", "The Story of the Golden Bee Eliminating Harm", and "Woodpecker Meritorious Service in the Forest" to Sister-in-law Chicken. From it I felt:

Aunt Goose Lady Duck is very understanding and helpful. Reminds me of a story. Once my mother and I were buying apples, and we met a little girl in front of the stall, and the little girl bought apples for 2 yuan, and the boss only weighed her for 1 yuan, and an aunt next to her said

Don't want to bully children, 2 yuan apples are only called 1 yuan! In the end, people criticized and educated the boss, and the boss said sorry to the girl, compensated her for two yuan of apples, and promised not to discriminate against people in the future, and people gave him a thumbs up!

1. Don't casually inquire about other people's privacy.

2. Small losses can be eaten, but big losses will never be eaten.

3. Be humorous and funny, but not overly joking.

4. Don't care about small things, and have your own principles and bottom lines in big things.

5. I will not speak ill of others behind my back, and I will not discuss the rights and wrongs of others with others.

6. I won't say never, I won't do things, I know how to leave a line, and I'll see you in the future.

7. Be honest and trustworthy, punctual, trustworthy, and abide by the contract, and what you promise will be done, and what you can't do will not be easily promised.

8. He understands people very well, is very good at being a man, gets along well with the people around him, and everyone has a good evaluation of him. People who don't understand the world can also read this book, and it doesn't hurt to learn more.

9. Know how to be altruistic, know how to share benefits, and know how to make money for those who follow you.

10. I don't like to take advantage of others.

11. Be polite, cultivated, and know how to respect everyone.

12. Know how to exchange courtesies, and visitors will bring gifts.

13. Be responsible, responsible, conscientious and responsible, very reliable, explain everything, and have an echo in everything.

14. Know how to be grateful, know how to repay the efforts of others, and will not let those who have helped them suffer.

15. Before speaking and doing things, you will think about the consequences, know what to say and what not to say, and think about it more thoroughly.

16. Be very low-key, modest, cautious, self-disciplined, self-respecting, self-loving, and self-improving.

17. Know how to read words and colors, know how to read other people's expressions to decide what to say, what not to say, and when to leave.

18. If you can help, you will generally help as long as you are free.

19. See through and don't say it, know how to save some face for others, and leave a step for others.

20. Don't care, don't get entangled in some small problems, and be generous.

Everyone's thoughts and beliefs are different.

Generally speaking, the world should be round on the outside and square on the inside.

That is: easy-going on the surface, open-minded, solemn in the heart, and sticking to the guidelines.

Be a man, be forbearing, be expensive, have a good heart, never worry about villains, don't go along with the wicked, don't carry your troubles all the time, don't take money too seriously, look down on it, and be tolerant.

You are sincere, you will be trusted, you will be kind to others, and you will live with peace of mind.

Have the heart of a decent person, be able to make confidants, be able to forgive others' mistakes, stay away from trouble, be a man, cherish more, have a longer relationship, learn to be transpositional, and get along happily.

To endure for a while, not to be cowardly, to make a step, to open the sea and the sky, and to treat life well, is considered to be shrewd.

To be a man, you must be true to your word. Debts, return them on time, make promises, honor them in time, promise other people's things, even if it is difficult. Promise is not lightly, promise it, don't live up to your sincerity, don't let others feel cold.

Whether you are poor or rich, a person's character is greater than the sky!

Whether it's making money or making a living, no matter how difficult it is, you won't deceive others. With your head above the sky and your feet on the ground, you must stand up to the sky and the earth as a man. Integrity, conduct, and a clear conscience. If you say it, you have to do it, and no matter how difficult it is, don't let people down.

When interacting with people, you must be sincere, and don't calculate people when you suffer losses. There is not much money, I earn it myself, I don't have a house or a car, I work hard by myself, a gentleman loves money and takes it in a good way, and he doesn't play tricks and is at ease.

The relationship between two people needs money control to maintain, and it will not be long-term after all.

The friendship between two people, the respect won by character, comes from the heart, is sincere and convinced, and the friendship is becoming more and more stable.

Be a man, don't be vain, do things, don't intrigue, rather suffer hardships yourself, but also keep promises and keep promises.

A person who knows how to take into account the difficulties of others, speaks and does things with faith, and when encountering troubles and difficulties, others will try their best to be considerate.