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All important, treat fairly. Naturally, there are fewer disputes.
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Which is more important, mother-in-law or mother? I don't think this question can be compared, of course, the biological mother is important.
For married daughters, of course, it is inevitable to get along with their mother-in-law, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has become an inevitable topic. I think that if a person doesn't know how to respect his parents and love his own mother, then he must not know how to respect other people's mothers.
A child who is loving and honors his parents, I think that the relationship with his mother-in-law will also correctly recognize that this relationship is difficult to control. No matter what kind of mother-in-law is Qi Nai, I think for the daughter-in-law should respect the mother-in-law's living habits, communicate sincerely, and don't use false means to maintain the relationship.
The mother-in-law is the person who needs to face her daughter after she gets married, and some may even need to live together for the rest of her life. So you can only get the relationship right. If the relationship is harmonious, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can develop well.
Only when families live together will they not make awkward noises and create constant conflicts. People's hearts are long, I think as long as you are sincere and sincere, care about your mother-in-law. Then the mother-in-law will also feel that you put him in a position of respect.
He will also treat others with courtesy.
Mother-in-law is not our enemy, but neither is our biological parent. We don't have to flatter them or scold them, but we don't have to become enemies with them. As long as everyone respects each other's living habits, they can care for each other.
Don't pick up each other's shortcomings, but look at each other's strengths. The grace of dripping water will also feel grateful. The relationship between everyone will be good.
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are all important, one is to give birth to you, the other is to raise your husband, and he has the ability to help you.
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Generally, mothers-in-law are gentle and kind, and beautiful, and most of the daughters are too, because such a mother-in-law's tutor must be very good, so she must have educated her daughter very well!
If a boy has a good mother-in-law, then it will save you a lot of things and bring a lot of convenience in ordinary life!
For example, the daughter educated by such a mother-in-law must be reasonable, very understanding of people, and will consider problems from the other party's point of view, and she has also inherited the beauty of her mother-in-law, and brought out the waiter to have more face.
If you have an awkward fall out with your wife, such a reasonable mother-in-law will definitely educate her daughter first, and she will understand that it is not easy to be a husband.
Such a good mother-in-law is going to find **, your own children live in such a family environment, and they will slowly grow into such excellent people!
Therefore, when you encounter such a good mother-in-law, you must treat your wife well, because the mother-in-law is good to you, completely because of her daughter!
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The most important thing is the future daughter-in-law, followed by the mother-in-law.
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Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a major problem in the family, if this relationship is not handled well, it will affect the happiness of the family, and it will also make the man unable to self at home, because both sides are his favorite people, he can not blame either party, which will cause them great pressure, in addition, the relationship between the mother-in-law and the mother-in-law is also difficult to deal with, if it is not handled well, it will also affect the harmony of the family to some extent.
1. Don't interfere with the life of the child and the mother-in-law as the parents of both parties, they both love their children, for example, when the daughter-in-law spends a lot of money, the mother-in-law will be unhappy, and feel that the son's hard-earned money is spent by him, she will say daughter-in-law, at this time, the mother-in-law will be unhappy, they will think that their children go to other people's homes and be bullied, in fact, when this situation is encountered, the best thing to do is not to interfere in the child's life, let them deal with it themselves.
2. Don't instill personal ideas into your children In the process of getting along, children may encounter some problems or even contradictions, as parents, what you can do when you stand together at this time is to adjust the contradictions between them, not to let them expand between them, in addition, do not instill your own emotions and ideas into your children, because this will affect their judgment.
Third, mother-in-law and mother-in-law can communicate more, mother-in-law and mother-in-law can also get along well, usually can chat more, exchange feelings, if there is a chance, you can go to square dance together, to learn flower arrangement, etc., to cultivate each other's feelings into sisters, so that when dealing with children's problems, they can also become very calm, they get along well, but also reduce pressure on children.
In this world, there is no absolute enemy, let alone relatives, therefore, for the sake of the children, for the sake of the next generation, we must also get along well, so that the family can become more harmonious and life more happy.
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To live in peace, to explain the situation, the three chapters of the law: first, to treat each other equally, to deal with things fairly, to put an end to selfishness. Second, we must speak kindly, resolve problems and disputes calmly, lay out facts, be reasonable, be patient, carry forward our achievements, and correct our mistakes.
3. Living expenses should be shared equally, housework should be shared, the division of labor should be clear, and it should be done conscientiously and well. Wait a minute.
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Why does the mother-in-law get along with the mother-in-law? It's a strange question. is originally an irrelevant person, because the children can have the fate to be in-laws, so it is better to do the duty of in-laws.
Don't pull right and wrong, don't make trouble between the two of them, have enough respect for each other, and of course include politeness. If you can help the children, you can help and jointly lead the small family to develop in a good direction, it is enough, is it possible that the mother-in-law still has to live under the same roof with the mother-in-law? By the way, there is also the need to cherish and take care of your own body, and try not to lick the trouble if you can not cause trouble to your children, after all, young people are busy time.
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The mother-in-law and mother-in-law live in peace, and it is better to be polite and polite, one must treat each other equally, deal with things fairly, and put an end to selfishness. Second, we must speak kindly, there are problems and disputes to be resolved calmly, if there is a dispute between the two old people, the child must be dealt with and persuaded fairly, and the mother-in-law and mother-in-law will not necessarily be on the tip of the needle.
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We all know that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a headache, but the relationship between mother-in-law and son-in-law is often relatively good, and there are few conflicts. If the son-in-law can treat his mother-in-law as his mother, treat his mother-in-law and his mother equally, and treat his wife well, then the relationship with his mother-in-law will be very harmonious. 1. Treat the mother-in-law as his own mother, if the son-in-law can know the lead and respect the mother-in-law as his mother, then there will be a lot of contradictions.
Many times it is because each other does not show sincerity, always treat each other as outsiders, so it will cause a series of contradictions, only sincerely treat each other as their own family, then each other can have a lot of understanding and tolerance, and there will be no frequent contradictions.
Second, treat the mother-in-law and the mother equally, as a son-in-law, you must also do a bowl of water, and treat the mother-in-law and the mother equally, so that the mother-in-law can feel the heart of the son-in-law. Don't forget to prepare a gift for your mother-in-law when preparing gifts for your mother on some holidays, thank your mother-in-law for cultivating such an excellent wife for you, so that your mother-in-law will be very happy and naturally love you.
3. Treat your wife well If you want to deal with the relationship with your mother-in-law, you must remember to treat your wife well, after all, a good woman is the mother's heart, if you treat her badly, then it is useless to do more in other aspects, only by treating your wife and mother-in-law well can you feel at ease. As long as you are good to her daughter, then I believe that she will definitely not be bad to you.
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