I got into a stiff relationship with a classmate with a backdoor, what should I do

You must not have the heart to harm others, and you must not have the heart to defend others

Defense is the best attack Therefore my suggestion you can consider Oh Finally, I firmly believe in a sentence Hard work, the sky pays off, focus more on studying, others will not dare to violate you easily, I wish you a smooth and happy study!

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Ink added: Since you have stiffened Don't care about her She will not affect your normal learning This kind of person ignores her and puts her aside She won't dare to do anything The more you fight with her, she must have more time than you She doesn't want to read In the end, it is you who loses the most.

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I hope you are a little more open-minded.

Please make sure she really wants to hurt you.

You know, if you are a true friend, you will not be poached, poached, only fox friends and dog friends, he will help you see clearly, the people around you are not very good, and they are free. Believe in your charisma, and true friends may be by your side.

If you want revenge

I'll teach you.

Generously proposed!! Communicate with her.

A manly man should apologize, apologize, and after cultivating shamelessness to a level, you won't have such troubles anymore.

Find a third party to mediate, it depends on the measurement of your classmates. Try to ease, don't pay too much attention to it, and slowly it will be redeemed.

Why are you stiff? Is it serious?

If everyone is angry, wait for the anger to subside, and then talk to him well.

There may be some misunderstanding between them. It's good to open up.

Someone has to take the first step, and if you feel like he's still worth it, take the first step, and if it's not a big deal, then let it be.

See if you still want to redeem it, if you want to redeem it, communicate it well and explain your thoughts to him. If you don't care about this classmate, don't contact it.

Simple... Male classmates, should take the initiative, more relationship with her, see what he needs help with, just go up, and soon open the deadlock...

You did the right thing, I always think that the feelings of the classmates in junior high school are the deepest, at that time, innocent, no utilitarian color, in order to save such a friendship, you can't do too much.

The first thing you need to do is to understand what is the reason for this, and then you can prescribe the right medicine. I don't recommend asking her face to face, girls don't have the courage to face it, and if they are shy or have high self-esteem, they may mess things up. You should have mutual friends, and you can find out what she really thinks through your mutual friends.

If it is indeed your fault, you should first express your apologies to her through this intermediary, and be willing to change your ways, and save the friendship, and ask her to give you a chance. It's much better than if you asked her in person. If there is a misunderstanding, when you understand her thoughts, you can also convey it through this intermediary.

It's not popular to write letters now.,What's on QQ.,Text messages are said.。 But to show your sincerity, you can ask an intermediary to bring you a letter, and you write down what you want to tell her. This is the most sincere approach, which is much more sincere than typing a few words on QQ and sending a few text messages.

Once the misunderstanding is explained, there is nothing. The key is that you have to be generous, boy. If you want to go back to the past, it's unlikely that you'll go through this incident, after all, there is a gap.

But as time goes by, she will slowly appreciate the sincerity of this friendship. For the sake of friendship, value!

Text her directly and ask her what you're doing wrong? And hint or Ming Shi she you just want to be a confidant with her for a lifetime, if she really hates you for no reason, then there is no need to redeem anything.

I'm from the past, and the average person's thinking will change when they go to junior high school and high school.

When I was in junior high school, I would be very simple, and I wouldn't have a lot of ideas.

Whether you send a message or go on QQ, she has responded to you with an indifferent attitude, so don't bother her. Maybe she's busy and reading hard and doesn't have time to respond to you. Maybe it's because of your personality, she may think you're not fit to be her friend.

Don't even bother her.

Maybe she's really a little impatient with you, you know, people change, especially women. Of course, this is just conjecture.

Isn't it the words of a bosom friend?

If you break it, you will break it.

Have a good talk with her to see what she means.

Or maybe she thinks you like her, but she doesn't like you, but she doesn't know how to say no, how to tell you, so she has to ignore you.

Of course, the above is just my personal guess!

Important, just make an appointment for dinner, talk about your heart or write a small note, student! It doesn't matter, just let it be!

How can it be so stiff?

If it's because you've been together for a long time, it's natural to be light, and she's a more introverted person, then you should take the initiative, in order to cherish a friendship, there's nothing you can't do, isn't it?

Of course, there could be many other reasons. Think for yourself.

If both parties want to reconcile and talk together on a topic that you all know now, it gets along quickly, and if the other person doesn't want to reconcile, it's difficult.

When there is a stalemate, the first thing that comes to mind is the contradiction, sometimes a word, an action is the fuse lock, the so-called: the speaker has no intention, the listener has a heart! When a problem arises, you must find the reason, you must first find your own reason, and then find someone else's reason, and then think about it in another position, and then think about whether your friendship can dilute the contradiction, in fact, it is normal to stumble at ordinary times, who does not have a trouble.

Remember this sentence: beating is kissing, scolding is love; It's not a thing on the surface, it's the "Yin Knife" behind it that is deadly!!

Find a friend who is both good for you and find a chance to sit together! With his matchmaking, it should be fine soon!

It's a fish that can't pull down, so I'll use e-mail to communicate with him.

Snow [丄].

Why not give it a try? Or a third person can do it? Maybe your friend doesn't think so.

It's good for you to communicate with him.

He ignores you, you ignore him, you should ignore him, right?Do you have to deal with him?

He also showed that he was not happy to pay attention to his expression, just do it, why are you so proud, anyway, no one can contact anyone after graduation, is it useful?

In fact, the confession is nothing, judging from the performance, she still has a good impression of you. I think the biggest mistake you make is to send her those texts, it will feel like you're cutting her back. If she was still hesitant at that time, and you said something like this, it was me, I would have felt that it would be too undignified to go to you again.

I think she thinks about it a lot! Or maybe you still have some concerns about love! If you really like her, don't doubt it, it's a bit too much to say "use", I suggest you give her more time, and you should also be confident in yourself!

The key is what to go to?

It cannot be ruled out that she thinks about her family's situation, and if it is not for the university, of course she will be worried. Of course, the family will. After all, learning is the most important thing.

What kind of message did you send, I don't know how to reply to this message if it were me. You've just put yourself in the fire pit.

It's a little anxious, but she still wants to be friends with you, and she still likes to do things with you, so you just message her to tell her that you are still good friends as before, take your time, and let yourself get into trouble if you are too anxious. Come on.

Are you sure she is still going out because you go out, if you don't go out, he won't go out, if that's the case, I think she must regret it, because she rejected you, you can find a proper opportunity to ask her, ask her what she thinks, give her a chance to speak, and your success rate will be much greater

You deserve it, who makes you so confident and sentimental, don't think that if a girl is good with you, she must like you, and I found that many boys seem to love to think so, in fact, sometimes girls also want to make a boy friend, ordinary friends

How can a girl agree right away, don't you have to pretend to be reserved.

Obvious. You're in too much of a hurry, and it's too casual to promise you that.

Go with the flow, why think so much Yes, be natural, say hello when you meet.

Send you four big words to go with the flow.

Shy schoolgirl = =?!

Take your time. Start with good friends.

It depends on what kind of personality you and your classmates have. The personality is different, the method is different, and the effect is naturally different. If you want to repair the relationship quickly, regardless of anything else, you can follow his wishes step by step. An apology or something is a must. Well.

Please come out for a meal By the way, it is easiest to restore the relationship at the dinner table, and reach out and don't hit the smiling person.

Or find a reliable middle, you can talk to him on the Internet yourself, and you won't feel like you can wipe your face.

I think it's that you can be proactive, if it's something you're doing wrong. You can apologize first.

。。If it's a real brother or friend, it won't affect the relationship, if it's a brother, don't worry, I've also experienced it, and it's okay immediately after a quarrel with my brother, and if it's an ordinary friend, invite him to dinner.