How to get rid of the problem of using the elbow, how to get rid of the problem of the sneer

I'm the center. Height 185180 pounds... But there are always people who say that I foul with elbows, but I don't think I think they are usually too clean...

Don't get close to people!

Or use your feet and dribbling to shake the opponent!

Generally, the elbows are more powerful, so practice your skills!!

If you don't play basketball well, don't play basketball anymore.

I'm also playing when I have to elbow when I play, or I don't pull the ball, it's too annoying to stick to you and rely on the defense Now I play with my friends I usually shoot from the outside Breakthrough is also holding the ball with both hands in front of my chest Shrinking my arms to go in, although it's not very comfortable, but for the sake of my classmates I can only do this It's good to pay attention to it when playing with friends It's a good habit but it's usually quite annoying Take your time.

This habit that is not in a hurry and has been formed is not so easy to change. When you are usually playing, you should remind yourself from time to time not to use elbows, not to elbow. It's a little awkward at first, but it's going to change over time.

Use your steps more and restrain yourself from using your elbows, it will be difficult at first, but it will be better after a long time.

What is your location? If you're a center, it's normal to elbow, and if you're a defender, be careful not to deliberately elbow someone when dribbling.

It can also be said to be conceited. It is rare to listen to the opinions of others. I feel that apart from yourself, I am stronger than you and more capable than you.

Know that there are many, many people who are better than you. We should be humble. Be open-minded.

Don't always compare yourself to the people in your circle. Have a temper, do you compare with those actors, divas, and kings? The disadvantages of being embarrassed in front of colleagues, classmates and friends outweigh the benefits.

I don't have a bad friend. The road is still long, let's change it slowly.

The first thing to know is what a daff is.

Dese, in the Northeast dialect, often refers to getting carried away after achieving something that is not worth mentioning or doing something big. It is usually derogatory or ridiculous, and sometimes it also means a very severe reprimand.

If you want to make corrections, you must know how to endure, hold back, and have the spirit of fighting to the death!

Good luck with a low profile!

You need to be hit hard, and that's it.

Losing once is the quickest way to do it, because you'll remember.

There are many ways to do this:

Wear thick ones in winter.

Don't be afraid of summer.

Don't show off, you'll have to knock you carefully.

When you get older, you won't see the bigger world.

Try to suppress it, human nature is cultivated from childhood.

Calm down, don't be competitive.

Less nonsense, less uselessness.

As long as you get stuck, you will pump yourself in a big mouth.

No one can help you, you can only help yourself. Everyone has this mentality. The more you care about it, the more it will expand, and the more you don't care about it, it will be dispensable.

Things like emotions are difficult for people to control, the key is to grasp them. There is also the need to constantly reflect on oneself and enhance self-confidence. Improve the impression in the minds of others.

You can first learn about the Enneagram on the Internet, and after a preliminary understanding, go and watch Teacher Cai Minli's night talk program, which contains some clips of the Enneagram, and after reading it, if you feel interested, you will go to the system to learn the Enneagram. It will be of obvious help to you in these situations. If you don't understand, you can ask me.

This is not called self, you are too unconfident in yourself. Be yourself, go your own way, and let others say go.

Fate is like a spring, if you are weak, it will be strong. Too much kindness is weakness. People are honest and some people are bullied, and horses are honest and some people ride. If you want not to be bullied by others, be self-confident, self-reliant, and self-reliant. I wish you all the best!

In order to adapt to the society, this must be changed, because most people in this society are dishonest, if you meet these people, try to stay away, but for people who are as kind as you, you should still maintain your true colors when getting along with them.

If you want to be confident, you must first know what makes you unconfident, you must really face your shortcomings directly, admit them and accept them, and then set goals for yourself that can build confidence to achieve them and make yourself confident.

Honest people are easy to suffer, get rid of these two problems on their bodies, and no longer be good at being bullied.

I was deceived a few more times and then I changed it.

There is a boy in our class who talks a lot, but it's cute and funny, it's nothing, but the speech depends on the occasion, and it should be briefed appropriately.

I think, a lot of talk is because it's boring, find some sustenance when you're fine, have a hobby, you can't help but talk and study your hobbies, people don't have time to talk when they focus on studying.

Thinking more and talking a lot shows that you have an active mind and good oral expression skills. This shouldn't be a problem, and there's no need to deliberately change it. What's more, a person's innate characteristics are difficult to change.

Have you seen Liu Yong's "I Didn't Teach You to Cheat" and "The Human Nature You Must Know"? These are two works of "life science", after reading it, you will feel that in the face of complex social and interpersonal relationships, the main thing is how you see, how you see, how you speak, how you do, the key is not the number of words. When you're facing a hungry wolf, it's too late to run for your life, so you'll say more, right?

As your life experience grows, you will also realize many truths yourself.

Your problem is actually due to poor self-control.

In daily life, the basis of communication between people is sincerity and naturalness, if a person seems to be very contrived on any occasion, it is likely to cause resentment from others, and over time, he will become an object of isolation. If you can recognize this, it means that you are a smart person. And you realize this bad thing about yourself, but it's hard to correct it, so you get very troubled.

However, you need to understand that you are not incorrigibly pretentious, because at least you can recognize that you are contrived and want to fix it, which is very comforting. It's pathetic to be completely contrived without knowing it. All you need to do is figure out why you're doing what you're doing, is it doing you any good, or is it going to help you escape some painful things?

Once you have figured it out, you have to make up your mind to correct it. Because you have to understand that your pretentiousness not only does not bring you what you want, but it brings you a lot of negative influences, even harm. A normal person will not constantly do things that hurt themselves, I believe that you are an absolutely normal person, then, you must have the confidence to correct, have perseverance, and have perseverance to control.

From now on, no matter what you say or do, you should try your best to be natural and honest, and you should do this to everyone, and don't feel discouraged so easily. It's hard at first, and you may feel uncontrollable at first, so you should immediately suggest to yourself: I'm strong!

I can control myself! I'm a handsome guy who treats people naturally and honestly! Long-term perseverance may be tiring, but it is not far away, as long as you can persist for a while, you will find a change in the attitude of others towards you, and most importantly, a change in yourself.

Finally, I wish you to overcome your shortcomings and become a truly happy person!

First of all, I refute the landlord's point of view, which is really ridiculous, what is artificiality? Do you understand?

It's just that it gives people a sense that they are not good at showing their inner self.

In fact, if you want to say that a person is pretentious, it is not necessarily because of the proposal of a friend, sometimes, in order to have a good relationship with classmates, in order to get along well with people, pretentiousness is necessary, everyone has a mask, and when this mask is put on, people call him the source of artificiality.

Friends, try to grasp the handle, no pretentiousness, only sincerity, sincerity to face your friends, they will not say that.

Good luck.

You are like how you usually talk to your parents, you talk the same way to others, and you talk to anyone the same.

Open your heart. Embrace everything.

Forehead. It's only recently that I found out that I have a problem with nagging, which is that no matter what, it's always good to talk over and over again, or if someone else starts a start, I'll say a bunch of things, and after that, I'll talk a lot, and when others don't say that I don't feel it, I talk too much after I finish talking, and after a while, I make it again, and I suddenly find it so annoying.

It's not a big problem to talk a lot, I'm also a person who talks a lot, but I sometimes restrain myself, you just need to speak on the occasion of speaking, and don't talk on the occasion when you shouldn't speak, after all, sometimes you accidentally say something that may offend some people, so don't open your mouth easily on any occasion, of course, get along with friends in private, you can say whatever you want.

Nagging is a sign of love and kindness, but others will be annoying.

To get rid of the nag you can do this:

1. Relax your mind, talk less and do more.

2. Discover the strengths of others.

I didn't get used to it at first, but I got used to it slowly. Happy Fun!

I'm also a chatter, purely talkative, always speaking, I like to share what I see funny or not funny to others, but for people who don't know each other, I belong to the kind that doesn't say a word. I want to change but I don't want to change.

Before each speech, ask yourself whether this sentence is necessary and what effect it can play. Except for friends, but it's best to pay attention to your friends' faces, and it's not good to talk about them professionally right away.

I'm also a talker.,I'm sorry I can't help you too much.,So I'll bother to find the answer here and express my suggestions and opinions by the way.,I sometimes can't control myself when I speak, in fact, when I talk and talk, I find that I talk too much and others are barely listening.,Or it's too much information revealed.,I feel like I talk too much, and others won't care too much about themselves.,It's annoying, but every time I mention a point of interest, I'm really excited and can't help it.,And I think talking too much is really minus points when chatting with the opposite sex., So my solution is to avoid talking to the opposite sex, (I've scared off a lot of peach blossoms because of chatterbox, but because many hobbies are more similar to men, I really can't help but see that some of them can't pick up the topic of personal chat and really want to join) Saorui, and said some nonsense, so let's avoid it.

If you can, the nagging will be more serious, and I believe that one day you will change on your own!!

Clarify what you want to say, and then say it simply and clearly, and don't talk so much nonsense.

No need to change, after investigation.

Talking to yourself can be an effective stress reliever.

It's good for the body.

Listen to someone else before you speak.

Talk less and do more, control yourself.

Talk less and think more about others

You're like me, it's not a bad thing to talk a lot, but in the process of chatting with someone, you need to see if the other person is interested in what you say, and if not, change the topic and do what they like.

Sixty-sixth: The little sister returned to the underworld in shame, and Leng Erlang entered the empty door coldly.

First: learn to quiet yourself, immerse your mind, and slowly reduce your desire for things. Reset yourself to zero often, every day is a new starting point, there is no age limit, as long as your desire for things is appropriately reduced, you will win more chances to win.

Second: learn to care for yourself, only by caring for yourself more, can you have more energy to care for others, if you have enough ability, you should try to help the people you can help, so that what you get is a few happiness, help others more, treat yourself well, is also a way to reduce pressure. Third:

When you encounter an irritable situation, you drink a glass of white water, put a soothing light **, close your eyes, reminisce about the people and things around you, and slowly lose your mind about the new future, which is a kind of rest and a kind of calm forward thinking. Fourth: Compete with yourself more, there is no need to be jealous of others, and there is no need to envy others.

Many people always regard themselves as bystanders because they envy others, and the more they do this, the more they will fall into an abyss. You have to believe that if you do it, you can too. Be happy for every progress you make (things are big and small, complex things are done simply, simple things are done seriously, serious things are done repeatedly, and strive to do the best).

Reading is actually to bring back this calmness, this quietness, this calmness, this elegance, so that you can be calm and rational before doing anything, stand on the height of your predecessors, and think about it, so Mr. Lu Xun said it well, time is like water in a sponge, as long as you are willing to squeeze it, there will always be it, just squeeze it to read a little.

This is a person's habit, and it is generally said that it is difficult to change, I recommend that you improve on your food and sleep to the fullest at the same time! And talk less, don't feel like everything is new, always want to participate, don't ask things that have nothing to do with you! Work more and talk less nagging.

Actually, I'm just like you, but I'm trying to restrain myself right now. One word: forbearance!

Learn from our Zong Li, the way he speaks is very good.

Find some classic literature to read!

Say it silently in your heart: calm down calm down.