Recently reconciled with her, why do you feel like you ignore me?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-14
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Care can be there. But it's not right to care too much. Maybe you think it's Lan Yan.

    But she may think that you have the idea of liking her and want to keep your distance. Or, she has a boyfriend who doesn't have too much intimacy with you. Or you're already familiar strangers.

    You should take it step by step and get to know her again slowly, don't rush. Otherwise she would be misunderstood. Don't care too much.

    Lan Yan is an object of confiding in grievances, but it cannot be surpassed.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's just that one wants one to appear when it's supposed to appear, and disappear as soon as it's supposed to disappear.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Time can dilute everything, brother, you apologize late, at least it's hard to get back to how you used to feel.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Sympathy! I used to have a red face, but then I found that I slowly fell in love with her, and I was used to her presence, and I left when I couldn't do without her. Note: I have objects.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Let's forget it! Everyone is very tired from work, just go home and talk about it for the New Year!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Want to get away with it! Keep somebody at arm's length!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It means that he doesn't care about you, it's better to break up, and you will only be angry with him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Maybe he's given up on you; Maybe he changed his mind and fell in love with someone else during this time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Reconcile with your boyfriend, it may be your wishful thinking.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Communicate well. Lovers are not sorrowful! The situation of sauce purple cannot be tolerated.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There's no denying that you've started to blame yourself.

    I read your words and think you're playing, you know? No one will let you play tricks again and again, I don't know if these girls' original emotions are pure, can't guarantee all, but, there will always be simplicity.

    Why do I say you're playing? If you really like someone, you can't pretend you know it, unless you're the one you are.

    Emotions are the most vulnerable. A person can be good to you for a month, two months... You didn't show anything, even indifferent, do you think the other party will continue to be nice to you? After a long time, the other party will think that you hate me!

    Of course, this is not the case with you, but, more or less. I don't think most girls will play ambiguously with you.

    At first, the girls may really want to be with you. However, you don't have to accept the other party, it's just playing ambiguous.

    However, the other party feels that it is not interesting, and besides, you are not the only man in the world, so why should people ask for trouble and make themselves miserable.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you like it, you have to grasp it. Boys should be more proactive. If you keep putting it there and want to go with the flow, the girl definitely doesn't like this, and thinks you don't have feelings for her, so she silently lets go.

    Maybe it's too late to catch up now, but after a long time, then you'll be far away. In fact, the feelings of girls are really simple, they just want to find someone they like and like themselves, but many girls dare not chase boys, for fear that some things will spread out, and boys don't have that idea, so they can't even be friends in the end. If the boy really likes her, then chase her Come on!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Continue to develop other female friends... Women can't afford to wait.,It's a long time to see that you're not interesting, so you have to find someone who wants to pay for her...

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you are too reserved, you will only lose.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In fact, you can simplify marriage into a business, men have what men want, men have men to pay, women are the same, as long as women have things that men want, and men have things that women want, this business can be done, so you have to understand not only what you want, but more importantly, you have to understand what men want from you, of course, different men want different things, if you want to change the situation, you have to try to understand what you want, what men want.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's easy to reconcile, but it's hard to be the same. No relationship can be reconciled after the breakdown can return to the beginning, we all know that the broken cup is put together and there is no way to use it anymore, everyone understands the truth that it is difficult to recover, but when it comes to themselves, they still hope that there will be no such thing, you can go back to the past, in fact, you can't go back, right, some people don't want to face it in their hearts, and some people don't have the bottom at all.

    In fact, if you reconcile and the other party doesn't want to pay attention to you, you don't even dare to ask him why he ignores you, because you are afraid that you will hear what you don't want to hear, you are afraid that you will quarrel again, and you are afraid that you will lose each other again. Even for a long time when you are reconciled, when you chat, you will feel guilty and cautious, for fear that he will be unhappy if he says something wrong. You're struggling to maintain this lost relationship, but you don't want to think that you may not be able to go back at all.

    When I was young, I was naïve, and I always felt that I could go back to the past if I reconciled, but later I was told by bloody lessons again and again that I couldn't go back, so I didn't make stupid mistakes, so I understood and saw it thoroughly. So I won't get back to the people who left, and I will apologize after a fight, but I never expect us to reconcile and go back to the same place, because I know I can't go back. Until now, I don't easily quarrel with important people, and when there is a little sign I will directly say the four words to change the topic, and transfer the topic away, so as to effectively avoid quarrels.

    But at this age, I don't quarrel with people passionately, if I disagree, I will patiently explain over and over again, tell them why I think this way, why you think this way is not good, try to make them understand me, try to tell them what empathy is. So now, I can't withstand any vigorous winds and waves, plain is true, I have lost a lot, until there is nothing to lose, and I am used to it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    No matter what you have a quarrel or a cold war about, as long as you are reconciled, it shows that you both care about each other and do not want to lose each other. This situation, in fact, is quite easy to solve. After all, when the other party has you in their hearts, as long as you compromise a little bit with the other party, the other party will not care about you.

    In fact, the other party doesn't pay much attention to you, which means that the other party is still sulking in his heart and can't let go of this matter. So, if you do something wrong this time, then think seriously about your mistake, and then admit your mistake to the other party. Don't feel ashamed of this, no matter what you do in front of the people you love.

    Or you can try to make the other person happy, tell them jokes or something. Between couples and girlfriends, there is really no need to worry so much.

    If you don't do anything wrong, you can express your thoughts in other ways, such as writing a small note. In short, just ignore each other.

    Actually, I don't think there is any problem between you, even if you don't do anything, this matter will pass in the end. However, it would be best if you could pay attention to it.

    Perhaps, all the other party cares about is your attitude? When the other party feels your sincerity to him, no matter what happens, he can let go.

    Sometimes, when I have a conflict with my boyfriend, this can also happen. At this time, as long as he hugged me and kissed me, I was not angry. As long as he still loves me and cares about me, what else is there to worry about?

    So, if you and your significant other are in this situation, you can also try to coax each other in this way. Of course, if the problem between you is serious, it's best not to ignore it all the time. After all, there are some things that can't be escaped.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    O people now! Each has its own temper. Sometimes, it's easy to get into trouble. However, it is often after the awkwardness that two people reconcile, but when you feel that the other party doesn't care much about you, I think you should take the initiative to take care of others and communicate with them more.

    You also have to think about what caused the two of you to quarrel and cause discord. Who's right and who's wrong? If you're wrong, then you admit your mistake and apologize.

    If not, you forgive him with a big belly. Or two people working together to find the most appropriate solution. As the saying goes, take a step back and open the sky.

    You don't want to be short of a piece of meat when you do these little things. In normal times, send him more messages, chat, and go out to dinner, these things can enhance friendship and affection.

    So! When faced with a difficult situation, don't back down, look for good ways to solve it. Two people and the one who is harmonious is the best.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    reconciled, I feel that the other party and you are not as enthusiastic as before, and ignore you, I can only say that there is no need for this kind of relationship to continue. The twisted melon is not sweet, it is recommended that you give up on him, find someone who really cherishes you and loves you, and live together.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The meaning of love is to make both people better.

    Your love for her has made you sad and unhappy right now.

    This love has lost its original meaning.

    Then it's over, stop the loss in time.

    What you did may have only touched yourself, but not her. Maybe she didn't need you to do it, and it made both of you uncomfortable.

    It's better to tell her your feelings directly, end it early, and love humbly, it may not end well.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It does feel a little inexplicable, and I don't understand it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This kind of thing, it's better to ignore him, the more you ignore him, the bigger the matter. If you know, you will not know it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Go with the flow, if you think it's worth it, show your attitude and actively strive for it, if you still ignore you, it is recommended that you look for your partner again.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Then you ignore her completely, do what you have to do, time is the best medicine.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Obvious spare tire is recommended to let go.

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