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I often wonder why people are so different. Some are fine, some are reckless; Some are elegant, some are rude; Some are optimistic, some are sad; Some people have active thinking, some people have rigid minds; Some people struggle endlessly, and some people do nothing......Could it be that the world is made up of a pair of antonyms? Is this unintentional?
With questions, with thoughts, I was searching for answers.
Pride and self-confidence are often synonymous in some people's "dictionaries", but in fact, they have different meanings. Pride is self-righteousness and looks down on others, while self-confidence is believing in oneself. In my opinion, this is another pair of antonyms.
In life, it often happens that some smart people say they are stupid, talented people say they are incompetent, and knowledgeable people say they are shallow. In them, there is a traditional "virtue" - modesty. But behind this self-affirmation and self-expression, there is a pride that is not discovered.
Self-confidence is a correct estimation of one's own abilities and talents, neither looking down nor underestimating oneself. Self-confidence and talent are inseparable, and only with such cultivation can there be such self-confidence. As for pride, perhaps, it has shown itself in my thoughts.
Self-confidence is a sign of courage and straightforwardness, and it can never be equated with pride.
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Pride is a manifestation of hubris. Proud people think that they know everything and can do everything, so they overestimate themselves out of reality and act on subjective assumptions, and there is nothing that does not fail as a result. Throughout history, no proud man has ever been seen to be victorious.
Self-confidence, on the other hand, is able to make a full and correct assessment of all aspects of his situation. This kind of valuation is by no means blind, but is based on a scientific analysis of objective reality. Self-confidence is the driving force that motivates people to work hard.
If it was not self-confidence, Copernicus dared to break with traditional ideas and propose under the social conditions of the time"Sun Center said''Is it? This kind of self-confidence makes people stop believing in books and worship authority. It gives people the courage to constantly challenge the old traditional ideas and challenges; It allows science to be constantly developed; So that human society continues to make progress.
It can be said that without this kind of self-confidence, human society will always be able to wander in darkness.
However, it should also be noted that there is a certain link between pride and self-confidence. Self-confidence that is detached from reality is blind self-confidence, and blind self-confidence is the manifestation of pride. built on a solid foundation"Pride''In fact, it is self-confidence.
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What is self-confidence? Missing friends.
It has been said: "Self-confidence is thunder, snow, and a sudden wind, sweeping away all procrastination, sluggishness, hesitation and laziness";
Some people say: "Self-confidence is the drum of war, the horn, and the flag, destroying people to move forward bravely and boldly forward";
Some people also say: "Some people say that self-confidence is sunshine, rain and dew, and elixir, which helps people to think quickly, be energetic, and sway everything";
Some people also said: "Self-confidence is a strong ship, a sharp cannon, so that the potential is released, the difficulties are retreated, and the goal is approached";
And I want to say: "A self-confident life is not ordinary, and an extraordinary life is self-confidence." ”
Life can not always be smooth sailing, there will inevitably be setbacks, there are difficulties, as long as we believe in ourselves, and bravely face it, do not retreat or give up, and turn setbacks into motivation to move forward, we can see the beauty after the wind and rain. Rainbow, let us have a beautiful, brilliant tomorrow!
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Life needs goals, there are goals to struggle, and there is struggle to have a sense of fulfillment. To be fulfilling, you must be confident. Life is not a smooth sailing, there will never be waves, it is a journey full of hardships and bumps, twists and turns, full of challenges, and full of setbacks.
When a new day comes, do you freeze yourself in the busyness? When the sun rises, do you trust every ray of sunshine? People with goals and self-confidence can still feel the warmth of the sun and smell the colorful aura of life in the busy, because only self-confidence can experience the connotation of life.
A person's life is the only and the majestic, this only life, do you make it brilliant or bleak? Since it is an accidental afterlife, watching the flowers bloom and fall, the sunrise and sunset, trying the warmth and coldness of human feelings, and the risks of the world, then the young state of mind can only prove that his life is brilliant with practical actions.
Because of self-confidence, I feel that life is good! Of course, a confident person does not have everything going well, everything goes well, but she has opened a skylight in her soul and let the sun float in through the window, even if it is a rainy day, she has learned to create the sun, and that sun is confident in herself.
In the city full of talents, although I am very ordinary, but I am not small, although the reality is very cruel, but I have confidence and fighting spirit, even if I have to trek thousands of mountains and rivers, embark on a bumpy journey, I also have a confident attitude to fight for all marriage; Even though there is a storm in front of me and a torrent and a tiger coming, I will not give up, and I will strive for the upper reaches with perseverance, because I am confident that I will accompany me on the road, so I am full of confidence.
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The ancients said: "If people are not confident, who will believe them." "When you have self-confidence in your heart, you can only be motivated to succeed. As Shakespeare said, "Self-confidence is the first step to success." ”
Self-confidence, in overcoming difficulties, showing bold courage and belief in victory. Athens Olympics men's 110m hurdles gold medalist, Liu Xiang. The more intense the big stopper, the more in the case of strong competitors, the more you can show good psychological quality, the better the competition results, isn't this a full embodiment of personal self-confidence?
Archimedes once said, "Give me a fulcrum, and I will move the earth." You see, what a bold and confident language this is an example sentence.
Confidence, the ability to awaken the sleeping potential.
Only those who are confident have the psychology of bearing defeat can they achieve "victory without arrogance and defeat without discouragement." "Talent sees" failure as the mother of success. "In order to always be self-confident in the face of difficulties and setbacks. If you lose your self-confidence and are full of low self-esteem, will you still succeed?
Some people often feel inferior because of their appearance and figure, but didn't Napoleon in France also become ugly? Former Japanese Prime Minister Kakuei Tanaka, wasn't he also a stuttering patient when he was a child? Isn't Zhang Haidi also physically comforted and paralyzed?
Therefore, it is okay to have low self-esteem, but if you are only full of low self-esteem all your life, then you will never hover between failure and will not succeed.
Of course, if you are overconfident, you will become conceited. And in history, there are many examples of failure because of conceit: the overlord of Chu failed miserably because of conceit; Guan Yunchang lost Jingzhou because of his conceit; Napoleon was defeated by his conceit at Waterloo ......Therefore, conceit will make people taste the bitterness of failure, and conceit is a terrible obstacle to success.
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1 Self-confidence is thunder, snow, and a sudden wind, sweeping away all procrastination, sluggishness, hesitation, and laziness. Self-confidence is the drum of war, the horn, and the flag, urging people to move forward bravely, boldly advance, and improve day by day. Self-confidence is the sunshine, the rain and dew, and the elixir, which helps people to think quickly, be energetic, and sway everything.
Preface. Self-confidence is the first step on the road to success, and lack of self-confidence is the main reason for success or failure. Yes, self-confidence is the cornerstone of success. It is it that accompanies the emergence of one great man after another: Gorky, Einstein, Galileo ......
In the long life, turning over the calendar of history, is there any poem that is not composed with confidence? Is there a picture that is not drawn with confidence? And what songs are not the leaps of confident notes? ......
Friend, when you face the chase of death, have you ever had Bruno's confidence in the fire? When you face the jokes that life plays with us, have you ever had Beethoven's confidence when he was deaf and dumb? When you face the difficult journey in your life, have you ever had the confidence that Zhang Haidi exudes in a paralyzed situation?
Friends, let us sing the song of self-confidence, let it reverberate in the efforts of personal growth, and echo in the struggle for national rejuvenation.
Friends, self-confidence has built a brilliant bridge for us in life, and we can play our role in life on this stage.
Friend, what are you waiting for? Raise your confident sails in the vast sea! 2. There must always be an assistant for success, and that is self-confidence. What if I lose my self-confidence, then I will regain my self-confidence, and let's see how I regain my self-confidence.
In the past, I didn't like to speak in class, I was introverted, for fear that I would say something wrong, even if I had the right answer, I was also holding back psychologically, and over time I had no confidence in what I did.
One math test, when I looked at the test paper, I immediately thought about what I should do if I didn't do well, would my parents quarrel or beat me? This fear, "careless" took advantage of my unpreparedness to sneak attack, and after a while, added a few "patterns" to my roll, and also brought a little "anger" to the family. After a "storm" from my mother, my father talked to me for a while, which made me know that self-confidence is half the success, and since I have already worked hard, why can't I have this half?
This time it was time for the math test again, and I thought about my father's words repeatedly, and the big words "I will definitely do well in the test, and I will not do badly" in my mind, and I carefully and carefully did each question and checked it again. After the roll was sent, there was only one "small pattern" that was not beautiful, and I scored 98 points! That's a credit to self-confidence!
I wouldn't have done this without self-confidence; Without self-confidence, my grades wouldn't have improved so quickly; Without self-confidence, I still have a lot of "forks" on my rolls. It's too timely to get your self-confidence back!
There is no success without self-confidence, and self-confidence is half the battle. That's not a bad thing at all, friend, why don't you try it too?
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Self-confidence, the first step to success.
Ancient and modern Chinese and foreign celebrities are all people with very strong self-confidence. There is a poet immortal, Li Baizhi, I am born with a talent, and I will be useful; There is our great leader, who will hit the water for 3,000 feet; There is one of the famous Soviet writers Solovichk, as long as he has self-confidence, then he can become the person he wants to be. The list goes on!
Self-confidence comes from strength, and self-confidence produces charm. It is difficult to succeed without real strength and self-confidence. Success is God's reward for those who have strength and self-confidence.
Seiji Ozawa, an internationally renowned conductor, went to Europe to participate in a conducting competition, and found some dissonance in the music when he played, and all the composers and judges present declared that the score was selected by thousands of people, and there could be no problems. However, Seiji Ozawa thought twice and confidently adhered to his point of view, and finally won the championship.
Seiji Ozawa's success proves this – self-confidence comes from strength. But on the other hand, is it true that people who are not strong enough cannot have self-confidence? No.
Self-confidence is an affirmation of one's abilities and is not the same as pride, boasting, arrogance, or pretentiousness. The affirmation of one's own ability is to know and know one's own strength and weight better, the so-called knowing oneself and knowing one's opponent, and not being defeated in a hundred battles! Only with self-confidence can people be ambitious and energetic to learn, work, struggle and struggle!
According to relevant research, when a person is confident, his thinking ability is very active, and his spirit has always been optimistic and positive; And when you are in low self-esteem, you seem to be slow to react to your thinking, and you look sluggish, like an eggplant beaten by frost in winter, wilting all day long.
Some people say: self-confidence may not necessarily lead to success; But if you don't have self-confidence, you can't succeed. Do you want to succeed? If you want to, make yourself confident and start a business. Look, success is just around the corner!
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ConfidenceIn the world, there is a voice that can make you strong in the midst of difficulties; can allow you to find comfort in your grief; It can give you confidence when you're about to back down. This is the encouragement of parents. In my mother's voice of encouragement, I found a confident voice.
In the hot summer, I ushered in another electronic piano exam. I closed my eyes, I didn't know how to calm my pounding heart, and suddenly, I remembered my mother's words before the exam: "Come on!"
Be confident that you will succeed! "Slowly, my heart became calm and calm, I knew that it was this kind of encouragement that I wanted, I went in with the confidence that my mother gave me, I played one song after another fluently, and I believed that I could do well. At this level, I passed it with a confident voice.
Please go home and prepare for the class cadres again, tomorrow we will run for the class cadres! The teacher's words rang in my ears, and I became nervous, because many students in the class had to compete for the study committee, and they were all very strong, on a par with me. I also knew that language skills had never been my strong suit, and my heart was full of worries, and when I got home, I told my mom about it, and my mom smiled and said to me
Actually, it's not difficult at all! "After the speech, I found that it was not as difficult as I thought, and it seemed that I lacked confidence. With my mother's encouragement for my confidence, my teachers' hope for me, and my classmates' support for me, I passed the second hurdle.
It's going to be the final exam, I stepped up my revision, and on the morning of the exam, I was nervous again, and my mother saw it and patted me on the shoulder: "Don't be nervous, just play your level as usual, you won't fail the exam." "During the exam, I thought calmly and carefully, answered the questions carefully and carefully, and I passed the exam smoothly and achieved a good result.
I finally understood: it wasn't that I couldn't do it, it was that I didn't have the confidence to try, and my mom, she provided me with a source of self-confidence.
Until now, I have not forgotten those three sentences, and I think, confident voice, I will never forget again.
It's the voice of confidence, but it's also the voice of love.
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