My boyfriend has been so cold to me lately, and my boyfriend said that he cares about the cold

Updated on psychology 2024-04-10
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't pay too much attention to it, you do the same as him, and see how he reacts.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Has he been in a bad mood lately? You should ask his friends around him to understand the situation before jumping to conclusions.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Maybe he's been in a bad mood lately, it's okay.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Who are you when you add it?

    How long have you been dating.

    If it's been a long time, there's no need to be so tired every time.

    Are you online dating??

    Hey... I'm also going to encourage you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Maybe he's tired, maybe he's playing a game or something, don't think too much, slowly reveal your thoughts to him, and test it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I want to know how to chase girls... I like a girl... But I'm not going to chase her. Hehe.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Well, I think of Zhang Xiaoxian's words: A man won't say he loves you when he knows you love him, because he has the upper hand. A man will only say I love you to a woman when he feels that you don't love him."

    Something like this ......

    It may be that you are too sensitive, but girls are like this, in fact, maybe it is just a problem of his emotions, don't think too much

    I wish you happiness

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It may be that it doesn't matter if you get it, maybe you're still young, maybe you're thinking too much, if you don't have any special changes together, it's just that there are fewer words like this on QQ, I don't think you need to think about it too much, it may be a fatigue period after a long time, if everyone is very young, I think it's better for you to be mentally prepared at any time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Maybe he has something on his mind. Alas, it seems quite complicated.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's only 94 years old.

    Do you know how to manage love?

    It's useless for me to leave QQ for you, I think you're thinking too much.

    Feelings will always be cold, the key is to see how you look at this upcoming Cold War period.

    Or maybe it's not as hot as it used to be, you know what I mean, haha.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Boyfriend said that how to miss the age of cold care 1, you can care about it verbally, such as: I really want to hug you, you won't be cold. Or tease him :

    I don't care if you're cold, when I come to you, put Cong Tong's hand into your clothes and infiltrate Sotan to help me warm my hands. Tell him that way, and he will imagine that you are together and will miss you even more. 2. You can buy some hand warmers, or clothes, scarves and the like, although these gifts are very common, but if he receives them in a cold winter, his heart will be warm.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    What should I do if my boyfriend is suddenly cold to me? Write.

    What should I do if my boyfriend is suddenly cold to me?

    A total of 16 rewards are written.

    2019-07-03 TA received more than 10,000 likes.

    Concern. If your boyfriend is suddenly cold to you, you should do this:

    1. Calm down. Bravely face the problem of a man's change of heart, calm down by yourself, stabilize your emotions, don't always feel that it will be your own fault, which will add a lot of pressure and troubles to yourself, since things have happened, you must be brave to face the problem.

    2. Cook yourself and prepare a romantic candlelit dinner for him. As the saying goes: to catch a man, you have to grab his stomach first.

    Maybe you're not a master chef and you don't even know how to fry poached eggs, but that's okay, because your heart is priceless. Find out what kind of dishes your man likes, then find a simple cookbook, use your younger siblings as experiments at home, practice it, ask your mother if you don't understand, practice a few more times, and wait until the quality is stable before attacking.

    3. Reduce the sense of demand. The balance of feelings can determine the longevity of the relationship, so when you save your relationship, you must not underestimate the importance of a sense of need. You need to learn to reduce your sense of need and reduce or even eliminate your contact with the other person, although the process may be painful, but it is really the best way to remind the other person of you.

    Give each other a calm space, you use this time to change and improve yourself, and he will become more calm and rational, which is very good for your relationship.

    4. Think it through. You should think about whether there is a need to continue the relationship between each other, whether your boyfriend still needs to make efforts to continue to keep him, if you feel that you still love each other, but there is a problem with the way you communicate, make a certain effort for a long time, if you feel that the other party has no feelings for you, you should be brave enough to let go.

    When a relationship enters a state of breakup and death, please learn how to love yourself first, let the love flow in yourself, and your partner will love you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think that if your boyfriend has a cold attitude, you feel that your boyfriend doesn't love you very much. Then I think two people can calm down and talk about it, but what is on the boyfriend's mind, and then make a corresponding decision.

    Sometimes people are like this, there may be a certain period of low mood, if you are a sensitive person, then you may feel that the other party is particularly cold to you, but in fact, it is not. Because this is the case during periods of low mood, even those who are dear to you may not be exempt.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Some sisters feel that their boyfriends are cold to them

    I don't care, there is a crack in the relationship Don't be in a hurry to argue and quarrel with a man, after all, you can't fight for anything Control the desire to complain, do your own thing Focus on yourself, try to eliminate negative emotions, and give yourself an optimistic and happy attitude Then look at this relationship again, whether it is really as weak as the relationship you thought before The man is not in love.

    Trust me, your judgment is most accurate in this state.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    He is deliberately colding you, and he ignores you in the hope that you can take the initiative to let go. I think you should insist on not looking for him for a while, to see if she will come to you, if not, then you give up, you will never wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Your boyfriend is cold to you, usually because they have been together for a long time and there is no novelty. You can give your boyfriend a different freshness by putting on different makeup. You can also go to places you haven't been to with your boyfriend, in short, it's okay to give freshness.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If your boyfriend suddenly becomes very cold to you, it is actually a signal to you, and we should warn you. First of all, we should analyze the reason for his indifference to you, if you find this reason, it is very simple to prescribe the right medicine. We can also adjust our own state, make ourselves not so cold, indifferent and quiet, and make ourselves more lively, then your boyfriend's attitude towards you may also change.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Sometimes it may be due to your quarrel, the boy is a little angry, if the boy really doesn't like you, he may not even reply to the message, and sometimes you need to let the boy be quiet.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If a man is cold to a woman, it is estimated that it is a little difficult to warm it up again, but you have to find out why he got along with you in the first place, and does the shining point in you still exist? Is he chasing you, or you chasing him, he wants to be calm, then let him be cold, you still have to keep the sun shining, still in your prime, like a flower to bloom your beauty, you are not afraid that bees will not come to collect honey. As long as he performs very well in all aspects, making the other party feel that losing himself is a particularly big mistake, he will change his mind.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    What can be done, this situation is already obviously a relationship crisis. Either he's really tired of it, or he has another ambiguous object. It's not interesting to break up as soon as possible, and continue to grind and consume.

    A girl's time is precious. If you don't love this one, you can find the next one.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Hehe, I don't know how long you've been, love always needs two people to work together and maintain it, of course you will be very sad if he is always like this! Sympathize with your plight!

    Try to communicate with him, I think this is very necessary! If you don't deal with it seriously, the consequences will be very dangerous!

    I wonder if you can change your habits, personal hobbies, some ways of speaking, etc., to give him more freshness, maybe he will pay more attention to you, and this is also very important for a boyfriend who is emotionally tired.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    But there are also some people who have taken another extreme way, that is, to cold refrigeration, men began to be dull, they began to be polite, and they would never take the initiative to contact again, when men came to contact, they were polite with a little grievance, and they were soft and rigid to let men know that you hurt my heart by doing this. Personally, I'm not very in favor of this approach, first of all, if you're going to break up, you don't have to put so much effort into being completely passers-by in the future, as long as the man comes back when he comes back.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    In this world, the encounter between two people always needs fate, but many things get along for a long time, you will find that there is no fate, especially in this era, people's concept of love has changed a lot from the past, in the past, the carriage and horses were very slow, the road was far away, and only one person could be loved in a lifetime. But now in the era of big data, people may not be able to pass messages to each other for a second, so there are more options. We can also meet more and all kinds of people, maybe you are interested in this person today, but tomorrow you will be attracted to another person.

    Feelings need to be maintained by two people, not that one party's efforts can go on for a long time.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I don't think you communicate with each other often anymore, that's why you're in this situation. In fact, I think communication is the most important thing, and only good communication can make our lives better and better. So sometimes, because we don't communicate, we make everyone feel that something is not going the way we expected.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If your boyfriend is very cold to you, I think you should re-examine your relationship to see if there is a need for development, and if there is no need for development, break up.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If two people are together, then you must care more about each other and let the other person feel your love for him. In this way, the other person will love you more and more, so this is very important.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Your boyfriend's approach has been very clear, he never takes the initiative to find you. He also made it clear to you that he doesn't love you anymore. In this case, you should still have some self-esteem and stop taking the initiative to find him. Break up early, you have no future.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If your boyfriend is very cold to you, and has told you a few times that he doesn't love you anymore, it means that he really doesn't love you anymore, so his attitude towards you is very cold, so there is no need to keep the other party in this situation.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If he is cold to you, it means that he is really bored with you, so you should keep a little distance from him, you should think about it, because he doesn't love you that much at all, and you deserve better, if you really can't, then let it go.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If he is very cold to you, then it means that he no longer loves you, I think you should keep a proper distance, both calm and calm with each other, maybe there may be a better result after calming down.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Summary. Dear, your boyfriend is suddenly indifferent to you, there are three situations.

    Dear, your boyfriend is suddenly indifferent to you, there are three situations.

    One is that my boyfriend has recently encountered a tricky thing and is in a bad mood, so he is indifferent.

    The second is that your boyfriend likes another person, so he is indifferent to you.

    The third is that your boyfriend is bored with some of your behaviors and can't stand it, so he is indifferent.

    His son's test score dropped a lot, and when he saw the results in the afternoon, he was not in a good mood when he saw it, and I asked him if he was going to play mahjong, and he was so angry, and asked directly what I wanted to do, and I began to be indifferent after that day.

    Oh, I guessed it, it's the first one.

    The message didn't reply much.

    Dear, as a parent of a student, seeing the decline in students' grades, they are generally very anxious and devastated.

    Now let the other party sort out your way:

    One is to wait for the other party not to get angry.

    The second is that you solve problems for the other party.

    So what do I do now? Or just leave it at that, how can I fix it, this thing is not married, uh-huh.

    One is to wait for the other party to stop being angry, and wait for him to take the initiative to contact you.

    Second, you can see if any of your relatives, friends, and classmates are teachers, and help them regulate their emotions or help improve their children's grades.

    One day do I need to ask him, just ask, we haven't talked for a long time, tell me about your matter, ask him like this.

    Mmmm, yes.

    You can also say, if there is anything you need my help with, you can tell me and see if I can help you.

    Personally, I think he'll definitely contact you.

    I can't help him much, but I want to know about him, because I care about him.

    Oh, if that's the case.

    Then you can take the initiative to contact the other party and ask about the other party.

    And tell the other party that it is very uncomfortable to understand him, but no matter what, you will always be with him and get through the difficulties.

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