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Don't be overconfident.
Since ancient times, there have always been people who are overconfident or have low self-esteem. Some people think that I can definitely do this well, while some people think that I must not be able to do this well, and they worry about this and that all day long, and every day is very hard.
Cao Cao during the Three Kingdoms period was an overconfident man. "The Battle of Red Cliffs" is about the overconfident Cao Cao, when Pang Tong offered a series of timers, his subordinates Cheng Yu and Xun You were worried that the enemy would attack with fire, but Cao Cao said self-righteously: "Whoever attacks with fire, must borrow the wind, it is a harsh winter, where is the southeast wind?"
Our army is in the northwest, and the enemy is on the south bank of the river, if they attack with fire, will they not burn themselves? When Cheng Yu saw the southeast wind rising, he reminded Cao Cao to prepare early, but Cao Cao said that when the winter solstice came, there would be yang energy, and it was not strange to blow a little southeast wind. When the boat and the camp were burned, under the protection of the generals, they fled to Huarong Road, and saw that the road was smoking, but the road was not moving, so they thought that this was Zhuge Liang's plan, and thought that they were taking the path, but they met Guan Yu, Guan Yu saw the previous friendship, let Cao Cao go, and Cao Cao escaped.
Seeing this, I couldn't help but think of myself, Cao Cao is overconfident, and I am the opposite. I always feel that I can't do anything, and I am always worried that my grades have regressed, and I can't write my essays well, and what should I do if I don't do well in the exams......I live in a state of worry and fear all day long, and I am in a state of inferiority all day long.
Cao Cao's and I these ideas are wrong, and these ideas are very harmful to our future development, so I hope that people with the above two problems must correct them in time and be a modest, confident, and broad-minded person!
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Life needs goals, there are goals to struggle, and there is struggle to have a sense of fulfillment. To be fulfilling, you must be confident. Life is not a smooth sailing, there will never be waves, it is a journey full of hardships and bumps, twists and turns, full of challenges, and full of setbacks.
When a new day comes, do you freeze yourself in the busyness? When the sun rises, do you trust every ray of sunshine? People with goals and self-confidence can still feel the warmth of the sun and smell the colorful aura of life in the busy, because only self-confidence can experience the connotation of life.
A person's life is the only and the majestic, this only life, do you make it brilliant or bleak? Since it is an accidental afterlife, watching the flowers bloom and fall, the sunrise and sunset, trying the warmth and coldness of human feelings, and the risks of the world, then the young state of mind can only prove that his life is brilliant with practical actions.
Because of self-confidence, I feel that life is good! Of course, a confident person does not have everything going well, everything goes well, but she has opened a skylight in her soul and let the sun float in through the window, even if it is a rainy day, she has learned to create the sun, and that sun is confident in herself.
In the city full of talents, although I am very ordinary, but I am not small, although the reality is very cruel, but I have confidence and fighting spirit, even if I have to trek thousands of mountains and rivers, embark on a bumpy journey, I also have a confident attitude to fight for all marriage; Even though there is a storm in front of me and a torrent and a tiger coming, I will not give up, and I will strive for the upper reaches with perseverance, because I am confident that I will accompany me on the road, so I am full of confidence.
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I often wonder why people are so different. Some are fine, some are reckless; Some are elegant, some are rude; Some are optimistic, some are sad; Some people have active thinking, some people have rigid minds; Some people struggle endlessly, and some people do nothing......Could it be that the world is made up of a pair of antonyms? Is this unintentional?
With questions, with thoughts, I was searching for answers.
Pride and self-confidence are often synonymous in some people's "dictionaries", but in fact, they have different meanings. Pride is self-righteousness and looks down on others, while self-confidence is believing in oneself. In my opinion, this is another pair of antonyms.
In life, it often happens that some smart people say they are stupid, talented people say they are incompetent, and knowledgeable people say they are shallow. In them, there is a traditional "virtue" - modesty. But behind this self-affirmation and self-expression, there is a pride that is not discovered.
I once heard a song by Teresa Teng in Taiwan: "The mountains are green, the streams are long, whoever is the most beautiful girl in Alishan is beautiful, Teresa Teng is beautiful." ......Teresa Teng's self-affirmation makes people see courage, straightforwardness, and self-confidence.
Self-confidence is a correct estimation of one's own abilities and talents, neither looking down nor underestimating oneself. Self-confidence and talent are inseparable, and only with such cultivation can there be such self-confidence. As for pride, perhaps, it has shown itself in my thoughts.
Self-confidence is a sign of courage and straightforwardness, and it can never be equated with pride.
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