A short story of leniency, 200 words

Strict self-discipline and leniency towards others" is a kind of thought and proposition of the ancients. To build a harmonious society, promote humanities, and expand the way of cultivation, we must remember to remember to "be strict with ourselves and be lenient with others".

Whether to be strict with oneself and lenient with others, or strict with others and lenient with oneself, this seemingly simple word game is just rearranged and combined. Actually, no, the meaning is very different.

Nowadays, there are many people who always like to blame others, and this is not that, and they always refuse to forgive others for even the slightest mistake. As for himself, he is too "magnanimous", and no matter how big a mistake is, it is not a problem. To paraphrase an old saying, it is called "Marxism-Leninism to others, liberalism to oneself."

Many people nowadays tend to be others, but never ask themselves how they are doing. Look at the once there is some wind and grass on the Internet, everyone has attacked it in groups, and the overwhelming abuse has always been endless. But how many of us remember to reflect on ourselves often?

The fine tradition of criticism and self-criticism has long been forgotten; Instead, praise and self-praise are more pronounced. Self-praise is self-boasting, and this is by no means a sign of self-confidence.

No one is perfect, ordinary people will inevitably have such and such mistakes, and tolerating others is actually treating oneself well. Learn from Maitreya Buddha with a big belly, a big belly can tolerate things that are intolerable in the world.

The breadth of a person's mind represents the size of his belly, which can also be said to be a measure. For a long time, there has been a very ridiculous rumor: "Small amount is not a gentleman."

Degree. Not a husband" was actually said by many people to be "a small amount, not a gentleman."

Poison. Not husband". This is obviously not an accidental slip of the tongue, but a representation of the inner thoughts of many people. Yes".

"It is a gentleman who has it".

"Poison" is the villain. It's a pity that many people would rather be villains than gentlemen.

It may be easy to blame others, but it is even harder to reflect on yourself! Many people choose not to be strict with oneself and lenient with others, but to "be strict with others and lenient with oneself". They always use a microscope to see the shortcomings of others, and they often turn a blind eye to their own misdeeds.

This is a very bad atmosphere, and we still have to strive to advocate the good tradition of being strict with ourselves and being lenient with others.

Let's be more tolerant, to the society, to others, to the environment, this is the foundation of building a harmonious society.

It's better to be more harsh, to yourself, to yourself, to selfishness, this is the source of motivation to improve your self-ability.

Be strict with yourself and lenient with others. Isn't it good to be strict with oneself and lenient with others?

The prime minister can hold the boat in his belly.

During the Three Kingdoms period, the state of Shu appointed Jiang Wan to preside over the government after Zhuge Liang's death. One of his subordinates is named Yang Xi, who has a withdrawn personality and is reluctant to speak. Jiang Wan talked to him, but he only answered.

Some people couldn't get used to it, and muttered in front of Jiang Wan: "Yang Xi, this person is so snub to you, it's too unreasonable!" Jiang Wan smiled calmly and said:

People have their own temperaments. Let Yang Xi say words of praise to my face, that is not his nature; Let him say in front of everyone that I am not, and he will think that I can't get off the stage. So, he had no choice but to remain silent.

In fact, this is the preciousness of his human being. Later, some people praised Jiang Wan for "the prime minister's belly can support the boat".

Lin Xiangru was named Shangqing because of his meritorious work in "returning to Zhao", and he was above Lian Po. Lian Po was very unconvinced and threatened to humiliate Lin Xiangru in person. After Lin Xiangru learned about it, he tried his best to avoid and tolerate it, so as not to conflict with Lian Po.

Lin Xiangru's disciples thought that he was afraid of Lian Po, but Lin Xiangru said: "The Qin State did not dare to invade our Zhao State because of me and General Lian. I tolerate and give in to General Lian, I put the danger of the country in front and my personal enmity in the back!

When Lian Po heard this, there was a story of Lian Po's "guilty plea".

One day, I went home alone, on the way, I saw an aunt with a small child walking beside me, suddenly the child accidentally dropped the garbage bag in her hand to the ground, she was too young to pick up the garbage bag and throw it into the garbage bin, but he did not help the child pick up the garbage bag, but pretended not to see the appearance and continued to walk inside, I saw, picked up the garbage on the ground and threw it into the trash can silently and then walked up to stop the mother and son, whispered to them: "Don't throw garbage!" Aunt.

Also, I hope that Auntie will treat people with sincerity in the future, just now, your child threw away the garbage, and you pretended not to see it. My aunt smiled and said, "Okay, I won't do this next time."

I laughed happily when I heard it.

Therefore, we must treat people with sincerity rather than like my aunt, there is a famous saying called "Don't take the good as small and don't do the evil as small." ”

A wealthy gentleman in 18th-century England was on his way home late one night when he was stopped by a little boy with unkempt hair and ragged clothes. "Sir, buy a pack of matches," said the boy. "I don't buy it".

The gentleman replied. Saying that, the gentleman avoided the boy and continued walking, "Sir, please buy a pack, I haven't eaten anything today," the little boy caught up and said. When the gentleman saw that he could not avoid the boy, he said:

But I don't have any change", "Sir, you get the matches first, and I'll go and change it for you". After saying that, the boy took a pound sterling given by the gentleman and ran away quickly, and the gentleman waited for a long time, but the boy still did not come back, and the gentleman went home helplessly.

The next day, while the gentleman was working in his office, the servant said that a boy had come and asked to see the gentleman. So the boy was called in, and the boy was shorter and more tattered than the match boy. "Sir, I'm sorry, my brother asked me to bring you change" "What about your brother?

Gentleman's Road. "My brother was seriously injured by a carriage on his way back to you after changing change, and he was lying at home", the gentleman was deeply touched by the little boy's integrity. "Let's go!

Let's go see your brother! "When I went to the boy's house, I saw that only the stepmother of the two boys was greeting the seriously injured boy. As soon as he saw the gentleman, the boy hurriedly said:

I'm sorry I didn't send you the change back on time, I broke my promise! The gentleman was deeply impressed by the boy's integrity. When he learns that both of the boys' parents have died, he decides to take on everything they need in life.

Honesty is a criterion that everyone should abide by. It was when I was 13 years old, and once, my father and I went to my aunt's house to do some errands, and my father carried me on a motorcycle. As soon as I arrived at my aunt's house, my brother came, and my brother and I had nothing to do, so I started the idea of a motorcycle, and I said

Brother, let's take out Dad's motorcycle keys secretly and ride them for a ride! "My brother agreed when he saw that I was so interested. We set off humming a little song, we got the keys to the motorcycle, and started our "happy journey".

My brother rode very well, the speed was like flying, we were talking and laughing, not to mention how happy we were, sitting on the car we drove, it was simply majestic. However, just as we were happy, the car crashed into a tree, and my brother and I were not injured, but our car was flattened, and my brother and I were so frightened that we secretly returned the car. When we were leaving, my dad noticed that the car had broken down and asked me:

Teachers often teach us to be honest children, but this time I lied to my dad, and I silently said in my heart: "Dad, I was wrong, I was wrong, I hit the car." Later, I told my father the truth of the facts, and not only did my father not scold me, but he was also very happy, he said

Child, as long as you can be an honest person, I'm very happy, then did you bump into it, let Dad see ......"After this incident, I understand a truth, as long as you treat people with sincerity and be an honest child, you can be forgiven and loved by everyone.